Hey...I'm new to this site, and I was hoping that some Scorpio men (or anyone with experience/knowledge) could provide me with some insight into an extremely perplexing situation I'm having with a Scorpio guy. I'm a Pisces sun/Pisces moon/Leo rising (if that matters). My Scorp is a Scorp sun/Pisces moon/Aqua rising. There's no doubt at all that we are twin flames. We complete each other yet are so much alike in almost every way. Our connection was otherworldly, immediate and totally unexpected for both of us. I'm divorced, but he has never had a really serious adult relationship before. Anyway, a couple of months into our relationship, he received news that he was moving halfway across the world. This is for his job (military), so there is no way he could get out of it. Shortly after he informed me of his orders, he suddenly stopped all contact with me. This was 6 months before he was scheduled to leave. He avoided me for a couple of months and then he eventually would be nice and friendly when we would see each other out, but he wouldn't initiate any contact outside of us randomly bumping into each other out at bars. He would always look at me whenever we would see each other out, and we even made prolonged eye contact quite a few times, but when I would approach him after those instances, he would blow me off and act distant or chat up other girls. The atmosphere around us is electric and there is still an intense sexual energy. He refuses to act on it, tho, despite the fact that I've told him that we could just have fun and live in the moment and there would be no strings attached if he would prefer it that way. I even offered to act out his favorite sexual fantasy with him as a send off...nothing. I get (well, assume) that he's acting this way because he's leaving, and he told me that he doesn't want anything serious right now due to his impending departure. I totally respect and understand that. My confusion lies in the fact that he won't even hook up with me NSA...not even to enact his sexual fantasy. What guy turns an opportunity like that down? I know he's still attracted to me, and I also know that he had a couple of 1 night stands with random girls who he wouldn't talk to ever again. Is it normal for a Scorpio guy to act this way? And is it normal Scorpio behavior to insist a relationship be "serious" or nothing? Thank you!
