Project: Uderstand a Scorpio Moon

Oke guys, trough the years I encountered a lot of different people with a lot of problems or odd personallity traits. My approach was to try and understand everybody in order to prevent any kind of hate I could develop while interacting with them. People do all kind of shit to you, but if you you understand their reasons you are able to handle the situation and win a friend most of the time.

I was pretty much succesful with this approach until I met this Cancer Sun, Scorpio Moon girl 5 months ago.

Is not my first post related to her...

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/scorpio-moon-and-control-10571234/?checkpg=1

This was the full story. All the people in my life (and also from thos forum) told me to give her space. So I did, cutting out all connections for 2 weeks.

The thing is that I've checked her blog when I was drunk and I've saw that she posted stuff related to me all that time.

On the end of the 2nd week I overcame all my bad feelings about her and I did an unhuman effort to forget everything and call her.

I heard in her voice that she missed me like hell, she even asked me to close the call and text her at some point. Then I called her again.

I told her all the truth, that I purged all my pain working on stuff for 2 weeks, I missed her, but I forced myself to give her the space she needed. I was 100% honest.

Then she told me that she is now in a relationship with a random guy at the college. He was a good guy, I knew him a little bit, but he wasn't really smart or good looking, but an easy choice that would've make me look like an idiot in front of everyone that knew that I liked her (everyone of our friends tbh). I told her that I'm really hurt at the phone, and I felt in her voice that she just enjoyed it like hell.

When college started again a few days ago I saw them toghether and she did EVERYTHING in her power to make it look like they are happy and stuff. She isolated herself from all of her previous friends (that tbh are done with her bullshit). This type of perfect relationship developed in just one week is obviously fake af.

This whole thing tear my heart apart because I really care about her, and I'm aware that all this sudden intense relationship she developed in a week was done to hurt me. But the thing that burn me the most, beside the fact that betrayed me in every aspect, is that she is detroying herself and all her relationships because of it. People are tired of her and her drama.

I made an huge effort to call her again 2 days ago to make sure that she knows that I don't hate her, I still care and she can call and talk to me about everything if she feels the need. Then I just cut her off and focused on my work and friends. I'm an Aries, so I can bounce back from this type of situation pretty easily.

The thing is she enjoy every bit of pain she causes to me. Every bit of attention she gets is used to make me suffer, this boosts her ego, and makes her feel better about herself for a day.

In the other hand, if I deny her she suffer like hell and proceed to destroy herself even more. Right now she dragged herself to the lowest low, and there are no things left that she can do to hurt me anymore. She told me and everyone the meanest things about me, she betrayed me in the worst ways.

I was left with the only option of letting her like this, these days I just avoided even the slightest eye contact and I had a really good time with my friends. This drove her nuts, I saw it on her blog.

You see, the worst people are the ones that need love the most, and nobody does things like that without intense reasons.

What can I do?

I just want to understand her behaviour in order to avoid hating her. Atm I really don't care if we end up toghether, I just want her to be ok and happy, and people around her start to appreciate her again.

Posted by nano
Does aries moon and scorpio moon go together generally? That's not a pair I hear about so often.

Yes, magnets.

Aries moon here, with a scorpio moon right now and previously as well

Posted by Piscoj
Yeah, I’m not understanding why you keep insisting it’s a Scorpio moon problem...

Most Scorpio moons have too much pride to show you that they are affected by anything. Going out of my way to hurt you would not be on my list of things to do, I’m trying to get over you and move on, not focus more on you.

Yes, very much so

Posted by nano

Posted by Sheever

Posted by nano
Does aries moon and scorpio moon go together generally? That's not a pair I hear about so often.

Yes, magnets.

Aries moon here, with a scorpio moon right now and previously as well

Hey yea, I remember you talked about scorpio moons from your past... so this is a new thing with a different scorp moon? That's cool. Good luck 😂😂

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Thanks! Currently little over 1.5 year mark, previously over 12 years. I had no short relationships really. I consider myself consistent.