Posted by Ellygant
That movie reminded me how much I love audibly cursing people in a dramatic fashion too. Like yesterday when I got awful tips from a demanding, rude and needy table. One woman at the table stopped me to chastise me for two minutes in the lunch rush for putting a straw down, saying each straw wrapper is responsible for killing 3 seagulls.
Elly: (to Taurus Coworker) Fecking bishes. Left 5 on 70. And 3 on 60.
Taurus: Crazy seagull table? Rude.
Elly: I knew I should have gone over there, and just maniacally ripped open like twenty straws right in her face.
Taurus: *laughs* Yeah and make seagull noises while you do it.
Elly: May her car gets three flat tires on the way home. And the tire place is out of stock of the cheap ones so she has to buy the expensive kind. And the tow truck takes three hours to arrive and it totally inconviences her day.
Taurus: *laughs again*
Elly: I'm serious. I will it into the world. And I hope she gets hit by a box of straws somehow in the process.
Taurus: *laughs again* your revenge fantasies are so colorful and specific
Elly: There's a reason the universe never gives me real superpowers.
Posted by EllygantMy friend and her husband got season tickets!!
I always wanted to go to a professional soccer game but my ex Scorp didn't have much interest in soccer. Well our city got a new stadium and a professional team and I thought that would motivate him a bit, so a few years ago before we actually got the team I suggested we go. Still never peaked his interest.
So today I bought tickets to the teams opening game myself! I don't have anyone to go with, the game isn't until the end of July. And I very well may not find anyone to go with cause I don't have too many sports loving friends currently. But I'm super excited I'm accomplishing a small dream of mine, to get back into a sport I loved in my youth and seeing my hometown team play their first opening game in my city's brand new stadium.![]()
Posted by LilliLou
Goodness. Its been a while stingers![]()
Got a bit of back reading I see.
What is the bunny calling himself these days...?
Posted by EllygantHe's good! It went really well. He had his post OP last week and the doctor said he doesn't have to come until may. Should hopefully be having the spring removed in July or August.Posted by AndalusiaHow is the babe?
My little Scorpio nephew has to have "minimally invasive spring cranioplasty" surgery next month
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Posted by GetMistedHello GetMisted! How are things in Alabama??Posted by LilliLouOmg ??????
Goodness. Its been a while stingers![]()
Got a bit of back reading I see.
What is the bunny and Ands calling themselves these days...?click to expand
Posted by PhoenixRisingwhaaaaaaa...? outrageousPosted by LilliLou
Goodness. Its been a while stingers![]()
Got a bit of back reading I see.
What is the bunny calling himself these days...?
White Chocolate flavoured Harebally DonScorpio.click to expand
Posted by FoxIts like you summoned me little foxy onePosted by LilliLouWHAAAPosted by PhoenixRisingwhaaaaaaa...? outrageousPosted by LilliLou
Goodness. Its been a while stingers![]()
Got a bit of back reading I see.
What is the bunny calling himself these days...?
White Chocolate flavoured Harebally DonScorpio.![]()
i thought about you briefly on the bus today. That's so weird.
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Posted by AndalusiaPosted by EllygantPosted by AndalusiaHow is the babe?
My little Scorpio nephew has to have "minimally invasive spring cranioplasty" surgery next month![]()
Good to hear ?
He's good! It went really well. He had his post OP last week and the doctor said he doesn't have to come until may. Should hopefully be having the spring removed in July or August.click to expand
Posted by -elle-
I have a new software support person....his name is Fabio...
Posted by Ellygant
One day I will figure my Gemini Mars out and sort it's weird bits out from my cancer-y and scorp-y weird bits.
But I'm blowing real hot and cold these days real quick. So much so I don't even understand it.![]()
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Posted by EllygantPosted by PhoenixRisingPosted by Ellygant
One day I will figure my Gemini Mars out and sort it's weird bits out from my cancer-y and scorp-y weird bits.
But I'm blowing real hot and cold these days real quick. So much so I don't even understand it.![]()
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I am too and I'm not sure what's going on. I am easily irritated, bored (more so than usual), impatient and a touch more sarcastic lol. Gotta keep the sarcasm alive.
I think the Scorp bits acts as a filter because if I let my moon loose...well you see the way that Gemitati interacts on the boards.
Totally had a Gemini Mars rant moment(s) (let's be honest it's never just one).click to expand
Posted by EllygantPosted by PhoenixRisingCombine bits of Gemini moon readings with with 4th house moon readings. Reading about the 4th house in general would probably help too
#CuriousMindMode (and I'm waiting for a meeting to start)
I'm hoping to better understand something Elle wrote. I've been trying to see where I can read this stuff to better understand it, but I can't.
Ones astrological house. So if I understand this correctly, the sign (and ruling planet) that your house falls in influences how you approach a particular aspect of your life. So for example, I have Gem in my 5th house. There is a mercurial influence on how I express and pursue things within this house, the area of creativity, romance, dating, pleasure, children.
However, my Gem Moon falls in the 4th house. So what the hell does that mean? I know my moon is very distinct from some of the Gem Moons---especially the ones I read about. That's probably the reason I don't feel the description I see reflect me very well. The best one I've read was "personality is expressive, artistic, intellectual but may even be schizophrenic" lol. Maybe I'm bias. No one wants to read they may be psychotic.
Anyway, a few of the traits, yes but not enough to say yeah, that's me. What should I be reading?
For me on a planet I actually go aspects - house placement - sign placement. I find aspects color anplanets expression much more than just its sign.
I wish I had more to share on 4th house, but it's empty in my chart and I don't know too many folks with placements there so I've never researched it before. 4th is correlated to cancer though, so having your Moon there makes it an 'accidental dignitary' because the house colors your moon in a more cancerian way.click to expand
Posted by EllygantThe downside of dating sensitive guys :/
Tall, Dark and Cancer is just as much of a romantic sap at heart as I am, just as I suspected from night one when he wrapped his arms tightly around me and whispered into my ear asking what I wanted things to be.
It only took another three months before he'd admit it again, with a few self defensive measures, one really manipulative statement attempt on his part and a one month break. Also after voluminous amounts of alcohol on his part last night.
But the flip side of drunken vulnerability is, while I believe it to be true, it's useless if his sober actions still don't match. And I'm hyper terrified of putting myself in a position to fall for another man that keeps love to himself until it's too late like what happened with the Scorp and I. And yeah he's not the Scorp and I'm not who I was with the Scorp. But I feel like I'd be a fool to not heed messages earlier now that I purposefully ignored with the Scorp.
But damn if it doesn't make it hard because when we are together, it feels like a fire in my soul, like every part of me is energized but at peace still and things just fit.
At the same time I just finally have become happy alone. I feel content not depending on anyone. I'm terrified to risk that and fuck all my shit up again since I finally am on track after such a long time. We're comfortably at a place where I can give in ways that are easy for me but not the ones that are difficult. I dote on him and spoil him and shower him in affection without having to open myself up too much or be actually responsible.
Is this venus Retro? Gosh. The flip flop is real. I'm not even gonna complain or fight it. Just take it all in and let it fall where it may.
Posted by Ellygant
You don't have to answer, but do you find you're early childhood left a large impression on how you interact and perceive others?
Posted by VivaciousScorpioHey VS! What's happening? I'm slack. It's a colonial thing...Posted by LilliLouShe lives!
Goodness. Its been a while stingers![]()
Got a bit of back reading I see.
What is the bunny and Ands calling themselves these days...?click to expand
Posted by VivaciousScorpioScorpittariususses unite! ???Posted by LilliLouIt's a ScorpSag thing ?Posted by VivaciousScorpioHey VS! What's happening? I'm slack. It's a colonial thing...Posted by LilliLouShe lives!
Goodness. Its been a while stingers![]()
Got a bit of back reading I see.
What is the bunny and Ands calling themselves these days...?click to expand
Posted by Ellygant
I got the job.![]()
Posted by exo
finally!
Posted by Ellygant
Things I've learned about the moon signs this week:
Air moons... they're very preemptive about managing emotions....
Posted by EllygantPosted by PhoenixRisingMe. All yesterday.
OMG, right now....![]()
There was an Elly shaped indent in my bed.click to expand
Posted by EllygantPosted by PhoenixRisingYeah yeah.Posted by Ellygant
Things I've learned about the moon signs this week:
Air moons... they're very preemptive about managing emotions....![]()
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The Gemini moon bff trying to explain handling me
"Yep, sometimes I think 'I gotta be preemptive and nip that shit before she spirals' then I turn around and see I've only made it worse and think 'oh damn she's spinning faster. I seem to have accelerated it.'"
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Posted by -elle-
Okay, I always make fun of people who talk about the "Scorpio Stare"....being a scorp rising and a scorp....I just find it ridiculous....until today.
That shit is real, yo.![]()
So, my cap boss was promoted about a month ago. He has been assigned to give me a new boss. The first one was selected for him....he didn't like him, so he was like...nope. I've been waiting in limbo.
He handpicked someone for me and I met him this morning.
We talked for about an hour and half to get to know each other. His fricken eye contact made me uncomfortable as all hell....but it appeared mine did to him as well. We kept locking eyes as we talked...being professional, but there were moments where both of us had to just look away. There wasn't anything sexual about this it was just hella weird.
Towards the end, he asked about hobbies....I told him that I was going to ask him a strange questions but I should get it out of the way before the cap boss asked if I 'read his palm'....I told him I was an astrologer and I would like to inquire his sign.
"Scorpio"
"I KNEW it."
"Why?"
"I dunno, just did." LOL
Posted by Ellygant
...Everyone I've dated since the Scorp, even the person I fell for after him, I never wanted to be with those people for who they were, just for how they made me feel or what they could offer. And honestly they all lived in the ex's shadow...
Posted by EllygantPosted by PhoenixRisingI personally didn't even realize it till I met this crab.Posted by Ellygant
...Everyone I've dated since the Scorp, even the person I fell for after him, I never wanted to be with those people for who they were, just for how they made me feel or what they could offer. And honestly they all lived in the ex's shadow...
Hmph. *reflects*.
I can relate to this.
At the time I thought I genuinely liked those people. But as soon as they did something I didn't like, I lost all interest completely. Just went on to the next one. I've also acquired a habit of having a few suitors on call always throughout dating. I could end things with someone one morning and be out on a date with someone else that night.
TDC was different. I'm not really sure why. But first time he did something I didn't like my first thought wasn't 'fine. boy bye' it was 'What's going on in his mind that made him do that?'
Hadn't thought that about someone since I met my ex. It'd been years since I felt that feeling but it almost felt like it brought back flashbacks, in an emotional sense. Totally weird. I didn't want to cut and run and go find a more beneficial (ego stroking) arrangement.
It was super bizarre realizing that if I became exclusive with the crab, I would never consider giving that up to reconnect with the Scorp. Still feels weird to say.
Dunno if you relate to any of those parts lol.click to expand
Posted by EllygantPosted by PhoenixRisingIf that ain't the truth lol.Posted by EllygantPosted by PhoenixRisingI personally didn't even realize it till I met this crab.Posted by Ellygant
...Everyone I've dated since the Scorp, even the person I fell for after him, I never wanted to be with those people for who they were, just for how they made me feel or what they could offer. And honestly they all lived in the ex's shadow...
Hmph. *reflects*.
I can relate to this.
At the time I thought I genuinely liked those people. But as soon as they did something I didn't like, I lost all interest completely. Just went on to the next one. I've also acquired a habit of having a few suitors on call always throughout dating. I could end things with someone one morning and be out on a date with someone else that night.
TDC was different. I'm not really sure why. But first time he did something I didn't like my first thought wasn't 'fine. boy bye' it was 'What's going on in his mind that made him do that?'
Hadn't thought that about someone since I met my ex. It'd been years since I felt that feeling but it almost felt like it brought back flashbacks, in an emotional sense. Totally weird. I didn't want to cut and run and go find a more beneficial (ego stroking) arrangement.
It was super bizarre realizing that if I became exclusive with the crab, I would never consider giving that up to reconnect with the Scorp. Still feels weird to say.
Dunno if you relate to any of those parts lol.
How shall I put this? Yes, but in different ways. I knew I didn't like the men I was dating. Not in a real way. They were pretty to look at and stimulating enough. A distraction. So, as soon as they did something I didn't like, I was "meh, time to move on". I didn't stop to question why, or want to discuss any problems that might come up for us.
My issue, it was far too soon for me to date after my ex. I knew this somewhere, but I had difficulty sitting with the emotions he left behind. I had (and still have in some respects) some growing to do in that area. I had school, but school only occupied 70% of my life. My thoughts can get out of hand even with very little time on my hands lol. I wanted very few gaps of time to be able to sit and rest, and inevitably think about our time together. Not even a sliver of time. Emotionally avoidant to the 10th power.
But you know how it goes. It ain't Scorp, if it ain't extreme.
I hit the dating scene real hard too for the same reasons. Gem mars can always find something somewhat interesting about anyone, for a short time.
Timing interests me in that regard. I actually tried to make some moves on TDC twice, two years ago when the Scorp and I broke up the first time for a few months. I was totally rebound focused though, and looking back am glad now it didn't pan out back then. My brain was still on Scorp, obviously since the Scorp and I made a go at it for another 8/9 months.
Going back over my dating history, you can see a clear pattern in the people I chose to focus on and how much I did or didn't work through with my ex. Now I really believe we attract people based on the energies we are working through.click to expand
Posted by Ellygant
Had a table last night. Teenage boy with his parents, between 14-17. Hard to tell these days for me lol. When ordering his side salad I list the options and he asks which one I like best. I tell him, he asks why, after me reply and he says 'Well then of course I want what you want.' With a small grin.
Lmao
The child has smoother moves than about 90% of the grown men I've dated over the last year. Right in front of his parents (who stifled their chuckles moderately). #nofucksgiven![]()
Posted by EllygantGOOD cryPosted by AndalusiaGood cry?
Mah BFF is getting married.
Trying not to cry.
Bad cry?
Both?click to expand
Posted by EllygantPosted by TheLadyScorpio☺️?????
@Ellygant
Your most recent profile picture, had left me speechless.
You look stunning, Elly and what a great angle that was.![]()
Thank you!! Was hesitant to show off so much leg but I'm becoming more comfortable in my body here lately.
Gotta show off, blaming my one little Leo (Jupiter) placement.
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Posted by EllygantI love you.
Warning: Cancer Moon Emo Fest Ahead
Tonight after my last day at my old job I'm sitting in my room thinking of everything that's happened the last year.
Maybe it's venus Retrograde, maybe it's just me being my very regular relationship focused self, but the people I've loved and lost and people I never loved but have been enthralled with are on my mind. Just the more select and pivotal ones. When I think of these people I can almost fall back into the moment's memory.
The way the sheets smelled at the house I shared wth my ex Scorp. A mixture of his scent, my candles and that strange smell you can never place but just seems to fit a building. The way his eyes would be lit in a bluish glow sitting at his computer when I'd come home from work. How I could sometimes sneak up on him and watch his expression go from blank, to surprised to happy and laughing in just a few seconds. Our nights cuddled together with our dog on the couch. Laughing at cartoons and fart noises, yet he'd obsess over my coaster usage. The way I could still see the outline of his body even in the darkness of our room late at night, and I'd like to listen to his soft snores on the rare occasion he fell asleep first. I can't believe it's been well over a year now since I last laid next to him. Seems weird when I think that at one time I thought I'd always lay next to him.
The smell of parliaments and the dusty old couch at the house of the Scorpio Sun/Taurus moon I fell hard for too soon after the Scorp. How he'd numb himself with anything he could to sleep, trying to forget how much he hates himself. The way the faint, old night lights would cast a dingy glow as he whimpered and twitched in his sleep every night from nightmares.
The way park lights in their fake orange saturated the hair of the Cancer Sun/Cancer moon I rebounded with after things with the Taurus moon reached their end. How I remember knowing in that moment he was not for me, because all I could see was the light, not a single emotion towards him.
The green leaves that reflected old fluorescent bulbs on the face of the Leo Sun/Taurus moon o dated after him. His eyes had a deadness to him at the time that bothered me since I couldn't place it. I'd find it might later he was a heavy coke addict. But in that moment I found him unsettling.
The Virgo baby who stood me up a few months later, I recall our one nice night. He drove 40 minutes to come to my house and apologize. He sat at the edge of my driveway having such amazing conversation for hours, under a near full moon. I'd laugh uncontrollably when he freaked as a bat flew over head and we sat cross legged playing slap hands so I could distract him from his fear of bats.
The Cancer girl I dated cautiously for months, and how we spent nights walking around town with whiskey shots poured in our Starbucks and I'd tease her about her timidity and try to coax her out of her shell. How when she laid next to me, the candles in my room seem to perfectly illuminate the softness of her soul.
The Libra Sun and Moon I was totally enamoured with for months. How the purple string lights in my room were her sole focus because she was too nervous to look me in the eye. and despite ruthless psychological observance being my go to, all I wanted, all I did was hold and comfort her that one night, on her birthday, listening to her talk.
The second Scorpio/Taurus, who I flirted with often but only started dating in December. How his fear of yet craving for intimacy felt even stronger than my own. The way the sharp southern twang would roll off his tongue when he'd look at me and that cold crisp feeling of his loft. How he'd become very shy and bashful when I'd become bossy. The way he looked at me, a way I can't quite pin down now even, but with curious brown eyes and an expression that always left me perplexed.
TDC. The memory of me being sandwiched between him and a pool table when he surprised me by going in to make a move the day after Christmas, how his forwardness contradicted years of shyness. The warmth, strength yet odd trembling of when he held onto me that night and I just couldn't read him like I do most others. The way light poured over him in the morning and made his skin look golden even under a cloudy sky and I remember thinking he was the most beautiful sight my still broken heart had seen in quite some time. How aware I was when I saw him that my heart was still broken when I denied that fact all year. The fact he pretended to be asleep until I woke up, for almost an hour, and me wondering why. The countless looks that would follow in the coming months, a bulk of which he would never explain, just stare at me bewidlered, maybe curious? It's hard to tell. How I stayed next to him when he drank too much and when I'd leave he'd mutter apologies, then be surprised when I returned with water and a cold rag. How when I went to refill the water he simply would say 'Don't go. Please.' With such softness I'd slink back to his side.
My heart isn't broken anymore. I know that to be certain. It does still ache from time to time. Some more than others. It longs for a romantic adventure, some bit of peace and a story to write. People don't tend to understand why I hold onto memories so vividly, why I like to relive them. But it's for moments like this. Nights like tonight when I feel terribly alone, as if the things I desire most will never come or people didn't turn out to be what I perceived or imposed upon them. The memories of those moments, they keep me company. Because although they were fleeting moments, they were sincere. They were real. I got to see and care for people for who they were. See so many types of beauty, wonderment and amazing stories all exemplified in the individuals. How I shared a tiny piece of insight and genuineness even if it was temporary. These things, might not mean much to these people or anyone else, but they're full of life to me. And that soothes a lonely aching heart.
Posted by EllygantYou are able to articulate your cancer-sailor-moon in such beautiful profound ways. Your descriptions somehow wrap all 5 of my senses in a weird Internet swaddling cloth of description and comfort.Posted by AndalusiaPosted by EllygantI love you.
Warning: Cancer Moon Emo Fest Ahead
Tonight after my last day at my old job I'm sitting in my room thinking of everything that's happened the last year.
Maybe it's venus Retrograde, maybe it's just me being my very regular relationship focused self, but the people I've loved and lost and people I never loved but have been enthralled with are on my mind. Just the more select and pivotal ones. When I think of these people I can almost fall back into the moment's memory.
The way the sheets smelled at the house I shared wth my ex Scorp. A mixture of his scent, my candles and that strange smell you can never place but just seems to fit a building. The way his eyes would be lit in a bluish glow sitting at his computer when I'd come home from work. How I could sometimes sneak up on him and watch his expression go from blank, to surprised to happy and laughing in just a few seconds. Our nights cuddled together with our dog on the couch. Laughing at cartoons and fart noises, yet he'd obsess over my coaster usage. The way I could still see the outline of his body even in the darkness of our room late at night, and I'd like to listen to his soft snores on the rare occasion he fell asleep first. I can't believe it's been well over a year now since I last laid next to him. Seems weird when I think that at one time I thought I'd always lay next to him.
The smell of parliaments and the dusty old couch at the house of the Scorpio Sun/Taurus moon I fell hard for too soon after the Scorp. How he'd numb himself with anything he could to sleep, trying to forget how much he hates himself. The way the faint, old night lights would cast a dingy glow as he whimpered and twitched in his sleep every night from nightmares.
The way park lights in their fake orange saturated the hair of the Cancer Sun/Cancer moon I rebounded with after things with the Taurus moon reached their end. How I remember knowing in that moment he was not for me, because all I could see was the light, not a single emotion towards him.
The green leaves that reflected old fluorescent bulbs on the face of the Leo Sun/Taurus moon o dated after him. His eyes had a deadness to him at the time that bothered me since I couldn't place it. I'd find it might later he was a heavy coke addict. But in that moment I found him unsettling.
The Virgo baby who stood me up a few months later, I recall our one nice night. He drove 40 minutes to come to my house and apologize. He sat at the edge of my driveway having such amazing conversation for hours, under a near full moon. I'd laugh uncontrollably when he freaked as a bat flew over head and we sat cross legged playing slap hands so I could distract him from his fear of bats.
The Cancer girl I dated cautiously for months, and how we spent nights walking around town with whiskey shots poured in our Starbucks and I'd tease her about her timidity and try to coax her out of her shell. How when she laid next to me, the candles in my room seem to perfectly illuminate the softness of her soul.
The Libra Sun and Moon I was totally enamoured with for months. How the purple string lights in my room were her sole focus because she was too nervous to look me in the eye. and despite ruthless psychological observance being my go to, all I wanted, all I did was hold and comfort her that one night, on her birthday, listening to her talk.
The second Scorpio/Taurus, who I flirted with often but only started dating in December. How his fear of yet craving for intimacy felt even stronger than my own. The way the sharp southern twang would roll off his tongue when he'd look at me and that cold crisp feeling of his loft. How he'd become very shy and bashful when I'd become bossy. The way he looked at me, a way I can't quite pin down now even, but with curious brown eyes and an expression that always left me perplexed.
TDC. The memory of me being sandwiched between him and a pool table when he surprised me by going in to make a move the day after Christmas, how his forwardness contradicted years of shyness. The warmth, strength yet odd trembling of when he held onto me that night and I just couldn't read him like I do most others. The way light poured over him in the morning and made his skin look golden even under a cloudy sky and I remember thinking he was the most beautiful sight my still broken heart had seen in quite some time. How aware I was when I saw him that my heart was still broken when I denied that fact all year. The fact he pretended to be asleep until I woke up, for almost an hour, and me wondering why. The countless looks that would follow in the coming months, a bulk of which he would never explain, just stare at me bewidlered, maybe curious? It's hard to tell. How I stayed next to him when he drank too much and when I'd leave he'd mutter apologies, then be surprised when I returned with water and a cold rag. How when I went to refill the water he simply would say 'Don't go. Please.' With such softness I'd slink back to his side.
My heart isn't broken anymore. I know that to be certain. It does still ache from time to time. Some more than others. It longs for a romantic adventure, some bit of peace and a story to write. People don't tend to understand why I hold onto memories so vividly, why I like to relive them. But it's for moments like this. Nights like tonight when I feel terribly alone, as if the things I desire most will never come or people didn't turn out to be what I perceived or imposed upon them. The memories of those moments, they keep me company. Because although they were fleeting moments, they were sincere. They were real. I got to see and care for people for who they were. See so many types of beauty, wonderment and amazing stories all exemplified in the individuals. How I shared a tiny piece of insight and genuineness even if it was temporary. These things, might not mean much to these people or anyone else, but they're full of life to me. And that soothes a lonely aching heart.![]()
(Cancer Sailor Moon ftw. She always saved the day despite her emotional rages lol)click to expand
Posted by Ellygant
I'm sitting here watching a thunderstorm over the water. Lightning strikes snap and connect the sky horizon to the ocean water. Each spark flashes white brightly.
Posted by Ellygant
Ok so I have thought this for the last year now, and it's killing me. I won't make a thread because people might just take it as me throwing shade when I'm legit confused over it, no malice.
But why on earth do so many people block people they are dating or casually fucking over the SMALLEST shit?! It genuinely confuses me!
I thought that blocking features were only for psychos that don't stop calling and bill collectors. Why bother blocking someone just because you broke up or had a disagreement? If you want to ignore them, just ignore them.
It's seems like they are trying to hurt the person? If anything, I'd think that stone cold reading and ignoring messages would be more painful than a block. Plus if you block someone, very often there's no way for them to know they've been blocked, just make an educated guess.
But I see it in thread after thread after thread and hear friends talking about it occasionally. I just don't get it.people are weird man.
Posted by EllygantBest guess? Ego, power, and hurt feelings.Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by Ellygant
Ok so I have thought this for the last year now, and it's killing me. I won't make a thread because people might just take it as me throwing shade when I'm legit confused over it, no malice.
But why on earth do so many people block people they are dating or casually fucking over the SMALLEST shit?! It genuinely confuses me!
I thought that blocking features were only for psychos that don't stop calling and bill collectors. Why bother blocking someone just because you broke up or had a disagreement? If you want to ignore them, just ignore them.
It's seems like they are trying to hurt the person? If anything, I'd think that stone cold reading and ignoring messages would be more painful than a block. Plus if you block someone, very often there's no way for them to know they've been blocked, just make an educated guess.
But I see it in thread after thread after thread and hear friends talking about it occasionally. I just don't get it.people are weird man.
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Are you saying it's the power trip of button pressing a human being away?![]()
I always did like pressing the big red off button on my parents PC while they were working when I was a wee little kid.Thankfully tech companies got smart to shit stirring kindergarteners everywhere and made the buttons the same color as the pc.
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Posted by Ellygant
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Venus retro is almost over though. So yay.
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