OMG, Scorpio lover admits he loves me

Now...I've never actually pulled a tooth before....but, I'm guessing that it couldn't be harder than getting a scorpio to admit he loves you? And why is it that I'm wondering if he means it? A scorpio couldn't tell you he loves you if he doesn't, could he?

Thanks to all you scorpios on this board, btw, It was only through reading your posts for the past 3 months that I've had the patience to withstand his bizzare behavior thus far. And I'm almost certain that that wasn't the end of it, so thanks in advance for all future helpful postings!

Rock on!

COngrats, Sun....I'm sure he means it.

Sun...congrats! Sure hope he means it!


"A Scorpion?s eyes and smile will often signal the fact they that they are truly smitten. Our countenance softens and takes on an almost 'goofy' appearance."

OMG! I've totally noticed this. It melts my heart! *cloud nine*

LOL @ DB!

The Scorpio's I know high-tail rather quickly when "love" is mentioned and go to extremes NOT to have to say this, so . . . .

Methinks, he means it . . he loves you.

Wahoooooooooooooo, your loved, Sun

houstonpeach74>>COngrats, Sun....I'm sure he means it.

Thanks for the vote of confidence, however, I havn't heard from him since......lol, we shall see!


Scorp-in-law>> It?s never hard to admit love. It?s hard to admit ambivalence.

This is a very wise statement. But I think the problem with scorpio, is that they are so suspecting. I told him I loved him right away, from the very begining, but I say the words easily because I love people, I love all you guys! I have no problem saying it. And I think he was waiting to hear me say it in a way that sounded more like "Your special", sort of an "I love you above everyone else" sort of way.

Scorp-in-law>> Depends on what is motivating the disclosure. A Scorpion?s eyes and smile will often signal the fact they that they are truly smitten. Our countenance softens and takes on an almost 'goofy' appearance.

This is exactly how he is when we are alone together. Thanks for the tip.


Dancing Bread>>*shakes head*

Meaning?

Kris>>Is he really worth the effort as a leo i say you go for someone who isn,t that emotional or serious. I like gems better more funny and love to laugh !!

He's definately worth the effort. He may break my heart, but I have to try....wink, wink


THANKS again everyone for all the support!

I think DB is saying that a Scorpio is capable of lying about it.

I really hate Scorpios' games...I mean, I know they have their reasons, but dayum. My ex-boyfriend literally told me he was never speaking to me again because of X thing I refused to do and that he couldn't find any other childish way to manipulate me into doing. So that was that. And the relationship SUCKED anyway for the most part, and he never ONCE told me he loved me and I would NEVER have even imagined that he would (it was definitely weird, I know this). Then 2 days ago (more than a month after he says he's "never talking to me again") he calls me confessing his undying love. What was he hoping to accomplish with that— I swear, some people. And I have a feeling that soon I'll be hearing loads of amazingly wonderful excuses.

"however, I havn't heard from him since......lol, we shall see!"

This could be for any number of reasons. Of course, you'll never know them.

Dancing Bread>>I'm sure he means it...and I can see the leo type, "I love you too"...it sounds too artificial...lack of true feelings...so it could have made him step back from the situation...


I'm sure you are right, he means it. He's obviously not the type to say it lightly. I guess I just don't understand what he needs from me. He's a dark intense character, while I'm sunny and playful with him. I think it annoys him somehow. Maybe we are just too different?

At any rate, he has indeed stepped back from the situation for whatever reason. I have been trying to contact him, but he won't return my calls, same stuff I see other posters putting in their posts....I think I'll just wait and see what he does, if anything at this point.

Thank you DB

Oh boy, does this bring back memories now with the no returning of phone calls. I've been through this also just recently. It's very infuriating to say the least. Do step back and see what he does, Sun in Leo.

Dancing Bread>>"I love you too"...it sounds too artificial...lack of true feelings

How do you say "I love you too" with feeling, in a way that's acceptable to a scorpio?

I've been reading the string and it's all sooo true.. Scorpios are capable of withholding/lying to get what they want. Can be frustrating to a straight shooter Virgo like me. When my Scorpio asks me something--I tell him what I think or know etc, no matter what..Example: "honey, how do I look?" I answer honestly. "Babe, what do you think about how I did X thing?" I tell him exactly what I think-- good or bad--I don't know if my Scorpio appreciates this but I'm pretty honest and straighforward.

honest and straightforward wins points every time..

"You're only a baaaaabyyyyy! Still, you sound somewhat mature for your age."

lol, notso, you're adorable. I know I'm young but what can ya do. *shrugs*

DB, why do you hate me? Please stop.

sun-in-leo> i've been dating a scorpio guy for a year and a half.. i'm gonna lay it on you whether your ready or not: In any dissagreement you have, the deep watery lagoon of his heart will win out and you'll simply have to follow him *if your love is strong enough for him* He wants to see what your made of *being a Leo get ready for some intense crying, and then incredible beautiful making up times* Now if this relationship progresses into something more serious, expect him to lovingly possess you, and know where you'll be most of the time to make sure your not with anybody else, don't call him too much 'cause he likes alone time and would rather call you when he feels the time is right *get usd to it* If for any reason you get jealous or miss him intensly, TELL HIM, pour out the emotions, (LEOS HAVE TONS EVEN THOUGH WE HATE TO ADMITT). oh one more thing..don't ask him too many personal questions, but if he asks you many personal questions, tell him what you can, and ask of him the same...

hope this helps?!

missmorals i'm actually withholding a very dark secret from my scorp guy, but i figure he's got one too and is withholding fom me, i figure it's sort of evens out: my question is: is this healthy

leoscorp...thanks for the tips on handling a scorpio male. I am dating one now and he is one of the sweetest people i ever met. I will follow those exact guidelines...

i know one thing.....i am emotionally drained!!!

heheh and it almost feels like nothing else matters in this world except him right (or so he's made you beleive—) keep doing the things your doing, keep yourself busy..if you really love him you'll tolerate it (but if you haven't been in many relationships yet maybe a situation lie this isn't for you just yet)...just keep on top of your game, don't let him too far into your heart

leoSCORPIOrising, Yes, it helps to know what i'm up against. And I think you hit upon some good points. I'm not used to a man knowing every move I make, I have tons of friends, and I always have something to do and someplace to go that's exciting. There were issues a while ago....his thinking I was out with other men and so forth, not sure what I was up to, some accusations....I didn't understand what that was all about, and I didn't address it at the time, I thought it was too soon for him to be that intense so I didn't respond. (I usually don't respond to accusations, I only respond to questions...if you see the diference) But I rather thought that he would get to know me and see for himself that I was a true blue sort of person. And I never ask too many questions. Esp. this early in the game. But I think he is trying to make me jealous...either that, or branh0913 may be right...not sure yet. Oh! Lovingly possessive? LOLOL When I'm with him, I sometimes get the feeling like he has a secret longing to lock me up in his house, never to step foot outdoors again! He doesn't like it when I leave. But then he doesn't call me....this is all very foriegn to me, never dating a scorpio before, or any water signs for that matter.

At any rate, thanks for the input, it's useful in getting me to have patience to see what happens. PS - could you tell me a few details about what you mean? I might help. And thanks again.

branh0913>>Wow, you think this guy's behavior is bizzare because he is not responding to you, yet you spend 3 months reading messages from total strangers with some hope it is going to repair your relationship? You don't thik that is a tad bit bizzare within itself?

Very interesting insight to your post, and a possibility, that yes, I have thought of. However, let me clarify some things to you. I am not reading the posts about scorpio to repair any relationship that I have. Rather, I am trying to learn how to deal with people who's life philosophy might be different than mine. You must admit, we all don't think the same, or respond the same to certain social situations. Most of the time, I just say to myself "okay, he's just not that interested", and I walk away. This has not always been to my benefit (as I later found out). Sometimes you have to be willing to put some effort into a relationship, even if it fails. And this is what I am doing in this case. So no, I don't think it's bizzare.


branh0913>>There is probably a reason why the Scorpio hasn't told you that he loves you. It is because he probably doesn't. Ever thought about that.

Yes, I have thought about it. But it's been my experience that men don't always "SAY" what's on thier minds, in fact, rarely do they do so. You have to read their ACTIONS. Their actions tell you what you want to know, where words are often not their thing (and if you ask any woman on these boards, I think they can tell you exactly what I mean when i say this). And his actions do not say that he doesn't have feelings for me. So I'm going with that...for the time being....


branh0913>>These "signals" that you are picking up on are probably things you are overanalyzing probably. I bet this guy doesn't even take you that seriously, and probably just want to have a good time, and be done with it. Obviously you want him to love you, and such things probably aren't going to happen.

Yes, possibly. You might have something there.


branh0913>>And what is with it? People look for the most far fetched rationaliazaions to explain things. If the guy loved you, and even if he were afraid to admit it, I THINK he would tell you. I mean, really. You think if a guy loves you, he is going to play games and risk losing someone he loves?

Yes, one would think that people would say what's on their mind.....but stranger things have happened in my lifetime than that....so you tell me? And yes, they do risk i

"heheh and it almost feels like nothing else matters in this world except him right (or so he's made you beleive—) keep doing the things your doing, keep yourself busy..if you really love him you'll tolerate it (but if you haven't been in many relationships yet maybe a situation lie this isn't for you just yet)...just keep on top of your game, don't let him too far into your heart"

I agree!! I think the very reason they need to test you is beacause they need to see if you really love them...

LSR - "missmorals i'm actually withholding a very dark secret from my scorp guy, but i figure he's got one too and is withholding fom me, i figure it's sort of evens out: my question is: is this healthy"

OOOh I am intrigued...well how do you know he's withholding one? you can't be sure of that but being a scorp yes he must be..some things are just best left unsaid...

sun of leo these scorpion person they hook you already... now its very difficult to you to get this words... scorpion sometimes want challenge's............

Aww...thats so cute EG...
My one usually says "I love the way you try and contain it, but you know you love me uncontrollably"...So I just replied "don't flatter yourself love"...

Hehe...

Good for you. If he told you he loves you believe it Not only does he love you he trusts you. When we fall we fall hard . Remember scorpio is very passioinate. We feel love and desire very deeply but we also feel doubt and fear with the same depth. We might initially keep it to ourself for fear of making ourselves vulnerable . We will however tell the object of our affection how we feel when we feel safe enough to do so

"Good for you. If he told you he loves you believe it Not only does he love you he trusts you. When we fall we fall hard . Remember scorpio is very passioinate. We feel love and desire very deeply but we also feel doubt and fear with the same depth. We might initially keep it to ourself for fear of making ourselves vulnerable. We will however tell the object of our affection how we feel when we feel safe enough to do so."

When do you deem it safe enough to tell your significant other how you feel? When you feel it's reciprocated? My ex-scorp of 8 years never said I love you, but I knew he did through his actions...