My Scorpio says she needs space to get her self together. Will she ever come back to me?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by smithk0290 on Monday, June 12, 2017 and has 9 replies.
First off i'm a female Aquarius. My female scorpio recently broke up with me and her reason for breaking up is that she needs to get her self together and be selfish for once. We've been together for almost two year, we argue like all couples but the month of May was a war zone for us. I even told her at one point that i needed space and that I wasn't sure if we should go on. I though about it and while i meant it then I don't see myself being with anyone but her. She's worth always fight for. I've asked her for a second chance and her initial response was that she doesn't think she can do it (us) anymore. We've been "broken up" for two weeks now. I've asked her if when she's ready to be in a relationship again if she'll give us another chance first, she said she'll think about it. I trust that she's actually thinking about it.


We live together, sleep in the same bed, cook for each other still its been hard. We're thinking about being each others roommates at a next space. Im always texting her still and because of this she says that i'm not giving her her space... but damn she's like my best friend.


I know scorpios have a lot of emotions and can be unsure of their feelings at times, and she says she needs the space to figure out what she wants.


Sociopos!!! Do you think she'll ever give me her heart again? I know i've hurt her but i also know that she trusts my sincerities.
first things first, if she is asking you to give her space, give her space. Texting her everyday is not good and can actually push her father away. I've learned this with no matter what sign you're dealing with.


Second, I know it's difficult but you need to find some other things like hobbies to keep your mind busy and off of her. I honestly hope she comes back to you. But give her space first. Don't pressure her
Don't sign another lease with her as roommates. The only thing more painful than knowing your ex is out there fucking other people is watching them bring those other people home.


Don't do it.
Posted by Scorpio123
When Scorpio writes you off that's it, we don't walk away unless it's completely over for us. I'm sorry, just give her the space and time she needs and try to move on for now.


I don't think she has written me off. she said she needs space to figure out what she wants. and i don't think she has walked away either.


She could have moved out, blocked me, be completely ignoring me. When a scorpio doesn't fuk with you, you feel it. she'll still call me to meet her somewhere afterwork and ask me for social advice in the work place, we're still paying bills together and she still buys me food if she thinks i haven't eaten.
Posted by smithk0290
Posted by Scorpio123
When Scorpio writes you off that's it, we don't walk away unless it's completely over for us. I'm sorry, just give her the space and time she needs and try to move on for now.


I don't think she has written me off. she said she needs space to figure out what she wants. and i don't think she has walked away either.


She could have moved out, blocked me, be completely ignoring me. When a scorpio doesn't fuk with you, you feel it. she'll still call me to meet her somewhere afterwork and ask me for social advice in the work place, we're still paying bills together and she still buys me food if she thinks i haven't eaten.
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Very curios for answers to this from Scorpios.
It depends honestly.

Are you overbearing?
Posted by TachibanaSan
It depends honestly.

Are you overbearing?
If Im being honest, yes, I can be. When i'm jealous, definitely. I can also be very protective.
Posted by smithk0290
Posted by TachibanaSan
It depends honestly.

Are you overbearing?
If Im being honest, yes, I can be. When i'm jealous, definitely. I can also be very protective.
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For us Scorpios,

simply too much.

We do need space

and also the trust.

If we do not have,

we will find the exit.


At this point she will

weight good and bad

of time being with you.

Her answer will tell you

if your union was worthy.
in reality of this coupling,

It can be possible to save,

but it will take some effort.


If she decides to come back,

treat her as a capable person

who does not need any shelving.

Key is, make her miss you really.


Give her space and the self time.

She will appreciate your changes.

I am married but still need space.

My husband does understand this.

Love each other, don't overshadow.

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