Scorp Men and Making their Claim
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Queenscorpio on Friday, February 15, 2008 and has 9 replies.
Okay guys you all know about my scorp friend right, crazy, possessive but a wonderful person. There will be no future other than a friendship for us.
Now..... A girfriend of mind has been seeing a scorp who I swear could be his twin. She also is a scorp, well a scorp/sag. He in a short time claimed he loved her and although they aren't exclusive yet. Issues there as well, he claims her. You are my woman and how he would be jealous or hurt to know she has been seeing others (yet not in a relationship yet) although he wants to take things slow in a relationship.
He told her it would bother him if she went out with other guys (even platonic friends) even if she invited him along... However he is very busy and doesn't have much time, or won't spend as much time with her as she'd like. What should she do? I told her I probably would be the wrong person to ask because if I am not in a relationship with him and he isn't available and others are that I don't mind spending time with. I would do what I want and when/if he makes time then he will have the time he wants from me.
What do you scorp boyz think?
Oh, she also asked what he wanted from her and his reply:
"You, all of you, I want to know that you will only be with me and love me only and be there when I need you. I know that might be selfish since we haven't moved to the relationship stage, but I am being honest"
Hmph... Yet he isn't available when she wants him to be most times. Right!
Now..... A girfriend of mind has been seeing a scorp who I swear could be his twin. She also is a scorp, well a scorp/sag. He in a short time claimed he loved her and although they aren't exclusive yet. Issues there as well, he claims her. You are my woman and how he would be jealous or hurt to know she has been seeing others (yet not in a relationship yet) although he wants to take things slow in a relationship.
He told her it would bother him if she went out with other guys (even platonic friends) even if she invited him along... However he is very busy and doesn't have much time, or won't spend as much time with her as she'd like. What should she do? I told her I probably would be the wrong person to ask because if I am not in a relationship with him and he isn't available and others are that I don't mind spending time with. I would do what I want and when/if he makes time then he will have the time he wants from me.
What do you scorp boyz think?
Oh, she also asked what he wanted from her and his reply:
"You, all of you, I want to know that you will only be with me and love me only and be there when I need you. I know that might be selfish since we haven't moved to the relationship stage, but I am being honest"
Hmph... Yet he isn't available when she wants him to be most times. Right!
lol scorp boyz have this crazy double standard. she should explain to him that if he can't make time for her then he is losing out. it's not fair for her and he'll only try and push the envelope and take advantage of the relationship more once it gets going.
i'm the same way, very possessive, jealous and territorial. but i know this about myself and make the effort to get along with all of my "potential" girl's guy friends, because i know it's not going to be an issue if i do the best that i can do to make sure she knows that i care about her. yaknow?
relationships are about trust first and foremost, and any wise scorpio knows this and is willing to cope with the uncertainty that predominates that progression from "seeing/date" a girl to being in an actual relationship.
i found that dating multiple girls helps ease the trust issues a bit until things are truly solidified as far as a relationship goes, and then it's easy sailing from there.
i'm the same way, very possessive, jealous and territorial. but i know this about myself and make the effort to get along with all of my "potential" girl's guy friends, because i know it's not going to be an issue if i do the best that i can do to make sure she knows that i care about her. yaknow?
relationships are about trust first and foremost, and any wise scorpio knows this and is willing to cope with the uncertainty that predominates that progression from "seeing/date" a girl to being in an actual relationship.
i found that dating multiple girls helps ease the trust issues a bit until things are truly solidified as far as a relationship goes, and then it's easy sailing from there.
LOL!!! You guys are crazy, but helpful...
Roxi, I am not that way though... I admit, I can get a little possessive of my mate's time (meaning if I don't feel like I am getting enough of it) but, other friends male or female... Or if they decide they want to be with others then I would just take it as their preference and occupy my time doing other things or with others. However, I being a scorp myself, won't have anyone dictate who I can and cannot see, especially if it is platonic and especially if we aren't in a committed relationship. I must say, my friend has been catering to him, but because of the scorp in her, she also have been standing her ground.
He told her they would do something this weekend and an excuse everytime, but calls her all the time and tells her how much he luvs her. Is he using her, is he seeing others? It just doesn't add up to me.
I am way confused, because of what I know, scorps will spend whatever time they can with you, make time if they are that interested. Unless they are scared.
Roxi, I am not that way though... I admit, I can get a little possessive of my mate's time (meaning if I don't feel like I am getting enough of it) but, other friends male or female... Or if they decide they want to be with others then I would just take it as their preference and occupy my time doing other things or with others. However, I being a scorp myself, won't have anyone dictate who I can and cannot see, especially if it is platonic and especially if we aren't in a committed relationship. I must say, my friend has been catering to him, but because of the scorp in her, she also have been standing her ground.
He told her they would do something this weekend and an excuse everytime, but calls her all the time and tells her how much he luvs her. Is he using her, is he seeing others? It just doesn't add up to me.
I am way confused, because of what I know, scorps will spend whatever time they can with you, make time if they are that interested. Unless they are scared.
We scorp girls think alike Roxi. My exact response to her... He is crazy. Although, I think he wants her bad, but doesn't think he is good enough. He actually mentioned that to her. The reason I say he and my scorp friend are twins is because he said some of the same things her friend is saying to her... Wierd lads....
I agree. I have found the same in my experience with them. So opposite of us scorp girls. We are precieved as waayyy too confident sometime. I find that strange.
Also, are we scorp girls hornier than the guys? I mean, I know scorps in general love sex, but it seems that the girl's endurance is longer than the guys, this is according to what I have heard a few females (all signs) say about scorp males, however scorp women have been accused of being sex animals. LOL!!! Energizer bunnies..
Also, are we scorp girls hornier than the guys? I mean, I know scorps in general love sex, but it seems that the girl's endurance is longer than the guys, this is according to what I have heard a few females (all signs) say about scorp males, however scorp women have been accused of being sex animals. LOL!!! Energizer bunnies..
I must admit, out of all my dealings. Librans seem to be the ones who can keep up the most with scorp girls, or this scorp girl anyway.
They are very sensual and can satisfy but the extra mile we scorp girls like to take it. I have heard they can't really hang. So with cappies do they hang with you? I don't know scorp women seem to go forever. We love the whole experience, not just the physical. I say librans are probably the sign who can satisfy us (IMO) because they are very selfless and pleasers when making love. They will do whatever makes you respond for as long and as much as you'd like... However, scorps might be a little more emotional and passionate (so I am told)
Hmmm, maybe.
Do they make it a habit telling people that they are the best they ever had? But, I guess that would be a normal response for me to get. Not bragging but... Just curious too.
Do they make it a habit telling people that they are the best they ever had? But, I guess that would be a normal response for me to get. Not bragging but... Just curious too.
Thank you? For what?
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