question for scorpio males

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by watwudjldo on Wednesday, March 17, 2010 and has 14 replies.
What does it mean when a scorpio starts saying calling you baby?
so i've known this guy for a while and we talk all the time sometimes for up to 8 hours on te phone or online and he always says really sweeet things like that im important to him and i told him i loved him and now he says he loves me too sometimes even before i say it and has started calling me baby and honey. but he hasnt said anything about a relationship. i just sometimes dont know if its real or if he knows its what i want to hear
hmm i wish..
i dont want to just be a fuck buddy i really like him i wonder if he wants a serious relation because because i dont really know anything about scorpios and sometimes guys will say things like that when they know you like them just to keep a friendship and not hurt my feelings so i was just asking if thats in a scorpios nature to say things they dont mean to keep the peace...
Posted by watwudjldo
What does it mean when a scorpio starts saying calling you baby?
so i've known this guy for a while and we talk all the time sometimes for up to 8 hours on te phone or online and he always says really sweeet things like that im important to him and i told him i loved him and now he says he loves me too sometimes even before i say it and has started calling me baby and honey. but he hasnt said anything about a relationship. i just sometimes dont know if its real or if he knows its what i want to hear


Actions speak louder than words.
yea actions do but im at college now and he lives way far away so we dont see each other in person but still i feel he's my best and most important friend because i talk with him more than anyone else in the world and he will stay up all night until 10 am to talk with me and does his best to make me feel special. he does say things like we should do things when we r together in the future and he says i love you soo much.. but he never asked if we wanted to date or anything..
go and meet him .. speak up your wants and desires, dont wait for his cues all the time.
well no we havent reallly met but still i feel that i know him i talk with him more than anyone else even the person i live with.
well i understand that but its hard when you spend so much time talking with someone to not grow feelings for them especially when you can share everything with them and they say things that melt your heart.. idk
well im 21 and hes 23 hmm well he says he loves that im interesting and that we never can get bored with each other.. umm we understand each other very well and can usually sense how the other person is feeling and we both love to sing fergie songs and take pictures.. um we always make each other laugh even when we r in a really bad mood.. like today was terrible i just found out im probably going to fail my political science class in college and was crying but even though i was really depressed he talked to me for like 3 hours and by the end i was smiling and laughing even though i really didnt want to because i feel so shitty
To my knowledge, scorpio men are not good with long-distance relationships. I think if he were really interested in a serious romantic relationship, he would be trying to come and see you -- at least MEET you in person to get a good look at you.
oo yes well i am going to visit him after i get out of school i got a plane ticket a few weeks ago and he seems happy and he is trying to see about applying to my college
He's using those words to reel you in what he does and/or what the intentions after you're open... I don't know. But I will say as a scorpio male that most of us aren't going to use the "L" word if we don't really mean it. We don't have to tell a girl that we love her to get her to have sex with us. There's no challenge in that and besides it's lame.
As far as the him never meeting you and saying he loves you, I can see how that can happen from a scorpios perspective because a lot of times the mental side of things is where we live! But for you guys to have a REAL connection yall must of really had some deep convos and put some serious phone time in.
Posted by nov5male
He's using those words to reel you in what he does and/or what the intentions after you're open... I don't know. But I will say as a scorpio male that most of us aren't going to use the "L" word if we don't really mean it. We don't have to tell a girl that we love her to get her to have sex with us. There's no challenge in that and besides it's lame.
As far as the him never meeting you and saying he loves you, I can see how that can happen from a scorpios perspective because a lot of times the mental side of things is where we live! But for you guys to have a REAL connection yall must of really had some deep convos and put some serious phone time in.


yea your right we have had really deep conversations we told each other things we've never told any one else he even read his diary to me. well thanks alot that makes me feel better i feel like he is really sincere and i cant wait for school to be out to go visit him smile thanks everyone for the advice
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Posted by watwudjldo
What does it mean when a scorpio starts saying calling you baby?
so i've known this guy for a while and we talk all the time sometimes for up to 8 hours on te phone or online and he always says really sweeet things like that im important to him and i told him i loved him and now he says he loves me too sometimes even before i say it and has started calling me baby and honey. but he hasnt said anything about a relationship. i just sometimes dont know if its real or if he knows its what i want to hear



he bascily thinks your his girl you wants a home run ASAP, maybe hes thinking about you and wakeing up with a morning glory, also he really likes you, if you get tired of him just lie to him and say it's over, if he comes back say something along the lines of "we need to see other people i don't feel the love anymore and I,..I can't handly this, problems with the family and... i kissed someone it was at a party and i didn't know what happen it,... it just went bang and now i think i like him"(don't say sorry) after that hang up he might try to call you so after the fourth time he calls pick up and say "i'm going out for a few drinks i need to clear my head and that guy is going to be at the bar i'm sorry".
after that go out see your friends have a few drinks and it's done, bless.
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