need scorp input?
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by veronica79 on Friday, November 11, 2011 and has 4 replies.
Will try to keep this short, even tho it's long story. Known my scorp/best friend for years, used to live by each other, I moved away many many years ago. Quit talking to him for about 10 years and found him again and it was like no days inbetween. We have been talking 5 or 6 years now again, and this summer was first time I actually got to see him again in 15 years.
He has always joked around about getting married over the years, least I thought he was joking. But the first night we saw each other again, only hung out an hour or 2 and next day he is calling me at 5am telling me he wants to get married before I leave town. Keep in mind we have never so much as kissed let alone anything else. I sort of blew it off and said not to tell me what he thinks I want to hear. Next day he wouldn't see me. Rest of the time there we didn't bring it up again, until I left town few days later and got halfway back to where I live (1100 miles), and he starts texting about how he didn't realize what he had til gone, and how he truly misses me, and how I'm only one he could possibly grow old with. This guy has had serious issues all over the place in the past, still some going on, but we have been close thru it all, even that far away. He has always been VERY shut up and unexpressive, and I'm not so much better being pisces sun/scorp moon, but still more expressive than he is. He has been manipulative in the past just because he knows I care, which is why I have always still have doubts, but I have ALWAYS been able to call him on bullshit in the past, even over the phone, he can't lie to me. And I don't honestly feel like he is lying or being manipulative necessarily, now.
My question is, is from Scorp point of view, I mean is that a normal thing, to ask your best friend to marry you after not seeing each other 15 years, after only a few hours? We still have not done anything physical at all. Think he is being sincere? He wants me to move there next summer. I have never brought up getting married, nothing, that was all his doing completely. Thoughts?
He has always joked around about getting married over the years, least I thought he was joking. But the first night we saw each other again, only hung out an hour or 2 and next day he is calling me at 5am telling me he wants to get married before I leave town. Keep in mind we have never so much as kissed let alone anything else. I sort of blew it off and said not to tell me what he thinks I want to hear. Next day he wouldn't see me. Rest of the time there we didn't bring it up again, until I left town few days later and got halfway back to where I live (1100 miles), and he starts texting about how he didn't realize what he had til gone, and how he truly misses me, and how I'm only one he could possibly grow old with. This guy has had serious issues all over the place in the past, still some going on, but we have been close thru it all, even that far away. He has always been VERY shut up and unexpressive, and I'm not so much better being pisces sun/scorp moon, but still more expressive than he is. He has been manipulative in the past just because he knows I care, which is why I have always still have doubts, but I have ALWAYS been able to call him on bullshit in the past, even over the phone, he can't lie to me. And I don't honestly feel like he is lying or being manipulative necessarily, now.
My question is, is from Scorp point of view, I mean is that a normal thing, to ask your best friend to marry you after not seeing each other 15 years, after only a few hours? We still have not done anything physical at all. Think he is being sincere? He wants me to move there next summer. I have never brought up getting married, nothing, that was all his doing completely. Thoughts?
I won't deny the fact that sometimes we are attracted to some signs very instantly e.g Pisces. But we don't fall in love for someone that easily and quickly, we are "just attracted" easily. So the attraction might go off after some time or grow out as Love in due time. So, it really depends.
Give it some time before you make any big move like marriage. Good Luck!
Give it some time before you make any big move like marriage. Good Luck!
But we don't fall in love for someone that easily and quickly, we are "just attracted" easily.
I would have to agree with that statement. It's very hard to to fall in love with someone so quickly. Although the fact that you two have known each other for so long can make it possible. But I would hold off on making any big commitments.
I would have to agree with that statement. It's very hard to to fall in love with someone so quickly. Although the fact that you two have known each other for so long can make it possible. But I would hold off on making any big commitments.
I did this to my pisces bf she got mad. He is serious all you guys say fall in love quickly hello they knew each other for a long time as she said they haven't seen each other for 15 years. when I like somebody I'm usually stuck on them if there not hurting me. He's sincere I did the same thing maybe not marry but he wants to be with you and sees a bright future
Scorpio and pisces are perfect for each other why not take the chance
Scorpio and pisces are perfect for each other why not take the chance
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