Posted by starlover
Scorp and Gemini are quincunx...just don't get each other
I wonder how the deep and intense Scorp could ever make it work with the light and flighty Gemini
Seems like a recipe for disaster somehow
Posted by porcelainrising
The Moon sign and aspects are more important than anything.
Posted by porcelainrising
Basically... this will take work no matter what. Communication is key to this. And both communicate differently.
Most importantly, it depends on if the Gemini has gone through their experience phase... Once they get through that and have settled into themselves, they can be great loyal companions.
BUT, Scorpio has to realize that Gemini will always have two loves. One will be the Scorpio and the other will be whatever hobby or passion they have. So the Scorpio will never get 100% .
The Gemini has to be willing to stick it through the hard parts and being honest and forthcoming.click to expand
Posted by starlover
Anything can work if you want it to
Posted by MoonBlue8
What is the dob for Ethan Hawke's wife?
Posted by GeminiSparkle
Gemini woman and Scorpio man get along great, they are both intelligent and get each others humour. They are both passionate in bed and can develop a deep love and understanding of each other.
And this is where the problems start, Scorpio starts to see that Gemini's life won't revolve around him, he has fallen in love with her light hearted airy nature, but it is also the thing that he doesn't like about her because he wants total possession of her. Gemini senses this and starts to pull away and do more of her own thing, feeling caged in, which makes Scorpio become more controlling as he fears losing her. He doesn't realize that this will push her away more, he starts checking up on her, going through her stuff etc, she despises him for doing this and is put off sex with him, he can't handle that, as sex is his way of showing deep love and he needs to know she still loves him, so he starts demanding sex and being controlling.... and Gemini just walks away.
(From experience)
We still love each other though, it just didn't work.
Posted by RollergirlOrc
So the communication thing, how does it work? I know one of Scorpio's tactics is the do the deadly silence when something's bothering them. Makes it that much harder to understand but to water and earth, its easier because intuition comes in handy. The problem is when Gemini has difficulty understanding things on an emotional level, they can dissect, they can say what would seem to be the right words (actually the right responses) given the situation. But it seems hard for them to understand Scorpio emotional depths. Any suggestions here?
Posted by exxtasyxPosted by RollergirlOrc
I take that back, Gemini doors understand things on an emotional level. But it's challenge when it comes to Scorpio emotion.
We Gemini's understand everything, we understand people's feelings, motives, emotions, etc. I don't know where this retarded stereotype of Gemini's being emotionless comes from. Just because a lot of us don't like being victims, doesn't mean we don't know the depths of ours and other people's emotions. We rule communication, we are very intellectual, we grasp and understand the concept of emotions and many things in life.
With that said, OP, I think Gemini's and Scorpio's are better off as friends. Scorpio has the tendency to try and tie us down with manipulative games, trying to make us jealous and all this BS but it never works with a Gemini because we're always just "living in the moment" and it makes Scorpio even more vengeful when they realize we don't react to their games. We're too busy lost in life and the moment.click to expand
Posted by exxtasyxPosted by RollergirlOrc
I take that back, Gemini doors understand things on an emotional level. But it's challenge when it comes to Scorpio emotion.
We Gemini's understand everything, we understand people's feelings, motives, emotions, etc. I don't know where this retarded stereotype of Gemini's being emotionless comes from. Just because a lot of us don't like being victims, doesn't mean we don't know the depths of ours and other people's emotions. We rule communication, we are very intellectual, we grasp and understand the concept of emotions and many things in life.click to expand
Posted by Rabbit
Geminis steal Tupperware.
Posted by porcelainrisingPosted by RollergirlOrc
Wow, thanks Draumstafir for your input. True, expression of emotions doors differ between the two and I think that's what's driving my Scorpio mind wild (as if its not wild enough). The gem I'm dating is hard to read and hard to "feel" what he's feeling. Scorpio's have this built-in sensor radar thingy with people and sending fear, love or hate. Something about him is throwing that sensor off like a compass encountering a strange magnetic field. Yeah, and not only that but Scorpio naturally loves to do the mind-meld thing in love. Not so seamless when it comes to an element other than water or earth.
Sigh, I'll either have to keep trying to work this out or stop analyzing/mind-meld altogether. It's frustrating!
Honestly, the less you try, the better. Gemini will never open up their mind completely. Unless they are really being distant (cranky and unaffectionate all the time), I would just let it go. The fewer expectations you give a Gemini, the more they offer things up on their own. The more you try and drag it out of a Gemini, the faster and longer they will remain shut down.
And then you have to realize that Gemini changes their mind a lot about things because we are constantly updating and refining our thoughts. So beyond an outright lie, we are pretty much honest in a single moment. Of course the next day we could be completely honest about having a completely different opinion.
But in general, if a Gemini is still hanging out and talking to you and isn't misbehaving too more than normal, it means we like you/love you. Gemini isn't the most showy about it. But they will make a spot for you in their life.click to expand
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