Restlessness and transformation...

Is this a 1/3 life crisis, or are others feeling the same way?
Over the last 2 years I've been on a 'journey' of sorts... I don't know exactly how to explain it, but instead of seeing only black and white I trained myself to see the grey. I've had a number of friends tell me that they are astounded by the transformation. In a good way.

However recently I've been so overwhelmed by inertia, boredom and the sheer mundanity of my life. I'm too settled and feel the need to shake things up. I have a wonderful group of friends, my family are close, a wee house, good job etc... But lately I have been thinking I should just pick up and move somewhere else- anywhere really.

It might seem rather drastic, but the city I live in is basically a construction zone, and everything is difficult and progress slow. I also would love to meet a nice, intelligent man, and not to be too snobby but there is an influx of labourers here and its not really my scene.

Is anyone else feeling this pressure to change things up at the moment? Is this part of the evolution/ cycle? Or just me being a grumpy little frog in a stagnant pond??

I think you're just lonely. We're all hungry for love and when we don't have that someone special in our lives, we feel something fundamental is missing. Plus, you being a scorpio, I imagine intimacy is pretty important to you. Sometimes locational cures shake things up and get you out of your routine and your shell.

Hi VivaScorp- welcome 🙂 probably have... Most of my town is rubble!

And yep Este8- spot on... but I don't think I'm going to find the man of my dreams in high vis 😛 think I need to look further afield.

Posted by LilliLou
Hi VivaScorp- welcome 🙂 probably have... Most of my town is rubble!

And yep Este8- spot on... but I don't think I'm going to find the man of my dreams in high vis 😛 think I need to look further afield.

I feel ya. I really do. I'm living in the pioneer valley of Western Mass and there aren't any single men who are employed and half-way sane. Just aren't many options out here. I'm looking to Boston and open to relocating back there if I meet the right cat. Sometimes, we are indeed limited by our options. Good luck finding what's missing in your life. I'm rooting for you!

You too este8! The things we do for love huh?!

Thanks kalin, it's not happening yet... I'm still too scared, but it is a serious consideration!