scorp men ur opinions please
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by CreepyPants on Wednesday, March 8, 2006 and has 10 replies.
Pretend for a second that you have known a certain girl for months. She really has you intrigued. You talk everyonce in a while, unfortunately rarely get to spend time together due to schedules, but finally you've had a date and it was amazing... the connection, chemistry, displays of affection, and yes... the sex. I'm just wondering what your hypothetical reactions might be towards this particular girl that you may consider to continue dating who is something like the following... nice, sweet, supportive character, smart, smiles a lot, dry humor, physically and mentally comfortable with herself, sexually curious though timid to make the first move in exploration ...???
No surprise that this situation is similar to one that i'm involved in and I guess I'm just curious to know what the male scorpio opinion is on a shy girl.
And not the painful kind of shy, but the attentive, ready and willing kind of shy. lol Does that make any sense?
Mmmm, ya, I'll leave it at that
C'mon, watcha think?
No surprise that this situation is similar to one that i'm involved in and I guess I'm just curious to know what the male scorpio opinion is on a shy girl.
And not the painful kind of shy, but the attentive, ready and willing kind of shy. lol Does that make any sense?
Mmmm, ya, I'll leave it at that
C'mon, watcha think?LOL ah yesss.. he likes how I hold them up well... in one hand... 
almost a year. we know the groundwork of each other. enough to know we'd want to at least stay friends. intimacy is completely different. it's kind of like we knew each other as friends, were interested in something more, then finally committed to try dating which seems to have changed everything. for better? it's still too soon to know yet, or even guess. I'm not really asking about whether the sex was too soon, though.
Yo, I am just asking for an opinion on what the scorpio male thinks in a hypothetical situation of a girl they've already expressed interest in that may need to be led a bit more in the bedroom. It's quite simple, really. The scenario described doesnt completely apply to my situation and I havent actually broadcasted anything about myself here. I'm much too private for that. I'm just seeking information I may find it useful and I may not. Though, otherwise, I totally hear what your sayin'. You always bring in a challenging perspective that makes ppl think. Grazie
I'm much too private for that. I'm just seeking information I may find it useful and I may not. Though, otherwise, I totally hear what your sayin'. You always bring in a challenging perspective that makes ppl think. GrazieI'm a scorpio male, and I think my reactions would also be shared by my scorpio friends.
Not the painful kind of shy, but the attentive, ready and willing kind of shy. lol Does that make any sense?
I find that quality very attractive when it's an expression of someone's true self. It's very rare that I see it, perhaps because as another user here pointed out, some people will try to exploit it. My boss for example (virgo male) is very abrupt, aggressive, and harsh with most everyone at my company. But it's a kind of defense mechanism, and not who he really is. My first day he tried to establish a kind of intimidation, but I was very relaxed with him from the beginning and I sincerely liked him. When it became clear to him that my enjoyment of his company was genuine, the sort of shyness you're talking about came out. Any time he comes by he's always very quiet and modest, very funny, and almost heartbreakingly childlike in our interactions. He's even reluctant to ask me to do things that he could probably handle himself if he weren't unusually busy. As he's talking to me he gets very nervous and shifts all around my office, and I have to reassure him that I certainly don't mind. Although if anyone else pops into my office while he's there, instantly the teeth come back out again. It's just how he protects that purer part of himself. But anyway believe me, that sort of shyness is irresitable to happy scorpios. But it has to come from a real and deeper part of you. It can't be faked. That part of people is also naturally mysterious and intriguing to any scorpio. As someone else pointed out above, mystery and intrigue are also important.
and yes... the sex. I'm just wondering what your hypothetical reactions might be
All of the scorpios I know, myself included, trust our feelings above all else. Above rules, above sense data, and certainly above popular opinion. If he felt the same connection you felt, then you have nothing to worry about. He'll chart the destination of your relationship to someplace beyond just sex, and he'll use those feelings as his guiding star. But I personally wouldn't push or force anything. All of the scorpios I know, myself included, prefer to let things happen naturally when it comes to any kind of relationship (even though we're the complete opposite in many other arenas). I know this probably seems overboard, but we're literally disgusted by any kind of interaction that seems even in the slightest bit fake or robotic, especially in ourselves.
Not the painful kind of shy, but the attentive, ready and willing kind of shy. lol Does that make any sense?
I find that quality very attractive when it's an expression of someone's true self. It's very rare that I see it, perhaps because as another user here pointed out, some people will try to exploit it. My boss for example (virgo male) is very abrupt, aggressive, and harsh with most everyone at my company. But it's a kind of defense mechanism, and not who he really is. My first day he tried to establish a kind of intimidation, but I was very relaxed with him from the beginning and I sincerely liked him. When it became clear to him that my enjoyment of his company was genuine, the sort of shyness you're talking about came out. Any time he comes by he's always very quiet and modest, very funny, and almost heartbreakingly childlike in our interactions. He's even reluctant to ask me to do things that he could probably handle himself if he weren't unusually busy. As he's talking to me he gets very nervous and shifts all around my office, and I have to reassure him that I certainly don't mind. Although if anyone else pops into my office while he's there, instantly the teeth come back out again. It's just how he protects that purer part of himself. But anyway believe me, that sort of shyness is irresitable to happy scorpios. But it has to come from a real and deeper part of you. It can't be faked. That part of people is also naturally mysterious and intriguing to any scorpio. As someone else pointed out above, mystery and intrigue are also important.
and yes... the sex. I'm just wondering what your hypothetical reactions might be
All of the scorpios I know, myself included, trust our feelings above all else. Above rules, above sense data, and certainly above popular opinion. If he felt the same connection you felt, then you have nothing to worry about. He'll chart the destination of your relationship to someplace beyond just sex, and he'll use those feelings as his guiding star. But I personally wouldn't push or force anything. All of the scorpios I know, myself included, prefer to let things happen naturally when it comes to any kind of relationship (even though we're the complete opposite in many other arenas). I know this probably seems overboard, but we're literally disgusted by any kind of interaction that seems even in the slightest bit fake or robotic, especially in ourselves.
I LOVE what you said about Scorpios, phoenix. So, so true. I have been with and live with a scorpio male for almost 4 yrs. I'm a cancer, but I couldn't have said it better myself.
Creepy, I would strongly advise against anything fake...or pushng anything at all. Just let it ride. The more you do, the better the response. Don't get me wrong, DO NOT be a push-over either. That is almost just as much of a turn off to them as being fake. They see it as a sign of weakness. Be independant, but not so much that your ignore. Give a little mystery for sure. It's a turn on, but not so much that it seems as though your hiding something. Your undivided attention will be much apprecaited. As will his freedom to be alone every now and then, too. They are very private when they want to be...so don't pry.
Creepy, I would strongly advise against anything fake...or pushng anything at all. Just let it ride. The more you do, the better the response. Don't get me wrong, DO NOT be a push-over either. That is almost just as much of a turn off to them as being fake. They see it as a sign of weakness. Be independant, but not so much that your ignore. Give a little mystery for sure. It's a turn on, but not so much that it seems as though your hiding something. Your undivided attention will be much apprecaited. As will his freedom to be alone every now and then, too. They are very private when they want to be...so don't pry.
Phoenix is right on the money...
awe... that sounds so nice, phoenix. so what's this about happy scorpio's. as opposed to unhappy scorpio's. what are you talking about here?
Thank you, Moonbaby & MissMorals.
CP, unhappy scorpios are generally obsessive, and about everything. It's a good indication that a scorpio is still looking for joy. That sort of scorpio is likely to mistake you for the source of his joy and he'll twist your relationship into just another obsession. It's best to just avoid these types of scorpios.
The happiest of happy scorpios are playful and spiritual, but no less ambigious and mysterious. Rather than that piercing, broody stare they have a bit of a twinkle in the eye and a mischievious smile. They're just as intensely emotional and powerful as they're unhappy counterparts, but these scorpios "seethe" joy, and their power is transformative. In a way they can be just as disturbing as any other scorpio. When you interact with one, you may find yourself opening up and awakening in completely unexpected ways, and that can be scary. But it's a kind of growing pain, and the scorpio will find ways to help you through it.
CP, unhappy scorpios are generally obsessive, and about everything. It's a good indication that a scorpio is still looking for joy. That sort of scorpio is likely to mistake you for the source of his joy and he'll twist your relationship into just another obsession. It's best to just avoid these types of scorpios.
The happiest of happy scorpios are playful and spiritual, but no less ambigious and mysterious. Rather than that piercing, broody stare they have a bit of a twinkle in the eye and a mischievious smile. They're just as intensely emotional and powerful as they're unhappy counterparts, but these scorpios "seethe" joy, and their power is transformative. In a way they can be just as disturbing as any other scorpio. When you interact with one, you may find yourself opening up and awakening in completely unexpected ways, and that can be scary. But it's a kind of growing pain, and the scorpio will find ways to help you through it.
iiiiiiinteresting. gosh that sounds wonderful. like a natural high. someone who induces self discovery. it would be lucky to cross paths with one of those scorps.
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