Need female advice

Ok, years ago there was this girl(scorpio) and I(cancer), we were great friends and neither of us made a move on one another. That happened for about 2-3 years, but here is the bad part. She became distant and was going off to college in a month and i had sex with her sister one time and i think she might have found out. She has graduated college and is back around now and I was wondering if she would ever forgive me? I know you wrong a scorpio and they're done, but we weren't together or anything. I am actually trying to pursue this girl now and seeking how another female scorpio would feel about this. I was younger and even more stupid then and now realize the gravity of my actions, even with the shoe being on the other foot I wouldn't really be able to forgive another person for that. Can you tell me what you think?

Posted by dan155
Ok, years ago there was this girl(scorpio) and I(cancer), we were great friends and neither of us made a move on one another. That happened for about 2-3 years, but here is the bad part. She became distant and was going off to college in a month and i had sex with her sister one time and i think she might have found out. She has graduated college and is back around now and I was wondering if she would ever forgive me? I know you wrong a scorpio and they're done, but we weren't together or anything. I am actually trying to pursue this girl now and seeking how another female scorpio would feel about this. I was younger and even more stupid then and now realize the gravity of my actions, even with the shoe being on the other foot I wouldn't really be able to forgive another person for that. Can you tell me what you think?

Prediction: Someone's going to start cryin' his eyes out.
Dan, you slept with her sister. Now you want her. That "distance" you felt earlier, should tell you something.

the distance was before the sex or anything between her sister and I happened

It is not even about you doing her wrong and her being done, It is a respect thing. She will never be able to look at you as a serious partner now that you have slept with her sister. Honestly, even if she liked you before, she will probably never look at you again in that way. It's not a choosing of hers, that's just how we work. There could be some exceptions, but for me personally I would have no interest in you romantically.

Posted by dan155
the distance was before the sex or anything between her sister and I happened

Dan... ask yourself a question. What happens when you put the shoe on the other foot—

Posted by jeannegrey

Posted by dan155
I was younger and even more stupid then and now realize the gravity of my actions, even with the shoe being on the other foot I wouldn't really be able to forgive another person for that. Can you tell me what you think?

Say the above! And say it from the heart, if you mean it and she feels it... and still wants you, you may be give a shot. We can be unforgiving, but we also pick and choose who is worthy of us and our forgiveness. But if you don't try, you won't know. 😉 good luck.

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There you go, Dan.. and wear your shoes on the wrong feet. Just like GW Bush!
You never know, it just might work.

thanks for the hope

Eh, more like a shit load of harm one way or the other, but must be tried.

Forget about her

Posted by dan155
Eh, more like a shit load of harm one way or the other, but must be tried.

Don't try Dan! DO!

Posted by jeannegrey
well, lol. jeez, I am like laughing out loud at my computer right now like a crazy person... but seriously, it JUST MIGHT. U never know!!! its a cancer/scorpio relationship for god's sake... LOL. that water bond is no joke!

Hmmm.... I wonder if Dan is clingy.

Hey Dan.. are you clingy?

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well, lol. jeez, I am like laughing out loud at my computer right now like a crazy person... but seriously, it JUST MIGHT. U never know!!! its a cancer/scorpio relationship for god's sake... LOL. that water bond is no joke!

Hmmm.... I wonder if Dan is clingy.

Its highly probable.

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The name escapes me but static cling towels are thrown in the dryer. Know the brand name?

Dan, you want to use some softener as well. - nothing like a scratchy girlfriend.

Dan, you're the man... just imagine yourself in that moment of unbridled intense wild-passion... you cry out...
"I just wanted to make love to you, honey! Not commit a self-sacrifice!"

You DO realize that we ARE talkin' about Lady Ferrari of the Zodiac.

1. You sound self centered.

2. Are you serious??

Posted by dan155
Ok, years ago there was this girl(scorpio) and I(cancer), we were great friends and neither of us made a move on one another. That happened for about 2-3 years, but here is the bad part. She became distant and was going off to college in a month and i had sex with her sister one time and i think she might have found out.

Why did YOU sleep with her sister?

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Posted by MrFirebird


You DO realize that we ARE talkin' about Lady Ferrari of the Zodiac.

OMG! LOL !!!! Tell that to the Bull who manhandled me this weekend! YOWZAS. NEVER, EVER IN MY LIFE had I EVER experienced anything like that.

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I'm sure you're having fun, now.

I think FB has a really good point there... I would feel the same about someone who had slept with a sister or a family member. Also, Dan, you seem a little soft. Scorpio Women need a Man that isn't going to let her walk all over him.

Posted by jeannegrey
😢 nevah!!

I know it's not a pleasant thought for you, certainly unimaginable, and this too, I surely understand.
Now, when I was your age, I certainly never imagined I'd be where I am today. Many things I have to let go.
But now, you're young and you'll have your fun. But some day, you'll spread your wings and fly away.

Lol, no, EllyBee! I agree with the points you made. The gif and my accompanying [#2] response were more the result of me subjectifying and personalizing the situation.

My #1 response was based off of the way the OP was phrased and the information it included. And it left me with some.. Questions...

I wasn't trying to imply he was a hooker. But I do think he's more than a mite selfish/self-oriented, and only taking himself into account.

Hey dan...

Visualize your brother on top of this Scorp humping away.

That is all it should take.

(key word..should)

Posted by LetltB
Hey dan...

Visualize your brother on top of this Scorp humping away.

That is all it should take.

(key word..should)

+1

(Who knows.... maybe Dan's brother already has.)

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😢 nevah!!

I know it's not a pleasant thought for you, certainly unimaginable, and this too, I surely understand.
Now, when I was your age, I certainly never imagined I'd be where I am today. Many things I have to let go.
But now, you're young and you'll have your fun. But some day, you'll spread your wings and fly away.

HA, the funny part about this ----is that this is what I tell people who are ten years my junior. And yes, I will..... but I won't stop caring. I just won't 🙂 and that's good with me.....

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I am the furthest thing from soft and clingy, dont get it mixed up, cancers get clinged upon, not the other way around. I would have to agree with sharing with friends and family, as this would make it impossible to me, for I am possessive. I am 28 years old and I know that the scorpio is the Ferrari of the zodiac and as I previously posted, I was dumb and didnt know the feelings i had for her till a year after. Everyone has the times when you don't know what you had, but no moves were made by either of us. I also had zero intention on getting with her sister that recently move home at the time, which while i was drunk, high, and also at a very bad point in my life, came at me like a hurricane. Like I said i was a dumb ass and made a retarded move by giving in. Thanks for your thoughts, I was hoping maybe a scorp would be little more forgiving than cancers.

Posted by dan155
I am the furthest thing from soft and clingy, dont get it mixed up, cancers get clinged upon, not the other way around. I would have to agree with sharing with friends and family, as this would make it impossible to me, for I am possessive. I am 28 years old and I know that the scorpio is the Ferrari of the zodiac and as I previously posted, I was dumb and didnt know the feelings i had for her till a year after. Everyone has the times when you don't know what you had, but no moves were made by either of us. I also had zero intention on getting with her sister that recently move home at the time, which while i was drunk, high, and also at a very bad point in my life, came at me like a hurricane. Like I said i was a dumb ass and made a retarded move by giving in. Thanks for your thoughts, I was hoping maybe a scorp would be little more forgiving than cancers.

Dan, since no moves were made by either of you, how can you say you don't know what you had? You didn't have anything!

Well, you miss them and move on, then after you get more and more sh1t people in and out of your life, you look back and realize who was the best. For me it was her as a person and wish I had made a move when my gf and I at the time broke up. After a breakup it takes me a while to get my head on stright, so I missed the chance.

I'm a cancer and it would weird me out if some guy who slept with my sister wanted to sleep with me at a later date. Nothing personal, just too...not quite incest, but...Yeah, it wouldn't happen.

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Posted by dan155
Well, you miss them and move on, then after you get more and more sh1t people in and out of your life, you look back and realize who was the best. For me it was her as a person and wish I had made a move when my gf and I at the time broke up. After a breakup it takes me a while to get my head on stright, so I missed the chance.

AHHHHKKKK !!! why do men take so long to figure sh1t out!!!!! ?? This kills me. Like, if I have feelings for someone, I know! RIGHT AWAY! jeez... Dan.

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Told ya, Dan.
Even your biggest supporter is starting to ask questions.

Posted by MoonArtist
I'm a cancer and it would weird me out if some guy who slept with my sister wanted to sleep with me at a later date. Nothing personal, just too...not quite incest, but...Yeah, it wouldn't happen.

Moon.... have you ever heard of the kind of sense of humor that no one picks up on— And the joker thinks
he has everyone fooled? Only a wicked but subtle sense of humor would pick up on that from the start
and play along?

Tissue..., Dan?

Moon, would you mind escorting your Cancer brother back to the Crab Corral and rally for a moment of Cancerian hippitism. Dan needs an exorcism. I know your sense of humor is qualified to soften the fall from his new-found reality.
😉

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Posted by MoonArtist
I'm a cancer and it would weird me out if some guy who slept with my sister wanted to sleep with me at a later date. Nothing personal, just too...not quite incest, but...Yeah, it wouldn't happen.

Moon.... have you ever heard of the kind of sense of humor that no one picks up on— And the joker thinks
he has everyone fooled? Only a wicked but subtle sense of humor would pick up on that from the start
and play along?

Tissue..., Dan?

Moon, would you mind escorting your Cancer brother back to the Crab Corral and rally for a moment of Cancerian hippitism. Dan needs an exorcism. I know your sense of humor is qualified to soften the fall from his new-found reality.
😉

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Yes, I do know that sense of humor. His name hasn't been lost on me, either. I'm not sure I'm ready to laugh about the name just yet.

I hate to say it, but I sort of don't like the name Dan anymore. In fact, it sort of curdles my insides.

If I'm going to perform an exorcism I'm going to need a few things, especially for one of this nature. Who's ponying up for this?

Explain, apologize, kiss her hand, ride off into the sunset.

The sheer honorable mysteriousness might turn her on and make her go after you.
Don't turn around.

dan155,

She will forgive... but she is DONE! what else do you want.?

You cannot win back a Scorpio...it's a multiple task to do. IF it happens she will comeback...

I promise you it will never be the same again... she will leave you and caused you more pain.

Being Distant to Scorpio is a bad thing... unless she sees you as a "trophy'' but mostly

we don't take your $ 7hits...better we get healed and move on.

Scorpio will protect her sister. I am sure... this is a big deal to her.

If you try to win her back and do some moves... face with courage. You don't have idea how the

Scorpio get rage... lol. I warned you. lmao.

Posted by dan155I was hoping maybe a scorp would be little more forgiving than cancers.

I highly suggest you do some studying on Scorps...

Posted by dan155
Well, you miss them and move on, then after you get more and more sh1t people in and out of your life, you look back and realize who was the best. For me it was her as a person and wish I had made a move when my gf and I at the time broke up. After a breakup it takes me a while to get my head on stright, so I missed the chance.

As Mr.F would say... "Do you have any Libra in you?!" Gemini Perhaps?

Indecisive, maybe the grass is greener.... here's an interesting fact: Every guy I have had a relationship with has, at one time or another, wanted to come back. I can say that a great deal of persistence goes a long way, and make it good.

My advice to you and I hope it helps. If you do get her back remember what it was like without her all the time.

..... Hang on ..... need to clarify that I am not suggesting you become a stalker or anything cray cray like that. Here is what I meant specifically. If a man wants to re-connect with me I will make sure he is really and truly interested by blowing him off. Not just once, and not just twice, but more than a few and less than obsessive. Do you understand my meaning? If she is not enjoying your persistence and it is feeling 'negative' then you need to walk away.

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Posted by dan155I was hoping maybe a scorp would be little more forgiving than cancers.

I highly suggest you do some studying on Scorps...

Yea..... Scorp: the very definition of unforgiving a $ $ h0le...

although, Cancer can be quite unforngiving too... but I find they are easier to convince than Scorp 😢

Compared to the Crab, Scorp will actually lash back, so watch put for that.

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~whistling and walking away innocently~

Hey Yo, Dan!

Damn it. We are NOT CLINGY. Geez.

What makes you say that? Odd how people complain I'm distant/absent but you seem so sure I'm clingy. Can't be in those two different places at the same time.

Posted by Kim31
What makes you say that? Odd how people complain I'm distant/absent but you seem so sure I'm clingy. Can't be in those two different places at the same time.

Kim, do you by chance use Bounce Static Cling?

Posted by MrFirebird

Posted by Kim31
What makes you say that? Odd how people complain I'm distant/absent but you seem so sure I'm clingy. Can't be in those two different places at the same time.

Kim, do you by chance use Bounce Static Cling?

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Someone has your user name as a license plate. Tried to snap it for you but they pulled off too fast. Was most annoyed.

She may forgive but she will never forget so it will never be the same- the damage is done. A Scorpio is very intense and take choosing a mate very seriously - she would believe that you should have known the intensity and trueness of your feelings for her immediately, and thus not have committed an such an act with another (let alone her sister) She would always be secretly suspicious of the two of you if she and you connected - Scorpios are a jealous type. They have a deadly stinger after all- you will feel it with no mercy before any forgiveness even!