Please help! Lovesick and confused!!!!

Here is my sad story:

Met a woman who came on VERY strong 7 weeks ago. We spent a blissful
weekend together. She lives in another state and had to go back as she
was on vacation.

But she said she was going to move here in the fall. Sweet, so we kept in
contact via the phone and she told me to come fly out and see her. So I
bought a ticket and waited for a few weeks till the flight day.

During the wait, she made many comments that sounded like she had
marriage on the mind. Ya know, living together, her co-signing a loan
for me, stuff like that.

So I get there on Friday morning and all day and night was great. Then Saturday
during the day was weird. She was acting cold and distant. I asked her what
was wrong in the evening and wow, was I shocked to hear what she was saying!
She said something reminded her of her ex and she now realizes she isnt over that
relationship yet.

Also had to throw in that she wish I hadn't come out there (er, it was her suggestion),
denied that she ever said she was going to move here in the Fall. Admitted that she
talked about living together, but simply said she never should have said that. Oh yeah,
she had to throw in "I am not the one" (referring to herself)

I got a bit miffed that she was pulling this stunt, but decided to be somewhat civil as I was stuck
at her house til Monday am.

So Sunday we just hung out with her friends, then we ended up being intimate at night.

She takes me to the airport monday am and gave me a really long hug. I get picked up
at my home town airport and called her just to say I landed safely. She said what a great
time she had that weekend. umm?

I called her Tuesday, can't help it as I am crazy about her. We talked of pleasantries for a
short while. Things seemed ok. My good friend says I need to back way off and not call her,
let her call me. Well, couldnt help myself and called her today, Friday at noon. Got her voicemail
left a message, 7 hours have since passed and no call back. I am very upset.

What in god's name is she doing??

between, she is a Scorpio if that is any help and I am an Aries

omg, you lot just won't help us at all eh??

Well I've just got the time to respond now..so I say back off her..she probably thought.woah!..this is moving a little too fast..she seems a bit confused about her feelings..Give her time and space..if she likes you she'll be back..It was wrong of her to make those suggestions and build your hope up..but maybe it was a vacation thing..some people just get carried away with being in a different location!..

The following is part of the June 2006 monthly horoscope from susan miller's website, astrologyzone.com Hope this answers your question.

"It appears that if single, you have been meeting romantic partners who live in another city or who work late into the night all the time, or who are studying for a degree. There are many possibilities here, but you get the idea - these people are never available when you are!

Saturn brings separations, frustrations, and delays, mainly to test your determination to overcome these obstacles on the path to true love! You have had this planet in this part of your chart for a year, so you probably know what I am talking about. Under normal circumstances, Saturn would not bother you too much - after all, you are busy too, and you probably don't need your new partner available all the time. However this month it seems to grate on your nerves, and you find the whole situation depressing and possibly near intolerable.

I wish I could do something about this! If you are in love with your partner, try to make the meetings you do have with your beloved exciting and special. There is always an upside to the downside, dear Aries. However, if the reason that the two of you cannot be together is that you discover that your partner is married or still thinking about a former relationship, you might throw in the towel. Those situations are nearly impossible to overcome."