Rivalry or Attraction

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Lobo on Monday, April 15, 2013 and has 17 replies.
I've found just about every Scorpio female that I encounter, I end up competing with or wanting to know how they tick then tear their clothes off.. hmmm it's weird I like the idk love/hate vibe I get from them be it good or bad.. -shrugs..
Posted by Lobo
I've found just about every Scorpio female that I encounter, I end up competing with or wanting to know how they tick then tear their clothes off.. hmmm it's weird I like the idk love/hate vibe I get from them be it good or bad.. -shrugs..


I forgot Lobo, are you a Cap or a Virgo?
A virgo, my dear.... virgo (smiles)...
Posted by Lobo
A virgo, my dear.... virgo (smiles)...


Ahh, my apologizes and how clumsy of me to forget. You see, this is what happens when I have not paid a proper visit to the Virgo board as of late. Anyhow Mr.Virgo, in regards to your original post, do you find yourself feeling or thinking of this innate competition? Which kind of competition is it, of the emotional kind or a test/challenge of the minds? Perhaps the answer to these questions may bring some insight to the 'friction' which you seem to experience,
Which you seem to experience. *typo*
test, maybe see who can be more intense... who can be more secretive, who can read things and emotions better..
Posted by Lobo
test, maybe see who can be more intense... who can be more secretive, who can read things and emotions better..


Tests.
Ahh, but they are very different, between the ones Scorpio typically use as compared to those used by a Virgo. In regards to intensity, this may be stereotypical but on a general whole, they are more rationally intense where as Scorpios are more emotionally intense, speaking from my own interactions with Virgo individuals that is. Secretive, in what way? If in terms of hidden depths, the Scorpio wins hands down, in regards to minute details in life and what not, the Virgo will win without a doubt. Mind reading, haha...I suppose if the Virgo has a heavy Scorpion influence, he'd be able to 'read' quite adequately, anything extraordinary? I do not think so.
Now, that was not a response as to who is better, simply a very vast fundamental difference in how the two signs function, two completely unrelated playing fields, each very good at what they do. Perhaps that is why you may be experiencing the love/hate feeling, constantly intrigued and fascinated but never really comprehending one another, such is life and mysteries.
smile
Posted by Lobo
I've found just about every Scorpio female that I encounter, I end up competing with or wanting to know how they tick then tear their clothes off.. hmmm it's weird I like the idk love/hate vibe I get from them be it good or bad.. -shrugs..


Isn't there a saying for this? If you can't beat them, join them. Tongue smile
Posted by Lobo
test, maybe see who can be more intense... who can be more secretive, who can read things and emotions better..
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My virgo ex used to do this..try to compete with me - who has the better logical argument, more perceptive, more emotional insight. I never understood why and he was the only bf to ever do this.
Posted by carbon_scorp
Posted by Lobo
I've found just about every Scorpio female that I encounter, I end up competing with or wanting to know how they tick then tear their clothes off.. hmmm it's weird I like the idk love/hate vibe I get from them be it good or bad.. -shrugs..


Isn't there a saying for this? If you can't beat them, join them. Tongue smile
Posted by Lobo
test, maybe see who can be more intense... who can be more secretive, who can read things and emotions better..


My virgo ex used to do this..try to compete with me - who has the better logical argument, more perceptive, more emotional insight. I never understood why and he was the only bf to ever do this.
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Their love of having the last word, the 'right and/or correct' one that is Tongue
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
Posted by carbon_scorp
Posted by Lobo
I've found just about every Scorpio female that I encounter, I end up competing with or wanting to know how they tick then tear their clothes off.. hmmm it's weird I like the idk love/hate vibe I get from them be it good or bad.. -shrugs..


Isn't there a saying for this? If you can't beat them, join them. Tongue smile
Posted by Lobo
test, maybe see who can be more intense... who can be more secretive, who can read things and emotions better..


My virgo ex used to do this..try to compete with me - who has the better logical argument, more perceptive, more emotional insight. I never understood why and he was the only bf to ever do this.


Their love of having the last word, the 'right and/or correct' one that is Tongue
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Exactly. He always had to have the last "right" word. It was really annoying, and one of the reasons why things ended.
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
Posted by Lobo
test, maybe see who can be more intense... who can be more secretive, who can read things and emotions better..


Tests.
Ahh, but they are very different, between the ones Scorpio typically use as compared to those used by a Virgo. In regards to intensity, this may be stereotypical but on a general whole, they are more rationally intense where as Scorpios are more emotionally intense, speaking from my own interactions with Virgo individuals that is. Secretive, in what way? If in terms of hidden depths, the Scorpio wins hands down, in regards to minute details in life and what not, the Virgo will win without a doubt. Mind reading, haha...I suppose if the Virgo has a heavy Scorpion influence, he'd be able to 'read' quite adequately, anything extraordinary? I do not think so.
Now, that was not a response as to who is better, simply a very vast fundamental difference in how the two signs function, two completely unrelated playing fields, each very good at what they do. Perhaps that is why you may be experiencing the love/hate feeling, constantly intrigued and fascinated but never really comprehending one another, such
is life and mysteries.
smile
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I think not, you see.. I have a scorp moon which puts me on even playing field on depth... I understand and feel how a scorp does on many levels.. I think that's why I love to clash with them sometimes..
nah I don't need the last word... as long as I've had my say as my leo rising dictates I'm good... I will let it go then...
Posted by Lobo
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
Posted by Lobo
test, maybe see who can be more intense... who can be more secretive, who can read things and emotions better..


Tests.
Ahh, but they are very different, between the ones Scorpio typically use as compared to those used by a Virgo. In regards to intensity, this may be stereotypical but on a general whole, they are more rationally intense where as Scorpios are more emotionally intense, speaking from my own interactions with Virgo individuals that is. Secretive, in what way? If in terms of hidden depths, the Scorpio wins hands down, in regards to minute details in life and what not, the Virgo will win without a doubt. Mind reading, haha...I suppose if the Virgo has a heavy Scorpion influence, he'd be able to 'read' quite adequately, anything extraordinary? I do not think so.
Now, that was not a response as to who is better, simply a very vast fundamental difference in how the two signs function, two completely unrelated playing fields, each very good at what they do. Perhaps that is why you may be experiencing the love/hate feeling, constantly intrigued and fascinated but never really comprehending one another, such
is life and mysteries.
smile




...and ladies and gentleman, that is where the Virgo does the unveiling.
Scorpio moon, I suppose you may have experienced the infamous Sun-Moon conjunction, which may or may not be the reason to the love/hate and power struggle, simply because the potentials have not be stabilized and harnessed as of yet. From an astrological point of view, traditionally in this dynasty aspect, the moon is supposedly ideal when carried by the woman and the sun, the man but there are exceptions. I myself, have experienced this more than once, with various people, I'd say it was either a toxic psycho type of interaction or one of the best things to happen to me, in regards to growth, learning about myself etc. so it was either really good or really bad, no space for middle ground. Search it up, it might give you some food for thought.


I think not, you see.. I have a scorp moon which puts me on even playing field on depth... I understand and feel how a scorp does on many levels.. I think that's why I love to clash with them
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Ahh I love Virgos smile & all of my close friends are Virgos too
Wow so..... many beautiful Scorpio women on this thread.. oh mysmile
Posted by Lobo
I've found just about every Scorpio female that I encounter, I end up competing with or wanting to know how they tick then tear their clothes off.. hmmm it's weird I like the idk love/hate vibe I get from them be it good or bad.. -shrugs..


Perhaps rivalry causes attraction and that's what you're feeling- maybe you like being subtly challenged and Scorpio women provide that for you. I wouldn't necessarily say it's a "good" or "bad" thing, it could be many things depending on how you look at it. With most Virgo people I meet, our discussion is almost like playful banter but we usually end up making each other laugh some how. My sister is also a Virgo- we have a definite love/hate relationship, we get on each others nerves, we bicker, but somewhere inside we know it's really quite a fun pastime for both of us.
I'd say it weighs more to the direction of a good interaction than bad- do you find it entertaining? Do you enjoy it? Then it's probably something that's healthy as long as the rivalry isn't too intense.
"or wanting to know how they tick then tear their clothes off"
I don't think this effect is specific to Virgo men!
yea... it's a healthy playful banter for the most part. the tear the clothes off bit... well my leo is to blame>>> see something and go for it..

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