I need some advice. I am a Sagittarius guy and I just recently started talking to a Scorpio woman. So we have known each other from her coming into my former place of work and saying hi. She had a bf and the time so I never got the chance to really pursue her. Although near the end of her relationship, we did go out on a date. It was great for both of us but as I mentioned before her bf kept her from doing anything more. Afterwards, some years go by without much communication. So just recently we got back into contact with each other. We went out on an few dates, I visited her home, everything was good. We used to text everyday and even end the night with phone calls. One day I get mad at her and assumed that she was ignoring me because a few of my texts go unanswered. She doesn't say much about the little incident but now nothing is the same. She told me before she needed time for us, for herself. I stop contacting her and let a few days go by. She sends good morning so I'm assuming she has had some time to think about things. I ask questions about how she feels about us. She responds the next day saying I'm too invasive and nitpicks at everything she says. She only wanted small talk, and somehow It always ended up being about us. She says it's too bad because she likes me and if I would have given her more time it would have been a different outcome but doesn't think it will work out. The next day I text her just to see if she would respond and she did.
My question is should I still pursue her? She hasn't given me the complete scorpio freeze out. We are still friends on Facebook and like I said, she still responded to my text. Or should I just leave it alone? There has been no contact since my last text to see if she would respond.
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Jan 07, 2009Comments: 305 · Posts: 14219 · Topics: 239
pluto. lol. double trouble.
Patience is not really a big thing we sagittarius have. I feel like I have waited for years for this woman to be available. I am willing to wait for her more but my 'waiting' would consist of seeing other women. Im not sure how to just be her friend right now when currently we have no contact. Honestly I would stop talking to any other woman I was seeing if she decided she wanted to have something more. I have yet to see the jealous, possessive side of her yet so idk how that would work out but I really like this woman. I have heard many scorpio woman don't like guys to come on too strong initially, which I may have done, but it was reciprocated so everything was all good. I feel like if I completely ignore this woman and do what I do, then she'll come pursuing me. When she is ready for something serious I may just want not want a relationship, just sex because I kinda threw myself in head first which I never normally do. She really had me and I don't think she knew it. So maybe I should just leave the entire situation alone?
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Jun 25, 2012Comments: 19 · Posts: 19733 · Topics: 48
*eye roll* clumsy thumbs I hid my last post by mistake:
^^^It requires patience. Something you may need to develop. It works in your favour. As she opens up and begins to trust you she will be telling you indirectly how she feels and you can change gears. Before you do, be sure to talk to her about it to ensure you're both on the same page.
I am only suggesting this approach because she drew her line in the sand. To ignore that probably won't give you the results you desire. It also sounds like her decision to end things was more due to disappointment vs disinterest. Show her the other side of you---the side that wrote this thread, which Sags don't often do enough.
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Jan 07, 2009Comments: 305 · Posts: 14219 · Topics: 239
You don't have to wait for her. Or pursue her. Or understand her. Or be compatible with her.
Let your feeling for her lead you. Over the time.
You need to keep yourself together no matter what.
Try to clarify for yourself what was that you liked about her. The fact that she did judge you (challenge by provocation)? Her appearance? Her sex drive? Her healer soul? What was it what other girls don't have?