Need advice
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by BlueSabbath on Monday, July 18, 2016 and has 6 replies.
I'm talking to this scorpio woman and I actually really like her. We met at a friends birthday party around end of may. And we've been seeing each other alot. But lately because of my new job for the past three weeks in haven't been able to spend time and go out with her. We did hook up the other weekend but she suggested it. That day I had to work and so she came over early in the morning.. we were laying together for a while but then I told her I had to go so she had to too. And all of a sudden she gets very stiff and jumps up, gets dressed and is ready to walk out the door if i hadn't stopped her. I asked what's wrong? She said she hoped I would call off work to be with her and I said no, especially since this job is fairly new. She said she understood and said she just missed seeing me. She was still looking sad and i offered to take her home on my way to work but she said no and had her roommate come get her. and I tried to text her later on that day but she never said anything. Back.
I figured she was still mad so I left her alone. Then today she text me and asked me if Im happy? I tried to call, she declined the call and text saying "Don't lead me on. Just be honest with me. Do you want to stop talking to me? If you do I understand but I hate men who can't be honest"
I asked what the hell she's talking about? And i only gave her some space, but she is the one who won't tell me what's really going on. Then she starts talking about some pictures she sent that I actually never received and how I didn't say anything about them. At this point I stopped trying to argue... I mean I like her and I'm trying to see what to do because I don't want to give up.. but this is the first time she's acted this way and im confused by it. Normally we talk and laugh and she's a really easy going person.
I figured she was still mad so I left her alone. Then today she text me and asked me if Im happy? I tried to call, she declined the call and text saying "Don't lead me on. Just be honest with me. Do you want to stop talking to me? If you do I understand but I hate men who can't be honest"
I asked what the hell she's talking about? And i only gave her some space, but she is the one who won't tell me what's really going on. Then she starts talking about some pictures she sent that I actually never received and how I didn't say anything about them. At this point I stopped trying to argue... I mean I like her and I'm trying to see what to do because I don't want to give up.. but this is the first time she's acted this way and im confused by it. Normally we talk and laugh and she's a really easy going person.
BS...if it is starting like this...beware of the whats will come next.
Driving you crazy from this early is a bad sign.
Unless you are strong enough to take it. Good Luck.
Driving you crazy from this early is a bad sign.
Unless you are strong enough to take it. Good Luck.
Posted by Gemitati
BS...if it is starting like this...beware of the whats will come next.
Driving you crazy from this early is a bad sign.
Unless you are strong enough to take it. Good Luck.
The best answer. Scorpio girls are intense, they're not a joke. If u think you're ready go for it, but the chance is, it will be an emotional rollercoaster.
Okay, so to update, we did talk things over and the confusion and she told me that she's not upset anymore, that she just wanted to make sense of everything. I told her I'm not talking to any other girls and she said she never asked if I was. I just told her the truth maybe to make her feel better? If she likes me still this should've made her happy... But she's definitely distant so maybe this is she doesn't believe me or trust me? I don't know. We made plans for the weekend and I'll see what happens then.
I'm getting one word answers from her.
I'm getting one word answers from her.
She's falling too fast for you and feels she needs to distance herself a bit.
She likes you obviously but doesn think you like her sense you REASONABLY chose to go to work and not blow it off to stay in bed with her all day.
She sounds unreasonable and clingy. Give it a try if ya want.
She sounds unreasonable and clingy. Give it a try if ya want.
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