Scorpio and Aquarius? Need help and advice

This topic was created in the Scorpio and Aquarius Compatibility forum by MakeTodayBeautiful on Friday, July 19, 2013 and has 29 replies.
Hello everyone, I have a small dilemma and would love to hear advice, input, or opinion.... Thank you so much.
I am : Scorpio with Sagittarius Rising born on 10/28/1989
He is : Aquarius born on 2/17/1989
Me and him are both Life Path number 2
The first time I laid eyes on this Aquarius man, I knew he'd be mine one way or another.... It was definitely lust at first sight, and total attraction. We first met in our Philosophy class in college. We had been sitting next to each other for the whole semester, but never spoke. It wasn't until one day I unknowingly (wink,wink) walked past him. Sure enough he came up to me and introduced himself, and we started talking. It was like fireworks. The teacher let us out early that day so for an hour we walked around the campus and got to know one another.
I could tell he liked me too and felt the same way I did. When we first met he also told me that he had been wanting to talk to me for the entire semester.
Fast forward a few weeks, and nice conversations of getting to know you -- and we kiss on our last day of class. It was so romantic, it was exactly like a movie. We also exchanged numbers.

It's been about 2 months now since class ended.

I forgot to mention that I just moved to this new city and live with my boyfriend, and this Aquarius guy I like also told me he "kind of" has a girlfriend. But our attraction and chemistry to one another is so strong and feels beautiful, there is no way me and him can ignore it - even if it means being labeled as a "cheater".

The only communication I have now with my Aquarius lover is through text messaging. He tells me the sweet things every girl wants to hear, and we have really fun interesting conversations. Me and him have common likes and common beliefs. We even want to raise our kids the same way. He texted me good morning, good night, he called me beautiful, and he'd always be the one to initiate the texting. We even ended up staying up until 3:40AM. It was just very sweet.
He even told me I remind him of Belle from Beauty and the Beast, then I responded that he reminds me of Beast.... I told one of my friends and she said that me and him sounded like All love, and no lust.... Lovely dovey, with no sexual feelings, but a natural soft childlike love.

The last text we had was a little weird in which I need help clarifying on.

I basically told him that I would not sleep with him at his mother's house (because he lives with his family rig
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He even told me I remind him of Belle from Beauty and the Beast, then I responded that he reminds me of Beast.... I told one of my friends and she said that me and him sounded like All love, and no lust.... Lovely dovey, with no sexual feelings, but a natural soft childlike love.

The last text we had was a little weird in which I need help clarifying on.

I basically told him that I would not sleep with him at his mother's house (because he lives with his family right now), and he shot back with "I guess you're going to have to touch yourself till I get my own place. Sorry but I'm a gentleman and we're not going to make sweet love at your bf's house. I have a room in Anaheim reserved for Thursday night." WHICH I guess is him basically telling me that he was going to have sex with his "kind of girlfriend" that night.

Then I told him I would never bring him here and that he isn't my boyfriend, and I asked him I thought he hadn't made love in years? (Because he told me in school while we were getting to know one another that he hadn't made love in years)....
His response to me was "Idk about your situation, you're so complicated, but I like you regardless, I think you're cool and we have commonalities, like we like the same kind of stuff. I think we would make sweet love and you're tiny so I would throw you all around and hold you upside down and stuff".

The next morning he sends me a text saying he got back from a 5 mile run and to keep doing my butt workout (He is an athlete and physical trainer).
I responded with "I will do coach. And I just realized your girlfriend lives in Anaheim huh?"
His response was "My girlfriend is a droid" then I responded with "Wtf?"
and that was the last I've heard from him which was 9 days ago. He usually texts me every 4 days.

This is what I want to know from all you astrology people out there! What do you guys think, how would you interpret this? I have some knowledge of astrology, but still don't know much.
I have studied a little bit about Aquarius men and a lot of them said that Aquarius men tend to disappear and then reappear ? And that Aquarius men ignore the women they like? Is this true? I have no idea whether he is ignoring me because the conversation about sex/his girlfriend/my boyfriend/ made him uncomfortable? What do you guys think?

I am Scorpio, but have Sagittarius rising. I have dated 2 Gemini's, 2 Aries, 1 Leo, and 2 Sagittarius men.... I know people who are Ca
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Hello everyone, I have a small dilemma and would love to hear advice, input, or opinion.... Thank you so much.
I am : Scorpio with Sagittarius Rising born on 10/28/1989
He is : Aquarius born on 2/17/1989
Me and him are both Life Path number 2
The first time I laid eyes on this Aquarius man, I knew he'd be mine one way or another.... It was definitely lust at first sight, and total attraction. We first met in our Philosophy class in college. We had been sitting next to each other for the whole semester, but never spoke. It wasn't until one day I unknowingly (wink,wink) walked past him. Sure enough he came up to me and introduced himself, and we started talking. It was like fireworks. The teacher let us out early that day so for an hour we walked around the campus and got to know one another.
I could tell he liked me too and felt the same way I did. When we first met he also told me that he had been wanting to talk to me for the entire semester.
Fast forward a few weeks, and nice conversations of getting to know you -- and we kiss on our last day of class. It was so romantic, it was exactly like a movie. We also exchanged numbers.

It's been about 2 months now since class ended.

I forgot to mention that I just moved to this new city and live with my boyfriend, and this Aquarius guy I like also told me he "kind of" has a girlfriend. But our attraction and chemistry to one another is so strong and feels beautiful, there is no way me and him can ignore it - even if it means being labeled as a "cheater".

The only communication I have now with my Aquarius lover is through text messaging. He tells me the sweet things every girl wants to hear, and we have really fun interesting conversations. Me and him have common likes and common beliefs. We even want to raise our kids the same way. He texted me good morning, good night, he called me beautiful, and he'd always be the one to initiate the texting. We even ended up staying up until 3:40AM. It was just very sweet.
He even told me I remind him of Belle from Beauty and the Beast, then I responded that he reminds me of Beast.... I told one of my friends and she said that me and him sounded like All love, and no lust.... Lovely dovey, with no sexual feelings, but a natural soft childlike love.

The last text we had was a little weird in which I need help clarifying on.

I basically told him that I would not sleep with him at his mother's house (because he lives with his family rig
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I have studied a little bit about Aquarius men and a lot of them said that Aquarius men tend to disappear and then reappear ? And that Aquarius men ignore the women they like? Is this true? I have no idea whether he is ignoring me because the conversation about sex/his girlfriend/my boyfriend/ made him uncomfortable? What do you guys think?

I am Scorpio, but have Sagittarius rising. I have dated 2 Gemini's, 2 Aries, 1 Leo, and 2 Sagittarius men.... I know people who are Cancer, Scorpio, and Pisces, (which are supposed to be the best sign for water Scorpio) but I don't think I could date them......
Even though I know Scorpio female and Aquarius male are not compatible, is there still a sign of hope? What I have going on here feels like it could be something special, I think he knows/feels it, and so do I. He is very very sweet to me, very kind, and when we would talk he would be smiling the whole time. It felt like the attraction of 2 kids who were in love. He even said he thinks we would make sweet love, which is what I feel too.

Although I am Scorpio, I can be detached, aloof, mysterious, and always on the go.... Sometimes I feel like I must be a Gemini or something? And I get bored very very easily, and I can be impulsive........ Which is like this Aquarius man I like too.
It's strange because I know Scorpio usually isn't like this, and I wonder could my Aquarius guy have a Water Rising sign? He is on the Pisces cusp, which might make him more sensitive to me, so our signs could match well.

Can you guys give me some insight? Is this something worth pursuing? Does my Aqua male just need his time apart ? What should I do ? Should I give this Aqua man his space? Should I text him to show him I care ? Do you guys think this Aquarius guy likes me?
I can be aloof, detached, and live my life, which is supposedly what Aquarius men like --- OR I can text him now and ask why he has been ignoring me?
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I'd say if it's meant to be it's meant to be and whether you choose to text him or give him his space is obviously going to be your prerogative. I don't think Aquarius or not... Scorpio or not... that any amount of excessive space should be something acceptable in any "official or traditional" relationship, at least IMHO. I can't say I like the idea of you two having relationships already and doing what your doing but I suppose it's a mutual thing so w/e... it's not like either of you are married I guess (being open minded here).
If I were you I would never go by what astrology says is going to be your ideal sun sign mate. There are just too many factors (a lot of times more important factors) to take into account when using astrology as measuring stick for compatibility.
I think what is important for you to know is that... for some reason Aquarius males and Scorpio females are always magnetically attracted to each other but the problem comes to how both communicate to understand each other.I'm not saying that it's not a bad idea to go after this guy... just letting you know that the attraction is pretty typical. Since he is sorta close to the change of sign for possibly the most statistically best sign for a scorpio women that is something you could take into consideration I dunno... still don't know any placements of his and the like.
As far as the text conversation goes... it could be as stupid as he feels dumb for the 'droid' comment he made and doesn't know how to go forward. Could be maybe he has felt that way about a lot of what he is doing considering he has been the one initiating EVERYTHING. Which to be honest I find is absolutely necessary with scorpio women... well sorta no offense to you lovely Scorpio ladies ^.^
I honestly think you initiating more conversations with him would be good honestly... I mean what have you really got to lose anyways? You already have a 'boyfriend' so I mean if he ends of running away then so be it. Believe it or not... despite the fact that he has initiated everything with you he probably is to some extent intimidated by you at the same time, which I'm sure is part of the attraction and allure, but also part of the reason he may have ceased communication without any explanation.
I still can't say I really approve of what you two are doing but I suppose you wouldn't be doing this if you were actually happy in the first place. I guess I'm just trying to be helpful and unbiased. You should be
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Wow. You should have quite after the first thread. What the motha of f*ck is this?
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Ok so let me get this straight. You BOTH have significant others? Yeah not good. I think it's stupid you come here looking for reassurance about you and him both being cheaters. Not going to happen.
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In my opinion, astrology is only a starting, not the end of all. Personalities, life experiences and the like make up who we are. But it can help to get a jump start insight of potential problems, etc.
I understand the strong attraction you both have for each other, but have the two of you discussed breaking off your perspective relationship first? Or is it that neither of you want to end what you currently have going on?
I'm concerned that you are so emotionally attached to someone who may disappear, by nature or to simply focus more on his current relationship. If he is willing to cheat on her, then he may also be willing to cheat on you, and vice versa. I'm not sure how much trust can be built when a relationship is started under such circumstances. You may find yourself waiting for his return more and more as the newness of the relationship wears off. Please consider looking ahead and see where this affair can lead and what it can do to all involved if discovered.
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@Xin, I understand your concern and dismay. However I forgot to point out that this is a different circumstance. I am not trying to make excuses or make it seem like it is OK to cheat, however, me and my partner both know we are not going to be together long term. We even broke up a few weeks ago. I simply live with him, I do pay rent here, and I have my own room downstairs. I don't even sleep with him at night in the same room anymore, nor do we even have sex. He knows I do not want to marry or have children with him, and he spent HIS birthday in with his family and friends in Michigan while I was here by myself in California.
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@SunMoomLioness - Thank you so much for your advice, it was really what I needed to hear. No we have not spoken about breaking off our other relationships first. We both like each other and are cool friends, but we haven't had "the talk" of that sort, which is what I guess we should (to figure out where things are between us). You're so right, that's good advice I need to hear. Yes you're right about being emotionally attached. I don't think I am attached to my Aquarius guy, if he tells me he just wants to be friends, then I am OK with that. I was just confused as why he disappeared, or is ignoring me on purpose. I really appreciate your response though.
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@NotYourAverageAquarius - I know that's strange huh, I was wondering why Scorpio women and Aquarius men are so attracted to one another, IF we are (supposedly) the WORST signs compatible. From what I hear anyway, Scorpio being very emotional/clingy and Aquarius being more logical and less clingy.
You mean his Cusp turning into Pisces? Since his bday is Feb 17 ? Yes I've heard Pisces is a great sign for Scorpio women too. I read he is still Aquarius but because he is close to the cusp would be a little sensitive like Pisces (not sure if this is true or not).
I agree about not taking everything just by the sun sign. I'm Scorpio and supposedly would not have the best relationships with air or fire signs, but most of the men I have dated have been Gemini, Sag, Leo, and Aries. I find cancer and Pisces men too emotional, even though as a Scorpio female I can be very emotional too.
As an Aquarius man yourself, do you ever "disappear" or ignore a girl? I'm not sure if this is what I am going through now, but from what I've read about Aquarius men is sometimes they will disappear for no reason, and then reappear. Or that they will ignore a girl they like because they don't want to get attached and relationships freak them out (they would rather have an easy friendship). Do you think this is true? It said Aquarius men really need a good amount of space too. Thank you for your help and insight!
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I'm not going to claim to be a saint but generally I don't really do that disappearing act thing they say all aquas do... but then again I probably only get involved with people who give me some degree of space and freedom to just be me as well I dunno. The only time I've really done what they are talking about there is when I start to feel like the other person doesn't quite feel the same way as I do or as strongly about the relationship. It would be my own way of not subjecting them to my overly emotional state of being that I do not feel they have.I mean I do get quite caught up in things too sometimes and lose track of time BUT I mean that's not going to be lasting weeks...
You know though it's only been like 7 days right? And this is pretty unusual circumstances as well... I'm sure he is probably mulling the whole thing over you know? Like first of all -- does he know that you are pretty much done with this other person you are with? That the whole relationship is just going nowhere and you plan on ending it in the near future or is he unaware and thinking you just like him better? Because if he does not know this I'm sure he probably is thinking something along the lines of what SunMoonLioness was speaking of earlier... like "If she is willing to cheat or just leave him for me... then whose to say she wouldn't just do that to me." I know that's what I'd be thinking.
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If he does know the relevant facts and they are sort of the same circumstances for him and his relationship... then I definitely think it's probably more along the lines of what I said earlier, granted he hasn't lost interest or gotten cold feet or w/e. In my opinion though I highly doubt he would get bored that fast with a scorpio women but I can only speak for myself.
Even though it appears maybe you do have a bit to actually lose here now that I know more about your situation, I'd say it couldn't hurt to put a little initiative forth yourself. I only have limited experience with Scorpio women to be honest but from my experience the only thing I felt they were good with was letting me know they were interested... after that I had to initiate pretty much everything. And that's fine I guess but sometimes one little thing can discourage you and you might cool off for awhile till you feel like being bold and taking a chance outweighs the possibility of rejection.
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Ummm, perhaps he's ignoring you because he has a girlfriend!! That should be a no-brainer. His time and attention are being occupied by someone else.
Leave him alone.
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@candyapples88 - You don't understand, he never ignored me before, ever! And since the 6 months he's never ignored me, and he usually texts me every 3 or 4 days. I don't think he is too serious with his GF, and when I asked him if he had a GF when I first met him, he said "kind of", and sometimes when we would talk he'd tell me about our relationship issues and me and him are BOTH in partnerships that are kind of there and slipping away. For example me breaking up and him being with a friends with benefit thing.
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@MidniteStar Is it really? I've only read one thing on it, on Yahoo answers I think. Do you know people who have had that Scorpio/Aquarius attraction, and why is it a spell ? It does feel like a spell almost, like a deep sweet attraction.
It's a complicated situation, I could be here typing forever but that would probably bore you. I live with him, yes, but we are on the verge of breaking up, we have known it for a while, and he knows I do want to marry him or have kids with him. He didn't even spend his birthday with me he went to Michigan to spend it with his family and friends. I also pay rent here and I have my own room downstairs, I don't even sleep with him in the same room most of the time and we barely don't even have sex anymore (almost non-existent). Me and him are aware that this is not a long term relationship.
I like my Aqua guy, but I do not believe in possession. If he told me he just wanted to be friends, I would be OK with that - it's just that recently I've become confused... with him ignoring me after me and him talked about making love/where we would do it/he likes me/wants to make love/blah blah blah.
But it is different because we have our own lives, but we have this strong attraction to one another. Like I said when I first saw him it literally took my breath away (not joking).
So I was just wondering if he was "Aqua disappearing", or what.
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Why don't you just break up with him and move out? Why is it just sitting on the "verge"? I don't understand this type of behavior. Both of you need to be SINGLE and free. Just because your situation is like that doesn't mean the Aqua's is.
Earlier someone said he's pretty much disappearing because he has a girlfriend. That is 100% true. It's not because oh gee he doesn't like you, it's because he's with someone else.
Warning you right now this won't work unless both of you are free. That and you will be the "2nd choice" because there is no way you will replace his girlfriend until he actually gets rid of her permanently. For now he can tell you what ever he wants because you aren't there. He could say "Yeah im totally going to dump her" and he's still with her every night. And you miss thing you're like "Well we are on the VERGE of breaking up" whats the problem? Just break it off already. What are you waiting for? Oh thats right you have a living arrangement that's probably why you haven't done it already.
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@MidniteStar Is it really? I've only read one thing on it, on Yahoo answers I think. Do you know people who have had that Scorpio/Aquarius attraction, and why is it a spell ? It does feel like a spell almost, like a deep sweet attraction.
It's a complicated situation, I could be here typing forever but that would probably bore you. I live with him, yes, but we are on the verge of breaking up, we have known it for a while, and he knows I do want to marry him or have kids with him. He didn't even spend his birthday with me he went to Michigan to spend it with his family and friends. I also pay rent here and I have my own room downstairs, I don't even sleep with him in the same room most of the time and we barely don't even have sex anymore (almost non-existent). Me and him are aware that this is not a long term relationship.
I like my Aqua guy, but I do not believe in possession. If he told me he just wanted to be friends, I would be OK with that - it's just that recently I've become confused... with him ignoring me after me and him talked about making love/where we would do it/he likes me/wants to make love/blah blah blah.
But it is different because we have our own lives, but we have this strong attraction to one another. Like I said when I first saw him it literally took my breath away (not joking).
So I was just wondering if he was "Aqua disappearing", or what.



I don't want to go into too much detail because I've hashed my story out enough on here and nobody wants to hear it again. I was basically in your situation....not completely though. When I first met the ex Aqua it was instant sparks. It was magnetic! I was insanely into him, but I was just the other woman. He had a girlfriend even though I didn't know about her at the time. Long story short he ended up marrying her and started a family with her. She always had his heart and there wasn't anything I could do to change that. The 2 years we were together he would disappear months at a time.
If that is your picture, you are a very beautiful young woman. You can find someone to treat you better. You deserve better than that. I'm sorry, I don't mean to tell you what to do as you are an adult. I also don't have room to talk because I did the same thing. I just hope wh
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^^^^^^ awwww hugsssss@ mignight star
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Posted by PhoenixRising
Wow. You should have quite after the first thread. What the motha of f*ck is this?


HA!
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I have always felt that when people are in relationships (no matter what the specifics are), there is always bound to be a mess when try to step outside of that relationship.
Simply put, get every thing squared away with you bf, housemate, roommate, partner, what ever he is, and allow the Aqua to do the same, and THEN proceed to move things forward. Start things off on the right foot.
Close one chapter to begin the next.
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@MidniteStar - Oh ok I totally see where you are coming from... I understand now. I see your sun sign is Scorpio too. It was very magnetic and intense attraction with me too and the Aqua. And yes this is my profile pic, I had a feeling someone would ask me that, thank you. That's very sweet thank you, I'm sorry of what happened between you and your Aqua guy.
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@natural25 Yeah you're totally right.
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@IrresistableScorp - Yes you're definitely right. It's good to hear these words.
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he's not going to leave his girlfriend for you...he disappears cause he has his life with his girlfriend and you are just entertainment...
and someone said you deserve better ? cheaters don't deserve anything...selfish for their own sexual needs...
Have some respect to your boyfriend and get some morals !!
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Another Scorpio here, how you can even find a sneaky and dishonest man attractive is beyond me. Unless a guy is 100% single with nothing 'on the side', I'm repelled. How could you trust him IF you two ever dated? He's already leaving you in the dark, just as he has been doing to her.
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Posted by MakeTodayBeautiful

He even told me I remind him of Belle from Beauty and the Beast, then I responded that he reminds me of Beast.... I told one of my friends and she said that me and him sounded like All love, and no lust.... Lovely dovey, with no sexual feelings, but a natural soft childlike love.


....I can't. You're 23?
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Posted by follealicat
Another Scorpio here, how you can even find a sneaky and dishonest man attractive is beyond me. Unless a guy is 100% single with nothing 'on the side', I'm repelled. How could you trust him IF you two ever dated? He's already leaving you in the dark, just as he has been doing to her.


Easy...unevolved Scorp talking.
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Posted by Neurotoxin
So many beautiful women....
So many of them are crazy as fuck...


On fire today Neuro... bless! that actually cracked me up smile
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