my personal life

So... I dunno if this is a commom concept or this only happens to me....

I was thinkin about me and my love life, and I just think that sometimes things dont workout for me very well because Im too analytical. I wont give anyone a chance if I dont think they will be able to achieve my expectations.

I know that the next person that ill meet wont be the love of my life and we wont be together forever, but Im waitin for the "right one" to "appear"....

I would like sometimes to just let it go, and try to have some kind of relationship w someone not so ambitious or w different worldviews than mine....

I dont know I just find too hard to find someone with all the qualities that I appreciatte...

and everytime I find someone who gets close to what I would admire, this person turns to be a scorpio....

So...my question is!!!

Will I always be this selective—Is it a scorpio thing or just me?

here is my chart if it helps:
Sun Scorpio
Moon Scorpio
Mercury Scorpio
Venus Sagittarius
Mars Libra
Jupiter Aries
Saturn Sagittarius
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio

dude, stop making topics. the last five threads you created all could've easily been rolled into one.

I dont get you SS...I didnt create any thread....people turned my topics to other directions and I get blamed for it....

The thing is...people said that I was bein rude to others....which is true..I was bein rude to Lady M....but she was rude to me first....virg8, talked to me, and we even laughed because I agreed w him...we had no arguments
Roxi talked all that BS about me and I didnt care....and Im the one to be blamed?

no.


calm down.

btw SS..thanks for the answer accordingly to the topic..it was very helpful...lol

your chart is similar to mine, and i have the same issue...although, i wouldn't call it a *bad* issue exactly - you have standards. sooner or later you'll either meet somebody who fits those standards or you'll change your standards. the key is - it's sometimes difficult to be open to that change, but if you really want it to happen, it will.

plus, it helps to not focus so much on relationships and just do your own thing.

"love does not consist so much of two people gazing at each other, but gazing together in the same direction."

I know what you mean SW...I have some friends that they cant live wout a bf, they have to be w someone to support them, and if they are single, they are always looking for a potential victim....

and w me it is completly different I dont care if Im single or not, Im not looking for anyone but if happens I would take...you know what I mean....it doesnt bother me at all that Im single....and I do my own thing....

Sometimes I think it is good that Im single...there are so many things goin on in my life, like school, internship, work...that I wouldnt have time for a relationship...

"I know that the next person that ill meet wont be the love of my life and we wont be together forever, but Im waitin for the "right one" to "appear"....
I would like sometimes to just let it go, and try to have some kind of relationship w someone not so ambitious or w different worldviews than mine....
Sometimes I think it is good that Im single...there are so many things goin on in my life, like school, internship, work...that I wouldnt have time for a relationship...
Im not looking for anyone but if happens I would take..."


Sounds like you're just looking for a 'friend with benefits' at this young point in your life. Is that too hard to admit, or are you looking for some kind of validation from other scorpios (which I am not)?

wtf is with all this "you're young you don't know anything" bullshit? get a life geezers, stop trying to validate the fact that you know absolutely NOTHING more than us young people, AND we're better looking. i know it might sometimes get depressing but DAMN, go on a jog or play tennis or something. i hear you old people are good at that!

Ouch, feeling so ancient now
I'm thinking of taking up Mahjong or maybe Shuffleboard 😉

Better looking? I pull more ass with my gray highlights than you'll ever hope to....chicks got daddy issues, ya'll know....

SW, I was just pointing out the obvious facts for EscorpA.

no its dfntly not a booty call...
its extactly the complete opposite of it....
Im saying that I prefer to stay single, than be w someone which I dont admire and doesnt fit my standards.
And what Im trying to say is that is just too hard to find someone like me, someone who would be the right person, the one who would fit everythin that I always dreamed of....and Ild prefer to be single for the rest of my life, and whitout sex than be w someone that I have no feelings at all.....Just for the simple fact of not bein lonely.....Ild never put myself on this kind of situation.....


and srsly guys....SS is right all the comments that I post turn into arguments....and I take all the fame for it ...wout even startin it...


I dont want to be rude...but this thing about bein young is really annoyin...you guys are talkin like we dont know anythin about anything....you sound just like my mom.....is the samething as if I would start to thread you guys that you dont know anythin because your time passed....and you are too old to know what you are talkin about....which we all know that is not true....you are what you are and your age doesnt matter....of course i have a lot to learn about life...but it doesnt mean that im a chaotic child that doesnt know anythin.....

maybe we could just answer the topics ...wout bein rude....i would love that...from everyone....Im always tryin to intermediate....and the blame is always mine...lol



😉:::::LETS JUST BE MATURE PEACEFUL SCORPIOS:::::

but the thing is this isnt the biggest thing for..me..(the relationship)
what Im sayin is that I dont mind to wait as long as it takes...between this time Ill keep my mind busy on things that really matter for me right now as my career and my school....
if I find a nice guy who would be worth of my time....I would take it...but if I dont find Ill survive just fine as well....Im not lookin desperate to find someone...

but like sometimes I think if Ill be single forever lol...I have an aunt and she is 41 now and she is a single mom, never married....never had a real relationship...Ive never met any of her boyfriends, because since I remember...she never had one....I just dont want to be like her....(she is my fav aunt though..and she is scorp)....but I dont want to grow and think that there is anyone that is right for me out there...just like she did...nobody is ever good enough for her..and Im afraid to turn to be just like her

btw do you take visa—lol

yeah I guess Im scared to be like her...poor auntie..

escorpiana, maybe you can give S-W a try..just a thought..

Back to the topic (couldn't read all the comments). I am exactly where you are escorpiana. It is hard for a woman with standards. I don't have unrealistic ones, but after being married and then divorced then playing the field a couple years. Time for a change. An't getting any younger. Want a mate, a partner and one who is compatible and on the same page as me.

It is hard for the confident and well, successful and aggresive scorp... We seem to intimidate some men. Except in my case librans, however it doesn't seem to last.

Escorpana, you have mars in Libra, ever tried one? Sex will always be great with this combo, but there are other areas the two connect. They say what sign you have in mars should be a good match, but mine is Aqua (I think) and nah... I don't like too much.

"They say what sign you have in mars should be a good match, but mine is Aqua (I think) and nah... I don't like too much."

Mine is cancer,same as the sun sign of my stb ex-hubby..guess it didn't work there..although in general I do get on very well with cancer.