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anyone else feeling an energy shift?


every autumn like clockwork my heart gets heavy, my creativity pikes up, my dreams more vivid, and more mystical happenings occur. like all the spirits wanna poke and prod at me now.


lemme sleep!


Yeah my energy shifts, but in a good way. At least that's how I see it. I am more social, my awareness is enhanced, picking up different types of energy and seeing things unfold before it occurs. I'm also more creative and have the energy and drive to carry it through. One year around this time I renovated my bathrooms and redecorated the whole house, which I had been dragging my feet on all spring and summer. Not because I was busy, I just didn't want to do anything else but lounge. The leaves fall, it gets a bit colder and it's like "summer" for me. I literally do my projects and spring cleaning in December. I'm just full of energy. NOT holiday spirit though *grumbles*.



I do notice I get anxious the weeks leading up to my birthday. Slowly builds, so I'm expecting that to happen soon.


same here. i'm just too emotional 'round this time lol.

yep, the past two years I actually noticed that the sun being in libra has made me melancholy. Its like reliving the whole year in my thoughts before my birthday. good and bad.


So far I'm actually feeling ok. Im purposely trying to protect my emotions... as I was getting anxiety for this time to come around. We'll see how October works out.

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How are you doing that?

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Posted by exo
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Posted by exo
anyone else feeling an energy shift?


every autumn like clockwork my heart gets heavy, my creativity pikes up, my dreams more vivid, and more mystical happenings occur. like all the spirits wanna poke and prod at me now.


lemme sleep!


Yeah my energy shifts, but in a good way. At least that's how I see it. I am more social, my awareness is enhanced, picking up different types of energy and seeing things unfold before it occurs. I'm also more creative and have the energy and drive to carry it through. One year around this time I renovated my bathrooms and redecorated the whole house, which I had been dragging my feet on all spring and summer. Not because I was busy, I just didn't want to do anything else but lounge. The leaves fall, it gets a bit colder and it's like "summer" for me. I literally do my projects and spring cleaning in December. I'm just full of energy. NOT holiday spirit though *grumbles*.



I do notice I get anxious the weeks leading up to my birthday. Slowly builds, so I'm expecting that to happen soon.


same here. i'm just too emotional 'round this time lol.

yep, the past two years I actually noticed that the sun being in libra has made me melancholy. Its like reliving the whole year in my thoughts before my birthday. good and bad.


So far I'm actually feeling ok. Im purposely trying to protect my emotions... as I was getting anxiety for this time to come around. We'll see how October works out.



How are you doing that?

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Watching what I'm thinking. Listening to music. Doing things I like to do creatively. When having the choice, speaking to and being around positive people.


I can get really in my head during this time. Im trying to avoid that.

Work has been stressful for me for some time now. I'm realizing its because the people I work with are affecting my energy. Im trying to do these things at work.. listen to music and just get tasks done and avoid any negativity.
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Posted by PeanutButterandElly
Aging is kinda dawning on me. Not in a I'm scared of getting older kinda way. Just more of a, I'm no longer the most inexperienced person in the room anymore kind of feeling. Which is weird since it's approaching my birthday when you naturally tend to take stock of your life anyways. Makes me realize how many unique experiences I've had, albeit I view a lot of them negatively currently, which alleviates a little of the disappoint in myself for not having accomplished even one of the imagined goals I set for myself.


Really not looking forward to my birthday for once though. Normally I'm so excited, bugging my friends to plan things way out, thinking about what to do or what I want. Now I just wanna finish out this year without incident or added negativity. Like please let me sip some spiked hot tea, enjoy a sinfully delicious, make me want to lick the plate dessert and go to bed early. Thanks!


This.


I swear I smile every time I see one of Eva's "Hug cyber hugs!" Especially when it's on a troll or b*tchfest thread.
Watched Dirty Dancing and now I'm all caught up in my feels...





I need to go dancing tonight....
Posted by PeanutButterandElly
Also, not really relevant but I find it funny how all the Gemini mars folks I know talk way too much when processing but most of the Gemini moons get very quiet. Same energy. Opposite expressions. Weird.


Haha. I've noticed this too. It seems to get under people's (well one person in particular Big Grin) skin when I just sit there because it's assumed IDGAF about whatever the issue is---which by the way y'all seem to need to talk about every issue....


Some things just need quiet reflection and then the appropriate action if applicable.


Just an FYI though, our minds get just as busy as your gums do.

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Also, not really relevant but I find it funny how all the Gemini mars folks I know talk way too much when processing but most of the Gemini moons get very quiet. Same energy. Opposite expressions. Weird.


Haha. I've noticed this too. It seems to get under people's (well one person in particular Big Grin) skin when I just sit there because it's assumed IDGAF about whatever the issue is---which by the way y'all seem to need to talk about every issue....


Some things just need quiet reflection and then the appropriate action if applicable.


Just an FYI though, our minds get just as busy as your gums do.

I know that's why it's so weird to me! I can practically hear the gears spinning into overdrive sometimes. But so silent lol. Until the switch gets hit. Or after the whiskey comes out.


I never think they don't care though. Never had that problem. That might be the overly tuned cancer moon that's constantly looking for emotional clues.
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I often laugh whenever I read a Gem Moon description stating this placement is very social and overly chatty. Clearly the author is simply running with the stereotypes associates with the sign. Gem sign/placement? Sign of communciation? You love to talk!


Hmph. Then again, I guess the people with this placement do like to communicate. It's just internalized.


Posted by PeanutButterandElly

Yeah it reminds me of Virgo moons actually, that analytical mercurial energy I guess. Because even though they're quiet, when a gem moon speaks it's very articulate, well thought out and highly detailed like you know they've been thinking about that shit for days.



I'm sure they were and just waiting for the best time to say something. I remember reading the word cantankerous once in "The Stone Angel" when I was high school and thought *that's a good word. I have to use it one day*, and I waited for the best time to use it. Many years later when I was having an issue with someone that was being a pain in the a** I went off and threw the word in there for good measure. Everyone was so impressed with how well I put the person in their placeLaughing! Oh lawd...


Posted by PeanutButterandElly

The flip floppiness is hard for me to pin down though. I've watched my bestie literally change her decision on something over night then back again a half a dozen times in one week. I wish I could understand where that comes from to better help her think through things, but it's so out of my moons frame of reference lol.



Hmmm. I struggle with that as well. It was worse before, and I've noticed it gets a bit better as time goes on. This may be partially because of my Scorp bits, therefore it may not apply to your friend...for myself it's about needing to make the "best choice". I don't want to make the wrong decision. Consequently, I'll dance around my options until I'm satisfied. Best to remind her that whatever decision she makes doesn't have to be the "best" and if she's not happy simply make a new choice at that time.


I read somewhere Gem Moons indecisiveness tends to occur because we can see both sides to every problem and give them equal consideration when trying to solve an issue. It's also why we tend to get labelled "two face" or unwilling to take sides. We simply have the ability to see the "truth" in both parties arguement and there is a willingness to accept that there are multiple ways of seeing something vs black and white thinking. Image that in a Scorp Straight Face. When I learned to accept that part of myself was a positive thing vs a curse I noticed I did the back and forth dance less and less. Funny how acceptance does that for a person.


I noticed the indecisiveness things is an issue for all air moons though, it just occurs for different reasons. From what I've observed with Gem Moons, it has more to do with openness and the desire to explore other possibilities and unwillingness to accept "one" truth. Leeb moons, the desire to people please, keep things "pleasant" and not look like the bad guy. Aqua, don't like to play within the boundaries that are set by others. There is another "unique" and more exciting option out there. You say there are only two choice. They say, "Yeah? I'll find a third" and off they go playing all angles until they are satisfied.


Posted by PeanutButterandElly

That's another weird thing, the three gem moons I know all are involved in some capacity with cancer moons. And they constantly ask me to evaluate emotional situations with them. It's a weird attraction to observe lol. Especially as I've never been into a gem moon outside friendship interests. Like nooooo Gemini moons. Don't do that to yourself. We water moons are cray.
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We don't mind emotions and can handle them quite well in others (but I may be biased given my other placements). We just don't like to sit with our own.



Although they shouldn't (due to that trine magic), my fellow air moons irritate me at times, especially Leeb Moons. Life isn't meant to be "pretty", it's filled with unpleasantness and a little bit of conflict is okay sometimes. Embrace some conflict. P*ssy!


Aqua moons....aka rebel without a cause, your desire to constantly think outside the box can be tiresome. It's like you aim to make things more difficult then they need to be. Occasionally going with the flow isn't going to tarnish your "uniqueness".


Gem Moons...well you're fabulously annoying. Most don't understand you simply because they can't keep up. It's okay to pity the other moons. They pity themselves.

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Okay, I'm off to prep a turkey for Thanksgiving.
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Tongue Tongue Tongue


Okay, I'm off to prep a turkey for Thanksgiving.
happy thanksgiving! ♥ smile
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Happy Thanksgiving hon♥ smile
So I'm baking an apple crumble and watching a "Killer Kids" marathon on A&E.....I keep forgetting that it's only Thanksgiving in Canada because I'm standing here thinking *why would this be an appropriate marathon for today of all days?*. Then again...


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It's interesting, although very disturbing and dark....

I'm completely surrounded by Scorp "babies". Every referral I've recieved over the last few weeks has been a Scorp. The last 5 have birthdays the same week as mine (one the day before my birthday).


I remember what I was like as a child. That's too much silence and brooding even for me Straight Face.
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hi Big Grin


Welcome back!Laughing


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hi Big Grin


Welcome back!Laughing


Thanks! smile


I'm going to try to take this place in moderation this time.


We'll see how that goes Tongue


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and this place because very amusing very quickly.Laughing


(((hugs)))


It is always good to have a fellow Stinger back.
If I ever go to the Gem board and start off a post, with "as a Gem Moon I know how it feels to be a Gemini..."


Just tell me to shaddap and threaten to revoke my Scorp card.
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hi Big Grin


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Who did you dedicate a thread to in the final round of the third Mafia Game?
Hi Elle's Bells!! Welcome back!!
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hi Big Grin


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Who did you dedicate a thread to in the final round of the third Mafia Game?
Cc because she made us lose....because she never voted Big Grin

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Haha. Welcome back Big Grin


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Hi Elle's Bells!! Welcome back!!
You ♡


I almost came back as ellesbells smile
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Sssqqqueeeeaaallllssss!
Stupid people who try to sound smart. The end.
Why the fuck is the office kept at 60 degrees. How can I be expected to type if I can't feel my fingers!


Only one more day.... one more day.
@GetMisted & @PeanutButterandElly



Try working with someone who has a chart identical to your own. That is another level of bristling to be had.


Working with a mirror in your face, at all times is very unnerving even though the mirror may manifest itself very differently to you.
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You'll never find another like me smile


Hah, have you met another with a twin of your chart?

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You'll never find another like me smile


Hah, have you met another with a twin of your chart?

Only seen him on TV.
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His name?
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You'll never find another like me smile


Hah, have you met another with a twin of your chart?

Only seen him on TV.
His name?
Oscar Pistorius
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Oh. Straight Face


At least I do not have someone like him as a twin of my chart. You are indeed special and there is no one like you.


Simply two ordinary bastards were my twins. I have yet to meet one that is a female.

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Hah, have you met another with a twin of your chart?



*nods* Dated him for a few months. Grew up in the same area, had the same circle of friends, but never talked until one day I simply asked him "why the hell do you keep staring at me?!"


He was a good guy, he was hung up on an ex, so I told him to deal with that. I know how emotionally invested I can get when love is involved. Right or wrong, I assumed he was struggling with the same issues. I wanted no part of being a "mistress" to that relationship. Even if it only existed in his head.

sonofabitch sonofabitch
Whelp. I did it. I bit the bullet and signed up for online dating sites.


Shall we take bets on how long I last? Lol
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Whelp. I did it. I bit the bullet and signed up for online dating sites.


Shall we take bets on how long I last? Lol
3 weeks
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LOL! Before I get fed up and delete the apps?
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Whelp. I did it. I bit the bullet and signed up for online dating sites.


Shall we take bets on how long I last? Lol
3 weeks
LOL! Before I get fed up and delete the apps?


And fed up of the inbox messages!

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They like me! They really like me!!
This moon though!!! ???
This.

This cannot be my life for the foreseeable future.

I would say I'm depressed, but I don't think that's the right.word.
This.

This cannot be my life for the foreseeable future.

I would say I'm depressed, but I don't think that's the right.word.
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This.

This cannot be my life for the foreseeable future.

I would say I'm depressed, but I don't think that's the right.word.
*hugs*


I have been right there. For months. Been trying to get out of it, but damn it's so difficult some days.


I don't have any sweeping answers sadly lol. But focusing on practical and straightforward things has helped a little bit. Adding more meditative time in the mornings too. However the first hour of my day goes it tends to set my mood for all day.
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Thank you for being you. You have such a warm energy.
I snapped at my 60 year old coworker today. Basically could be my parent. And he's a Pisces male. (I've concluded I don't like Pisces men. I liked them when I was young and they were young and naive lol. Sweet young boys lol)


Anywayyy I did this in front of my team and couldn't stop myself!! Eye rolling and everything after! He's getting under my skin and I couldn't take it anymore.


Checked the Scorpio horoscope after and for today and tommorw it's basically saying be careful of extreme comments that will be difficult to retract.


Ughhh
Guarded Scorp Chronicles...

Scorp: *sits down*

Him: *caribbean accent* You quiet.

Scorp: No I'm not.... Not really, just thinking babe.

Him: You nervous.

Scorp: *smiles* Hmph.

Him: I know you're nervous.

Scorp: How do you know I'm nervous?

Him: I can tell.

Scorp: Because I'm quiet? That's a reach.

Him: I reachin' yes. Why you runnin'?

Scorp:Laughing. I just like to keep certain things to myself.

Him: I know. You could also talk about it.

Scorp: I'm not a talker babe.

Him: Hmmmm. Dat will change.

Scorp: *Looks at him sharply*

Him: *locks eyes and stares back* Dat will change *takes sip of drink and goes back to watching tv*

Scorp: *heart flutters....smiles inside* Hmph. Whatever.

Him: *pulls Scorp in close. Kisses forehead* Um hmmm.

Posted by PeanutButterandElly
It's Scorpio season. And I'm nursing a completely broken heart. And trying to figure out how I want my life to look and what kind of person I am. I also fully believe that unless you're Gigi Hadid or the like, that you're twenties suck no matter what.


I'm ready for some of these thoughts to settle and the nagging emotions to finish processing too. I haven't been myself for months but it's been very noticeable the last two weeks at work. A lot of my coworkers are worried and keep asking what's up. It's just too much to tell anyone in passing. I can barely get a grip on it myself so I certainly can't articulate it to a casual friend in 30 sec or less lol.


2017 has to be different. It can't be like 2016, 2015 or 2014. I've had three shitty back to back years, that get progressively worse. It's made me dread my birthday and the new year. No more catastrophic drama or confusing chaos, only clarity, simplicity and practicality allowed.


*fingers crossed*


*pass Elly a ̶c̶u̶p̶ pot of the very best jasmine tea*


Reading some of these "I'm not talking about all of you, but why are ________ such ________ " 'vent' threads is like...

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#TheThirstForAttentionIsReal


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Reading some of these "I'm not talking about all of you, but why are ________ such ________ " 'vent' threads is like...

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Haha PR, that picture of yours nearly made me spit out what I was drinking.Laughing

A great many (((hugs))) to all those dear Stingers and non - Stingers in this thread that are going through a rough patch and are toughing it out.


Much love, positivity, and thoughts to you lot.
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A great many (((hugs))) to all those dear Stingers and non - Stingers in this thread that are going through a rough patch and are toughing it out.


Much love, positivity, and thoughts to you lot.
Cyber hugs Hug




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Calmly takes one of your cinnamon rolls.


(Watches and waits, to see if you would still continue the Eva hugs. Hah!)


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A great many (((hugs))) to all those dear Stingers and non - Stingers in this thread that are going through a rough patch and are toughing it out.


Much love, positivity, and thoughts to you lot.
Cyber hugs Hug






Calmly takes one of your cinnamon rolls.


(Watches and waits, to see if you would still continue the Eva hugs. Hah!)


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Your Stinger Moon hardly scares me.Laughing



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Reading some of these "I'm not talking about all of you, but why are ________ such ________ " 'vent' threads is like...

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Haha PR, that picture of yours nearly made me spit out what I was drinking.Laughing

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It made me chuckle out loud. Made me think of the Scorp board as of late with all these look at me threads.


I've never been able to wrap my head around the whole "I can't stand this *sign*, *person*, whatever", yet still gathering around said object you dislike so much. I thought torture was suppose to be a Scorp trait. Why bother when you're torturing yourself?


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A great many (((hugs))) to all those dear Stingers and non - Stingers in this thread that are going through a rough patch and are toughing it out.


Much love, positivity, and thoughts to you lot.
Cyber hugs Hug


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Lol!


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Reading some of these "I'm not talking about all of you, but why are ________ such ________ " 'vent' threads is like...

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Haha PR, that picture of yours nearly made me spit out what I was drinking.Laughing



It made me chuckle out loud. Made me think of the Scorp board as of late with all these look at me threads.


I've never been able to wrap my head around the whole "I can't stand this *sign*, *person*, whatever", yet still gathering around said object you dislike so much. I thought torture was suppose to be a Scorp trait. Why bother when you're torturing yourself?


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Those exact thoughts crossed my mind as well, it got me thinking perhaps we are the one to inspire such masochism in others, not that I mind, at times. Devil


How strange, when men do not get what they want from us Stinger women.


We are then somehow villainized.


They declare us as evil beings, who have only brought wrath and sorrow into their lives.


Just because we did not give them what they want, just because we did not succumb to their manipulations, just because we could actually think for ourselves.


We are declared - delusional, insane, cold, manipulative, deceiving etc. Even when we have clearly stated our stance and reinforced it as well.


The recent threads had me flipping through the pages of my past in my mind, this trend seems to occur over and over again.


Perspective is such a cruel fickle mistress.


How glad am I to be with my decent and stable Virgent, no more insanity in my life.


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