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LakeLady
@LakeLady
16 YearsScorpio

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Hi everyone..

Well the story with my Virgo..gosh it began 20 yrs ago..lol..we were friends right out of high school..never connected on any other level..we both married had kids and both divorced..we recently reconnected 3 months ago....we started seeing each other and it has been a roller coaster ride for sure..we started out seeing each other for fun and didn't want a relationship really. It has progressed and we talked last week and agreed we both wanted to be exclusive and needed a relationship.

The main problem for me is that he is all attentive one week and the next he is quiet and acts like he couldn't care less...If I ask if something is wrong between us..he gets mad at me.. This just happened again tonight..So I have chosen to stay quiet from here on out about it..I guess as long as he says its okay, we must be okay. I mean generally when a guy acts standoffish..doesn't answer your calls or text you back at all.. the first thing you think is..there is someone else on the side and they are trying to slowly drift away from you..to get rid of you..

He can be super lovey dovey one day and quiet and moody the next with no warning...I will be acting exactly the same and he will be totally different..

We click well when we are together and have problems when we are apart it seems..I just know if I don't quit getting my doubts and questioning him, I will lose him..I have did it twice this week..I just wish I could get over this feeling..

I have grown to care very deeply about him..that is my main problem...lol..