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Jun 24, 2015Comments: 1 · Posts: 1641 · Topics: 110
Lol I posted previously about this friend of mine; the confusing six year friendship. He's a Scorp sun, Cap moon and Pisces rising. So he's indeed very guarded lol but at the same time he's wlways dropped me little hints about his interest -- never direct, though. He's never stopped talking to me and always finds a way to get in contact with me, and excuse. Tells me he has dreams about me, and that he has to see pics of me (not inappropriate ones) just of me. And he comes to me for understanding and to discuss his current problems a lot.
But he's never revealed any feelings for me, just an "I miss you" which he'll quickly follow up with a "my friend". Said he wants to get away with me for a weekend soon recently as well.
He has an extreme tendency to keep things light, and I feel like it's a defense.
I've confused him in the past while he confused me so I see why he's guarded. I'm just curious to see if any Scorps could understand this behavior.
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Jun 26, 2015Comments: 0 · Posts: 246 · Topics: 22
I have a friend who keeps telling me the same, a male friend. Well I think this is pretty common between friends. There could be some attraction there or could just be friendly. Has he told you what kind of dreams he has?
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Jun 24, 2015Comments: 1 · Posts: 1641 · Topics: 110
I probably forgot to mention that we've been intimate in the past lol we've always been physically, mentally and spiritually attracted to each other, I don't think that's going away -- we have very similar energy. The intimacy stopped when I wasn't emotionally ready at one point and was getting over my horrible Cancer ex. So he's hinted at being intimate again but I think he learned that we won't be right now. At least not until I know that there's something concrete that I can trust.
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Jun 24, 2015Comments: 1 · Posts: 1641 · Topics: 110
Yeah I try not to take it too personally because he doesn't seem to care about all those girls. When he and I were intimate, it was just us. And I knew that. Just still a bit confusing. I'll bring it up to him, I just wanna be in person when I do so. To make my position in that clear if it were to go anywhere.
Makes sense; and he connected that dream with wanting to see a picture with me in all black lol he always wants to see photos of me. It's like an obsession. He told me I take "artistic, hot photos" lol
Oh and by the end of our text convo last night he told me to "seriously hit me up whenever!!" I thought you guys preferred to go after people, not the other way around?
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Aug 09, 2014Comments: 17 · Posts: 1335 · Topics: 35
You guys have chemistry but he asked you on a weekend getaway not a date meaning he doesn't see you as someone to commitment he is on the fence about you and honestly he just wants to bang you again. When a man is serious about you there won't be any confusion men are logical its women that are complicated so any uncertainty is just not into you on a relationship level so yeah he wants to sex he is just not flat out saying it trying to see where your head at.