Scorp ex
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by colorfulbuttercup on Tuesday, July 19, 2016 and has 6 replies.
what do you think of this ?
I met with my scorpio ex - went for a drink - and when i walked towards the car when he picked me up he gave me the slow up and down look that left me without a doubt that he liked what he saw. it instantly created that sizzle feeling.
so he makes general conversation with me on the way to the place but i feel nervous about not knowing what to expect
we get to the bar and instead of opening the door to get into the place for me he makes me walk ahead and i open the door, walk through and he follows behind.
we get into the place and i feel for some weird reason he is putting distance between us.
we choose a place to sit and he turns his whole body towards me while i sit at a 90 degree angle to him.
so we order drinks and he's making conversation but then it comes to talking about past stuff that happened between us and he's saying things have changed and he wants to try.
i feel like he's filling me up with a lot of sweet nothings.
he says things about wanting to try again but i have to be open to it.
the whole time he was staring at me - at all of me - my face, my body just perusing over me and there's this tangible chemistry in the air.
the wine starts loosening me up and bit and i angle my body towards him and he shifts in his seat towards me - his whole body opens up and he smiles
i can tell he wants to touch me or hold me or kiss me.
we continue talking but i still feel tense about his motives and eventually he asks for the bill - he didn't even ask if i wanted to stay
he paid and we walk to his car - he opens the car door for me
he asked what i wanted to do and i said i was gonna go home
he said ok but there's silence in the car and he tries to fill it
he then said he wants to hold my hand but he isn't sure how i feel
so i said if he wants to he should and he nervously takes my hand
he parks at my house and says he wants to kiss me - he kisses me - we kiss a little
and then i stop it and say i'm gonna go
i leave
next day he messages me saying he is sorry things can't be anymore and that he wished i could see things have changed
how do u know when a scorp is serious about you or when you're just an option and they want sex?
I met with my scorpio ex - went for a drink - and when i walked towards the car when he picked me up he gave me the slow up and down look that left me without a doubt that he liked what he saw. it instantly created that sizzle feeling.
so he makes general conversation with me on the way to the place but i feel nervous about not knowing what to expect
we get to the bar and instead of opening the door to get into the place for me he makes me walk ahead and i open the door, walk through and he follows behind.
we get into the place and i feel for some weird reason he is putting distance between us.
we choose a place to sit and he turns his whole body towards me while i sit at a 90 degree angle to him.
so we order drinks and he's making conversation but then it comes to talking about past stuff that happened between us and he's saying things have changed and he wants to try.
i feel like he's filling me up with a lot of sweet nothings.
he says things about wanting to try again but i have to be open to it.
the whole time he was staring at me - at all of me - my face, my body just perusing over me and there's this tangible chemistry in the air.
the wine starts loosening me up and bit and i angle my body towards him and he shifts in his seat towards me - his whole body opens up and he smiles
i can tell he wants to touch me or hold me or kiss me.
we continue talking but i still feel tense about his motives and eventually he asks for the bill - he didn't even ask if i wanted to stay
he paid and we walk to his car - he opens the car door for me
he asked what i wanted to do and i said i was gonna go home
he said ok but there's silence in the car and he tries to fill it
he then said he wants to hold my hand but he isn't sure how i feel
so i said if he wants to he should and he nervously takes my hand
he parks at my house and says he wants to kiss me - he kisses me - we kiss a little
and then i stop it and say i'm gonna go
i leave
next day he messages me saying he is sorry things can't be anymore and that he wished i could see things have changed
how do u know when a scorp is serious about you or when you're just an option and they want sex?
I want to know this also.
Posted by GetMistedDitto. I disagree.Posted by busyeyes88Seems like an unreasonable judgement.
He just wanted sex.....click to expand
Even when a Scorpio retreats after sex, like a previous poster mentioned, it doesn't mean they are playing games. It could mean they let down their wall, and it scared them. My ex would sometimes say he was terrified of having sex with me because it was so emotional for him, and he was scared of opening up himself to getting hurt again.
Trust your instinct about how he truly feel for you. However, if you're at a place where you can walk away, you may want to. The push and pull of someone like that is so hurtful, and he may not change.
Hard to tell. He probably wanted both.
Too much baggage. Not worth the drama. He sounds lonely and horny to me anyways
Posted by colorfulbuttercup
how do u know when a scorp is serious about you or when you're just an option and they want sex?
You're asking the wrong question as most women on here do. First off, why did you break up? That needs to be discussed and addressed. All the open doors and sweet words really doesn't mean much unless it is.
Second, he hasn't done anything to demonstrate he's change and he knows this, so to say "I wish you could see things have changed"...based on a few hours of conversation and a kiss? Boy have a seat.
If things have changed he'll address what led to your split head on and will allow you the time and to watch and see if his words match his actions. Just as he would expect you to address it, slow things down and watch you. Anything less, it's about the snatch.
Always hold a Scorp to the same standards they would hold you.
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