PIssed off,I've dumped my Scorpio man. Advices?

HI

I'm an aquarius woman.
Have (had?) a wonderful relationship with a Scorpio man.
He was affectionate, passionate, very expressive, etc.. We were connected since the day we met. We began with a friendly relationship and it became a love story. According to him, I was wonderful, sexy, beautiful soul, noboby cared about him the way I did, he trusted me in every aspect of his life...
It was a distant relationship. We were able to meet once, twice a week. When we were together , it was wonderful. As soon as we were appart, it was a nightmare. He seemed selfish, untactful... I'm sure he was really loving me. But for him, when we were separated, it was all on me and he was mad at me, unconsciously.
A few day ago, another drama : he cancelled, last minute, our date. For a crappy reason. while he was the one to ""harass"" me to come to his place for days. ( wasn't available cause of work and then, got sick, too ill to drive)
He didn' t give more explanation, t took that bad, i answered that i wasn't able to date someone so disrespectful and not motivated to meet me. i said stop...
everything by text cause we were use to communicate this way. (i'm not american, don't speak english very well as you can guess 🙂 )
Since this text, no answer. It's been a few days...
Usually he always comes back to me. This time, it was... worse. Not sure he'll come back again. I'm too proud and would never write again, if he doesn't contact me first.
He knows that, and also that i m very sensitive and proud.
According to you, Scorpios... Is he mad? Hurt? Bored? Will he come back to me and understand he acted quite disrespectfully?

Many thanks

You dumped him, it's over.
Why do you need advice?
Did you think by dumping him it would bring you two closer together?
HUH? I'm confused at this mentality from women.
This just makes you look crazy.

If you have the balls to dump a guy, have the balls to mean it!!

Posted by Rabbit
Scorpio men can get cranky when they don't get what they want (much like small children) and he couldn't "get" you as much as he wanted. So he let his disappointment devolve into self-sabotage.

He might come back if he liked you a lot. Just don't hold your breath. He might already have his claws into his backup girl.

truth

Thank you for your answers 🙂

LunarMaiden, you're absolutely right. I had the balls, and the worse is that I meant it. I don't deserve to be treated this way. But... I'm certainly too impulsive.
The moment i did that, i was so upset. Guess i was just wanting him to realise how rude he acted and hoped he could understand and never do such a thing again. I'm a woman ..... Even if it's over, i think i'm surprised he didn't write something back. "good bye", or " sorry", or "i can t stand being dumped i'll kill you" or " die, psychobitch from hell" 😉 😉 😉 hate silence 🙂

Rabbit, Your realistic analyse is frightening but right. I'm not a marionette, i can't be controlled and if i have to face his "sulking", well ... no choice. It's better than saying ok to anything. Well, anyway, I Can't .... 🙂 🙂
By the way, disappointment and self sabotage, that's completely insane... not sure to be able to make mental gymnastic each time he acts wrong, to understand and not be over reactive 🙂

TachiMichi, 🙂
i think he s between 'fair and honest' and 'not evolved" currently.
He is over 40 years old. He had a lot of awful experiences. On the one hand, he adores me cause I'm """perfect for him""" and """love him the way he always needed""" (quotation 🙂 ) . He said he never loved someone like that bla bla bla.... but on the other hand, his scorpio side drives him sometimes depressive, self centered and, consequently soooo selfish.
Once we argued. He thought it was over. (it was just a little fight, but for him, fight meant closure——!!! ) He came back, we talked and he said that, when i was away, he tried to convince himself that it wasn't a big deal if i left .... i asked "and so what? did you succeed in convincing yourself?" He answered ' no actually, it was the end of the world". So honestly, i think he loves me. Will he be evolved enough to admit he was wrong... we'll see... but you're right, i won't make the first move...

thanks again