Posted by misslibrascorpio"He wasn’t ready to be in a relationship" is a cliché and translates to "he wasn’t ready to be in a serious relationship WITH YOU".
So I should burn his clothes he left here and never trust a Scorpio again?
I am not bruised, I am irritated because I have never met a person to spend money, time and take me to meet his mom and dad to say the next day he isn’t ready for a relationship.
That’s a facade.
Posted by UndineTo be honest I was very respectful and was making conversation. I was next to him the entire time and laughing and dancing. Being with him at his families house and sharing that intimate time felt good. We went home back to my house and the next day we were great.Posted by misslibrascorpio
So I should burn his clothes he left here and never trust a Scorpio again?
I am not bruised, I am irritated because I have never met a person to spend money, time and take me to meet his mom and dad to say the next day he isn’t ready for a relationship.
That’s a facade.
"He wasn’t ready to be in a relationship" is a cliché and translates to "he wasn’t ready to be in a serious relationship WITH YOU".
How did the Thanksgiving go? What made you have "the talk" with him immediately after? Was he distancing from you at that point? Could it be that seeing you around his family (and his family seeing you and giving feedback to him) changed his mind?click to expand
Posted by WarAngel79I think in a Scorpio’s world everyday and every minute is a job interview. He definitely looked and reviewed everything I did, say, feel, project.
He was all in until he was out. Something happened during the visit to his parents. He doesn't see you as long term material anymore.
Cut him loose and find your person somewhere else.
I was all in on someone years ago and one bad date with her having a shitty attitude and I was out quickly.
Every date is a job interview with a 90 day probationary period.
Posted by misslibrascorpioYou're giving us one side of the story, but I can definitely see family being an important part of the decision-making process. If my family doesn't care for the woman I'm dating, it's not going to work out. Hispanic culture is like that. 💯Posted by WarAngel79
He was all in until he was out. Something happened during the visit to his parents. He doesn't see you as long term material anymore.
Cut him loose and find your person somewhere else.
I was all in on someone years ago and one bad date with her having a shitty attitude and I was out quickly.
Every date is a job interview with a 90 day probationary period.
I think in a Scorpio’s world everyday and every minute is a job interview. He definitely looked and reviewed everything I did, say, feel, project.
I didn’t give him attitude but he took me to this bar were I ended up feeling so uncomfortable and the drinks were disgusting but I wanted to give the place a chance but I later confessed I didn’t like it and he could tell.
Maybe that’s what set me him off 🤷🏻♀️click to expand
Posted by misslibrascorpioHis behaviour doesn't scream "fake" to me. We don't know if something put him off. Or if that something had to do with you dating a technically married man....Posted by UndinePosted by misslibrascorpio
So I should burn his clothes he left here and never trust a Scorpio again?
I am not bruised, I am irritated because I have never met a person to spend money, time and take me to meet his mom and dad to say the next day he isn’t ready for a relationship.
That’s a facade.
"He wasn’t ready to be in a relationship" is a cliché and translates to "he wasn’t ready to be in a serious relationship WITH YOU".
How did the Thanksgiving go? What made you have "the talk" with him immediately after? Was he distancing from you at that point? Could it be that seeing you around his family (and his family seeing you and giving feedback to him) changed his mind?
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To be honest I was very respectful and was making conversation. I was next to him the entire time and laughing and dancing. Being with him at his families house and sharing that intimate time felt good. We went home back to my house and the next day we were great.
His wife (soon to be ex wife lol) didn’t click with his family and she had nothing in common.
I don’t think it was his families event that made him change.
It wasn’t until that Sunday after thanksgiving when we had that talk.
Maybe he wasn’t ready for a relationship with me but he sure faked it pretty well.click to expand
Posted by NotALibraShort nails=good girl. Did you notice as well...?Posted by UndinePosted by misslibrascorpioPosted by UndinePosted by misslibrascorpio
So I should burn his clothes he left here and never trust a Scorpio again?
I am not bruised, I am irritated because I have never met a person to spend money, time and take me to meet his mom and dad to say the next day he isn’t ready for a relationship.
That’s a facade.
"He wasn’t ready to be in a relationship" is a cliché and translates to "he wasn’t ready to be in a serious relationship WITH YOU".
How did the Thanksgiving go? What made you have "the talk" with him immediately after? Was he distancing from you at that point? Could it be that seeing you around his family (and his family seeing you and giving feedback to him) changed his mind?
click to expand
To be honest I was very respectful and was making conversation. I was next to him the entire time and laughing and dancing. Being with him at his families house and sharing that intimate time felt good. We went home back to my house and the next day we were great.
His wife (soon to be ex wife lol) didn’t click with his family and she had nothing in common.
I don’t think it was his families event that made him change.
It wasn’t until that Sunday after thanksgiving when we had that talk.
Maybe he wasn’t ready for a relationship with me but he sure faked it pretty well.
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His behaviour doesn't scream "fake" to me. We don't know if something put him off. Or if that something had to do with you dating a technically married man....
Looking at your pictures, it reminds me of a true story. A colleague of mine who was very gifted was dating the most beautiful woman from our uni. Until his mother and sister put their feet down and declared that his girlfriend was too hot for him! He actually broke up with her!
You never know what counts as a red flag to someone....
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That's a coincidence, I was also looking at her pictures!click to expand
Posted by UndineWell it’s his loss. Should I ask him if he wants his things back? Or do I just toss them?Posted by misslibrascorpioPosted by UndinePosted by misslibrascorpio
So I should burn his clothes he left here and never trust a Scorpio again?
I am not bruised, I am irritated because I have never met a person to spend money, time and take me to meet his mom and dad to say the next day he isn’t ready for a relationship.
That’s a facade.
"He wasn’t ready to be in a relationship" is a cliché and translates to "he wasn’t ready to be in a serious relationship WITH YOU".
How did the Thanksgiving go? What made you have "the talk" with him immediately after? Was he distancing from you at that point? Could it be that seeing you around his family (and his family seeing you and giving feedback to him) changed his mind?
click to expand
To be honest I was very respectful and was making conversation. I was next to him the entire time and laughing and dancing. Being with him at his families house and sharing that intimate time felt good. We went home back to my house and the next day we were great.
His wife (soon to be ex wife lol) didn’t click with his family and she had nothing in common.
I don’t think it was his families event that made him change.
It wasn’t until that Sunday after thanksgiving when we had that talk.
Maybe he wasn’t ready for a relationship with me but he sure faked it pretty well.
click to expand
His behaviour doesn't scream "fake" to me. We don't know if something put him off. Or if that something had to do with you dating a technically married man....
Looking at your pictures, it reminds me of a true story. A colleague of mine who was very gifted was dating the most beautiful woman from our uni. Until his mother and sister put their feet down and declared that his girlfriend was too hot for him! He actually broke up with her!
You never know what counts as a red flag to someone....click to expand
Posted by misslibrascorpioYes, bag them and ask him to collect by....or they'll be discarded.Posted by UndinePosted by misslibrascorpioPosted by UndinePosted by misslibrascorpio
So I should burn his clothes he left here and never trust a Scorpio again?
I am not bruised, I am irritated because I have never met a person to spend money, time and take me to meet his mom and dad to say the next day he isn’t ready for a relationship.
That’s a facade.
"He wasn’t ready to be in a relationship" is a cliché and translates to "he wasn’t ready to be in a serious relationship WITH YOU".
How did the Thanksgiving go? What made you have "the talk" with him immediately after? Was he distancing from you at that point? Could it be that seeing you around his family (and his family seeing you and giving feedback to him) changed his mind?
click to expand
To be honest I was very respectful and was making conversation. I was next to him the entire time and laughing and dancing. Being with him at his families house and sharing that intimate time felt good. We went home back to my house and the next day we were great.
His wife (soon to be ex wife lol) didn’t click with his family and she had nothing in common.
I don’t think it was his families event that made him change.
It wasn’t until that Sunday after thanksgiving when we had that talk.
Maybe he wasn’t ready for a relationship with me but he sure faked it pretty well.
click to expand
His behaviour doesn't scream "fake" to me. We don't know if something put him off. Or if that something had to do with you dating a technically married man....
Looking at your pictures, it reminds me of a true story. A colleague of mine who was very gifted was dating the most beautiful woman from our uni. Until his mother and sister put their feet down and declared that his girlfriend was too hot for him! He actually broke up with her!
You never know what counts as a red flag to someone....
Well it’s his loss. Should I ask him if he wants his things back? Or do I just toss them?click to expand
Posted by misslibrascorpioThis is typical player nothing more
So I should burn his clothes he left here and never trust a Scorpio again?
I am not bruised, I am irritated because I have never met a person to spend money, time and take me to meet his mom and dad to say the next day he isn’t ready for a relationship.
That’s a facade.