I am a Virgo woman approaching a year with a Scorpio man (he has his moon in Virgo, Capricorn ascendant). He shares a house with his twin brother and their younger sister. Two weeks ago, my man and his sister had a falling out. He called me in a rage and said he needed to get out of there and could he spend the night at mine. I agreed. He arrived with packed luggage and many changes of clothes. He ended up staying with me. It was very nice, we had fun, amazing sex each night, he was sweet and romantic. I felt a little constrained. My rising and moon are Aries, so I do like a little freedom, but I love him and loved coming home to him.
Yesterday, he nonchalantly announces that he feels he should go back to his home as he feels his sister has calmed down and all is well. I was stunned, but I have no idea why I was so shocked really. He wasn't moving in with me, just staying for a little while and he obviously feels like it's time to go home. Things were a little strained between us last night because I didn't know how to take it and he was brusgue with me leaving this morning, though an hour later, he called me from a blocked number to my work phone to ask if I got to work okay. That was the first of nine phone calls I got from him, all from different numbers - I didn't answer all of them because I was busy and didn't recognize the numbers, but I did pick up three of his calls and he said it was him calling the other times but no mention of why he used other phone numbers.
Anyway, I am torn. Is this some Scorpio "test"? Was he expecting me to beg him not to go? I could use a quiet night and he looooooooves his privacy and space and time to recharge. I also like his sister and am glad things are patched up between them, because he was so angry, he only spent one hour at thanksgiving with them. But I am unsure what to do now. He left four shirts and his watch at my place, so he's coming back - I think. Maybe it is just the abruptness of it all. I feel like this is good since he'll have time and space to miss me, since for two weeks he was on me like white on rice. Could he just need time to recharge? Thanks for any advice.
Well I honestly don't know what the problem is. He was eventually gonna go back to HIS HOME....WHERE HE HAS HIS BELONGINGS AND EVERYTHING ELSE HE NEEDS TO LIVE.
Madge, it's a Scorpio thing to not depend on others IN ANY WAY, but the trouble is that they do secretly want the appreciation, adoration and love (If not Insane Devotion & Blind Worship!!!) from the one they love..
Maybe you should have told him that you felt bad he was leaving & that you understood why he wanted to coz his siblings are important to him, etc..
I guess he wanted to see your reaction and wanted to hear you say that you loved the time he spent with you and you were sad he considered leaving (and if possible go Vivien Leigh on him and shed a tear or two and tell him how heart-broken you were that he even considered leaving!!!😉 ) etc, etc..
Anyways, Scorps are very sensitive and can get real moody when they feel hurt (even if it is in their imagination and none was intended!!)
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Yesterday, he nonchalantly announces that he feels he should go back to his home as he feels his sister has calmed down and all is well. I was stunned, but I have no idea why I was so shocked really. He wasn't moving in with me, just staying for a little while and he obviously feels like it's time to go home. Things were a little strained between us last night because I didn't know how to take it and he was brusgue with me leaving this morning, though an hour later, he called me from a blocked number to my work phone to ask if I got to work okay. That was the first of nine phone calls I got from him, all from different numbers - I didn't answer all of them because I was busy and didn't recognize the numbers, but I did pick up three of his calls and he said it was him calling the other times but no mention of why he used other phone numbers.
Anyway, I am torn. Is this some Scorpio "test"? Was he expecting me to beg him not to go? I could use a quiet night and he looooooooves his privacy and space and time to recharge. I also like his sister and am glad things are patched up between them, because he was so angry, he only spent one hour at thanksgiving with them. But I am unsure what to do now. He left four shirts and his watch at my place, so he's coming back - I think. Maybe it is just the abruptness of it all. I feel like this is good since he'll have time and space to miss me, since for two weeks he was on me like white on rice. Could he just need time to recharge? Thanks for any advice.