My Rollercoaster sexual Experience with a Scorpio mano Man

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Rania_1498 on Wednesday, July 3, 2024 and has 58 replies.
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I’ve had quite an intense experience with a Scorpio man I dated, and I wanted to share my story in hopes of gaining some clarity and possibly helping others who might be in a similar situation.


Initial Connection and Change


When we first got together, everything seemed promising.


We had great chemistry, and he asked for a commitment before we had sex. However, things took a drastic turn afterward.


He didn’t call or text, leaving me confused and hurt. When he finally reached out, he said he wanted to just be friends because he was afraid he might hurt me.



This sudden change was baffling.




Recently, he contacted me again, saying he loved the sex we had and how perfect I was for him in that aspect. He complimented me on being sensual, sexy, and natural. But then he claimed I didn’t understand him and felt that I didn’t experience pleasure or satisfaction with him.


Despite this, he asked me to be his partner again and expressed a desire to dominate me and try new things together.


Unexpected Proposal


To my shock, he proposed having sex with another man while he watched, insisting that I would enjoy it and he would be there with me. I firmly said no, explaining that I couldn’t and wouldn’t engage in sex with multiple men.


I made it clear that even if we decided to be friends with benefits, I wouldn’t seek out other partners.


If I ever fell in love with another man, I would stop seeing him.



He seemed to accept my boundaries but reiterated that he wanted me as his sex partner.


This left me feeling turned off and disinterested. Why is he behaving this way? Is this a test that Scorpio men often use before committing to a relationship, or is he just trying to use me?



He accused me of being manipulative and dishonest, claiming that my behavior after sex scared him and led him to suggest just being friends. Yet, he still wants to continue our sexual Insights


he has his Moon in Sagittarius, Venus in Virgo, and Mars in Scorpio. I wonder if these placements have anything to do with his behavior and mixed signals.


Conclusion


I’m left questioning his intentions and feeling disillusioned.

If anyone has insights into Scorpio men or similar experiences, I’d love to hear your thoughts. Is this a typical Scorpio test, or is he just using me for his own desires?
Posted by icfml
This ain't Scorpio shit. this is gay shit.. ur dude is gay. leeave the nigga. what's wrong with u? u attracting gay niggas because u got masculine in you u gotta get rid of maybe.. this ain't no typical scorpio test shit, he just asked to get cucked.. I done cucked a dude before and he wanna watch.. he gay.. stop textin him
Oh .. i didnt think he is gay he doesnt give that vibe.
Posted by icfml
Posted by Rania_1498
Posted by icfml
This ain't Scorpio shit. this is gay shit.. ur dude is gay. leeave the nigga. what's wrong with u? u attracting gay niggas because u got masculine in you u gotta get rid of maybe.. this ain't no typical scorpio test shit, he just asked to get cucked.. I done cucked a dude before and he wanna watch.. he gay.. stop textin him


Oh .. i didnt think he is gay he doesnt give that vibe.
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He asked you to let another dude fuck you while he watches.. That's not gay?
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He said he wants us to have sex and he is participating to not only watching .

Posted by icfml
Posted by Rania_1498
Posted by icfml
This ain't Scorpio shit. this is gay shit.. ur dude is gay. leeave the nigga. what's wrong with u? u attracting gay niggas because u got masculine in you u gotta get rid of maybe.. this ain't no typical scorpio test shit, he just asked to get cucked.. I done cucked a dude before and he wanna watch.. he gay.. stop textin him


Oh .. i didnt think he is gay he doesnt give that vibe.
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He asked you to let another dude fuck you while he watches.. That's not gay?
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I can feel if someone is gay.. he loves women from what ive noticed and i observed.

He told me once that even if reincarnate as woman he would choose to have sex with women.

Anyway makes me wonder if he is.
Posted by AquaClassy
There is no test he was honest- he doesn’t trust you. I don’t understand why you trying to looking for other meaning. Make him trust you and he will stop being confiusing.
So he is testing me if im loyal?

He was very jealous when we started talking.

He showed jealousy and hated when someone talks to me or i share something about my ex.

He get angry.. and once i went out he told me he hates the idea of me meeting another men.

He mentioned this again.

He told me that he loves me as a person.

But he saw many red flags.
Posted by icfml
Posted by Rania_1498
Posted by icfml
Posted by Rania_1498
Posted by icfml
This ain't Scorpio shit. this is gay shit.. ur dude is gay. leeave the nigga. what's wrong with u? u attracting gay niggas because u got masculine in you u gotta get rid of maybe.. this ain't no typical scorpio test shit, he just asked to get cucked.. I done cucked a dude before and he wanna watch.. he gay.. stop textin him


Oh .. i didnt think he is gay he doesnt give that vibe.
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He asked you to let another dude fuck you while he watches.. That's not gay?
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I can feel if someone is gay.. he loves women from what ive noticed and i observed.
He told me once that even if reincarnate as woman he would choose to have sex with women.
Anyway makes me wonder if he is.
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Why would he even have the thought to reincarnate as a woman? That's not coming in my brain. the dude is a fruit. But if u like him do u..
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He said even if he will reincrnate as woman he will choose to sleep only with women.

Because he loves women.
Posted by icfml
Posted by Rania_1498
Posted by icfml
Posted by Rania_1498
Posted by icfml
Posted by Rania_1498
Posted by icfml
This ain't Scorpio shit. this is gay shit.. ur dude is gay. leeave the nigga. what's wrong with u? u attracting gay niggas because u got masculine in you u gotta get rid of maybe.. this ain't no typical scorpio test shit, he just asked to get cucked.. I done cucked a dude before and he wanna watch.. he gay.. stop textin him


Oh .. i didnt think he is gay he doesnt give that vibe.
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He asked you to let another dude fuck you while he watches.. That's not gay?
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I can feel if someone is gay.. he loves women from what ive noticed and i observed.
He told me once that even if reincarnate as woman he would choose to have sex with women.
Anyway makes me wonder if he is.
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Why would he even have the thought to reincarnate as a woman? That's not coming in my brain. the dude is a fruit. But if u like him do u..
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He said even if he will reincrnate as woman he will choose to sleep only with women.
Because he loves women.
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I know but why even have the thought in ur head. and why is he asking another dude to fuck you and for him to join in with the possibility of two dicks touching each other.. that's gay.. u like dick so u dnt really care I kno but I'm just sayin I know for a fact he's every woman but if that's what u like then that's what I love.
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If he is gay its big noooo for me.

Of course not.

Why if he is gay wanna have sex with me or another women?

Posted by icfml
Posted by Rania_1498
Posted by icfml
Posted by Rania_1498
Posted by icfml
This ain't Scorpio shit. this is gay shit.. ur dude is gay. leeave the nigga. what's wrong with u? u attracting gay niggas because u got masculine in you u gotta get rid of maybe.. this ain't no typical scorpio test shit, he just asked to get cucked.. I done cucked a dude before and he wanna watch.. he gay.. stop textin him


Oh .. i didnt think he is gay he doesnt give that vibe.
click to expand


He asked you to let another dude fuck you while he watches.. That's not gay?
click to expand


He said he wants us to have sex and he is participating to not only watching .
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oh nah.. yea he gay. are u gay?
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Ok calm down, Riley lol it’s 2024
Posted by icfml
Posted by Rania_1498
Posted by icfml
Posted by Rania_1498
Posted by icfml
This ain't Scorpio shit. this is gay shit.. ur dude is gay. leeave the nigga. what's wrong with u? u attracting gay niggas because u got masculine in you u gotta get rid of maybe.. this ain't no typical scorpio test shit, he just asked to get cucked.. I done cucked a dude before and he wanna watch.. he gay.. stop textin him


Oh .. i didnt think he is gay he doesnt give that vibe.
click to expand


He asked you to let another dude fuck you while he watches.. That's not gay?
click to expand


He said he wants us to have sex and he is participating to not only watching .
click to expand

oh nah.. yea he gay. are u gay?
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No am not gay
Posted by icfml
Posted by Rania_1498
Posted by icfml
Posted by Rania_1498
Posted by icfml
Posted by Rania_1498
Posted by icfml
Posted by Rania_1498
Posted by icfml
This ain't Scorpio shit. this is gay shit.. ur dude is gay. leeave the nigga. what's wrong with u? u attracting gay niggas because u got masculine in you u gotta get rid of maybe.. this ain't no typical scorpio test shit, he just asked to get cucked.. I done cucked a dude before and he wanna watch.. he gay.. stop textin him


Oh .. i didnt think he is gay he doesnt give that vibe.
click to expand


He asked you to let another dude fuck you while he watches.. That's not gay?
click to expand


I can feel if someone is gay.. he loves women from what ive noticed and i observed.
He told me once that even if reincarnate as woman he would choose to have sex with women.
Anyway makes me wonder if he is.
click to expand


Why would he even have the thought to reincarnate as a woman? That's not coming in my brain. the dude is a fruit. But if u like him do u..
click to expand


He said even if he will reincrnate as woman he will choose to sleep only with women.
Because he loves women.
click to expand


I know but why even have the thought in ur head. and why is he asking another dude to fuck you and for him to join in with the possibility of two dicks touching each other.. that's gay.. u like dick so u dnt really care I kno but I'm just sayin I know for a fact he's every woman but if that's what u like then that's what I love.
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If he is gay its big noooo for me.
Of course not.
Why if he is gay wanna have sex with me or another women?
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Because he's bixsexual but to me that's still gay
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How i will know if he is gay or bisexual.

He already told me he loves only women.

But how i will know ?
Oh God, both you and him and whoever the third person is is a complete train wreck.


You're hopeless.
Posted by WarAngel79
Oh God, both you and him and whoever the third person is is a complete train wreck.
You're hopeless.
I will never do it .. i cant and i dont like it
Why are you still even thinking and talking about this guy? He sounds like a complete mess 😐
You're disillusioned. Good, looks like your mind's already made up regarding this man.


As for you wondering about his motives and intentions. We don't fucking care, move on.


Our intention is to help, not pander to your fantasies and desire to see more than what's right in front of your face so you can keep obsessing over someone you're clearly not compatible with.


I'm calling out your BS and I'm not going to feed into it. If you recognize he's clearly not the one for you and say you're done, then be done.

Shut up already
Shut up already
Shut up already
Posted by MyStarsShine
Why are you still even thinking and talking about this guy? He sounds like a complete mess 😐
Just him?
Posted by Dastard2020
You're disillusioned. Good, looks like your mind's already made up regarding this man.
As for you wondering about his motives and intentions. We don't fucking care, move on.
Our intention is to help, not pander to your fantasies and desire to see more than what's right in front of your face so you can keep obsessing over someone you're clearly not compatible with.
I'm calling out your BS and I'm not going to feed into it. If you recognize he's clearly not the one for you and say you're done, then be done.

Ok
Lol
Posted by MrNobody
Lol



And why is it funny?
,🤣🤣🤣
Now he is calling and texting me ..

Asking where i am and asking me if am ok.

I lost intrest but am still thinking of him.

It seems like he was testing me.

I dont know
Posted by Walk_on_by
,🤣🤣🤣
I feel sad for u
I've been trolling on youuuuu


You've been trolling on meeeeee


Trolling together, in har-mo-nyy
You must of missed it, all the women got together and voted to not fuck men who act like this.


We are all just doing shit to make ourselves happy, till the men can figure it out and act right. put that energy into a garden, or planning a dope vacation.
Posted by Undine
I've been trolling on youuuuu
You've been trolling on meeeeee
Trolling together, in har-mo-nyy
Guys all i wanted is to understand scorpio

Men .

And you became so offensives most of you.

And judging.
Posted by Rania_1498
Now he is calling and texting me ..
Asking where i am and asking me if am ok.
I lost intrest but am still thinking of him.
It seems like he was testing me.
I dont know


Nobody. Fucking. Cares.


We aren't interested in taking on the role of your always available listener, doormat friend, crying shoulder, or therapist. Let alone indulge your need for drama and misery.


Grow the fuck up and cut your losses.
Posted by Dastard2020
Posted by Rania_1498
Now he is calling and texting me ..
Asking where i am and asking me if am ok.
I lost intrest but am still thinking of him.
It seems like he was testing me.
I dont know



Nobody. Fucking. Cares.
We aren't interested in taking on the role of your always available listener, doormat friend, crying shoulder, or therapist. Let alone indulge your need for drama and misery.
Grow the fuck up and cut your losses.
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I think u better tell this to urself
I had posted on this before, but I saw that you’ve also wrote about a Taurus you were seeing. It’s confusing because I can’t tell if the scorpio guy you’re with sensed that you’re also seeing other people, so that’s why he decided to play these games with you or what… I think first and foremost you have to decide whether or not you really want to be with this scorpio man.


To understand the behavior of a scorpio man, I mean, for the most part scorpios are all-or-nothing type of people. If they don’t like you, they really feel it with all their being and will not associate with you if they don’t have to (this includes at work or with family, let alone intimate relationships).


I think the fact that he still calls you, he is indecisive based on how you are with him (as mentioned before I think you were also entertaining a Taurus guy, and Scorpio’s don’t play that game).


I really think once you’ve decided whether or not to really be with this Scorpio, you need to be very direct with him. Scorpios appreciate direct, honest conversation. They need to be told what it is, like it is, and don’t have patience for anything outside of that. They need an anchor in their life, not wishy-washy people.


Knowing all of his placements would help me understand the type of Scorpio he is better.


You mentioned he is a Sagittarius moon. Sagittarius is a very free-roaming position, has almost no boundaries, and in the moon it’s a rather restless position. If he has something like moon in the 8th house, it’d make sense why he’s doing everything he’s doing because then it would mean he’s pushing your limits and testing you to find out what you’re all about (trying to uncover hidden things, etc.).


But if all you want to know is what Scorpio men are like you can also google it or post “What are Scorpio men like?” in the Scorpios forum without mentioning the details of your relationship so people on here don’t attack you.

Try to understand that what people on here are seeing is that you’re pretty much looking for relationship advice and then saying all you’re asking for is some pin-points on scorpio behavior when the people on here tell you you’re in the wrong. You come off confusing, which makes sense why he’s acting confusing as well.


Despite him trying to act out sexual fantasies, scorpios really do want all that but with 1 person and usually for life. But you’d have to get them on a deeper level. He probably feels like you’re playing games with him, so he’s playing games with you, despite maybe having at some point hoped for something different.


Hope this helps.


Posted by Walk_on_by
Shut up already
Three times for emphasis 😆
Sometimes overthinking causes one to lose sight of the important big picture.


He was never interested in a relationship with you. He just wants more sex. There’s nothing more to think about. Nothing more to wonder. The sooner you stop wondering, the faster it is for the next person to come along.
Posted by Rania_1498
Posted by MrNobody
Lol



And why is it funny?
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What a joke.
Posted by AquaClassy
Posted by therestheone
I had posted on this before, but I saw that you’ve also wrote about a Taurus you were seeing. It’s confusing because I can’t tell if the scorpio guy you’re with sensed that you’re also seeing other people, so that’s why he decided to play these games with you or what… I think first and foremost you have to decide whether or not you really want to be with this scorpio man.
To understand the behavior of a scorpio man, I mean, for the most part scorpios are all-or-nothing type of people. If they don’t like you, they really feel it with all their being and will not associate with you if they don’t have to (this includes at work or with family, let alone intimate relationships).
I think the fact that he still calls you, he is indecisive based on how you are with him (as mentioned before I think you were also entertaining a Taurus guy, and Scorpio’s don’t play that game).
I really think once you’ve decided whether or not to really be with this Scorpio, you need to be very direct with him. Scorpios appreciate direct, honest conversation. They need to be told what it is, like it is, and don’t have patience for anything outside of that. They need an anchor in their life, not wishy-washy people.
Knowing all of his placements would help me understand the type of Scorpio he is better.
You mentioned he is a Sagittarius moon. Sagittarius is a very free-roaming position, has almost no boundaries, and in the moon it’s a rather restless position. If he has something like moon in the 8th house, it’d make sense why he’s doing everything he’s doing because then it would mean he’s pushing your limits and testing you to find out what you’re all about (trying to uncover hidden things, etc.).
But if all you want to know is what Scorpio men are like you can also google it or post “What are Scorpio men like?” in the Scorpios forum without mentioning the details of your relationship so people on here don’t attack you.
Try to understand that what people on here are seeing is that you’re pretty much looking for relationship advice and then saying all you’re asking for is some pin-points on scorpio behavior when the people on here tell you you’re in the wrong. You come off confusing, which makes sense why he’s acting confusing as well.
Despite him trying to act out sexual fantasies, scorpios really do want all that but with 1 person and usually for life. But you’d have to get them on a deeper level. He probably feels like you’re playing games with him, so he’s playing games with you, despite maybe having at some point hoped for something different.
Hope this helps.


This! She’s manipulating and Scorpio see thru that very clearly
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Never cross my mind to manipulate him.

I was feeling paranoid and scared but i never had a single thought to manipulate someone ..

I dont even know how even if i could.
Posted by Rania_1498
I’ve had quite an intense experience with a Scorpio man I dated, and I wanted to share my story in hopes of gaining some clarity and possibly helping others who might be in a similar situation.
Initial Connection and Change
When we first got together, everything seemed promising.
We had great chemistry, and he asked for a commitment before we had sex. However, things took a drastic turn afterward.
He didn’t call or text, leaving me confused and hurt. When he finally reached out, he said he wanted to just be friends because he was afraid he might hurt me.

This sudden change was baffling.

Recently, he contacted me again, saying he loved the sex we had and how perfect I was for him in that aspect. He complimented me on being sensual, sexy, and natural. But then he claimed I didn’t understand him and felt that I didn’t experience pleasure or satisfaction with him.
Despite this, he asked me to be his partner again and expressed a desire to dominate me and try new things together.
Unexpected Proposal
To my shock, he proposed having sex with another man while he watched, insisting that I would enjoy it and he would be there with me. I firmly said no, explaining that I couldn’t and wouldn’t engage in sex with multiple men.
I made it clear that even if we decided to be friends with benefits, I wouldn’t seek out other partners.
If I ever fell in love with another man, I would stop seeing him.

He seemed to accept my boundaries but reiterated that he wanted me as his sex partner.
This left me feeling turned off and disinterested. Why is he behaving this way? Is this a test that Scorpio men often use before committing to a relationship, or is he just trying to use me?

He accused me of being manipulative and dishonest, claiming that my behavior after sex scared him and led him to suggest just being friends. Yet, he still wants to continue our sexual Insights
he has his Moon in Sagittarius, Venus in Virgo, and Mars in Scorpio. I wonder if these placements have anything to do with his behavior and mixed signals.
Conclusion
I’m left questioning his intentions and feeling disillusioned.
If anyone has insights into Scorpio men or similar experiences, I’d love to hear your thoughts. Is this a typical Scorpio test, or is he just using me for his own desires?
oh yeah that Venus in Virgo... he has some very specific kinks and being a cuck is one of them.


Y'all are not sexually compatible and he knows this. Even though Virgo is mutable, they can get very rigid in what they want.
Posted by LuckyLibra7
Posted by Rania_1498
I’ve had quite an intense experience with a Scorpio man I dated, and I wanted to share my story in hopes of gaining some clarity and possibly helping others who might be in a similar situation.
Initial Connection and Change
When we first got together, everything seemed promising.
We had great chemistry, and he asked for a commitment before we had sex. However, things took a drastic turn afterward.
He didn’t call or text, leaving me confused and hurt. When he finally reached out, he said he wanted to just be friends because he was afraid he might hurt me.

This sudden change was baffling.

Recently, he contacted me again, saying he loved the sex we had and how perfect I was for him in that aspect. He complimented me on being sensual, sexy, and natural. But then he claimed I didn’t understand him and felt that I didn’t experience pleasure or satisfaction with him.
Despite this, he asked me to be his partner again and expressed a desire to dominate me and try new things together.
Unexpected Proposal
To my shock, he proposed having sex with another man while he watched, insisting that I would enjoy it and he would be there with me. I firmly said no, explaining that I couldn’t and wouldn’t engage in sex with multiple men.
I made it clear that even if we decided to be friends with benefits, I wouldn’t seek out other partners.
If I ever fell in love with another man, I would stop seeing him.

He seemed to accept my boundaries but reiterated that he wanted me as his sex partner.
This left me feeling turned off and disinterested. Why is he behaving this way? Is this a test that Scorpio men often use before committing to a relationship, or is he just trying to use me?

He accused me of being manipulative and dishonest, claiming that my behavior after sex scared him and led him to suggest just being friends. Yet, he still wants to continue our sexual Insights
he has his Moon in Sagittarius, Venus in Virgo, and Mars in Scorpio. I wonder if these placements have anything to do with his behavior and mixed signals.
Conclusion
I’m left questioning his intentions and feeling disillusioned.
If anyone has insights into Scorpio men or similar experiences, I’d love to hear your thoughts. Is this a typical Scorpio test, or is he just using me for his own desires?


oh yeah that Venus in Virgo... he has some very specific kinks and being a cuck is one of them.
Y'all are not sexually compatible and he knows this. Even though Virgo is mutable, they can get very rigid in what they want.
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I have mars in scorpio 18 degree

Venus in capricorn

And he has mars in scorpio 15 degree

I checked we are compatible sexually..

And it was very intense the physical connection..

But if he sees that we are not its ok.

I m not contacting him anyway..

He still texting but i decided to move on
Posted by Rania_1498
Posted by LuckyLibra7
Posted by Rania_1498
I’ve had quite an intense experience with a Scorpio man I dated, and I wanted to share my story in hopes of gaining some clarity and possibly helping others who might be in a similar situation.
Initial Connection and Change
When we first got together, everything seemed promising.
We had great chemistry, and he asked for a commitment before we had sex. However, things took a drastic turn afterward.
He didn’t call or text, leaving me confused and hurt. When he finally reached out, he said he wanted to just be friends because he was afraid he might hurt me.

This sudden change was baffling.

Recently, he contacted me again, saying he loved the sex we had and how perfect I was for him in that aspect. He complimented me on being sensual, sexy, and natural. But then he claimed I didn’t understand him and felt that I didn’t experience pleasure or satisfaction with him.
Despite this, he asked me to be his partner again and expressed a desire to dominate me and try new things together.
Unexpected Proposal
To my shock, he proposed having sex with another man while he watched, insisting that I would enjoy it and he would be there with me. I firmly said no, explaining that I couldn’t and wouldn’t engage in sex with multiple men.
I made it clear that even if we decided to be friends with benefits, I wouldn’t seek out other partners.
If I ever fell in love with another man, I would stop seeing him.

He seemed to accept my boundaries but reiterated that he wanted me as his sex partner.
This left me feeling turned off and disinterested. Why is he behaving this way? Is this a test that Scorpio men often use before committing to a relationship, or is he just trying to use me?

He accused me of being manipulative and dishonest, claiming that my behavior after sex scared him and led him to suggest just being friends. Yet, he still wants to continue our sexual Insights
he has his Moon in Sagittarius, Venus in Virgo, and Mars in Scorpio. I wonder if these placements have anything to do with his behavior and mixed signals.
Conclusion
I’m left questioning his intentions and feeling disillusioned.
If anyone has insights into Scorpio men or similar experiences, I’d love to hear your thoughts. Is this a typical Scorpio test, or is he just using me for his own desires?


oh yeah that Venus in Virgo... he has some very specific kinks and being a cuck is one of them.
Y'all are not sexually compatible and he knows this. Even though Virgo is mutable, they can get very rigid in what they want.
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I have mars in scorpio 18 degree
Venus in capricorn
And he has mars in scorpio 15 degree
I checked we are compatible sexually..
And it was very intense the physical connection..
But if he sees that we are not its ok.
I m not contacting him anyway..
He still texting but i decided to move on
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You’re not sexually compatible if you want different things.
Posted by Rania_1498
Posted by LuckyLibra7
Posted by Rania_1498
I’ve had quite an intense experience with a Scorpio man I dated, and I wanted to share my story in hopes of gaining some clarity and possibly helping others who might be in a similar situation.
Initial Connection and Change
When we first got together, everything seemed promising.
We had great chemistry, and he asked for a commitment before we had sex. However, things took a drastic turn afterward.
He didn’t call or text, leaving me confused and hurt. When he finally reached out, he said he wanted to just be friends because he was afraid he might hurt me.

This sudden change was baffling.

Recently, he contacted me again, saying he loved the sex we had and how perfect I was for him in that aspect. He complimented me on being sensual, sexy, and natural. But then he claimed I didn’t understand him and felt that I didn’t experience pleasure or satisfaction with him.
Despite this, he asked me to be his partner again and expressed a desire to dominate me and try new things together.
Unexpected Proposal
To my shock, he proposed having sex with another man while he watched, insisting that I would enjoy it and he would be there with me. I firmly said no, explaining that I couldn’t and wouldn’t engage in sex with multiple men.
I made it clear that even if we decided to be friends with benefits, I wouldn’t seek out other partners.
If I ever fell in love with another man, I would stop seeing him.

He seemed to accept my boundaries but reiterated that he wanted me as his sex partner.
This left me feeling turned off and disinterested. Why is he behaving this way? Is this a test that Scorpio men often use before committing to a relationship, or is he just trying to use me?

He accused me of being manipulative and dishonest, claiming that my behavior after sex scared him and led him to suggest just being friends. Yet, he still wants to continue our sexual Insights
he has his Moon in Sagittarius, Venus in Virgo, and Mars in Scorpio. I wonder if these placements have anything to do with his behavior and mixed signals.
Conclusion
I’m left questioning his intentions and feeling disillusioned.
If anyone has insights into Scorpio men or similar experiences, I’d love to hear your thoughts. Is this a typical Scorpio test, or is he just using me for his own desires?


oh yeah that Venus in Virgo... he has some very specific kinks and being a cuck is one of them.
Y'all are not sexually compatible and he knows this. Even though Virgo is mutable, they can get very rigid in what they want.
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I have mars in scorpio 18 degree
Venus in capricorn
And he has mars in scorpio 15 degree
I checked we are compatible sexually..
And it was very intense the physical connection..
But if he sees that we are not its ok.
I m not contacting him anyway..
He still texting but i decided to move on
click to expand
You’re not sexually compatible if you want different things.
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Rania_1498
Posted by LuckyLibra7
Posted by Rania_1498
I’ve had quite an intense experience with a Scorpio man I dated, and I wanted to share my story in hopes of gaining some clarity and possibly helping others who might be in a similar situation.
Initial Connection and Change
When we first got together, everything seemed promising.
We had great chemistry, and he asked for a commitment before we had sex. However, things took a drastic turn afterward.
He didn’t call or text, leaving me confused and hurt. When he finally reached out, he said he wanted to just be friends because he was afraid he might hurt me.

This sudden change was baffling.

Recently, he contacted me again, saying he loved the sex we had and how perfect I was for him in that aspect. He complimented me on being sensual, sexy, and natural. But then he claimed I didn’t understand him and felt that I didn’t experience pleasure or satisfaction with him.
Despite this, he asked me to be his partner again and expressed a desire to dominate me and try new things together.
Unexpected Proposal
To my shock, he proposed having sex with another man while he watched, insisting that I would enjoy it and he would be there with me. I firmly said no, explaining that I couldn’t and wouldn’t engage in sex with multiple men.
I made it clear that even if we decided to be friends with benefits, I wouldn’t seek out other partners.
If I ever fell in love with another man, I would stop seeing him.

He seemed to accept my boundaries but reiterated that he wanted me as his sex partner.
This left me feeling turned off and disinterested. Why is he behaving this way? Is this a test that Scorpio men often use before committing to a relationship, or is he just trying to use me?

He accused me of being manipulative and dishonest, claiming that my behavior after sex scared him and led him to suggest just being friends. Yet, he still wants to continue our sexual Insights
he has his Moon in Sagittarius, Venus in Virgo, and Mars in Scorpio. I wonder if these placements have anything to do with his behavior and mixed signals.
Conclusion
I’m left questioning his intentions and feeling disillusioned.
If anyone has insights into Scorpio men or similar experiences, I’d love to hear your thoughts. Is this a typical Scorpio test, or is he just using me for his own desires?


oh yeah that Venus in Virgo... he has some very specific kinks and being a cuck is one of them.
Y'all are not sexually compatible and he knows this. Even though Virgo is mutable, they can get very rigid in what they want.
click to expand


I have mars in scorpio 18 degree
Venus in capricorn
And he has mars in scorpio 15 degree
I checked we are compatible sexually..
And it was very intense the physical connection..
But if he sees that we are not its ok.
I m not contacting him anyway..
He still texting but i decided to move on
click to expand

You’re not sexually compatible if you want different things.
click to expand
Yes i know .. i think he was testing me. Anyway i moved on
Posted by Rania_1498
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Rania_1498
Posted by LuckyLibra7
Posted by Rania_1498
I’ve had quite an intense experience with a Scorpio man I dated, and I wanted to share my story in hopes of gaining some clarity and possibly helping others who might be in a similar situation.
Initial Connection and Change
When we first got together, everything seemed promising.
We had great chemistry, and he asked for a commitment before we had sex. However, things took a drastic turn afterward.
He didn’t call or text, leaving me confused and hurt. When he finally reached out, he said he wanted to just be friends because he was afraid he might hurt me.

This sudden change was baffling.

Recently, he contacted me again, saying he loved the sex we had and how perfect I was for him in that aspect. He complimented me on being sensual, sexy, and natural. But then he claimed I didn’t understand him and felt that I didn’t experience pleasure or satisfaction with him.
Despite this, he asked me to be his partner again and expressed a desire to dominate me and try new things together.
Unexpected Proposal
To my shock, he proposed having sex with another man while he watched, insisting that I would enjoy it and he would be there with me. I firmly said no, explaining that I couldn’t and wouldn’t engage in sex with multiple men.
I made it clear that even if we decided to be friends with benefits, I wouldn’t seek out other partners.
If I ever fell in love with another man, I would stop seeing him.

He seemed to accept my boundaries but reiterated that he wanted me as his sex partner.
This left me feeling turned off and disinterested. Why is he behaving this way? Is this a test that Scorpio men often use before committing to a relationship, or is he just trying to use me?

He accused me of being manipulative and dishonest, claiming that my behavior after sex scared him and led him to suggest just being friends. Yet, he still wants to continue our sexual Insights
he has his Moon in Sagittarius, Venus in Virgo, and Mars in Scorpio. I wonder if these placements have anything to do with his behavior and mixed signals.
Conclusion
I’m left questioning his intentions and feeling disillusioned.
If anyone has insights into Scorpio men or similar experiences, I’d love to hear your thoughts. Is this a typical Scorpio test, or is he just using me for his own desires?


oh yeah that Venus in Virgo... he has some very specific kinks and being a cuck is one of them.
Y'all are not sexually compatible and he knows this. Even though Virgo is mutable, they can get very rigid in what they want.
click to expand


I have mars in scorpio 18 degree
Venus in capricorn
And he has mars in scorpio 15 degree
I checked we are compatible sexually..
And it was very intense the physical connection..
But if he sees that we are not its ok.
I m not contacting him anyway..
He still texting but i decided to move on
click to expand


You’re not sexually compatible if you want different things.
click to expand

Yes i know .. i think he was testing me. Anyway i moved on
click to expand
Stay away from him, he sounds like a head fuck🤯
I’m going to be nice here and tell you to work on your poor self-esteem. The issue is you and your lack of self-worth. Until you fix that, stay away from men.


It doesn’t matter and shouldn’t matter if his degrading behaviour is a test or not! The moment anyone makes a degrading and indecent request of you, making you feel like a sex object and nothing more, you need to cut them out. Also, if you’re over 30 and asking Internet strangers why this man is behaving the way he is, you also lack emotional maturity. You know exactly why he returns and even bothers to compliment you.
I’m going to be nice here and tell you to work on your poor self-esteem. The issue is you and your lack of self-worth. Until you fix that, stay away from men.


It doesn’t matter and shouldn’t matter if his degrading behaviour is a test or not! The moment anyone makes a degrading and indecent request of you, making you feel like a sex object and nothing more, you need to cut them out. Also, if you’re over 30 and asking Internet strangers why this man is behaving the way he is, you also lack emotional maturity. You know exactly why he returns and even bothers to compliment you.
Posted by Rania_1498
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Rania_1498
Posted by LuckyLibra7
Posted by Rania_1498
I’ve had quite an intense experience with a Scorpio man I dated, and I wanted to share my story in hopes of gaining some clarity and possibly helping others who might be in a similar situation.
Initial Connection and Change
When we first got together, everything seemed promising.
We had great chemistry, and he asked for a commitment before we had sex. However, things took a drastic turn afterward.
He didn’t call or text, leaving me confused and hurt. When he finally reached out, he said he wanted to just be friends because he was afraid he might hurt me.

This sudden change was baffling.

Recently, he contacted me again, saying he loved the sex we had and how perfect I was for him in that aspect. He complimented me on being sensual, sexy, and natural. But then he claimed I didn’t understand him and felt that I didn’t experience pleasure or satisfaction with him.
Despite this, he asked me to be his partner again and expressed a desire to dominate me and try new things together.
Unexpected Proposal
To my shock, he proposed having sex with another man while he watched, insisting that I would enjoy it and he would be there with me. I firmly said no, explaining that I couldn’t and wouldn’t engage in sex with multiple men.
I made it clear that even if we decided to be friends with benefits, I wouldn’t seek out other partners.
If I ever fell in love with another man, I would stop seeing him.

He seemed to accept my boundaries but reiterated that he wanted me as his sex partner.
This left me feeling turned off and disinterested. Why is he behaving this way? Is this a test that Scorpio men often use before committing to a relationship, or is he just trying to use me?

He accused me of being manipulative and dishonest, claiming that my behavior after sex scared him and led him to suggest just being friends. Yet, he still wants to continue our sexual Insights
he has his Moon in Sagittarius, Venus in Virgo, and Mars in Scorpio. I wonder if these placements have anything to do with his behavior and mixed signals.
Conclusion
I’m left questioning his intentions and feeling disillusioned.
If anyone has insights into Scorpio men or similar experiences, I’d love to hear your thoughts. Is this a typical Scorpio test, or is he just using me for his own desires?


oh yeah that Venus in Virgo... he has some very specific kinks and being a cuck is one of them.
Y'all are not sexually compatible and he knows this. Even though Virgo is mutable, they can get very rigid in what they want.
click to expand


I have mars in scorpio 18 degree
Venus in capricorn
And he has mars in scorpio 15 degree
I checked we are compatible sexually..
And it was very intense the physical connection..
But if he sees that we are not its ok.
I m not contacting him anyway..
He still texting but i decided to move on
click to expand


You’re not sexually compatible if you want different things.
click to expand

Yes i know .. i think he was testing me. Anyway i moved on
click to expand
If you truly had moved on as you say:


Why are you still thinking/wondering about him?

Why are you asking about him and our take on his intentions on a forum?

Why are you still responding to a thread dedicated to him?

Why are you bringing up your sexual compatibility and synastry with him?

Why do you still care whether he's testing you?

Why are you still reading his text messages?

Why are you still keeping us updated on what's his latest move?

Why haven't you blocked him?


...lol
I think you should get married...you seemed to want to be miserable with a dude that giving all kinds of red flags...might as well make it semipermanent. Go ahead and have a baby with him too...that way you're always be tied.
Posted by aquarius09
I’m going to be nice here and tell you to work on your poor self-esteem. The issue is you and your lack of self-worth. Until you fix that, stay away from men.
It doesn’t matter and shouldn’t matter if his degrading behaviour is a test or not! The moment anyone makes a degrading and indecent request of you, making you feel like a sex object and nothing more, you need to cut them out. Also, if you’re over 30 and asking Internet strangers why this man is behaving the way he is, you also lack emotional maturity. You know exactly why he returns and even bothers to compliment you.
👏👏👏
I feel like commenters on here should chill. If you ever been with a scorpio they can be confusing as fuuuuu… So OP asking about it clearly mean she not over it, and wants to know others’ experiences with scorpios as well as about them in detail.


But OP I did ask you about the houses cause I feel like I can help with that. At least from astrological perspective to help you understand him better.


On a more personal note, I did mention before, it’s better you be direct with him like don’t play with him. Things looking messy already
Posted by Dastard2020
Posted by Rania_1498
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Rania_1498
Posted by LuckyLibra7
Posted by Rania_1498
I’ve had quite an intense experience with a Scorpio man I dated, and I wanted to share my story in hopes of gaining some clarity and possibly helping others who might be in a similar situation.
Initial Connection and Change
When we first got together, everything seemed promising.
We had great chemistry, and he asked for a commitment before we had sex. However, things took a drastic turn afterward.
He didn’t call or text, leaving me confused and hurt. When he finally reached out, he said he wanted to just be friends because he was afraid he might hurt me.

This sudden change was baffling.

Recently, he contacted me again, saying he loved the sex we had and how perfect I was for him in that aspect. He complimented me on being sensual, sexy, and natural. But then he claimed I didn’t understand him and felt that I didn’t experience pleasure or satisfaction with him.
Despite this, he asked me to be his partner again and expressed a desire to dominate me and try new things together.
Unexpected Proposal
To my shock, he proposed having sex with another man while he watched, insisting that I would enjoy it and he would be there with me. I firmly said no, explaining that I couldn’t and wouldn’t engage in sex with multiple men.
I made it clear that even if we decided to be friends with benefits, I wouldn’t seek out other partners.
If I ever fell in love with another man, I would stop seeing him.

He seemed to accept my boundaries but reiterated that he wanted me as his sex partner.
This left me feeling turned off and disinterested. Why is he behaving this way? Is this a test that Scorpio men often use before committing to a relationship, or is he just trying to use me?

He accused me of being manipulative and dishonest, claiming that my behavior after sex scared him and led him to suggest just being friends. Yet, he still wants to continue our sexual Insights
he has his Moon in Sagittarius, Venus in Virgo, and Mars in Scorpio. I wonder if these placements have anything to do with his behavior and mixed signals.
Conclusion
I’m left questioning his intentions and feeling disillusioned.
If anyone has insights into Scorpio men or similar experiences, I’d love to hear your thoughts. Is this a typical Scorpio test, or is he just using me for his own desires?


oh yeah that Venus in Virgo... he has some very specific kinks and being a cuck is one of them.
Y'all are not sexually compatible and he knows this. Even though Virgo is mutable, they can get very rigid in what they want.
click to expand


I have mars in scorpio 18 degree
Venus in capricorn
And he has mars in scorpio 15 degree
I checked we are compatible sexually..
And it was very intense the physical connection..
But if he sees that we are not its ok.
I m not contacting him anyway..
He still texting but i decided to move on
click to expand


You’re not sexually compatible if you want different things.
click to expand


Yes i know .. i think he was testing me. Anyway i moved on
click to expand

If you truly had moved on as you say:
Why are you still thinking/wondering about him?
Why are you asking about him and our take on his intentions on a forum?
Why are you still responding to a thread dedicated to him?
Why are you bringing up your sexual compatibility and synastry with him?
Why do you still care whether he's testing you?
Why are you still reading his text messages?
Why are you still keeping us updated on what's his latest move?
Why haven't you blocked him?
...lol
click to expand
Am just answering those who replied to me.

Relax .. whats wrong with u? Why u are so agressive? If u dont like my post or the subject just move on

You are putting so much energy its not worth it.

Am just curious here.

And you keep checking my replies.

Posted by LostinmyMind11
I think you should get married...you seemed to want to be miserable with a dude that giving all kinds of red flags...might as well make it semipermanent. Go ahead and have a baby with him too...that way you're always be tied.
Ok thx
Posted by therestheone
I feel like commenters on here should chill. If you ever been with a scorpio they can be confusing as fuuuuu… So OP asking about it clearly mean she not over it, and wants to know others’ experiences with scorpios as well as about them in detail.
But OP I did ask you about the houses cause I feel like I can help with that. At least from astrological perspective to help you understand him better.
On a more personal note, I did mention before, it’s better you be direct with him like don’t play with him. Things looking messy already
He actually kept calling and texting, and I didn't reply.

Then he showed up this afternoon and told me he hates how stubborn I am and that I can't listen.


He said he wants me to love myself more and not be so hard on myself. He said he wants me and can't connect physically without an emotional connection.


I told him I feel the same way.


He said he hated how I still talk about my ex and that I'm still dating other men.

told him I'm not seeing anyone and asked where he got this information from.

He said he felt like I was seeing other people, but I assured him I'm not.


He said if we're going to have sex, he wants us to be exclusive with no other partners.


I told him that was what I wanted until he became distant and cold, changing his mind every two minutes—one minute wanting us to be together, the next wanting to be just friends, and then just wanting sex.


He said he was observing my behavior to be sure. That pissed me off, and I was so angry that I told him I'm not comfortable being around him anymore.

Posted by therestheone
I feel like commenters on here should chill. If you ever been with a scorpio they can be confusing as fuuuuu… So OP asking about it clearly mean she not over it, and wants to know others’ experiences with scorpios as well as about them in detail.
But OP I did ask you about the houses cause I feel like I can help with that. At least from astrological perspective to help you understand him better.
On a more personal note, I did mention before, it’s better you be direct with him like don’t play with him. Things looking messy already
He has scopio 10th house at 15 .29 degree

Moon in Sagittarius 11th house

Mercury in saggitarius 11th house 5 degree

Mars in scorpio 10th house 15.29 degree

Venus in virgo 9th house 29 degree


I have sun in capricorn 8th house 24 degree

Moon in pisces in the 10th house 15 degree

Mercury in capricorn 8th house 13 degree

Venus in capricorn 8th house 22.51 degree

Mars in scorpio 6th house 18.48degree




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