New issue. Scorpio bf is texting his ex

I didn't snoop, it's weird. He asked me to look through his texts to find a phone # and I saw all these texts from her. I didn't read them, just saw it was her name. I didn't say anything to him, which is dumb. I am trying to give him the benefit of the doubt which might also be dumb. Should I confront? She cheated on him many times and told him she was only ising him for money. I have no idea why he would want to text with her. We had a fight last night and later he texted me "I love you" but it said "duplicate message" over the top of the text, so now I'm wondering if he was texting that stuff to her and added me in as an afterthought.

Why would a Scorpio still want to keep in touch with someone who hurt and disrespected him and said she'd do it again bigger if she had the opportunity?

You might be right. I am in the dark as far as his motives, as well. They were coworkers. He told me he quit his job because she slept with so many guys there that he was made a laughinstock. Don't understand why he'd want to kep in touch.

Its obvious

He wanted to see how you would react. Testing whether or not you will show signs of jealousy...

I would have read the texts to see what was in it. Now if it were something bad I would definitely slap him and dump him.

Now you will never know what the texts said. I don't think he did it on purpose.

Cromwellmuse, no offense, but I'm really having trouble understanding your relationship with this man. You don't trust your importance to him to be able to communicate your feelings to him. Either that, or you don't trust him.

If it is either one of those reasons, you need to treat your "relationship" like an aquaintance, because you want to continue to protect yourself. It will never grow into anything deep or lasting -- just frustration and disappointment. Please take the time to self-examine yourself and discover who you are and what you want. He's not responsible for your growth or peace of mind.

((O)) hugs to you, I know it can be hard...

stop worrying about his motives, you'll never know. and stop focusing on her and what happened in their relationship. obviously she sucks, her problem, not yours. that said, he meant for you to see the texts. personally, i have a big problem with people trying to get a reaction out of me or test me because it feels manipulative and passive aggressive. if you are genuinely upset about this (it sounds like you are) i'd say something to the tune of "i think it's great that you're still friends with your ex and i know you wouldn't intentionally try to make me jealous but you need to be more thoughtful before asking me to go through your phone because this sucks"