relationship trouble
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Pia on Wednesday, January 17, 2007 and has 30 replies.
hi there,
i need some help and advise. So if you would like to listen. sorry for grammar-english is my second language.
last summer i went to visit my friend abroad and was introduces to a guy. We did not even speak the same language. All translations we needed did my friend and it was just so amuseing. We both were very intersted in each other and decided staing in touch. i left and went back home to germany. I felt awful without him and silly about it. Our first letters have been all about us and our feeling to each other. I was pleased he felt the same. He visited me only twice at home and was concerned i would be the one for him. He asked me to come to his country to stay with him, as he could not leave because of his music band and job. I thought now or never and was excited about a revolution. I left everything behind because nothing was more important to me then beeing with him. I quickly managed living in a strange country and develop my language and have had a job from the first day on. It was like a fairy tale. The first time was wonderful and later it lost a bit of spark like all relationships. He always says he loves me and one day he will ask me to marry him. How wondeful that sounds but sometimes i felt scared that he is so absolute sure about it. With the progressing success of his music band our arguments develope. It is all about other girls and i alway believe this will be a dangerzone for our relation ship. Even i knew it. I cannot trust him and always believe he once will find that he was wrong feeling this for me. He is a scorpio and i am a pisces. Is it worth for us to stay together or am i destroing this relationship slowly?
Thanks...
i need some help and advise. So if you would like to listen. sorry for grammar-english is my second language.
last summer i went to visit my friend abroad and was introduces to a guy. We did not even speak the same language. All translations we needed did my friend and it was just so amuseing. We both were very intersted in each other and decided staing in touch. i left and went back home to germany. I felt awful without him and silly about it. Our first letters have been all about us and our feeling to each other. I was pleased he felt the same. He visited me only twice at home and was concerned i would be the one for him. He asked me to come to his country to stay with him, as he could not leave because of his music band and job. I thought now or never and was excited about a revolution. I left everything behind because nothing was more important to me then beeing with him. I quickly managed living in a strange country and develop my language and have had a job from the first day on. It was like a fairy tale. The first time was wonderful and later it lost a bit of spark like all relationships. He always says he loves me and one day he will ask me to marry him. How wondeful that sounds but sometimes i felt scared that he is so absolute sure about it. With the progressing success of his music band our arguments develope. It is all about other girls and i alway believe this will be a dangerzone for our relation ship. Even i knew it. I cannot trust him and always believe he once will find that he was wrong feeling this for me. He is a scorpio and i am a pisces. Is it worth for us to stay together or am i destroing this relationship slowly?
Thanks...
I can`t read all of this right now but i will do and respond later..
One of my assistans here could come and answer you now.
One of my assistans here could come and answer you now.
I just read it all..
It very known that when Scorpio ask for something like moving to live with him or even moving to another country like in your case then he is very serious about it and he likes you so much or loves you..Scorpios don`t fool around like this with girls.
Now if we totaly forget about signs,this guy asked you to come and live in his country with him,you sacrifised everything and moved to his country..it was really a fairytale..so after doing all this you are considering leaving him just because of some thoughts?and you are not sure about your thought,so you have to wait and see what will happen..especially that he promised he will marry you someday.
It very known that when Scorpio ask for something like moving to live with him or even moving to another country like in your case then he is very serious about it and he likes you so much or loves you..Scorpios don`t fool around like this with girls.
Now if we totaly forget about signs,this guy asked you to come and live in his country with him,you sacrifised everything and moved to his country..it was really a fairytale..so after doing all this you are considering leaving him just because of some thoughts?and you are not sure about your thought,so you have to wait and see what will happen..especially that he promised he will marry you someday.
hypnotic eyes-
-of corse you are right. I should not be foolish and question it all. I was just realy concerned...and after i red more about star signs i lost track i guess...
and thanks archer-
- i just realised yes it's comming soon...tanks and...that he actually is the central of attention for me and loves it...how boring am i...
-of corse you are right. I should not be foolish and question it all. I was just realy concerned...and after i red more about star signs i lost track i guess...
and thanks archer-
- i just realised yes it's comming soon...tanks and...that he actually is the central of attention for me and loves it...how boring am i...
Whatever you do, don't become needy...scorpio men like a strong woman! A woman with her own mind/passions/life etc..but also with an affectionate, passionate side..
Yes yes MM is right..
Try to slap him sometimes and give him cold face.
Try to slap him sometimes and give him cold face.
LOL..
"scorpio men like a strong woman"
Wrong.
scorpio men like a strong women.
Wrong.
scorpio men like a strong women.
"scorpio men like a strong women"
Sooooooo pedantic
Sooooooo pedantic
Yeah I was just correcting the grammar.
So I missed an 'e'..BIG DEAL!!!
"So I missed an 'e'..BIG DEAL!!!'
Do U know what it wud have meant for Scorp males ?
Do U know what it wud have meant for Scorp males ?
Yeah LOL..fidelity...
fidelity = death
Stop it!..We are suppose to be giving the woman hope!
fidelity = death
Stop it!..We are suppose to be giving the woman hope!
missmorals-''A woman with her own mind/passions/life etc..but also with an affectionate, passionate side..''
-i would say this is what he liked and likes on me and all the same i became smaler and somehow envy inside during the last year because i wanted to avoid stress and make it right.
I just cannot snap out of it...
i did not go to the a weekly club night anymore because he did not like my new friends.
I felt unfair when i keept going out with them. I know it sound just so stupid and i have never thought i would end up like this...but i did just not meet up anymore.
i simly feel like beeing realy desprite to do what i want and all the same i don't want to upset him.
-i would say this is what he liked and likes on me and all the same i became smaler and somehow envy inside during the last year because i wanted to avoid stress and make it right.
I just cannot snap out of it...
i did not go to the a weekly club night anymore because he did not like my new friends.
I felt unfair when i keept going out with them. I know it sound just so stupid and i have never thought i would end up like this...but i did just not meet up anymore.
i simly feel like beeing realy desprite to do what i want and all the same i don't want to upset him.
I feel you honey..what your going through now is what my pisces friend went through with her Scorpio man..
Word of advice: please don't try too hard..if you focus all your energy on making him happy, you will die inside..Don't let that happen to you..he's a human being, not a god...and whatever you do, don't put him on a pedestal..he will take advantage..and start controlling..they are sometimes sensitive and do control whom you see and what not..but have your own life..he will want you more for it..Don't start thinking along the lines of what action of yours will make him happy/not happy...
I am sure he's a lovely guy somewhere down the line, and you love him so much you don't want to give him any reason to upset you with fear of him leaving you..but like Archer said..if you've moved countries for him then I am sure he knows that..But sometimes the pressure of dependency of an individual on us Scorpios is a bit too much to bear..
Word of advice: please don't try too hard..if you focus all your energy on making him happy, you will die inside..Don't let that happen to you..he's a human being, not a god...and whatever you do, don't put him on a pedestal..he will take advantage..and start controlling..they are sometimes sensitive and do control whom you see and what not..but have your own life..he will want you more for it..Don't start thinking along the lines of what action of yours will make him happy/not happy...
I am sure he's a lovely guy somewhere down the line, and you love him so much you don't want to give him any reason to upset you with fear of him leaving you..but like Archer said..if you've moved countries for him then I am sure he knows that..But sometimes the pressure of dependency of an individual on us Scorpios is a bit too much to bear..
to upset you - To be upset with you
'But sometimes the pressure of dependency of an individual on us Scorpios is a bit too much to bear..'
i do understand...I will see the funny side of it and was just trying to see if pisces and scorpio can acctualy make it.
I need to go now.
thanks to all of you for every single word and time today.
i do understand...I will see the funny side of it and was just trying to see if pisces and scorpio can acctualy make it.
I need to go now.
thanks to all of you for every single word and time today.
""scorpio men like a strong women" wrong again"
Yeah I picked up on that but had lost interest by that time..couldnt' be arsed to comment..
Yeah I picked up on that but had lost interest by that time..couldnt' be arsed to comment..
"I peeked down the stairs and said..."HEY, I was a tomboy!" and he and the kid exchanged looks and laughed in that "Man Club" kinda way."
Awwww..bless
Awwww..bless
"Here's the gist - "Don't treat the plain girls badly, they usually end up the prettiest." and "go after the tomboys. They are lower maintenance." (hence, stronger?) "
Very close to what Warren Buffet would have to say about picking right stocks. Go for the fundamentally strong scrips and buy them out when they are selling at a discount. They would yield a rich results in the long run.
Very close to what Warren Buffet would have to say about picking right stocks. Go for the fundamentally strong scrips and buy them out when they are selling at a discount. They would yield a rich results in the long run.
"btw why do ppl go surfing when they fully know that sharks r there in the water...?"
Why do ppl fall for scorpios ?
Why do ppl fall for scorpios ?
BTW .... it had sth to do with freakonomics ?
OR maybe they are inspired by "Baywatch"
"lol...
to get saved by the hot babes?"
lol yea...the real sharks.
to get saved by the hot babes?"
lol yea...the real sharks.
See I would have to disagree here I am afraid..I don't know about Pisces women/Scorp man..but it certainly doesn't work the other way around I have seen..
The Scorpio women are more scarier than the man..and need someone with a bit more Umph!!..
Having said that I have seen many Pisces female/Scorp male fail too...
Don't meant to put a downer on the situation..
The Scorpio women are more scarier than the man..and need someone with a bit more Umph!!..
Having said that I have seen many Pisces female/Scorp male fail too...
Don't meant to put a downer on the situation..
Missmorals,i started to believe that your mission in life is destroying realtionship.
HE: you can think what you bloody well like..its your choice..
EG: Yeah someones gotta love us!..hehe
EG: Yeah someones gotta love us!..hehe
Don't get me wrong I have seen Scorp male/pisces female date..but one hasn't lasted the whole course..sensitivity and all that..
''Don't get me wrong I have seen Scorp male/pisces female date..but one hasn't lasted the whole course..sensitivity and all that..''
I have been with a picses man and it did not last. I ended up hateing him because he did not lift up his arse. To be honest, i have had week blokes before and it does not give me anything. I fell for this scorpio man because of his extra spice and i need to see what will happen. I better get my danceing shoes...have a good night all...and thanks.
lol
I have been with a picses man and it did not last. I ended up hateing him because he did not lift up his arse. To be honest, i have had week blokes before and it does not give me anything. I fell for this scorpio man because of his extra spice and i need to see what will happen. I better get my danceing shoes...have a good night all...and thanks.
lol
My son's father is a Picses, I met him when I was 18, we lasted 6 years broke up for 6 years and got back together and that lasted on 8 month. Know I can't stand his happy azz.
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