My date with a scorpio...and im a libra

 Question! Im a libra and went on a date friday with a scorpio. It's Monday morning and he still hasn't text me. He said he would so im waiting and haven't text him at all.

BACKGROUND

we've know eachother since late 2010. We were talking at one point and then stopped. I definitely think it was my fault. I was asking him a million and one questions, he wasnt really texting me back and i thought something was the matter so i sent him texts about that and then nothing but mind games.  The closest we got then was a few hugs and a kiss. We never REALLY knew eachother like that and we hung out with the same group of friends so...i got over that and we continued to talk and be regular. FAST FORWARD-----> so i saw him again at my birthday party. So 6 yrs without seeing him. One of our mutual friends extended an invitation. Hugged him and took a pic! He looked so different. I met him when he was 16 going on 17 and he was 22 going on 23 next month. I truly did miss him cuz we were good friends and even though i didn't deeply know him. Then, i throw another party but at a hotel jan 6 2017 and he comes. Once again a mutual friend extended the invitation. He gave me the tightest hugs! It was late and his friends he came with were leaving and so was he. I had invited them to stay if they didn't mind sharing beds and they left but he stayed til 7am. We caught up with eachother, talked about previous relationships and just had fun in eachothers company. We were playing crazy 8s and were making eachother do dares if the other lost. It was the last one that made me think. I lost the last game. He never said what his was. Only wrote it down on paper and asked me to flip it over. He asked for a sensual kiss. My eyebrow went up and i was like what i look like giving every guy a kiss on the lips if i lost a game? So instead, a kiss on the cheek. He was like "eh, could have been better" and i was like lol you'll be fine. Before he left he gave me another tight hug and purposely put his face in my neck for a few but i didnt react to it. He then repositions his face next to mine during the hug, was gonna give me his number but i had to give him mine because my phone was downloading a new update. From then we were talking about work and just random stuff. Then, he asks me when im taking him on a date? I laughed and said that should be the other way around lol. And hes like okay okay cool. Pick a day. I chose friday. This convo was Saturday or Sunday. We text back and forth during the first few days of the week. He definitely had some late responses but i wasnt trippin nor did i bring it up that you text me a whole 4hrs later. He would ask me what i was doing the next day and he did this up until tuesday. We talked wednesday morning and after a few responses he stopped and didn't text me until 4 something friday, the day of our date. He asked my address and blah blah blah and it was 8 and he was at my house. I was ontime!!! We ate at his favorite food spot. He opened up about some personal matters especially about his family and moves he wants to make. He didn't pry me for information like i thought he would or so they say scorpios do. I didnt reveal much about myself, was confident, did laugh but wasnt goofy and looked him in his eye as he spoke. He got a little self conscious and asked if there was something on his face, and i told him your talking. That seemed to go well. I was over dressed but sexy, not slutty. I didnt know where we were going. But it was rather interesting because he never saw me dressed up besides my birthday and couldn't imagine me in such attire. We were only out for about 2 hrs. The place closed at 10 so he proceeded to drop me off home. While on the way to my house, he asks if there was anything else we could do. We were trying to think of some things and opted for pool. Would have went to ny but i had to work early, so i changed and we played for a few. Didnt talk much, and couldn't really hear eachother anyways because the music was loud.

So we are headed to his car, and while it's warming up he talks about some relationship stuff. How this didn't work out and why, how he doesn't like girls that like him, and how he likes the opposite and that turns him on and how he thinks short hair is sexy and my hair is the opposite. He asks me what i thought about short hair and if i would alter it. I had said id definitely wear wigs and maybe sometime down the line cut it. Then he asked me if i did cut it how long would i keep it like that? And before i knew it i was home. I sat there for a sec, told him thank you. He said much obliged and that was it. No hug or anything. I was prolly expecting a hug since we had hugged before but nothing. Oh! He also said he would text me. That was saturday 1am and it is now monday....should i still wait for him to text me?

Hi,

I am a Libra as well, who has dated two Scorpios, one my age and another 10yrs my senior, and they both gave their all and made me feel like the only girl in the world LITERALLY. They can't help but give their all when they are trying to mate and make you theirs only.

Im not sure how things turned out for you since your encounter with him. But I can offer some input.

I was not the older Scorps "type" per say and he wasn't mine but we made a connection. he asked me a lot of questions and we found ourselves down diving deeper for each other. So even though you may not fit his certain superficial criteria, you can get in if you make him feel

If he doesn't ask questions about you and talks about himself, then that's what he wants, someone to vent to with no advice.

They LOVE to be physical with that person even if it's just a hand on leg combo, hold hands or forehead kiss. He showed you some of that but it seems like you could have given signs that they can conclude as stand offish. They are not like other guys, they won't force you and don't like rejection. They won't throw you to the wind initially but they will classify you with no warning.

Because of his.....Long slow responses, no physical contact at sometimes at departure, days with no replies, and talking about himself mostly.....he likes you, but his attention is elsewhere too.

So I would go off him and not initiate contact or lead the relationship but interact as needed, to protect yourself.

I said it before and I'll say it again.

If you willing to spend time and nerves - this will work.

If you want to be calm and happy - drop his as its hot!

Dealing with a Scorpio takes smart mature and selfless existence from an opposite party.

I don't know why but as you can see this forum 99% is talking about Scorpios!

I know why! I am living it. It's like if you can make it work - you will be glad you did.

However making it work is work! No one will throw anything to your feet. You must work hard and Love Bless You honey!

Posted by Skiptomylou
...he was 22 going on 23 next month

1) I'm not reading all of that. Learn to be concise.

2) If he was born in February, he is not a Scorpio. Perhaps you meant he was conceived in February....

Hahah I agree with some of you . If you want to deal with scorpio - BE READY . They are not for everyone , they want a strong partner and you also have to be secure , self sufficient and confident . Because when the " I'm taking time off " events will show up ? You better not ask yourself tons of questions or you will drive yourself mad .

I feel that scorpio are like babies , they get moody at times but most importantly do not EVER let them think that they have you into the palms of their hands .

If you have patience go ahead , it's always fun . Try to find out his other placement and please avoid those with GEMINI in their charts - inconsistent and flaky people .

Mars with scorpio - are super intense and if they like you , trust me you will KNOW . You won't have to second guess .

However , people might disagree but the best match for scorps is a sign that pays attention to little things , that is considerate and kind . The type of signs that can read between the lines and understand things without having to " speak it out loud " . If you can't , you will miss out on a lot of things and again , you ll turn mad .

Good luck ! I have dated to scorpios .. and I have to say that emotionally it was tiring but worth it I suppose .

Wtf?

I read at least half of that and gave up.

OP, don't chase him. Get on with your life. If he wants to follow it up with you then he knows where you are.

If he contacts you then just go with the flow and enjoy the time together. Think about what you're looking for, what you want and what you can give.

If he doesn't contact you again within a week then don't lose sleep over it. He may not have taken the date so seriously. He may see you as a friend. He may not be ready for anything. Loads of reasons. Not all related to you.

First of all, how come he's a scorpio and his birthday is next month?

Second, if he wants you he'll text stop being clingy

Third, He told you himself that he doesn't like needy girls and the opposite turns him on. So... I guess that's obvious.