problem... =(

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by JuiCy* on Monday, July 24, 2006 and has 12 replies.
hey everyone lil juicy has a big prob lol... I've been broken up with scorp man on and off now for about i'd say 4 weeks, this time it's both of us changing our mind...one minute we're full force the next uh..you get it. Anyway the only reason would be bc of the distance were about 2 hrs away from each other, he has a bizzy schedule with work and we both have alot of family events to attend to..For me this wouldn't be a big deal we would just see each other once or twice a week instead of alot more, but it's not always going to be like that according to him...so flexible would be needed on both parts...The problem is he doesn't know if he can do that and has become very nervous about the situation leaving him unsure. According to him, he's going to want to spend more time with me then that and doesn't know if he can handle it, Which then i said okay fine at least we became good friends out of it.He's been in and off out of his cave and such..lol so i was under the impression that we were over, until the other night he called me and asked me to call him back, but i was out saturday night and i didn't check my voice mail until sunday, which i called him back around the afternoon, He came out FULL FORCE. "I want to make you my world, I need you i know i've been an asshole etc" Which i thought was right since i was tormented in the process. He then had to go , he had a family party to attend to, so we both left it off with just think about it...Well scorpman messages me and says "pleaxe cell me" Lol i knew he was drunk but i thought a good drunk....well i call him and he's (not to be graphic) but puking his brains out, it had to be at least 3 times on the phone with me in an hr..So i'm nervous and worried and i'm like what are you doing,why are you doing this to yourself blah blah..he's like "Because i know i fucked up,I don't want to lose you, i've missed you so much" etc...k so i'm on the phone with his cuzin and i'm yelling at his friend in a playful way telling him what to do, how to make scorpio feel better..lol so he's like thank you call me back later...Ok now i'm like omg this kid is going bananas what do i do..being a gem you can just imagine, my brain was on over drive...ok so i call him back he's now a little better and i'm able to make him laugh hes being all cute not drunk anymore ..like a little boy..(GETS ME EVERYTIME!) were chit chatting and he goes from one extreme to the other.."I don't wan't to hurt you....
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i am petrified to hurt you, i don't know if i can do this...just very negative, so me being the positive one i'm going on and on how everything is hard in life blah blah being very calm, ok so we end it at he's comming here one day this week (which i plan to say goodbye at this time, right now at least anyway) SOOOO after all this my question is...exactly how do i handle this man? Do i just walk away or do i keep fighting for it to work? We've been together for about 10 months... last 2 on and off .... help would reaaaaaaalllyyyy be appreciated bc i have no clue on what to do anymore, or how to handle this.. Thank you!! (& sorryy for this longgg story just wanted to tell the whole thing) lol
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i'm confused...thats the problem
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jack has got the right idea, juicy. you just gotta ask yourself what you want from him - obviously, the way the relationship is right now is not making either of you happy.
do you want something long distance? could you handle not knowing when you're going to see him next? do you need him physically there for you to feel comfortable? these are just some of the questions you gotta ask yourself.
sounds like you guys gotta figure out amongst yourselves what's going to be best for the relationship. i know it's hard when you're attached to somebody, but look at this way: you're just hurting yourself and you're hurting him by dragging things out longer than they need to be.
have a heart-to-heart with the boy about where you think you guys are going. i think growing into adulthood means realizing sometimes love isn't enough, which is the lesson you guys are learnin' right now. i wish you both lotsa luck.
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answer is..YES
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at my door.
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mmm hmmmm....
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no..thanks for the advice alot but i just cut all ties tonight...to much bs , i really do appreciate it though =)
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I think 2 hours is nothing in comparison to what some people cope with. Jeez, nobody seems to want to make the effort anymore. Complaining over 2 hours..tell him to get a grip..if he really wants to be with you, 2 hours shouldn't come into the equation..
Seriously some people **rolls eyes**
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I think 2 hours is nothing in comparison to what some people cope with. Jeez, nobody seems to want to make the effort anymore. Complaining over 2 hours..tell him to get a grip..if he really wants to be with you, 2 hours shouldn't come into the equation..
Seriously some people **rolls eyes**

THANK YOU MISS MORALS...i thought i was going crazy! lol
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i don't care what he's interested in any longer =) best of luck to him.
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actually...my close friend had passed away a couple weeks ago and i was very upset and very confused..i was done with the scorp for a while but me being upset he was there of course and it made me think i wanted him back, when all i wanted to do was to get rid of him... so sorry guys!
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