Scorp Sun; Cancer Moon man..

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by MintSprinkles on Friday, November 22, 2013 and has 31 replies.
I have no experience with these men...I am currently seeing one right now..any insight would be nice!
He seems very intense. I love his eyes! I've caught him staring at me..he's very tender and sweet says I'm wonderful and that I'm beautiful..I'm really digging it! No man has ever been so tender with me before..I can get used to it..unless of course he's like any of the other scorp men I've dealt with in the past that will pull it all way in order to test how much I *really* like him...actually my guard is up and I'm waiting for something to pop off..just too good to be true you know? What I will say though is that he is an October 27th Scorp as opposed to a November..by which I notice I get along MUCH better with the former than the latter..
I was best friends with an oct 30th scorp male and I was so in love with him..we never fought, we had a friendship that most of my friends (and his female fans alike) were jealous of. We just gelled together..he even told me he loved me first (as his best friend) and everything..but I had to go and mess it up by telling him I didn't want to be friends anymore. Truth be told I only said that because I was hurt he had a girlfriend and I was in love with him. I think I really broke his heart..I just know if I hadn't of done that we'd still be friend to this day I just know it..he said he never wanted to speak to me again..and from that point on I *never* met anymore male OCT scorps....that was like 12yrs ago and i feel like the universe has said Ok I'll give you another chance with these wonderful creatures but don't fvck it up!!! Actually the man I'm dating now has almost identical placements to my old best friend except their moons are different..
Still I'm wondering when he's gonna flip...anyway, ever date one..marry one, live with one? Let me know!!
i knew a scorp sun cancer moon guy. he just oozed sex appeal. i havent met known many scorp males personally (only other one had a gemini moon) but this guy was something special.
I love this placement on the scorp sun. i read into and it said something about how they are very confident and sure of themselves. its very true. he came off very confident, but never cocky. he was very popular but never pompous. we had a flirtatious relationship (i am scorp sun, taurus moon). it was like an unspoken like for each other but never really went anywhere.
one thing i noticed about him was that he could really get jealous. if my phone was going off with texts in front of him or if another guy was talking to me he would make comments and i could tell he was jealous. not only that, but i could tell he would try to make me jealous. he was a flirty guy. he would go out of his way to blow kisses at other girl when i was around and i knew he did it on purpose, maybe to see if he got a rise out of me. i never did give into it.
going off of this, i noticed something else. in one instance my friend and i were together (she is a female) and he started talking to her and kind of trying to ignore me. so, i dont pay it any mind and start talking to another one of the male workers (he worked at the gym i went to). he FELT my change and then got all flirty with me so that i could give him attention. it was weird but i thought it was cute though. I know he never meant any harm by it. these guys can def tell your mood. if i was feeling down and i wasnt trying to show it at all, i felt like he would always know and be extra cute as to make me happy. aww thinking about it, he was such a sweety. he was just too damn flirty!... due to that libra venus and mars he has that i also have! :p
good luck! just take it slow. these guys are very sensitive beneath all that self assurance. smile
this is what i had read:
http://universal-tao-eproducts.com/mp/files/sun-moon_scorpio-cancer.pdf

'You are maybe the most charismatic and compelling of all the Sun-Moon combinations and are surefooted, dependable, and flexible. You are esteemed wherever you go. You always seem to be successful, because luck closely follows the Scorpio-Cancer, whether at play or at work.'
very true. i find him to be quite lucky especially with work.
Wow!! Thanks for this!! My guy has a Virgo Venus and Mars just like my old best friend did. And yes he oh so very sexy..for him it's those damn eyes..I feel like he's staring at my soul..literally..man. He seems quite excited about me and I'm excited about him..I mean I know we're in the beginning stages..and the novelty will wear of a little, but I hope he keeps his general over all enthusiasm. I sense the jealousy a tiny bit..but he may be trying to control it..also I think he might be a little possessive as well. Which is fine, I don't mind.
Oh and btw, I know a scorp sun/gem moon..yeaaah not for me. But I think honestly the problem was the Gemini moon..I've met an Aries and Gemini with that place and they make me rage too..so it may not be that combination after all.
I'm on my way to bed but quickly wanted to add...
I have been seeing a Scorp sun cancer moon guy for 2.5 years. He is very tender like you said.. But can be jealous, and kept his walls up for a long time.
It took him a while to commit as well.. He has a sag Venus and libra mars.. Which may contribute to that.
He never did a "flip" tho. He never disappeared, never got really mad about anything. Always chill, and generally always there if I needed to talk to him. As a pisces I like my alone time tho too.. So maybe he dissapeared for short amounts of time and I just didn't notice :p
Very sweet guy overall. Cares about his family.. Attentive.. Etc.
Good luck! Don't look for him to screw up, or flip, if that's how you mean that. Not good to look for things to go wrong, just enjoy what it is in the moment. smile
yep, not a fan of the gemini mooners either, but for some reason i keep attracting them. already 3 that i know of.
that should be enough for this lifetime.
Posted by aNEWday
yep, not a fan of the gemini mooners either, but for some reason i keep attracting them. already 3 that i know of.
that should be enough for this lifetime.


Right! I attract them a lot too..and the attraction usually is sexual. Apparently I activate some strong sexual desire in them lol. But like I said they make me rage!! They just kind of pop off at the mouth and don't know when to shut up so I end up yelling and screaming and possibly hitting them upside the head hahaha!
Posted by LouLore
I'm on my way to bed but quickly wanted to add...
I have been seeing a Scorp sun cancer moon guy for 2.5 years. He is very tender like you said.. But can be jealous, and kept his walls up for a long time.
It took him a while to commit as well.. He has a sag Venus and libra mars.. Which may contribute to that.
He never did a "flip" tho. He never disappeared, never got really mad about anything. Always chill, and generally always there if I needed to talk to him. As a pisces I like my alone time tho too.. So maybe he dissapeared for short amounts of time and I just didn't notice :p
Very sweet guy overall. Cares about his family.. Attentive.. Etc.
Good luck! Don't look for him to screw up, or flip, if that's how you mean that. Not good to look for things to go wrong, just enjoy what it is in the moment. smile


Hi!
Thank you for the insight! It's not necessarily I am looking for things to go bad per se..more of I'm just mentally preparing myself just in case the usual case of *drama* that comes with the beginning stages of dating a Scorpio (well for me anyway, won't speak for others) happens. But I'm glad your guy never "flipped" or disappeared that is reassuring. It scares me a bit though how strong our feelings are for each other..I'm trying really hard to hold back emotionally. Sometimes I feel like I need to step back...but then when I look into his eyes I get sucked right back in!!!
Posted by MintSprinkles
Posted by aNEWday
yep, not a fan of the gemini mooners either, but for some reason i keep attracting them. already 3 that i know of.
that should be enough for this lifetime.


Right! I attract them a lot too..and the attraction usually is sexual. Apparently I activate some strong sexual desire in them lol. But like I said they make me rage!! They just kind of pop off at the mouth and don't know when to shut up so I end up yelling and screaming and possibly hitting them upside the head hahaha!
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same! its always a physical attraction. other than that its like we speak different languages lol. exactly, they make you rage out of the frustration. i'
ve never gone as far as screaming haha, but i def have felt the need to hit one besides the head. then my rationality comes to mind and i just drop them so quick like they never existed. it must be due to my libra qualities that attract them.. otherwise it is a mystery to me.
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Posted by MintSprinkles
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yep, not a fan of the gemini mooners either, but for some reason i keep attracting them. already 3 that i know of.
that should be enough for this lifetime.


Right! I attract them a lot too..and the attraction usually is sexual. Apparently I activate some strong sexual desire in them lol. But like I said they make me rage!! They just kind of pop off at the mouth and don't know when to shut up so I end up yelling and screaming and possibly hitting them upside the head hahaha!


same! its always a physical attraction. other than that its like we speak different languages lol. exactly, they make you rage out of the frustration. i'
ve never gone as far as screaming haha, but i def have felt the need to hit one besides the head. then my rationality comes to mind and i just drop them so quick like they never existed. it must be due to my libra qualities that attract them.. otherwise it is a mystery to me.
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You may be on to something as my Mars is in Libra Winking
Posted by MintSprinkles
Wow!! Thanks for this!! My guy has a Virgo Venus and Mars just like my old best friend did. And yes he oh so very sexy..for him it's those damn eyes..I feel like he's staring at my soul..literally..man. He seems quite excited about me and I'm excited about him..I mean I know we're in the beginning stages..and the novelty will wear of a little, but I hope he keeps his general over all enthusiasm. I sense the jealousy a tiny bit..but he may be trying to control it..also I think he might be a little possessive as well. Which is fine, I don't mind.
Oh and btw, I know a scorp sun/gem moon..yeaaah not for me. But I think honestly the problem was the Gemini moon..I've met an Aries and Gemini with that place and they make me rage too..so it may not be that combination after all.


Alyssa Sharpe did a cancer moon vid, and her husband is a scorpio sun/cancer moon,
says she only /normally dates cancer moons:
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maybe it's different for women and women, cause women are more just normally more emotional.
That's funny you posted that because I just watched it earlier! LOL
She has a taurus moon smile. *makes note to look out for stable cancer moon*
Posted by aNEWday
She has a taurus moon smile. *makes note to look out for stable cancer moon*


yeah they match up very nicely, with her venus/mars virgo to his sun, and his rising to her sun/venus/mars. she seems very satisfied and happy with that cancer moon.
Since we're talking moons..how do you guys think my Virgo moon would match up with my guy's Cancer moon? Would I be too cold for him? Perhaps maybe the fact that he has venus/mars in Virgo he'll be able to deal with my occasional nitpicking, need for order and sometimes coldness better because he has that Virgo energy as well?
Cancer moons are pretty dope
Posted by MintSprinkles
Since we're talking moons..how do you guys think my Virgo moon would match up with my guy's Cancer moon? Would I be too cold for him? Perhaps maybe the fact that he has venus/mars in Virgo he'll be able to deal with my occasional nitpicking, need for order and sometimes coldness better because he has that Virgo energy as well?


im sure the earth will mix well with his water moon, and you probably add that stability. the fact that he has venus and mars in virgo probably helps a lot as well. his actions may hit on your feelings since his mars is in virgo. sounds like a good mix to me smile
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Cancer moons are pretty dope

+1
@ Aquarius78: beautiful would be the absolute best way to describe him. Because he truly is beautiful inside and out.
Well a little update, me and him are still chugging along and you guys were right he has not disappeared and has been pretty consistent thru out. The biggest thing that's happened was recently when he told me he loved me! I like couldn't believe it, I had fallen in love with him as well but thought it was smart to just keep it to myself for fear that it was too soon to express such strong feelings for him. I just knew it would take a long time for him to feel that way about me but of course I was gladly wrong. The moment was beautiful and after he told me we just held each other. He was super nervous and said he just didn't know when to tell me. I'm in heaven right now with this one, he's definitely a keeper for sure!
Posted by MintSprinkles
Since we're talking moons..how do you guys think my Virgo moon would match up with my guy's Cancer moon? Would I be too cold for him? Perhaps maybe the fact that he has venus/mars in Virgo he'll be able to deal with my occasional nitpicking, need for order and sometimes coldness better because he has that Virgo energy as well?



Preparing and waiting for disaster to happen will result in complete failure. You aren't ready for a relationship because you don't believe in yourself, you don't have enough security and confidence in yourself to know you will be ok if it doesn't work out. Because if you did...none of this would matter and this thread wouldn't exist.
@ Mintsprinkles. I read through this thread and I am so happy for you and your guy. With each passing update, I find myself saying awwwe. How cute. I'm interested in this forum because I always seem to attract scorpio guys. I've had friendship/ intimate relationship with a total of four in the past 6 months. But I don't believe I've met on with a cancer moon yet. But I'm hoping that I do! Anyways, best wishes to you and your love.
Posted by MintSprinkles
Hi!
Thank you for the insight! It's not necessarily I am looking for things to go bad per se..more of I'm just mentally preparing myself just in case the usual case of *drama* that comes with the beginning stages of dating a Scorpio (well for me anyway, won't speak for others) happens. It scares me a bit though how strong our feelings are for each other..I'm trying really hard to hold back emotionally. Sometimes I feel like I need to step back...but then when I look into his eyes I get sucked right back in!!!


CASE IN POINT^^^^ Doomed to fail.
Posted by LetltB
Posted by MintSprinkles
Hi!
Thank you for the insight! It's not necessarily I am looking for things to go bad per se..more of I'm just mentally preparing myself just in case the usual case of *drama* that comes with the beginning stages of dating a Scorpio (well for me anyway, won't speak for others) happens. It scares me a bit though how strong our feelings are for each other..I'm trying really hard to hold back emotionally. Sometimes I feel like I need to step back...but then when I look into his eyes I get sucked right back in!!!


CASE IN POINT^^^^ Doomed to fail.
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Ok
Hello people...just found this forum, cause i was looking for informations about scorpios with cancer moon. i am one smile. i have aquarius rising, four planets in sagittarius (including venus). i never had luck in love unfortunately. i will be 30 ys old in november. i am very emotional but i can hide it. i really love people honestly, but many disappointed me and i just disappeared cause it hurt that much. scorpio helps me to stay brave...aquarius is irritating sometimes. i am gay and i have a lot of problems in the gay world, because many are not honest and they are cheaters. or they dont understand my feelings. normally i am ok with pisces and cancers and people who have water moons...but not always... i had many critical phases in my life...not by my free decision or so...it was destiny and especially in the last 3-4 years i felt a big pressure. the biggest problem, however, is that i didnt have luck in love. and i am sad somehow because of that.
I absolutely love men with Cancer moon. One of my closest guy friends as Sun in Pisces, Moon in Cancer. In fact there was something that I read that I would really do well with a Scorpio Sun, Cancer moon, maybe, b/c my moon and venus sign.
It takes a lot for them to really open up and be comfortable with love, they want it but that shell is something else.
I'm curious how a Cancer sun would pair with a Cancer moon.
Anyone experience this?
Posted by FrostAndBite
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I'm curious how a Cancer sun would pair with a Cancer moon.
Anyone experience this?


It's a toss up. Never worked romantically for me personally. Either it was too much drama or never developed very far.
Might be different with a cancer sun woman though. My experience was with men only, and I notice a theme with cancer men and myself that make us very incompatible.
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I'm talking moon sign conjunct sun sign.
Are you talking about trine or conjunction?
Have you dated a Scorp moon before?
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Posted by LunarMaiden
Posted by FrostAndBite
Posted by LunarMaiden
I'm curious how a Cancer sun would pair with a Cancer moon.
Anyone experience this?


It's a toss up. Never worked romantically for me personally. Either it was too much drama or never developed very far.
Might be different with a cancer sun woman though. My experience was with men only, and I notice a theme with cancer men and myself that make us very incompatible.


I'm talking moon sign conjunct sun sign.
Are you talking about trine or conjunction?
Have you dated a Scorp moon before?



I am too. I'm a cancer moon.
And I never dated a Scorpio moon really. Not for long. They're a bit too snappy for me. I need someone to offset my emotional nature not inflame it. Great for friends, too sensitive for relationships. I'm slightly hypocritical that way.
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Me too!! I love fire moons. They're sensitive but not annoyingly.
Air moons are cool too. They make me less sad.
Earth moons can be boring. Like nothing affects them. But if they like you they pretty much stick.
However, I might actually be a Gemini moon, depends on the website...
Posted by MintSprinkles
Posted by aNEWday
yep, not a fan of the gemini mooners either, but for some reason i keep attracting them. already 3 that i know of.
that should be enough for this lifetime.


Right! I attract them a lot too..and the attraction usually is sexual. Apparently I activate some strong sexual desire in them lol. But like I said they make me rage!! They just kind of pop off at the mouth and don't know when to shut up so I end up yelling and screaming and possibly hitting them upside the head hahaha!
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How are scorpio sun gemini mooner?(from ur experience) I am interested in one but I dnt know how to approach him. He also have his virgo in Venus as well so I can't read him at all
I am on the other hand, the female of sun scorp cancer moon and damn its hard. What i mean is this, i somehow tend to be dramatic and acting up just for the sake of spicing up a bit. Dman thats lame. I'm just very good at escalating emotions. Lol I should've been an actress!
But hey, here's what i'm trying to say, i for one can say we love intimacy, tenderness and attention. All sorts of them bad ones works too!
But the drama, ohhh hell the drama, dear. Even I myself get sick of my own drama. I'm still trying to control things.
Wait, is this an old thread??

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