Not all the same?

I'm starting to think not all signs are equal. My 2 best friends (A cancer and Pisces) are Aries rising, one with an Aries moon and one with Aquarius. Both act far more like their Aries counterparts than their water signs.

I used to hate scorpios due to past events, they ALL had a common trend. However, one completely threw me. I was in disbelief when I found out scorpio, I thought libra. He has very little water in him.

He's Scorpio sun; But his rising is Gemini, Libra moon(my moon), Libra mercury, and Virgo venus(love those) and Cancer mars (same as me).

Still deciding if this is a prospective love interest for me, but right now I am enjoying his company and friendship. Have not put much effort into dating, too busy!

But he's unique. 14 years my senior and very prominent in my unique social circle. He has many period clothes and will dress in full Victorian garbs and his whole house is like stepping into a time machine. I like the unique.

What do you think, not all scorpys alike?

He has alot of Air in the right places....

Clueless Cancer, the Capricorn was never anything. I didn't pursue him. We talked but he's proved his ass holeness and only wanting sex ever since I met him. I don't want anything to do with him.

I'm not dating anyone right now. I don't have many interests. This is just someone I am curious about. Nothing physical has taken place other than a chaste peck on the lips.

You can have many crushes but nothing ever happens with them. These aren't all guys I've dated etc

Lol no rabbit. You have a libra moon, yes? Or is that mercury....

This is more I'm just amazed how unique he is and how he doesn't fit the Scorpio or water bill. I fit it more than he does!

I prefer the 1st. I learned my lesson from "personal trainer" roids isn't cute.

Rabbit, you don't think you guys are ALL the same, right?

I laugh at the douchey shirtless pics and job description "personal trainer" and "models" on online dating sites. I send zoolander quotes to them all

Hehe

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Posted by Arietteheart
When she said period clothes, I was thinking...why is she impressed by this man's comfy sweats and concert tees. Those are my period clothes.

BAHAHAHAHAA!

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Hahaha!! Omg

Posted by Rabbit
Can I borrow his monocle and absinthe drinking set?

How about his steam powered time machine?

He has all of these things lolol.

And VS, I only say this because of how many stereotypes there are with scorps and blah blah. The multiple I dated of scorps were all different but they had a distinct power hungry and controlling/vindictive mind games vibe. None of that from him do I detect.

He was born on Halloween.

Still trying to decide if it's worth exploring. I like different and unique, but he is in a whole other time period. Although he doesn't dress like that all the time.

Posted by Arietteheart
When she said period clothes, I was thinking...why is she impressed by this man's comfy sweats and concert tees. Those are my period clothes.

Lol!

...and welcome back to the board AG24

A lot of ppl think he's gay, including myself at first. But nope! A lot tend to think fancy dress folk (including my best male friend who designs fashion as a side job) are gay. Just because they aren't roided out, jersey shore, or red necks. So dumb.

Posted by Arietteheart

I'll tap it while it bleeds.

lol well congrats...welcome to adult relationships.

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haha forreal

Well I think it's just his style . He likes the look for his home, he really only dresses Victorian for special events.

I'm obsessed with Asian culture and birds...my house is decorated as such.

Hahaha rabbit. I think you two would get along.

But srs....you guys don't understand the stuff that goes on in some of my circles. this kind of dress is normal. In my area people don't judge him, they want pictures.

We have pin up girls, circus freaks, burlesque dancer. Fancy dress is common. Many goths etc. I am into corsets and bustle skirts etc. I'm far from normal. Many hippies who are poly, into open relationships. Very many bi.

Some of my perfectly straight male friends had a bi/gay moment just to try, or in an orgy or threesome once in their life. But I'm taking like 10-15 years ago for most. Trying to discover themselves etc. I've had some too. But I don't consider myself bi or gay.

He has a myriad of clothes. As do most ppl around here. Although showing up in a leather speedo that was backless for the fetish ball may have been a bit...well who am I kidding, he has the body to pull it off. Now the 78 year old man doing it with nipple clamps? Help us all..,.

He's also very German and grew up in Hollywood, ca. So yeah lol different. Europeans are much more open about their style of dress, conversation, and nudity etc

My best guy friend is married to a best girl friend. He wears fancy top hats, makes corsets, and wears make up for special events and has longer hair than me. He also carries fancy canes on occasion and she's very into the bustle goth look. He's def not gay. He's helping to fix my clothes after work, I can't sew a button!

Twerk soleil lol. Oh and plus my weird contortion stuff and my bones always cracking and being all gumby like.

And yes! I have 1 steel boned, my friend makes beautiful ones. My guy friend let me borrow his leather steam punk one

Hi AG!

What I've found about all the scorp men I know is that they are all smart arses... beyond that, they're all a little kooky and/or kinky...

Kinda goes for the women too 😛

Posted by Rabbit
*grumbles*

Better than being a dumbass...

*pats grumpy bunny on his fluffy-wuffy ears*

well, you have to admit that scorps are an odd bunch but the similarities are as outlined above... sometimes I think we could give the aquas a run for their money!

but yes, most scorps have a wicked sense of humour 😄

Awesome! I missed you Lilli 🙂)

The trend I saw with the ones I dated were controlling, possessive, played games, manipulative, sexist, over dominant, douchey, paranoid, jealous, secretive. None of that with this one!

I'm the one that is jealous. Also slightly paranoid and think there is a hidden agenda with everything. Ex: "...why are they being so nice to me. What do they want? 0.o"

Posted by Arietteheart
When she said period clothes, I was thinking...why is she impressed by this man's comfy sweats and concert tees. Those are my period clothes.

Hahaha!

Posted by Agentgem24
Awesome! I missed you Lilli 🙂)

The trend I saw with the ones I dated were controlling, possessive, played games, manipulative, sexist, over dominant, douchey, paranoid, jealous, secretive. None of that with this one!

hehe... that must've been their other placements surely...?

I'll concede possessive & secretive but that is absolutely it. 😛 maybe a little jelly, but who doesn't like jelly?!

Posted by Rabbit
Taking big dumps is the cardio portion and wiping after the dump is the stretching and strength training portion

LOL!

Did you find him on a website?

Posted by pathfinder
Did you find him on a website?

No, he's in my friend circle. I doubt I would have looked twice had I not known him personally.

We have 19 mutual friends on Facebook lol. At least 8 of those are very close friends of mine.

Explains it!!

Straight people can like the Victorian era, ya know.

Haha you like those older guys gem 😛

Posted by Agentgem24
Hahaha rabbit. I think you two would get along.

But srs....you guys don't understand the stuff that goes on in some of my circles. this kind of dress is normal. In my area people don't judge him, they want pictures.

We have pin up girls, circus freaks, burlesque dancer. Fancy dress is common. Many goths etc. I am into corsets and bustle skirts etc. I'm far from normal. Many hippies who are poly, into open relationships. Very many bi.

Some of my perfectly straight male friends had a bi/gay moment just to try, or in an orgy or threesome once in their life. But I'm taking like 10-15 years ago for most. Trying to discover themselves etc. I've had some too. But I don't consider myself bi or gay.

you sound very fun

Hah thanks guys!

Is 14 years a huge difference? I honestly never would have guessed his age as 38. I thought 28-32 if I had to do a range. All my friends are 30s-50s and most look very good for their age, so hard to tell! I had one 20 year difference (won't go past 14) and a few 8-13 year. 14 is one of my fav numbers, as is 3.

My Gemini male best friend told me not to assume anything yet and don't get clingy. Says people in our realm are often more snuggly than most, so best to play it by ear. And he did say he likes to start of as friends.

He has a female best friend, normally that would bother me. I'm very jealous. But ya know? It doesn't with him. He told me there is no chemistry and I believe him, I've witnessed them together plenty of times and she's actually really cool and sweet. When we went to karaoke last weekend, I had thought he may want to invite her so I suggested the invite but he said he hadn't planned on it and wanted it to be just us. He says she comes to him for her guy advice, just like I do with my room mate and my Gemini best guy friend.

Gemini best guy friend and Pisces best girl friend (both Scorpy moons) just got married after 8 years together. It seems like far longer than almost a year when they adopted me into their family. We became so close, so fast. Same with Pisces other best female friend and master troll Aqua husband. Couples adopt me ~.<

But it's through all these new people I met my soon to be new room mate, and also guy in said status. Plus many more peeps.

Yes, 14 is pretty large age difference, its taboo. Do you have venus in the 10th, venus aspected to saturn, or saturn in the 7th? The largest ive done is 7 years. I perfer the student/teacher relationship.

im always up for expanding ones social circle. Do u get along with friends bbetter than family.

DMV, I have no idea. Birthday is June 12th 1989, 11:50 pm born Orlando Florida. He is October 31st 1975, 7:31 pm, Hollywood CA

He says his biggest difference was 13 years. This is just plus 1 year. Also, it's not a full 14. It's like 13.5.

My biggest age gap was 6 years older than he is now and I recently was talking to a 13 year difference. I just have always liked older, all of my friends are older so if I meet someone in my scene or naturally, they are most likely older. I don't exactly seek it. On my online dating profile, I have it set up where only ages 24-35 can message me. But I just so happened to meet him in my friend circle and find him interesting. He looks late 20s.

Do you think it's exactly bad? I had read, it's past 15 years where large age gaps begin to be a problem.

For ex, when I'm 40, he will be 54. Doesn't seem so weird then, does it? But then that other guy, it would have been 50 and 70....
30 and 50, not a big deal. 40 and 60, still not that bad. But 50 and 70? That's where the issues come in. That 20 year older was still the best I've had in bed. I just can't help attracting older, I look younger but most of my friends pegged me early 30s when they met me because of my mannerisms, how I talk/carry myself etc.

The general rule is, half your age plus 7 is the youngest you can date. That's 26 for him. I'm 25 in 6 months, so that's not exactly that far off, now is it?

Plus, it's not like he's close to my dads age. A lot of times if a girl dates older people say "daddy issues." Well my mom is 15 years older than him, and my dad is a full 19.

Posted by DMV
Yes, 14 is pretty large age difference, its taboo. Do you have venus in the 10th, venus aspected to saturn, or saturn in the 7th? The largest ive done is 7 years. I perfer the student/teacher relationship.

im always up for expanding ones social circle. Do u get along with friends bbetter than family.

I just saw your last part of your post. To answer you, I get along with both. I am VERY close to my friends, but also my family. I have some friends my age that I kept since middle school/HS but my new circle as of the last 2 years, average 6-25 years older than me. Some of my closest female friends are 8-9 years older, and my closest male friends (besides room mate) are 32 and 40, they are also best friends. The youngest friend I have is turning 20, that's strange to me but I forget her age a lot because of her maturity.

I'm very close to my mom, my grandpa, bothers dad(he's more my father figure than my real dad), and my brother. My brother is 18 with a genius IQ. He had a full ride to MIT but he chose UT. It seems as if my brother and I show maturity than our mother etc, my brother even more so!

Posted by Agentgem24
The general rule is, half your age plus 7 is the youngest you can date. That's 26 for him. I'm 25 in 6 months, so that's not exactly that far off, now is it?

Plus, it's not like he's close to my dads age. A lot of times if a girl dates older people say "daddy issues." Well my mom is 15 years older than him, and my dad is a full 19.

I say love has no age

Unless homegirl is 14 and homeboy is 40

Baha! Like I said though, best sex was 20 years older and no blue pill. And I agree, I don't feel love has an age although legal is a MUST. Preferably, old enough to drink.

Cool AG. I like the idea so much in theory, too creeped out in reality though. Couldn't even go out w the 30yrd and that is only 7 years.

I don't know why it scares me and turns me on all at once! ahh!

Aw don't be scared! I don't even bat an eye until it gets past 11 years. Even though the 43 year old looked his age, nobody ever looked at us differently. We were like celebrities lol

My room mate; "That guy is 38?! WTF does he eat? I thought he was 19."

^ Hahahah!

Posted by Agentgem24
Aw don't be scared! I don't even bat an eye until it gets past 11 years. Even though the 43 year old looked his age, nobody ever looked at us differently. We were like celebrities lol

Hopefully I'll summon up the courage one of these days

My room mate goes, "Is that his actual hair? Gawd...He looks like the evil one from The Count of Monte Cristo"

Or a German porn star at the Fetish ball lol

Also rather ironic; I was introduced to him, or knew of him earlier this year. But it wasn't until the tail end of the summer where I started to talk to him more, and actually meet him. Our first hang out was with him and his best friend around October, and we have been becoming more close on an individual basis recently.

The ironic part is, I actually "met" him for the first time LAST summer. I actually took a picture of him at a convention where there were THOUSANDS of people and it's on my laptop.

Life is funny hah.

Posted by Rabbit
No we are all the same.

Carry on.

😄 😄 😄 😄