My date w/ Virgo last night

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by sophie68 on Wednesday, March 22, 2006 and has 11 replies.
So...after all this trauma of him not calling, Mr Virgo man called me Monday and we went out last night to dinner/drinks.
He took me to a place he knows many people, he saw some friends and introduced me. Even put his arms around my chair a few times. Very attentive....kept looking at me with adoring eyes, then looking away almost shy-like. He got little buzzed last night. Great conversation, a lot in common him and I.
Even showed a bit of jealousy with a guy who came over to me (he was a realtor trying to get me to give him my listing). "What is he your new boyfriend? Lets get outta here"
When I told him I was leaving on a biz trip last night for a week he said "Ya, I don't know how I'm going to handle that whole thing" (traveling). Maybe drunk talk, who knows.
We had a great night, slept over and left this morning. A kiss and a "Thanks for your hospitality (joking) , have a good day" No word of calling or anything.
Here we go again....more waiting....
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Sophie
I have a little advice for you. Don't wait.
Just go about and live your life. Sometimes people throw themselves off balance by waiting to be the phone. Just make plans and live your life like you were before he came into your life. If he asks you out and you aren't free, you can just say no sorry, I have plans ... are you free Thursday? Men can handle a busy girl with a busy life and they can handle hearing no once and awhile. In fact, I think they like it as it takes the pressure off.
Just have fun.
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I definately will not wait around, I meant I don;t expect a call for a few days, He knows and sees I am very busy (he had to wait for me last night in the living room until I finished working and deal with my business calls during the date), and I have been making myself WAY too accessible to him (calling the night before he wants to plan a date).
And knowing I'm leaving again on Sunday, I'm sure I'll see him before then....I would assume.
And yes,April...he is one sexy guy...yummy...
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Sophine68
Sex in the first date...WOW! That was quick. lol.
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Nope...not first date haffo...7th date
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And you are so correct April....:-)
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Aww...
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"The other strange thing about men, no matter what their sign, is that they tend to exhibit typical behavior of being all into you one day, and then cooling off and backing away the next."
-- It's not so strange, let me translate, "I kind of like you and haven't had sex for a while" -- after -- "There is a possibility for us but let me sit on it for a while longer" (closest to what I think is going on in their mind) Just one of the things I've noticed in behavior from the many many similar stories amongst women and my own bf who seems to get a bit more attentive at odd times hmmmm...? lol So that's where my suspicions are derived from lol Tongue So yeah, anyway seems like these days there's reluctance of getting into full blown relationships (mainly with the male species, the older the more the reluctance I think also) so that plays into it.

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"because he can be so wishy washy."
-- I don't think that behavior is normal and if you put up with it he'll just continue with it. Sex, I think plays a major major role in how things work out... he can't just show up after a while and have it just like that. It makes it too convenient for him. Ok just me personally, I'd be pissed off if I had 'something' with someone and he kept playing these stupid little disappearing acts... wtf is that all about. Since when are men so wrapped up in how they feel? They don't think like women do and I'm sure aren't thinking about whether or not they're developing feelings. How hard can it be to decide whether they atleast want to date someone consistently or not?
They either get their act together or fuck off for good. If by any stretch you suspect they're worth it... I suppose you can talk to them about it since sometimes they just don't know something bothers you until you bring it to their attention... in a simple, straighforward and civilized way smile Anywho, it's better to forget 'em if they can't grow out of the 'peek a boo here I am again' then where did he go? for weeks?! They'll either stop calling once they realize that you won't answer their calls or go out with them anymore (if they weren't all that interested to begin with) and if they were they'll come clean and ready to atleast let you know where they stand and that's perfectly fine... as long as things are on the table.
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Hi Tauru!
I totally hear ya if they are so wishy washy and contact you after mych time not calling. I would not take that crap at all and be done with it.
But Virgo only goes 2-3 days w/out calling after our date. Granted it is very new (month and a half)...he is very busy as well as I am very busy).
If it was weeks with No contact I would kissing his ass to the curb.
Of course me being the Scorpio that I am, I want to know where we are at, what he is thinking. Not looking for an R right this second... but how about some reassurance or something or a call in between dates.
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Hee hee a few days? A month and a half? You're just antsy then lol Gotcha smile
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