Scorpio apologised to me.... a year later
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by taurusgirl9000 on Friday, October 13, 2017 and has 10 replies.
We had a big fight. I moved away. Then the other day, for no reason, I see an email in my inbox from him with a sentence saying he's sorry and hopes everything is going good for me.
I haven't replied yet because I feel like he is very manipulative and I don't accept his apology anyway. Too little too late.
Can someone explain what would motivate a Scorpio to actually apologise for their shitty behaviour?
I haven't replied yet because I feel like he is very manipulative and I don't accept his apology anyway. Too little too late.
Can someone explain what would motivate a Scorpio to actually apologise for their shitty behaviour?
Oh man, chances are that fight you guys had has always been on his mind. Scorpios are stubborn and we hold onto the past even though its toxic. Personally, if I did someone important to me wrong in the past (and apologised wholeheartedly then), I'd still not be able to forgive myself unless I received their heartfelt forgivenss. If they don't, I can never really move on from that incident.
He's obviously aware of his actions and the impact it had on your relationship. He's taken a while to apologise probably because he wasn't ready to face the music up until now. Scorpios aren't the best at opening up about their emotions and admitting they're wrong, especially the guys.
I've had two cases like this in my life, both with Taureans haha! The first was my high school best friend who I fell out with for stupid reasons (puberty days, mood swings and hot/cold behaviour). I apologised to her repeatedly and felt the guilt all throughout my highschool life (around two years of friendship, three years of guilt or vv). I hate hurting people so much it upsets me when I unintentionally do.
Second time was first year uni. A good friend of mine had a crush on me but couldn't bring himself to ask me directly so got our friends to. I turned him down but the message was passed on to him by our friends so who knows how that would've went. He's been giving me a hard time ever since and only recently (couple of years after) did I actually bump into him did I sit down and clear the air.
My experience with Taureans is that once you reject or hurt them you can never repair the damage.
He's obviously aware of his actions and the impact it had on your relationship. He's taken a while to apologise probably because he wasn't ready to face the music up until now. Scorpios aren't the best at opening up about their emotions and admitting they're wrong, especially the guys.
I've had two cases like this in my life, both with Taureans haha! The first was my high school best friend who I fell out with for stupid reasons (puberty days, mood swings and hot/cold behaviour). I apologised to her repeatedly and felt the guilt all throughout my highschool life (around two years of friendship, three years of guilt or vv). I hate hurting people so much it upsets me when I unintentionally do.
Second time was first year uni. A good friend of mine had a crush on me but couldn't bring himself to ask me directly so got our friends to. I turned him down but the message was passed on to him by our friends so who knows how that would've went. He's been giving me a hard time ever since and only recently (couple of years after) did I actually bump into him did I sit down and clear the air.
My experience with Taureans is that once you reject or hurt them you can never repair the damage.
My experience with Taureans is that once you reject or hurt them you can never repair the damage.
100% correct. Honestly it was more that he made me feel disrespected. I think he only sent the email because he wanted to see what I would say. I finally responded after a few days with "Thanks. You too." I really want nothing to do with him ever again, I just said it to give him what he wanted so hopefully he leaves me alone.
Posted by taurusgirl9000
We had a big fight. I moved away. Then the other day, for no reason, I see an email in my inbox from him with a sentence saying he's sorry and hopes everything is going good for me.
I haven't replied yet because I feel like he is very manipulative and I don't accept his apology anyway. Too little too late.
Can someone explain what would motivate a Scorpio to actually apologise for their shitty behaviour?
did he send you an email because you blocked his phone number?
Posted by AdreamuponwakingI moved abroad and have a different number. He's the one that blocked me on every form of social media. Probably because he knew what he did was wrong.Posted by taurusgirl9000
We had a big fight. I moved away. Then the other day, for no reason, I see an email in my inbox from him with a sentence saying he's sorry and hopes everything is going good for me.
I haven't replied yet because I feel like he is very manipulative and I don't accept his apology anyway. Too little too late.
Can someone explain what would motivate a Scorpio to actually apologise for their shitty behaviour?
did he send you an email because you blocked his phone number?click to expand
What did he do?
hehe I'd seek revenge, this sounds like a great opportunity.
hehe I'd seek revenge, this sounds like a great opportunity.
Posted by taurusgirl9000You opened the Padora's box by saying, "Thanks, you too". BEWARE!
My experience with Taureans is that once you reject or hurt them you can never repair the damage.
100% correct. Honestly it was more that he made me feel disrespected. I think he only sent the email because he wanted to see what I would say. I finally responded after a few days with "Thanks. You too." I really want nothing to do with him ever again, I just said it to give him what he wanted so hopefully he leaves me alone.click to expand
cyber hugs! Love,
Eva
What was the fight about??
Posted by taurusgirl9000Posted by AdreamuponwakingI moved abroad and have a different number. He's the one that blocked me on every form of social media. Probably because he knew what he did was wrong.Posted by taurusgirl9000
We had a big fight. I moved away. Then the other day, for no reason, I see an email in my inbox from him with a sentence saying he's sorry and hopes everything is going good for me.
I haven't replied yet because I feel like he is very manipulative and I don't accept his apology anyway. Too little too late.
Can someone explain what would motivate a Scorpio to actually apologise for their shitty behaviour?
did he send you an email because you blocked his phone number?click to expand
he blocked you probably because he is a scorpio
scorpios and scorpio moon people are notorious for overthinking and overacting
Posted by taurusgirl9000He feels guilty. It may have taken him a year to realize what he did and he may now be in a better place and want to right his wrongs. It's about him clearing the guilt. You don't have to say a thing. If it's sincere and not manipulative, he should not expect a response anyway.
We had a big fight. I moved away. Then the other day, for no reason, I see an email in my inbox from him with a sentence saying he's sorry and hopes everything is going good for me.
I haven't replied yet because I feel like he is very manipulative and I don't accept his apology anyway. Too little too late.
Can someone explain what would motivate a Scorpio to actually apologise for their shitty behaviour?
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