Scorp man w/ venus in scorpio, mars in aqua. Damn,

So about a month ago i met this scorpion. i could give u a long story. but I cant even put into word whats is taking place before me. cliff notes version...we slept together last week. I have been avoiding him like the plague since (which is damn hard to do). not because it was bad...I dont think i could have had better sex if i turned into a man and fucked myself. I had been trying not to give in...obviously because i didnt want to feel like a whore. plus the fact that he likes me alot. he has made his intentions very clear (he wants a relationship)...which i thought would change after sex...but nope...he is still talking this exclusive mess...even more. i knew that i should be careful about sleeping with him because he would get attached (don't worry, i already know how i sound) but i let him in the house and that was all she wrote. its not that i don't want him getting attached, its just all the serious "I want to be with you" stuff makes me hyperventilate, especially when you try to make me respond in .2 seconds! Ive told him this a million times but i dont know if he is listening. He seems to not listen to me much....he seems controlling (which is a HUGE red flag for me). he calls it caring. but idk....i care...but its never like that. he says he doesn't think i care cause i don't call and blah, blah, blah (different dude...same story). anywhooo...ive been keeping this guy a secret...more than i normally do...mostly because i slept with him so fast, I cant argue with anyone who judges me lol. so I needed to tell someone.

PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree
Sun Capricorn 16??51'41 in house 6
Moon Leo 29??10'22 in house 2
Mercury Capricorn 26??14'41 in house 7
Venus Aquarius 20??33'29 in house 8
Mars Scorpio 29??32'34 in house 5
Jupiter Aries 20??42'16 in house 10
Saturn Sagittarius 26??15'46 in house 6
Uranus Sagittarius 28??04'23 in house 6
Neptune Capricorn 8??02'55 in house 6
Pluto Scorpio 12??09'48 in house 4
True Node Pisces 25??23'15 in house 9

HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Cancer 20??17'50
2nd House Leo 13??26'29
3rd House Virgo 9??43'36
Imum Coeli Libra 10??46'03
5th House Scorpio 15??17'57
6th House Sagittarius 19??19'48
Descendant Capricorn 20??17'50
8th House Aquarius 13??26'29
9th House Pisces 9??43'36
Medium Coeli Aries 10??46'03
11th House Taurus 15??17'57
12th House Gemini 19??19'48

and Him (male)

PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree
Sun Scorpio 28??04'32 end of house 9
Moon Cancer 13??56'44 in house 5
Mercury Scorpio 13??20'49 in house 9
Venus Scorpio 5??29'57 in house 9
Mars Aquarius 26??22'37 in house 1
Jupiter Pisces 13??13'37 in house 1
Saturn Sagittarius 10??33'29 in house 10
Uranus Sagittarius 21??07'35 in house 10
Neptune Capricorn 4??11'49 in house 11
Pluto Scorpio 8??07'06 in house 9
True Node Aries 20??11'27 in house 2
Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house.

HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Aquarius 20??18'49
2nd House Pisces 27??07'46
3rd House Taurus 1??03'05
Imum Coeli Taurus 29??48'12
5th House Gemini 25??20'28
6th House Cancer 20??55'54
Descendant Leo 20??18'49
8th House Virgo 27??07'46
9th House Scorpio 1??03'05
Medium Coeli Scorpio 29??48'12
11th House Sagittarius 25??20'28
12th House Capricorn 20??55'54


Please note that we have the sun, merc, and venus in the 8th house in our composite chart. which is in no way an excuse for my panties falling to the floor. :-P

shedevil: stop apologising for sleeping with someone 'too fast'. too fast by whose standards exactly? there are plenty of people on dxp who will make judgements about it and tell you you're 'easy' and that you don't 'value yourself' and other similar bullshit but it only matters what YOU think about it!

when people judge other people for sleeping with someone soon after meeting them, they tend to assume that you gave your body with an expectation attached that you would be respected and cherished thereafter for an eternity cos of course, you MUST marry this man. BULLSHIT! there are some women who DON'T value themselves who DO sleep with anything that has a pulse as an opening gambit in relationship negotiations and what happens? they AREN'T respected and they DON'T get the relationship.

there are other women who just like sex. they value themselves. they respect themselves. but they like cock.

as long as you fall into the latter category, i don't think it's a big deal when/where/if/how you fuck someone.

also...don't worry about how you sound cos i do exactly the same as you and worry more about men wanting attachment after having sex with him than what he's gonna think of my morality, lol!!

you have to set your own standards for things but whatever you choose to do, as it involves another person, you MUST consider the consequences. this scorp of yours is intense. sex is gonna make him intenserer (lol) it's gonna cloud his judgement and probably increase his desire for you even further.

THAT'S the issue here. you need to talk to him cos you're both moving at breaking speed...him on the emotional front and you on the physical. it's not a moral issue but its about your ability to have sex without emotional attachment and his INABILTY to separate one from the other. see what i'm saying? 🙂

haha leo moon/aqua venus/ mars scorp

I feel yo pain! 🙂

Haha is Scorpion the rapper Drake?

But I don't know what you want from this thread. There is nothing wrong with how fast you slept with him. Be clear about what you want from any relationship and be mindful of setting the most accurate tone of your desires.

Aww, his chart is similar to the Scorpio I crushed on. They have the same sun, moon, mercury and venus.

You and I have the same sun, moon, and mercury..

I know exactly what you mean by the hyperventilating part, and im a venus in scorpio, so its not a venus in aqua thing. I dont think we are ever as sure, or even know what we want when it comes to relationships. My ideal situation is being manipulated into one. If only the Scorp would have done that to me lol. *sigh*

Anyway, since you like him and he wants you, dive in. You are unsure, and probably will be for a while, so just let him lead that area. Whats the worst that can happen

"I dont think we are ever as sure, or even know what we want when it comes to relationships. My ideal situation is being manipulated into one."

LoL!!!!! + 1 beeeeeellion

my venus is in cap and mars is in aqua, but i feel like this about sums up my dating m.o.

is that the only thing holding you back from getting to know this guy, shedevil?? how fast you two got down? dxp knows i'll vouch for this coupling... i beg you, dont let something kinda shallow get in the way of you giving him a fair shot. but definitely slow things down to a pace you are comfy with. be upfront and honest with him about that. he'll obsess over you even more for it.

LOL. My post was def taken out of context.

Only other Mercury Caps understand my tongue in cheek humor. dah well.