My New Scorp...
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Sag89 on Thursday, January 12, 2012 and has 5 replies.
Was abused too.
I kind of guessed cause of some of the way he acted it was similar to my behavior. And you know, birds of a feather. But I didn't have the info. He just opened up to me about it the other night.
He's said he has never told anyone about before, but he thought I could handle it. I could tell it was hard for him but I supported him every bit of the way.
I'm glad he felt safe. The amazing part was I did too. I shared so much. More than I have with any guy I think. We communicate pretty well. Me (merc in cap) Him (merc in scorp )
It's really nice to be able to talk seriously to the person your dating. I know that sounds silly but like so many people these days just want to drink, smoke, work, their pain away.
When it could really lighten your load a bit if you just talk about things. Like I wanna try to be a winner in life not a loser. I don't know if i'll succeed but it's worth a damn try.
I think me and him really have a chance at trying to love the things we were taught to hate together.
I guess we'll see.
I kind of guessed cause of some of the way he acted it was similar to my behavior. And you know, birds of a feather. But I didn't have the info. He just opened up to me about it the other night.
He's said he has never told anyone about before, but he thought I could handle it. I could tell it was hard for him but I supported him every bit of the way.
I'm glad he felt safe. The amazing part was I did too. I shared so much. More than I have with any guy I think. We communicate pretty well. Me (merc in cap) Him (merc in scorp )
It's really nice to be able to talk seriously to the person your dating. I know that sounds silly but like so many people these days just want to drink, smoke, work, their pain away.
When it could really lighten your load a bit if you just talk about things. Like I wanna try to be a winner in life not a loser. I don't know if i'll succeed but it's worth a damn try.
I think me and him really have a chance at trying to love the things we were taught to hate together.
I guess we'll see.
That's awesome 
Not that he was abused, but that you guys got to talk and open up about such serious stuff. That's so therapeutic
Not that he was abused, but that you guys got to talk and open up about such serious stuff. That's so therapeutic
It is huge that he told you this. It means he honestly trusts you and when you can get a Scorp to trust you, that's a very big deal.
Do realize that people have different ways of dealing with painful circumstances and you guys might have had similar types of abuse happen to you (I'm not sure what it was) and react to it in different ways. He might do things or believe things that would seem inconceivable to you, given the circumstances of the abuse, so just keep that in mind. It doesn't mean he's wrong or insensitive or anything lie that ...just different. There is no cookie cutter way of coming out of an abusive situation.
I am sorry that it (whatever it is) happened to you two and glad you found each other. I KNOW it is a huge relief for him to let it out finally and glad you were there for him.
Do realize that people have different ways of dealing with painful circumstances and you guys might have had similar types of abuse happen to you (I'm not sure what it was) and react to it in different ways. He might do things or believe things that would seem inconceivable to you, given the circumstances of the abuse, so just keep that in mind. It doesn't mean he's wrong or insensitive or anything lie that ...just different. There is no cookie cutter way of coming out of an abusive situation.
I am sorry that it (whatever it is) happened to you two and glad you found each other. I KNOW it is a huge relief for him to let it out finally and glad you were there for him.
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Thanks for the support guys
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