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Ok... so my scorp boyfriend & i have just moved in together... we've been together for 4 months as of today. Everything is perfect, and I know he is "the one." The only strange thing is that i've been congratulated on my engagement by 3 people, and we are not engaged... Just the other day he took me out for coffee at a fmaily friend's coffee shop. I met the owner for the first time, and when he shook my boyfriend's hand he said, "so, i heard you are getting married!" my scorp boyfriend, looked at me with a deer-in-headlights expression, to quickly change the subject... is he going to propose to me? i would absolutely love it and say yes if he does! He's told me that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me, but has not popped the question. Is this normal of a scorp to tell their friends and family something like this prior to asking me? or are people misinterpreting our new cohabitation as an engagement? I have also posted this ubder relationships...


thanks!

~virgoblondie~

Before reading all of this(which i will later)..you are Virgo and he is Scorpio..so everything will be fine..
It`s a rule..actually a fact.

Yeah sounds like he's made his mind up..what is it about this pairing that you instantly know you want to spend the rest of your lives with each other..

Awwww..so shweeet

Well there seem to be increasing number of pairings pluto..

"Guru....just think...if you were a Virgo... **mind drifts away on pink clouds**"

I cant spoil my life just for Doctorz sake 😛

"so G u mean my life is a gonner?
pfff"

LOL Pluto not at all....That was abt virgo males...😛

" lookout! She loves a challenge."

That will only come with an Aries.

Pluto: "i have seen virgoes n scorpios fighting like no tommorow too" - Ooooh yes..and thats the beauty of it!..LOL..love/hate thing..

EG: I see your playing cupid again 😉

G's in denial...and we all know that aint just a river in egypt

Boom boom kertischhhhhhhhh

"G's in denial...and we all know that aint just a river in egypt"

Me n denial ?...I just posted our photo on the other thread.

Daaktwarr ....Did U watch Babel ?

No honey, I went to see Blood Diamond instead...It was really good..

I am going to watch Babel on Friday hopefully...god theres just too many good movies lately

"No honey, I went to see Blood Diamond instead...It was really good."

So we have an issue to sort out already. Great.

it sure is good to hear about a happy relationship for a change....so happy for you vb!

Blood Diamond was indeed good. very intense. *shudders*

hang on, i'm a little confused.

you're together for 4 months and you're already living together and talking about getting married and all that jazz?

that seems a little.. i dunno.. premature? how old are you two? it's a little odd that he'd be talking about stuff like this with everyone else but you... immature, maybe? i dunno, maybe i'm just not a huge romantic about these things, but i look at marriage as a huge commitment emotionally and financially... your guys' roles will have to be well-defined and you have to be able to accept each others' reactions and understandings to each crazy situation that life throws at you... 4 months? i find it hard to believe that you guys would know each other well enough to know that marriage is "right"...

either way, good luck

i'm 23, and he's 26. i'm the bread-winner type-a personality, and he's the relaxed laid back type. so we balance eachother out. we've had the same group of friends for about 5 years, and had somehow never met eachother. then at a mutual friend's engagement party we met, and have been together ever since. we agree on everything, and we're both musicians, so we write and perform together. we have an amazing relationship. i think he would propose to me, its just odd that people have been congratulating me on a nonexistant engagement. i dont know if he maybe talked to his family about it before asking me (to get their blessing), and then they started talking about it to whoever, or what. i've never had somethig like this happen, and i know people wouldnt be saying that for no reason! so, i dont know if i sould talk to him about it. i dont want him to think that i expect to be engaged right now, i just enjoy being with him, but i dont want other people thinking something elese is going on... its just strange!

"So we have an issue to sort out already. Great."

LOL..I am oblivious..what issue is that?..Cos I didn't listen to you? 😛

"LOL..I am oblivious..what issue is that?..Cos I didn't listen to you? "

Never mind. I am busy consoling myself 😢

There there..it'll be alright..

::ruffles hair and punches arm::

In your answer to your question VB..I wouldn't mention anything..I am sure if its about to happen, he will ask you somewhere down the line..

"There there..it'll be alright..

::ruffles hair and punches arm:: "

Thanks Doctor..I needed that radioactive treatment.

LOL..Good..I am happy that your happy..

Oh by the way, just out of curiousity, if a woman appears aggressive or wants to constantly punch/slap/pinch in an endearing way, would you see that as her being interested? from a male perspective

" a woman appears aggressive or wants to constantly punch/slap/pinch in an endearing way, would you see that as her being interested? from a male perspective"

Though I dont do free consulting..but just for U -

Personally, I wouldnt see it as somebody being interested. In fact it wud mean that Ive ruined my chance 😛

LOL..ok..What if the man is doing it back?

Abuse? ..LOL

"LOL..ok..What if the man is doing it back"

Hmmmm....Am wondering who wud dare do that to U.

Anywayz, it will be a show of affection and an indication of a need to possess.

Thought as much..not sure about the possess bit..but interesting..

LOL @ Cap..

Ssssshhhhhhh

::puts finger on mouth::

MM..stop spreading rumors..i didn`t even touch you.

"Huumm seems like new interest "

haa haa...Shez an art collector I guess 😉

LOL @ HE..wanting attention YET again!!!

::sigh::

your so demanding of me..

"But i guess you abuse her then"

She wants to..she finds abusing is sexy,but it`s not my nature to abuse anyone.

G: "Shez an art collector I guess"

Speaking of Art, G..have you been to the Tate Modern yet?

I don't find abusing sexy in any shape or form...Bickering is where its at!

😛

"Speaking of Art, G..have you been to the Tate Modern yet?"

Lest U forget...Chimpz lack a sense of art.

"Then she wont find you sexy..you have lost your chance then"

Some how this lady needs to be abducted...enuf ! 😉

"Then she wont find you sexy..you have lost your chance then"

I am sexy in any situation even when i am sleeping..i am irresistable.

"Only if guys could be considered art"

Good one Cap...What did U have for breakfast ? 😛

G: "Chimpz lack a sense of art"

Chimpz are an art form..LOL

LOL @ Cap..no new love interest hun..me just wondering..

Today is first day of the new semester in university..damn it,i have to go now,the big problem is how to get rid of all the college girls there.

LOL @ Cap..was going to say the same..Except I would've said.."get over yourself"..

I remember once when I said that to the Cap friend "he said, I bet you'd like to get over me"..

::rolls eyes::

Idiot

Cap: "Huumm ok i never wonder without any reason but if you say"

::Snickers::

Yeah it was good..he is very funny..always makes me laugh..We have so many arguments on msn and then when I don't say goodbye to him at the end of the day, he decides to carry the argument on via text messages..Once he said something so funny on the text, I was standing in the middle of a packed train and I burst out laughing..seriously everyone must think I am crazy..

"seriously everyone must think I am crazy.."

I wonder why.

LOL @ Cap..surely not!..

HE, haven't you a lesson to get to...

"His jokes use to be amazing.But half the time it use to go above my head."

U sure only half went over Ur head ?

"Chimpz are an art form..LOL"

hehe...I will find my right place then.

"Only Zoo for you..........right MM?"

haa haa...U need Doctoz stamp of approval for everything dont U ?

Not Zoo Cap..cage my darling..he's an endangered species..

Theres predators like me on the prowl..its not a safe environment for little monkies to roam around freely..

"Theres predators like me on the prowl..its not a safe environment for little monkies to roam around freely"

LOL...and I thougth U were a fellow primate 😉