Scorpio DON'Ts

Let me go ahead & say this...I DO NOT expect for everyone (whether you're a Scorpio yourself or know alot of Scorpios) to agree with me. This is my personal opinion from an Aquarian point of view about the Scorpios I've personally observed. I'm in NO way labeling all Scorpios or saying that how I feel about this topic will be the same way others feel or the same thing others have observed. But, I am doing what this site allows me to do & that's to state my opinion

DON'T:
-Accuse a Scorpio of being faithless or toying with your emotions. They will take it as a serious insult. When a Scorpio is truly commited to you, they will expect for their parnters to know it & never question it

-Even think about arousing a Scorpio's jealousy, either intentionally or thoughtlessly. Your Scorpio could lash out violently, becoming angry or overly possessive.

-Tease a Scorpio about their performance in bed. Scorpions are renowned for their sexual prowess, and they usually are quite proud of their reputation. If they can't please you sexually, you'd be better off just moving on & never speaking about it with your Scorp

-Forget launching your own emotional fireworks or dramatic displays without considering the consequences. Your Scorpio may counteract with an intensity that you're not willing or able to match. If you want them to love you, then know what that means & what you're getting yourself into. Don't ask them for something that you aren't sure you can handle b/c once the heat is on, it stays on!

-Hounding them to change. A Scorp will change when they are ready to change. Begging them or giving them alter-matums will reverse the effect of what you're trying to do. And instead of an Scorp. taking your assistance & pressure as help, they will quickly take it as harm & unnacceptance.

Are turned off when individuals are lacking in determination & direction as to where they are going & what they really want out of life. Scorpios expect for their partners to have a high drive & motivation to get where they want to be. He will be easily turned off by a partner who only "talks the talk" and never walks the walk

-Turned off by those who criticize them for seeking the fulfillment of their sexual desires. Your Scorp will never feel bad for having such a high sex drive & expect for their partners to either get with the program or bounce.

-Don't try to delve into their past if you want to seduce Scorpio. They will tell you what they want you to know & will not feel guilty for witholding any personal information unless they feel you are trustworthy & worthy of knowing

-Don't ever put them in the spotlight or on front in front of others

-Remain close with ex partners of yours. A Scorp knows the dangers & temptations that come when they couldn't break the connection with their ex's, so they will expect for their partners to have this same mindset. If you continue to have ties with your ex, your Scorp will never fully trust you & will always be suspicous or curious (b/c they remember how hard it was for them to let go of their own ex's)

-Don't try to sit & analyze them. Scorps don't want a partner who plays the role as his "therapist."

-Give them too many compliments. If you keep doing this, they will assume that there is a hidden motive behind it. When things appear to be too good to be true, they will not fall for it, but instead will take a step back & take a closer look & that can be bad for you

*raises hand* I have a question.....wtf is this "intensity"? I am a Scorp and I don't have that kind of intensity. I think I was absent that day. Maybe I have too much air and fire in my chart?

-Even think about arousing a Scorpio's jealousy, either intentionally or thoughtlessly. Your Scorpio could lash out violently, becoming angry or overly possessive.

Hummm....not a jealous chick *shrugs* When people try to deliberatly make me jealous, it turns me off and Ill think that that person is not only a moron, but insecure as well. If I am dating a man and other women flirt or keep contact.....I don't mind. I have male friends that I keep in contact with.....why the hell should I give them up? Besides, Im with YOU not them.

I work with a girl who is a total Scorpio and she scares the piss outa me.

I dont have a high sex drive either.....lol. I could take it or leave it.

Thanks for the feedback guys! 🙂

"you are SO right, at least in my case. especially on the 'dont analyze'. i hate when ppl call themselves figuring me out. wtf am i? a lab experiment or something? i dont see anything offensive with what you've said. right on!"

I feel guilty about this sometimes. Analyzing everything is something that I do naturally all the time without even realizing it. But yet when someone else tries too hard to analyze me or keeps pressuring for me to like "reveal" something I'm not ready to express yet, it drives me crazy. I don't mind playing the "therapist" role to others, but oh gosh it drives me insane when others try to be my "Dr. Phil."

"but lol, i do the scoping with others. but i dont start it. i never ask the questions first. i wait until a person gives me an opening, then here comes sherlock holmes. "i'm so this, or i'm so that.." i get to scoping like, "why? what happened? when? lol. i dont stop asking questions until i'm satisfied, or lost interest. lol. i guess it is a double standard. scorps cant help it. we need immediate details and facts to piece together life's mysterious puzzles."

True. True

lol...the things i learn here...damn...i missed this place🙂