miss my scorps cuddles lastnight..silent treatment

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by DaLionessOfLove on Friday, December 30, 2011 and has 10 replies.
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his silent treatments are killing me to ..phone is off still
want to keep apologizing but cant
want to hold him but cant
want to say baby just say your sorry but cant
i understand he needs time
im afraid if he does arrive my heart will skip a beat so heard that it will make me week
haven't cried much but it still hurt keeping things on my mind to keep from thinking that I've lost him for good..maybe denial..maybe even hoping that he still loves me ...
i know that he will be okay
but how long will it take to get over the pain....i wish he wasnt so self centered and thinks everyone would hurt him ..he needs to stopping the ones he love...or pushing those away who love them...
scorpios and all please tell me what your thoughts are when you down the most i would love to hear them
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I dont want to beat a dead horse here, but for God's sake how much more abuse do you want to invite into your life???
He lashed out at you, PHYSICALLY pushes you out the door, verbally berates you...and YOU are apologizing and begging HIM to forgive you? He sees you have no dignity or self respect, so why in hell would he respect you?
You need to return your Leo card.
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Posted by BigGirlPanties
I dont want to beat a dead horse here, but for God's sake how much more abuse do you want to invite into your life???
He lashed out at you, PHYSICALLY pushes you out the door, verbally berates you...and YOU are apologizing and begging HIM to forgive you? He sees you have no dignity or self respect, so why in hell would he respect you?
You need to return your Leo card.


your missunderstand what i mean i just want to hear from him that is all apology or no apology i just miss him and yeah maybe i should turn in my Leo card that i was dealt before birth cant help who i am ...its not about him being a scorpio
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It's so hard when you have no idea to connect to another human being. I understand you and feel your pain
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let him get over it. he will. his lava needs to boil down first. then he'll come back to you.
but if this guy cant respect you and blames you for everything, leave. simple as that.
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I know it is easier said than done, but stop missing him and start living your life. Scorpio men need their space and they need it a LOT, especially when they have feelings to process. You too can call time-out from whatever it is that ails you and take care of yourself. As Stinger Baby and ScorpioHubby said earlier, if things are right, he will come back to you. If he doesn't, perhaps it is for the best for the two of you.
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I took some time out from home and went to a close friends house to chill for a couple of days and came back and over heard from a relative of mine that he said that he misses me. I told him I miss him to and understand that he might need some time until he opens back up but at least he responded to me on facebook when I did post to him.
I just miss him. Wish him well. I just both think that we do need the space.
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silent treatment is a form of abuse...why are you putting up with that I don't know but I hope you figure it out for yourself. It's not abnormal to miss an abuser but it's not healthy either.
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You need to forgive yourself. Let yourself free. Move on from him. If he raised his hand to you, threw you out, etc. What good is he for you? Why are you letting him abuse you like that? You are doing the abused woman's thing.
If he pushed you out a punch is next. Who knows what will follow that.
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