T4taurus
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Posted by ParisianCappyI'm not even sure ??♀️
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Posted by T4taurusHe may be protecting himself.... How are you with him? Have you told him you love him also? Are you sincere in your actions?
I know a Scorpio and he flip flops A LOT. One minute he wants to be in a relationship the next min. He doesn't. One minute he loves me and is in love with me, next minute he's just starting to love me. We see each other quite often and out the blue he tells me he's seeing to much of me, then the next day tells me to come over. (Like wtf) Yall catching my drift?
Everything he says I take with a grain of salt bcause it seems he changes his mind TOO much, especially for me. I just don't know what to believe or what not to believe and I don't know why he can't stand firm on his word.
Any other scorpions have this issue and can give me some insight on why he does this
Posted by poison_ivyYes always told him how I felt although it took a while for me to open up as tauruses do so he knows I'm being honest. I show him loyalty, honesty & being trust worthy and now I feel to a fault cause I'm being slighted. That's why I don't understand what's going on, he never lied or recanted what he said before (I've known him for a while)Posted by T4taurusHe may be protecting himself.... How are you with him? Have you told him you love him also? Are you sincere in your actions?
I know a Scorpio and he flip flops A LOT. One minute he wants to be in a relationship the next min. He doesn't. One minute he loves me and is in love with me, next minute he's just starting to love me. We see each other quite often and out the blue he tells me he's seeing to much of me, then the next day tells me to come over. (Like wtf) Yall catching my drift?
Everything he says I take with a grain of salt bcause it seems he changes his mind TOO much, especially for me. I just don't know what to believe or what not to believe and I don't know why he can't stand firm on his word.
Any other scorpions have this issue and can give me some insight on why he does thisclick to expand
Posted by AneemAI have been very patient to say the least and so has he. We both had something going on when we first met. Now he has been single for a while and I just got out of a relationship and I didn't want him to be a rebound so I wanted to take things slow and he wanted a relationship. Now I feel like it's the opposite lol. I still don't want a relationship but just to be exclusive/date
He can't control himself with his intense emotions over you.
He needs to find grip. Temper down everything.
I'd say be patient. Your patience, rock-steady and grounded nature are the best resorts.
If he sees you are worth it, he will make amends.
Imo.
Posted by AneemA
That's good, you are considerate for saving him from being a rebound guy. Please keep it that way. Take things slow.
And perhaps it can be a good thing to express some of your thoughts about it, tell him your concerns about not making him to be a rebound. He should appreciate it much.
I thought he did but started becoming more distant I think I might have bruised his ego bcause he did a 180 around that time(recanting what he already said)
Irdk I have a hard time expressing myself PERIOD especially what it is I want. I want a relationship in the long run as does he. But as of right now I'm way to possessive for anything other than that smh (I really try not to be but I am BOTHERED and he knows that and sometimes tries to make me jealous?) lol I sound selfish as hell.
Why am I doing what exactly ?
Why am I doing what exactly ?
All that is is just words out of his mouth and pretty meaningless. How does he treat you?
Posted by LadyNeptuneRespectfully, he's very genuine, he fulfills majority or my needs -I am pretty spoiled from my last relationship so.. I don't expect him to fill those shoes but if my ex was a 10 he would be a 7
All that is is just words out of his mouth and pretty meaningless. How does he treat you?
Posted by Impulsv
Oh you're a Taurus. I'm gonna say it's the intensity too intense he needs space he feels need to back off because he can't control his emotions. Emotions aren't bad but we're talking about emotions of every negative scenarios Crossing out mind. Losing you ect.
Do you mean emotionally backing off? Cause he still wants to see and speak to me everyday.
Ps. I'm thinking about giving him a lot of space ? I feel like he has me In limbo and that's where he wants to keep me until he can figure out what he wants but I know what I want from him
Posted by ImpulsvPosted by T4taurusOh yeah timing is hard for us like having to restrain our love for us when we know n u want slowPosted by AneemA
That's good, you are considerate for saving him from being a rebound guy. Please keep it that way. Take things slow.
And perhaps it can be a good thing to express some of your thoughts about it, tell him your concerns about not making him to be a rebound. He should appreciate it much.
I thought he did but started becoming more distant I think I might have bruised his ego bcause he did a 180 around that time(recanting what he already said)
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lol I can't help it. His actions just aren't matching his words everything was/is still the same he just felt it necessary to ease that in in conversation very recently and idk why if we doing the same ish
Posted by T4taurusBut do you see each other often? How many times per week? Does he pick up your calls. Does he invest time in finding out how your day was? When he listens does he really listen? Like if you gave him a pop quiz on what you just talked about would he pass?Posted by LadyNeptuneRespectfully, he's very genuine, he fulfills majority or my needs -I am pretty spoiled from my last relationship so.. I don't expect him to fill those shoes but if my ex was a 10 he would be a 7
All that is is just words out of his mouth and pretty meaningless. How does he treat you?
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That kinda thing.
Posted by T4taurusWhen he said these things too you, wants to be in a relationship and loves you, what was your reaction/response.
One minute he wants to be in a relationship the next min. He doesn't. One minute he loves me and is in love with me, next minute he's just starting to love me.
Posted by T4taurusThis is me, a lot. When my heart is totally open, my emotions are swayed if every action that my partner takes. So if he's being amazing I'm so in love, obversely if he's in a bad mood or being an asshole, I'm devasted. Like someone else said, him bouncing back and forth is him protecting himself. He's open when its good, but the slightest off-putting thing probably scares him because he doesn't want it to break his heart. When a scorpios feelings are hurt (not to say this can't happen to anyone) but the scorpio will implode and feel it very deeply. All I can say is if you want to be with him, let him know and he will commit 100% .
I know a Scorpio and he flip flops A LOT. One minute he wants to be in a relationship the next min. He doesn't. One minute he loves me and is in love with me, next minute he's just starting to love me. We see each other quite often and out the blue he tells me he's seeing to much of me, then the next day tells me to come over. (Like wtf) Yall catching my drift?
Everything he says I take with a grain of salt bcause it seems he changes his mind TOO much, especially for me. I just don't know what to believe or what not to believe and I don't know why he can't stand firm on his word.
Any other scorpions have this issue and can give me some insight on why he does this
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by T4taurusBut do you see each other often? How many times per week? Does he pick up your calls. Does he invest time in finding out how your day was? When he listens does he really listen? Like if you gave him a pop quiz on what you just talked about would he pass?Posted by LadyNeptuneRespectfully, he's very genuine, he fulfills majority or my needs -I am pretty spoiled from my last relationship so.. I don't expect him to fill those shoes but if my ex was a 10 he would be a 7
All that is is just words out of his mouth and pretty meaningless. How does he treat you?
That kinda thing.
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Out of 7 days maybe 4/5, if it was up to him it would be 7 days lol. Unless he is sleep usually picks up or tells me he'll call later if busy. Always ask how was work, what I did or doing that day etc.
Posted by ImpulsvHonestly I don't wanna b in a relationship rn I just got out of one a couple months ago but I'm very possessive w ppl I love so I don't want nobody else to have him. I know...selfishPosted by T4taurusPosted by ImpulsvPosted by T4taurusOh yeah timing is hard for us like having to restrain our love for us when we know n u want slowPosted by AneemA
That's good, you are considerate for saving him from being a rebound guy. Please keep it that way. Take things slow.
And perhaps it can be a good thing to express some of your thoughts about it, tell him your concerns about not making him to be a rebound. He should appreciate it much.
I thought he did but started becoming more distant I think I might have bruised his ego bcause he did a 180 around that time(recanting what he already said)
It's torture n painful
lol I can't help it. His actions just aren't matching his words everything was/is still the same he just felt it necessary to ease that in in conversation very recently and idk why if we doing the same ish
But ur the one using words just dating exclusively
Seems u are showing u don't know either n mirroring
He's going to back off as natural instinct n ur telling us he is. Stand stable Taurus this is what ur known for
When it's intense we can be all over because of fear but doesn't mean we stopped loving you. U say he acts the same n in contact ect. Right?click to expand
Posted by ScorpicoLmao so what am I suppose to believe?
This is me, a lot. When my heart is totally open, my emotions are swayed if every action that my partner takes. So if he's being amazing I'm so in love, obversely if he's in a bad mood or being an asshole, I'm devasted. Like someone else said, him bouncing back and forth is him protecting himself. He's open when its good, but the slightest off-putting thing probably scares him because he doesn't want it to break his heart. When a scorpios feelings are hurt (not to say this can't happen to anyone) but the scorpio will implode and feel it very deeply. All I can say is if you want to be with him, let him know and he will commit 100% .click to expand
I can relate to that bcause I'm the same way i show it through my actions and not my words (no wonder we confuse each other).
Posted by T4taurusGood! As long as he knows you feel the same you shouldn't have much to worry about. If he said it first then he means it. When we find the person we really like we tend to fall deep and fast...We don't fall for EVERYTHING walking tho. We tend to stay true to one person only.. and speaking for myself, It's hard for me to share myself with many.. I usually end up dating, meeting "the one" and dropping the others.. We also are very emotional so if he's been hurt before, he doesn't want to get hurt again.. he may be trying to "feel you out"... being that you hesitated at first, he's making sure it's real.. As far as I can tell, just stay true, be honest and loyal and reassure him and you won't have anything to worry about.Posted by poison_ivyYes always told him how I felt although it took a while for me to open up as tauruses do so he knows I'm being honest. I show him loyalty, honesty & being trust worthy and now I feel to a fault cause I'm being slighted. That's why I don't understand what's going on, he never lied or recanted what he said before (I've known him for a while)Posted by T4taurusHe may be protecting himself.... How are you with him? Have you told him you love him also? Are you sincere in your actions?
I know a Scorpio and he flip flops A LOT. One minute he wants to be in a relationship the next min. He doesn't. One minute he loves me and is in love with me, next minute he's just starting to love me. We see each other quite often and out the blue he tells me he's seeing to much of me, then the next day tells me to come over. (Like wtf) Yall catching my drift?
Everything he says I take with a grain of salt bcause it seems he changes his mind TOO much, especially for me. I just don't know what to believe or what not to believe and I don't know why he can't stand firm on his word.
Any other scorpions have this issue and can give me some insight on why he does thisclick to expand
Posted by ImpulsvSO TRUE! We sorta just know what we want and who we want.. & when "that one" crosses our path we tell you exactly what we feel.. sometimes it's overly intense for some people... & if your energy doesn't feed off of our own we tend to back up a bit to avoid getting hurt... We been there, been hurt, and it's not a good feeling for emotional people like us.. We like direct.. anything else confuses us and we'll tend to ease off..Posted by T4taurusOh yeah timing is hard for us like having to restrain our love for us when we know n u want slowPosted by AneemA
That's good, you are considerate for saving him from being a rebound guy. Please keep it that way. Take things slow.
And perhaps it can be a good thing to express some of your thoughts about it, tell him your concerns about not making him to be a rebound. He should appreciate it much.
I thought he did but started becoming more distant I think I might have bruised his ego bcause he did a 180 around that time(recanting what he already said)
It's torture n painfulclick to expand
what are his other placements ?
Posted by tctaI believe this is it although idk his time of birth
what are his other placements ?
Zodiac : Tropical
Sun Scorpio 11°46'
Moon Libra 20°34'
Mercury Sagittarius 0°23'
Venus Virgo 25°17'
Mars Scorpio 12°56'
Jupiter Virgo 10°02'
Saturn Aquarius 0°58'
Uranus Capricorn 10°44'
Neptune Capricorn 14°26'
Pluto Scorpio 19°59'
Lilith Capricorn 21°24'
Asc node Capricorn 11°30'
Posted by T4tauruscould be his Libra Moon - some Libra's can be very indecisive to the point of madness for them and those around them ...Posted by tctaI believe this is it although idk his time of birth
what are his other placements ?
Zodiac : Tropical
Sun Scorpio 11°46'
Moon Libra 20°34'
Mercury Sagittarius 0°23'
Venus Virgo 25°17'
Mars Scorpio 12°56'
Jupiter Virgo 10°02'
Saturn Aquarius 0°58'
Uranus Capricorn 10°44'
Neptune Capricorn 14°26'
Pluto Scorpio 19°59'
Lilith Capricorn 21°24'
Asc node Capricorn 11°30'
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Posted by poison_ivyPosted by T4taurusGood! As long as he knows you feel the same you shouldn't have much to worry about. If he said it first then he means it. When we find the person we really like we tend to fall deep and fast...We don't fall for EVERYTHING walking tho. We tend to stay true to one person only.. and speaking for myself, It's hard for me to share myself with many.. I usually end up dating, meeting "the one" and dropping the others.. We also are very emotional so if he's been hurt before, he doesn't want to get hurt again.. he may be trying to "feel you out"... being that you hesitated at first, he's making sure it's real.. As far as I can tell, just stay true, be honest and loyal and reassure him and you won't have anything to worry about.Posted by poison_ivyYes always told him how I felt although it took a while for me to open up as tauruses do so he knows I'm being honest. I show him loyalty, honesty & being trust worthy and now I feel to a fault cause I'm being slighted. That's why I don't understand what's going on, he never lied or recanted what he said before (I've known him for a while)Posted by T4taurusHe may be protecting himself.... How are you with him? Have you told him you love him also? Are you sincere in your actions?
I know a Scorpio and he flip flops A LOT. One minute he wants to be in a relationship the next min. He doesn't. One minute he loves me and is in love with me, next minute he's just starting to love me. We see each other quite often and out the blue he tells me he's seeing to much of me, then the next day tells me to come over. (Like wtf) Yall catching my drift?
Everything he says I take with a grain of salt bcause it seems he changes his mind TOO much, especially for me. I just don't know what to believe or what not to believe and I don't know why he can't stand firm on his word.
Any other scorpions have this issue and can give me some insight on why he does thisclick to expand
Thank you very helpful although I think he would rather keep "testing" me instead
Posted by tctaWow I didn't even think about that you could be on to something lol
could be his Libra Moon - some Libra's can be very indecisive to the point of madness for them and those around them ...
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Posted by ImpulsvHe knew I had just got out of a relationship and I explained I didn't wanna make him a rebound. So why would he think I would break his heart if I'm trying to protect it and start things off right with a clear mind?Posted by T4taurusPosted by ImpulsvHonestly I don't wanna b in a relationship rn I just got out of one a couple months ago but I'm very possessive w ppl I love so I don't want nobody else to have him. I know...selfishPosted by T4taurusPosted by ImpulsvPosted by T4taurusOh yeah timing is hard for us like having to restrain our love for us when we know n u want slowPosted by AneemA
That's good, you are considerate for saving him from being a rebound guy. Please keep it that way. Take things slow.
And perhaps it can be a good thing to express some of your thoughts about it, tell him your concerns about not making him to be a rebound. He should appreciate it much.
I thought he did but started becoming more distant I think I might have bruised his ego bcause he did a 180 around that time(recanting what he already said)
It's torture n painful
lol I can't help it. His actions just aren't matching his words everything was/is still the same he just felt it necessary to ease that in in conversation very recently and idk why if we doing the same ish
But ur the one using words just dating exclusively
Seems u are showing u don't know either n mirroring
He's going to back off as natural instinct n ur telling us he is. Stand stable Taurus this is what ur known for
When it's intense we can be all over because of fear but doesn't mean we stopped loving you. U say he acts the same n in contact ect. Right?
Wow so yeah ur starting his instability
He sesnses it. U don't understand when we love it's 100 plus n what ur stating would be devastating
Ur too much risk in investing more only to get heart broken
I'd feel like ur not into me. N perhaps that is the case because u prefer being single
Remember we are all or nothing n can't even understand why ud want it as u do
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However, I understand what you are saying tho. I didn't reject the idea I just said I needed time
Posted by ImpulsvPosted by T4taurusPosted by ImpulsvHe knew I had just got out of a relationship and I explained I didn't wanna make him a rebound. So why would he think I would break his heart if I'm trying to protect it and start things off right with a clear mind?Posted by T4taurusPosted by ImpulsvHonestly I don't wanna b in a relationship rn I just got out of one a couple months ago but I'm very possessive w ppl I love so I don't want nobody else to have him. I know...selfishPosted by T4taurusPosted by ImpulsvPosted by T4taurusOh yeah timing is hard for us like having to restrain our love for us when we know n u want slowPosted by AneemA
That's good, you are considerate for saving him from being a rebound guy. Please keep it that way. Take things slow.
And perhaps it can be a good thing to express some of your thoughts about it, tell him your concerns about not making him to be a rebound. He should appreciate it much.
I thought he did but started becoming more distant I think I might have bruised his ego bcause he did a 180 around that time(recanting what he already said)
It's torture n painful
lol I can't help it. His actions just aren't matching his words everything was/is still the same he just felt it necessary to ease that in in conversation very recently and idk why if we doing the same ish
But ur the one using words just dating exclusively
Seems u are showing u don't know either n mirroring
He's going to back off as natural instinct n ur telling us he is. Stand stable Taurus this is what ur known for
When it's intense we can be all over because of fear but doesn't mean we stopped loving you. U say he acts the same n in contact ect. Right?
Wow so yeah ur starting his instability
He sesnses it. U don't understand when we love it's 100 plus n what ur stating would be devastating
Ur too much risk in investing more only to get heart broken
I'd feel like ur not into me. N perhaps that is the case because u prefer being single
Remember we are all or nothing n can't even understand why ud want it as u do
However, I understand what you are saying tho. I didn't reject the idea I just said I needed time
I was in similar situation with Taurus male
Wanted slow , hot n cold
Fear of getting hurt
Can't explain but it was torture the thought of investing n not ending up working
Like I'd rather hurt now than worse later when more attached n he never really got there at my level emotionally.
Turns out the pain is the same.
So he might have fears of losing you, ending up hurt cuz Ull never get at his level of love , decide u wabtbto date others, while having been investing.
It's silly because that's how it should be perhaps
But since I'm
Already at the finish line it takes faith I'll get thereclick to expand
Bolder: Why do you say that? I love very deeply I just have a hard time showing it as do Scorpios so I've heard.
And I don't understand the underlined
Just skimming over this topic and speaking from a female Scorpio point of view...the hot cold scenario is a smoke screen. He possibly has deep feelings or is catching on and pulls back to protect his heart and shield any feelings arising. Keep in there even though it's hard and tiresome...we feel so deeply and it can be scary cause once we love we love hard and protect the ones we love and care about with all we have. Your Scorpio guy is testing to see in tough times you will ride it out and show you are there. I wish you luck...we are mysterious but once caught we are so loyal devoted and loving.
Posted by MiscorpionThank you and yeah I think I'm going to hang in there.
Just skimming over this topic and speaking from a female Scorpio point of view...the hot cold scenario is a smoke screen. He possibly has deep feelings or is catching on and pulls back to protect his heart and shield any feelings arising. Keep in there even though it's hard and tiresome...we feel so deeply and it can be scary cause once we love we love hard and protect the ones we love and care about with all we have. Your Scorpio guy is testing to see in tough times you will ride it out and show you are there. I wish you luck...we are mysterious but once caught we are so loyal devoted and loving.
I just wanted to ask you if the feeling is mutual then why do they still feel the need to do it?
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I think his moon is in libra and my moon is in TaurusPosted by T4taurusLook at his moon placement. He may have a mutable moon ie sag, Gemini, Pisces or Virgo and find out your moon..Posted by AneemAI have been very patient to say the least and so has he. We both had something going on when we first met. Now he has been single for a while and I just got out of a relationship and I didn't want him to be a rebound so I wanted to take things slow and he wanted a relationship. Now I feel like it's the opposite lol. I still don't want a relationship but just to be exclusive/date
He can't control himself with his intense emotions over you.
He needs to find grip. Temper down everything.
I'd say be patient. Your patience, rock-steady and grounded nature are the best resorts.
If he sees you are worth it, he will make amends.
Imo.
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Any other scorpions have this issue and can give me some insight on why he does this