Pisces woman for Scorp man

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Jes8744 on Wednesday, September 2, 2015 and has 19 replies.
Hi everyone. Looking for some advice! I met a Scorpio man on tinder. We met at a bar and he had two of his friends with him (a girlfriend of mine was supposed to come too but had to go out of town at the last minute). It was instantly comfortable and we all hung out until 5 AM and had a great time. Him and I have hung out almost everyday since then and things have been going really well. We are taking things slow and I love it. I guess what I want to know is what can I expect from you Scorpios? I have never dated nor have even had friends that were Scorpios. I know that they match extremely well with my Pisces sign. Our texting convo kind of lags but once we are together it's amazing and has introduced me to a lot of his friends and his sister. These people are all very close to him. Just hoping that I'm not getting my hopes up for nothing. I still see he's on tinder but I just keep reminding myself it's only been about 2 weeks ha. Any advice is greatly appreciated!
dont listen to her shes jealous
just be honest with him and enjoy the journey
Posted by PV&Jellay
Do people actually form serious relationships from Tinder? I thought it was a hook up app.

I think it's turning into more of a "dating app". I have known a lot of people who have found a gf/bf from it. As tinder becomes more popular, less guys are finding the balls to approach girls in public so it almost seems like this is all we have at the moment haha.
Posted by MsFisk
By the way, he brought his boys along in hopes to tag team you. That's how they opearte.

he brought his boys not to be as intimidating as he might be alone with her
maybe he thought lets do it friendly?
Posted by scorpiothebadass
Posted by MsFisk
By the way, he brought his boys along in hopes to tag team you. That's how they opearte.

he brought his boys not to be as intimidating as he might be alone with her
maybe he thought lets do it friendly?
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Yes we talked about how we were both going to be downtown so let's meet up but it ended up my friend had to go out of town so he said just come alone.
Posted by MsFisk
By the way, he brought his boys along in hopes to tag team you. That's how they opearte.

lmao




i took off after i drank half a glass of water the 1st time i went to my scorp's place. too many mirrors in his place, i thought to myself "what kinda operation is this scorpio man running here??!! hidden cameras??"




don't hang out too much on this board lol





Noooooooooooo
Posted by MsFisk
By the way, he brought his boys along in hopes to tag team you. That's how they opearte.


hahaha
Posted by Jes8744
Hi everyone. Looking for some advice! I met a Scorpio man on tinder. We met at a bar and he had two of his friends with him (a girlfriend of mine was supposed to come too but had to go out of town at the last minute). It was instantly comfortable and we all hung out until 5 AM and had a great time. Him and I have hung out almost everyday since then and things have been going really well. We are taking things slow and I love it. I guess what I want to know is what can I expect from you Scorpios? I have never dated nor have even had friends that were Scorpios. I know that they match extremely well with my Pisces sign. Our texting convo kind of lags but once we are together it's amazing and has introduced me to a lot of his friends and his sister. These people are all very close to him. Just hoping that I'm not getting my hopes up for nothing. I still see he's on tinder but I just keep reminding myself it's only been about 2 weeks ha. Any advice is greatly appreciated!

Don't get your hopes up yet. Enjoy it, but don't become too emotionally invested. I'm a Pisces with a Scorpio BF. My relationship started out JUST like yours. It was over a month of that kind of bliss. Month 2 started looking a little weird and month three...well, was crazy. We're now in month 4 and it is what it is. I haven't broken up eith him and I'm not going to. I'm just hoping that later on, things go back to how easy they used to be. I still get special treatment, but not thst often. When it happens, it's big. He goes all out. On the daily though...he still makes me laugh, the sex is still amazing, but the rest...is complicated. I'm acarefree, social, fun loving and hard working woman with a strong personality. One thing is for certain...he has no plans on letting me go anywhere. It might look like he's lost interest at some point...just do you. Or at least try to, but beyond anything else...be yourself. Don't act a certain way to try to keep him entertained. Make sure that if he loves you...it's for you. I'm kind of cold, but my Scorp accepts it. It's just how I am. I'll warm up in spurts here and there, but mostly, I'm blunt, kind of cold, but I'm supportive as well as present. I show up and to me...that's what matters.
Posted by MsFisk
Find a Capricorn man.

LMBO!!!! I literally fell out laughing, because it's actually NOT a bad suggestion given the OP has zero Scorp experience or knowledge. IJS
Posted by PV&Jellay
Do people actually form serious relationships from Tinder? I thought it was a hook up app.

YES!!! I work with two professionals who have significant others that they met using the app. One is an Aries project manager who met an Aries chick. The second is a Scorp female with a PhD and this is her second Tinder relationship. The first one lasted for 2 years with a Libra and now she's been with an Aqua for like....4-5 months.
Posted by Reincarnation
Posted by Jes8744
Hi everyone. Looking for some advice! I met a Scorpio man on tinder. We met at a bar and he had two of his friends with him (a girlfriend of mine was supposed to come too but had to go out of town at the last minute). It was instantly comfortable and we all hung out until 5 AM and had a great time. Him and I have hung out almost everyday since then and things have been going really well. We are taking things slow and I love it. I guess what I want to know is what can I expect from you Scorpios? I have never dated nor have even had friends that were Scorpios. I know that they match extremely well with my Pisces sign. Our texting convo kind of lags but once we are together it's amazing and has introduced me to a lot of his friends and his sister. These people are all very close to him. Just hoping that I'm not getting my hopes up for nothing. I still see he's on tinder but I just keep reminding myself it's only been about 2 weeks ha. Any advice is greatly appreciated!

Tell him nicely you should both delete Tinder.

He'll like it.
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Sound advice here.
Posted by Jes8744
Hi everyone. Looking for some advice! I met a Scorpio man on tinder....

*stop, prepare a large cup of tea....proceed to read the rest of OP*
According to Vanity Fair Tinder is nothing more than a whore fest for young men. I heard the word "tinder" in another forum and was like wtf is that..? Got my answer:

From Vanity Fair on Tinder:

"You could talk to two or three girls at a bar and pick the best one, or you can swipe a couple hundred people a day—the sample size is so much larger. It’s setting up two or three Tinder dates a week and, chances are, sleeping with all of them, so you could rack up 100 girls you’ve slept with in a year.â€He says that he himself has slept with five different women he met on Tinder—“Tinderellas,†the guys call them—in the last eight days."
"Alex, his friends agree, is a Tinder King, a young man of such deft “text gameâ€â€”“That’s the ability to actually convince someone to do something over text,†Marty explains—that he is able to entice young women into his bed on the basis of a few text exchanges, while letting them know up front he is not interested in having a relationship."

"But Marty, who prefers Hinge to Tinder (“Hinge is my thingâ€), is no slouch at “racking up girls.†He says he’s slept with 30 to 40 women in the last year: “I sort of play that I could be a boyfriend kind of guy,†in order to win them over, “but then they start wanting me tocare more … and I just don’t.â€"
My question is and will remain...

What the hell kind of parenting did these twenty year old girls have??????? Disgusting.
Posted by GetMisted
Posted by MsFisk
By the way, he brought his boys along in hopes to tag team you. That's how they opearte.

This is truth.
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Apparently so...
Posted by PV&Jellay
Jes8744 and MsTeeq1974, I'll just have to take your word for it. I don't trust it. Winking

Smart decision. Most relationships born out of internet dating or hook up sites are just as serendipitous as meeting face to face to begin with. Most people who meet someone face to face and end up in a relationship didn't walk into said establishment or whatever TRYING to find a life partner. So, Tinder is just...well, it's Tinder, not the relationship hot spot IMO.
Posted by Reincarnation
My Capricorn friend is on Tinder.

I was looking over his shoulder as he was swiping. Most of the women on there are - well - not exactly physically attractive.

The Scorp female I work with has a weird looking cat as her profile picture. I seriously question the sanity of the guys who hit her up. She originally got on the site as a practical joke. She still uses it, because she's successfully gotten dates from there. Now, don't get me wrong...she is a smoking hot Colombian chick with Colombian/Canadian dual citizenship who is fluent in both Spanish and French. Hot, excellent education, funny, capable, gainfully employed. She's a catch. lol
With the cat as her only pic...nah, but I guess it does draw a unique personality. I do notice that her previous and current bf have underwhelming personalities. She had a lot of freedom in youth with a mom as a single parent who had a great job that required her to work in other countries for extensive amounts of time. So, she burned out on hot, interesting men with adventurous lives at a VERY early age...due to heartbreak. Three of them were Pisces sad to say.