Possessive of friends?!
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by aNEWday on Friday, October 12, 2012 and has 7 replies.
So basically I have a Scorp girl friend who has mentioned to me before that she likes to keep her friends separate. As a fellow Scorp I can understand this because I have been in a situation wherei had a falling out with a friend and it was awkward seeing mutual friends she had introduced me too previously. Other than that I don't mind if my friends are friends with each other as long as things don't get messy or lines are crossed.
I spent the past weekend with this friend and her other friend who happens to be a Taurus. She is really cool and we all seemed to get along very well throughout the weekend. My Scorp friend now lives in another state and she had come to visit. The Taurus and I both live in the same city and have found it hard meeting new friends. The Taurus also recently broke up with her boyfriend and is trying to get out more. During the weekend she suggested that we hang out sometime. I agreed but I felt a little weird about being too forward with it because I didn't know how my Scorp friend would feel. I also realized thoroughout the weekend that she likes to be the center of attention especially between us her 2 friends. I am not really like that even though I don't like being left out. Could be her Aries moon or sag Venus not sure. Anywho, point is she is possessive of her friends
After she left the Taurus and I spoke and we both felt like we should ask our Scorp friend if she would be ok with us hanging out. I think it all is so stupid and childish.. Especially as I am writing this. I asked her and she said something along the lines of "i don't want to hold u back from hanging out, but don't forgt about me :p" lol. I get the feeling she is being possessive because she likes to be the center of attention for each friend and she doesn't want to be left out. Before all this, when mars was in Scorp, I was already getting annoyed with her and this has kind of topped it off. It's also why I have very few friends, this drama is so stupid. It's funny because the Taurus said to me that it should be more of a trait that she should have being a Taurus but she is not like that wih friends.
Any thoughts? Are any of you possessive of your friends or don't like to mix friends?? I feel like I'm back in high school or something!!
I spent the past weekend with this friend and her other friend who happens to be a Taurus. She is really cool and we all seemed to get along very well throughout the weekend. My Scorp friend now lives in another state and she had come to visit. The Taurus and I both live in the same city and have found it hard meeting new friends. The Taurus also recently broke up with her boyfriend and is trying to get out more. During the weekend she suggested that we hang out sometime. I agreed but I felt a little weird about being too forward with it because I didn't know how my Scorp friend would feel. I also realized thoroughout the weekend that she likes to be the center of attention especially between us her 2 friends. I am not really like that even though I don't like being left out. Could be her Aries moon or sag Venus not sure. Anywho, point is she is possessive of her friends
After she left the Taurus and I spoke and we both felt like we should ask our Scorp friend if she would be ok with us hanging out. I think it all is so stupid and childish.. Especially as I am writing this. I asked her and she said something along the lines of "i don't want to hold u back from hanging out, but don't forgt about me :p" lol. I get the feeling she is being possessive because she likes to be the center of attention for each friend and she doesn't want to be left out. Before all this, when mars was in Scorp, I was already getting annoyed with her and this has kind of topped it off. It's also why I have very few friends, this drama is so stupid. It's funny because the Taurus said to me that it should be more of a trait that she should have being a Taurus but she is not like that wih friends.
Any thoughts? Are any of you possessive of your friends or don't like to mix friends?? I feel like I'm back in high school or something!!
im very possessive of my short list of friends. if they try to introduce a new friend to the circle, i go after her immediately. either i ignore her like she isnt there or i interrogate her. i dont like sharing my friends. them bitches are mine! if they like her and i dont, i just rather not be around her.
futhermore, my circle had better not share any of my info with her.
Lol
Elle, you make some good points. I do prefer 1 on 1 interactions.. but would you share a friend with another friend? i was honestly worried about how the interaction would be between us 3 this past weekend because there was a time when i felt very left out when i went on a trip with this same scorp friend and other people I hadn't met before, that were friends of hers. i felt like she was just blatantly leaving me out and i was so annoyed that i didn't speak to her for some time! i don't like that shyt.
I don't feel so strongly against a friend of mine hanging out with another friend because I am secure with my friendships. I have only a couple that I would be absolutely hurt if anything came between us.
I also don't like being possessed! :-p That could be part of what I am currently feeling and I do not like it.
DMV - very interesting. And you're not a Scorp right?? I wonder what makes people possessive in friendships and different when it comes to romantic relationships.
Elle, you make some good points. I do prefer 1 on 1 interactions.. but would you share a friend with another friend? i was honestly worried about how the interaction would be between us 3 this past weekend because there was a time when i felt very left out when i went on a trip with this same scorp friend and other people I hadn't met before, that were friends of hers. i felt like she was just blatantly leaving me out and i was so annoyed that i didn't speak to her for some time! i don't like that shyt.
I don't feel so strongly against a friend of mine hanging out with another friend because I am secure with my friendships. I have only a couple that I would be absolutely hurt if anything came between us.
I also don't like being possessed! :-p That could be part of what I am currently feeling and I do not like it.
DMV - very interesting. And you're not a Scorp right?? I wonder what makes people possessive in friendships and different when it comes to romantic relationships.
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DMV - very interesting. And you're not a Scorp right?? I wonder what makes people possessive in friendships and different when it comes to romantic relationships.
nope.
Sag Sun
Scorp Moon
Scorp Merc
all conjunct.
I am also possessive with the guys i go out with. i would tell my friends that im possessive but not a guy. i just get passive with guys.
at first i was going to say...stay away, bad idea. but then i saw you were a female, so i'm gonna say...whats the big deal? lol
does she have some leo in her chart? or cancer?
I'm slightly possessive of my friends. I'm more over protective than possessive though. I dont care if my friends meet new people...if i like them, i'll probably LOVE them lol...but i go off first instincts when i meet ppl. so if I'm not feeling someone off bat, chances are i wont click with them ever. I look for good character traits when i meet someone, if i get bad vibes, i stay away. Im not a bitch about, it i just keep a good emotional distance from that person.
some of my closest friendships have started through mutual friends. I've been accused of being a friend thief (jokingly of course)...most of the time people meet me and cling on like you wouldn't believe. I've dealt with a fair amount of possessive friends (ahem, water signs stand up) and those friendships never last because i have always had alot of "associates" despite my extremely introverted ways. I blame my leo moon and venus aqua for this. I've never done anything that cool and I've always been popular. not in the Captain of the cheerleading team type of way, but the general everyone knows who you are but you dont know how type of way. literally since elementary.
I do HATE for my friends to have fun without me though. not in a mean way. I just hate when im missing out. I would never tell my friends not to hang together because im not there. I want them to hang out. I want them to like each other. unless i have something to hide. I probably dont wanna hear about all the fun they had though, just because i wasnt there. I'll listen and be happy that they are getting along, but i will be a bitter betsy because i wasnt there. and i have no problem saying so. lol. again blame my leo moon.
does she have some leo in her chart? or cancer?
I'm slightly possessive of my friends. I'm more over protective than possessive though. I dont care if my friends meet new people...if i like them, i'll probably LOVE them lol...but i go off first instincts when i meet ppl. so if I'm not feeling someone off bat, chances are i wont click with them ever. I look for good character traits when i meet someone, if i get bad vibes, i stay away. Im not a bitch about, it i just keep a good emotional distance from that person.
some of my closest friendships have started through mutual friends. I've been accused of being a friend thief (jokingly of course)...most of the time people meet me and cling on like you wouldn't believe. I've dealt with a fair amount of possessive friends (ahem, water signs stand up) and those friendships never last because i have always had alot of "associates" despite my extremely introverted ways. I blame my leo moon and venus aqua for this. I've never done anything that cool and I've always been popular. not in the Captain of the cheerleading team type of way, but the general everyone knows who you are but you dont know how type of way. literally since elementary.
I do HATE for my friends to have fun without me though. not in a mean way. I just hate when im missing out. I would never tell my friends not to hang together because im not there. I want them to hang out. I want them to like each other. unless i have something to hide. I probably dont wanna hear about all the fun they had though, just because i wasnt there. I'll listen and be happy that they are getting along, but i will be a bitter betsy because i wasnt there. and i have no problem saying so. lol. again blame my leo moon.
Thanks for all if your insight. Makes me see the different points of view ... Even from non scorps 
SheDevil- I don't think she has any Leo or cancer in her chart. She def has more fire in there. I am trusting my instinct on why she is being this way and how to go about it. Since she is in another state I have enough time to do the Scorp thing of processing all of this. In the meantime, taurus and i are getting along just fine and we will keep that to ourselves for now lol. :-/
SheDevil- I don't think she has any Leo or cancer in her chart. She def has more fire in there. I am trusting my instinct on why she is being this way and how to go about it. Since she is in another state I have enough time to do the Scorp thing of processing all of this. In the meantime, taurus and i are getting along just fine and we will keep that to ourselves for now lol. :-/
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