Posted by WinifredSandersonYes. I feel the same way here^^^
I'm posting here because i feel like Scorpio energy people will get this. I may be wrong, though.
When someone is behaving rudely or saying something false, why is it that the people who call them out are considered the bad guys?
Why is it the rest of the world wants to turn the other cheek when someone else is being disrespectful or lying?
Why is it that the person who called them out and spoke truth is in the wrong, and the initial offender is "being attacked"?
This can happen to me even if I'm calling them out calmly and constructively.
And I'm tired of "mediators". Those people that don't wanna rock any boats, regardless of how fucked up the situation is
Why does this happen?
I know it's not just a Scorpio-energy thing. But from my experience and observations, we seem more prone to it. The original offenders are never at fault in the eyes of others. The one at fault is the one brave enough to call them out
You relate?
Posted by HareAhhh so when someone lies about someone you care about, in your opinion it is better to allow the lie to pass and not make the poor wittle liar uncomfortable
Because in general Scorpio has a (double) standard where small transgressions are magnified into egregious acts of fuckery.
When Scorpios get all huffy and puffy over what they THINK is big shit, everyone else is like "Bruh, chill".
Posted by blackphasePosted by HareWell yes.. there is that too. LOL
Because in general Scorpio has a (double) standard where small transgressions are magnified into egregious acts of fuckery.
When Scorpios get all huffy and puffy over what they THINK is big shit, everyone else is like "Bruh, chill".
I guess I took what she said in a different way.. Like people who are genuinely shitty and are constantly enabled to be shitty.click to expand
Posted by WinifredSandersonYou do realize you just tried to snark someone that is a Sun and Moon Scorpio, right?Posted by HareAhhh so when someone lies about someone you care about, in your opinion it is better to allow the lie to pass and not make the poor wittle liar uncomfortable
Because in general Scorpio has a (double) standard where small transgressions are magnified into egregious acts of fuckery.
When Scorpios get all huffy and puffy over what they THINK is big shit, everyone else is like "Bruh, chill".click to expand
Posted by HareYOU'RE MY BEST FRIEND!Posted by nikkistarStop white knighting me!Posted by WinifredSandersonYou do realize you just tried to snark someone that is a Sun and Moon Scorpio, right?Posted by HareAhhh so when someone lies about someone you care about, in your opinion it is better to allow the lie to pass and not make the poor wittle liar uncomfortable
Because in general Scorpio has a (double) standard where small transgressions are magnified into egregious acts of fuckery.
When Scorpios get all huffy and puffy over what they THINK is big shit, everyone else is like "Bruh, chill".click to expand
Posted by nikkistarYou do realize that not all scorpios are the same, right?Posted by WinifredSandersonYou do realize you just tried to snark someone that is a Sun and Moon Scorpio, right?Posted by HareAhhh so when someone lies about someone you care about, in your opinion it is better to allow the lie to pass and not make the poor wittle liar uncomfortable
Because in general Scorpio has a (double) standard where small transgressions are magnified into egregious acts of fuckery.
When Scorpios get all huffy and puffy over what they THINK is big shit, everyone else is like "Bruh, chill".click to expand
Posted by HarePosted by WinifredSandersonNo, what I'm saying is there's a lot of people (including a lot of Scorpios) that go off on these self aggrandizing jerk fests where they think they are the end-all-be-all arbiters of truth, justice, and morality, when in fact they are just judgmental and histrionic assholes that no one likes, and as such, get labeled as being an "attacker" based on prior behaviors.Posted by HareAhhh so when someone lies about someone you care about, in your opinion it is better to allow the lie to pass and not make the poor wittle liar uncomfortable
Because in general Scorpio has a (double) standard where small transgressions are magnified into egregious acts of fuckery.
When Scorpios get all huffy and puffy over what they THINK is big shit, everyone else is like "Bruh, chill".click to expand
Posted by Shooting_the_Moon_that_I_call_Mars
I experience this a lot with my air sign friends. We could be playing a game and say I do a move that isn't allowed, I get chewed out for it. My libra friend does the same move, I calmly call him out on it and they pretty much look at me like I'm giving out death sentences. It may seem silly because it's just a game but that same energy is in all of our interactions. I'm the only water ho in the friend group.
Posted by LadyPootsAlotWere you being rude or lying about something in those moments?
Guess it depends on what truth you're trying to point out and when. I've had people trying to point truths out to me when I was in crisis, falling off the edge suicidal, and all they cared about was making a point.
Posted by WinifredSandersonBecause humans are pretty fucked up and flawed, and are generally too egotistical to take reality. The only comfort most people have is hiding from the truth and living in denial, which is actually quite sad. If people could just accept the truth and admit flaw they could then start the rebirth period, which is an idea scorpio energy loves lmo.
I'm posting here because i feel like Scorpio energy people will get this. I may be wrong, though.
When someone is behaving rudely or saying something false, why is it that the people who call them out are considered the bad guys?
Why is it the rest of the world wants to turn the other cheek when someone else is being disrespectful or lying?
Why is it that the person who called them out and spoke truth is in the wrong, and the initial offender is "being attacked"?
This can happen to me even if I'm calling them out calmly and constructively.
And I'm tired of "mediators". Those people that don't wanna rock any boats, regardless of how fucked up the situation is
Why does this happen?
I know it's not just a Scorpio-energy thing. But from my experience and observations, we seem more prone to it. The original offenders are never at fault in the eyes of others. The one at fault is the one brave enough to call them out
You relate?
Posted by VampScorp
I can relate @WinifredSanderson.
I really do not understand why I receive such unfair treatment when I believe I've approached the matter in a calm collective way. Maybe it's the intense eyes ?, like I'm calm on the outside but raging on the inside and the eyes are the window to our soul and don't lie!
All I can say is good for you for standing up for your sister. There are so many pussies in the world who will just turn their back. I respect and admire this trait you and fellow scorpions have.
Years ago when I was in school I called out the class bully. I got in trouble for it, crazy! Long story short and fast forward 18 years the bully sent me a message via FB apologising and explainined an awful childhood. At the time (in school) I hated her, but never bitched about her. Once I received that message the 'hate' dispelled and I felt sorry for her and accepted her apology and wished her well.
That's the other thing, we are very compassionate people. Not all of us are hard faced, cold, 'insert another negative' scorp trait, bitches. I can be those things but it doesn't define me as a whole.
Posted by LadyPootsAlotLol what are you even talking about? I didn't even bother responding to your last post to me because it was so blaringly self-victimizing
Has it ever occurred to you that you don't know anyone else's truth? Fixed signs can fall into believing they know everything. Mutables know better. You don't get me, motherfucker.
Posted by Ellygant
I don't think Scorpio types get blow back because they tell the truth. I think it's because we can sometimes say things in a way that makes sense to us but not always to others.
When it comes to communication though, the truth is useless if you cannot convey it in a way that those hearing it understand. While Scorpio is more blunt and to the point than other water signs, we are still a water energy and communicate in a more round about manner. Plus we tend to have a lot of emotionalism while we speak, even if we ourselves don't feel emotional over a topic. But because we are being interpreted as being fired up or angry, people put less weight on our words and write them off as emotional displays. Regardless of the fact that maybe we are impassioned speakers or just intense in general, as cringeworthy as the stereotype is lol.
Posted by GetMistedIsn't this what this site is all about anyways and what people do all the time?
1. Way too much validation seeking in this thread.
2. You all have WAY TOO many fucks to give out.
Posted by WinifredSandersonI relate so much to this.
I'm posting here because i feel like Scorpio energy people will get this. I may be wrong, though.
When someone is behaving rudely or saying something false, why is it that the people who call them out are considered the bad guys?
Why is it the rest of the world wants to turn the other cheek when someone else is being disrespectful or lying?
Why is it that the person who called them out and spoke truth is in the wrong, and the initial offender is "being attacked"?
This can happen to me even if I'm calling them out calmly and constructively.
And I'm tired of "mediators". Those people that don't wanna rock any boats, regardless of how fucked up the situation is
Why does this happen?
I know it's not just a Scorpio-energy thing. But from my experience and observations, we seem more prone to it. The original offenders are never at fault in the eyes of others. The one at fault is the one brave enough to call them out
You relate?
Posted by GetMistedLol so why are you commenting? Unneeded arrogant self insertion.
1. Way too much validation seeking in this thread.
2. You all have WAY TOO many fucks to give out.
Posted by EllygantI think you're really missing the pointPosted by WinifredSandersonThen ironically enough, I'm not sure what you're saying/asking lol.Posted by Ellygant
I don't think Scorpio types get blow back because they tell the truth. I think it's because we can sometimes say things in a way that makes sense to us but not always to others.
When it comes to communication though, the truth is useless if you cannot convey it in a way that those hearing it understand. While Scorpio is more blunt and to the point than other water signs, we are still a water energy and communicate in a more round about manner. Plus we tend to have a lot of emotionalism while we speak, even if we ourselves don't feel emotional over a topic. But because we are being interpreted as being fired up or angry, people put less weight on our words and write them off as emotional displays. Regardless of the fact that maybe we are impassioned speakers or just intense in general, as cringeworthy as the stereotype is lol.
That is not what this post is about. I'll quote an excerpt "This can happen to me even if I'm calling them out calmly and constructively."
Also, you can speak calmly and believe you are being constructive, yet still not be presenting a point in a way in which the other person understands. I hate speaking in cliches, but there's more than one way to skin a cat.
Earth signs know that premise well, haha. Quite often they are accused of being rude when they think they are being practical and kind. Perception plays just as much importance as what's actually being said.click to expand
Posted by themilkyway36You're correct. And i had to point out to this person their hypocrisy. Their posting in the first place was arrogant self insertion. A form of personal validating. Some people can't feel validated unless they hear their own voice. Or in this case, see their words inserted into something they otherwise didn't have interest inPosted by GetMistedIsn't this what this site is all about anyways and what people do all the time?
1. Way too much validation seeking in this thread.
2. You all have WAY TOO many fucks to give out.
You can think of these threads as sharing collective experiences of a group of people that not everyone will understand.click to expand
Posted by WinifredSandersonScorpio rising here ??
I'm posting here because i feel like Scorpio energy people will get this. I may be wrong, though.
When someone is behaving rudely or saying something false, why is it that the people who call them out are considered the bad guys?
Why is it the rest of the world wants to turn the other cheek when someone else is being disrespectful or lying?
Why is it that the person who called them out and spoke truth is in the wrong, and the initial offender is "being attacked"?
This can happen to me even if I'm calling them out calmly and constructively.
And I'm tired of "mediators". Those people that don't wanna rock any boats, regardless of how fucked up the situation is
Why does this happen?
I know it's not just a Scorpio-energy thing. But from my experience and observations, we seem more prone to it. The original offenders are never at fault in the eyes of others. The one at fault is the one brave enough to call them out
You relate?
Posted by MadMarchRamPosted by WinifredSandersonScorpio rising here ??
I'm posting here because i feel like Scorpio energy people will get this. I may be wrong, though.
When someone is behaving rudely or saying something false, why is it that the people who call them out are considered the bad guys?
Why is it the rest of the world wants to turn the other cheek when someone else is being disrespectful or lying?
Why is it that the person who called them out and spoke truth is in the wrong, and the initial offender is "being attacked"?
This can happen to me even if I'm calling them out calmly and constructively.
And I'm tired of "mediators". Those people that don't wanna rock any boats, regardless of how fucked up the situation is
Why does this happen?
I know it's not just a Scorpio-energy thing. But from my experience and observations, we seem more prone to it. The original offenders are never at fault in the eyes of others. The one at fault is the one brave enough to call them out
You relate?
Yes I can relate to this!
People don't like to be called on their bs, lies and fakery. Whom ever calls them out is ALWAYS the bad guy ?
Do I care? No
Will I stop? No
I'm gonna keep it real ?click to expand
Posted by GetMistedThis is another good example, guys.Posted by WinifredSandersonThis is exactly why folks see you as the "bad guy". You have a bitchy, condescending attitude.Posted by GetMistedLol so why are you commenting? Unneeded arrogant self insertion.
1. Way too much validation seeking in this thread.
2. You all have WAY TOO many fucks to give out.
Enjoy your validation thread.click to expand
Posted by GetMistedExhibit APosted by themilkyway36Except OP doesn't want to hear the experiences of those not in line with her own.Posted by GetMistedIsn't this what this site is all about anyways and what people do all the time?
1. Way too much validation seeking in this thread.
2. You all have WAY TOO many fucks to give out.
You can think of these threads as sharing collective experiences of a group of people that not everyone will understand.click to expand
Posted by 13thAnytime someone in the astro-community uses a term like "[sign]-energy person", it's a way to more easily summarize that they are talking about sometime with that sun, moon, or maybe a stellium that they feel illuminates that sign in their life. Or it could be a sun, moon, or stellium in that sign's representative house. So if you don't feel like Scorpio energy is strong in your chart or personality manifestation, then this isn't directed at you.
im confused ...what is this thread about actually? lol anyone with any scorpio placement is considered to have scorpio energy? And how on earth does that relate to calling someone out?
Posted by 13thI'll tell you what i told someone else: not all scorpios are the same. We can disagree even about our own signs
you two just confused me more....isnt getmisted a scorpio? he has scorpio energy...He called u out on something...U seem to not like it..holy sheete..im on to something..haha one sec,,ima go back and read some more
Posted by WinifredSandersonPosted by 13thAnytime someone in the astro-community uses a term like "[sign]-energy person", it's a way to more easily summarize that they are talking about sometime with that sun, moon, or maybe a stellium that they feel illuminates that sign in their life. Or it could be a sun, moon, or stellium in that sign's representative house. So if you don't feel like Scorpio energy is strong in your chart or personality manifestation, then this isn't directed at you.
im confused ...what is this thread about actually? lol anyone with any scorpio placement is considered to have scorpio energy? And how on earth does that relate to calling someone out?click to expand
Posted by WinifredSandersonPosted by 13thI'll tell you what i told someone else: not all scorpios are the same. We can disagree even about our own signs
you two just confused me more....isnt getmisted a scorpio? he has scorpio energy...He called u out on something...U seem to not like it..holy sheete..im on to something..haha one sec,,ima go back and read some more
Kind of like not all aries ate the same. Or cancers, so on and so forthclick to expand
Posted by LadyPootsAlotPosted by SeraphlightUm, no. Not all of them. I had one push me out the boat, turn it over, watch me drowning and then yell "say it's your fault!!!"
Scorpio knows when to and when not to. And they can rock the boat without tipping it over so no one drowns.
Never turn a boat upside down. And if someone is doing that ..you have to ask them to leave the boat.
Scorpio knows how far to rock the boat and when to stop. And they know to spot people with weak stomachs straight off and not to make them seasick.
Basically they are wise.
.click to expand
Posted by LadyPootsAlotPosted by 13th*Sigh* I'm not lumping. Seraphlight said Scorpios never turn the boat over, they only rock it, because they are wise. I'm saying one tipped the boat on me two days ago. ONE. So, not they are not all wise.Posted by LadyPootsAlotPosted by SeraphlightUm, no. Not all of them. I had one push me out the boat, turn it over, watch me drowning and then yell "say it's your fault!!!"
Scorpio knows when to and when not to. And they can rock the boat without tipping it over so no one drowns.
Never turn a boat upside down. And if someone is doing that ..you have to ask them to leave the boat.
Scorpio knows how far to rock the boat and when to stop. And they know to spot people with weak stomachs straight off and not to make them seasick.
Basically they are wise.
.
lol....fawkin love it when we're lumped together...smhclick to expand
Posted by GetMistedPosted by WinifredSandersonHow do you explain my viewpoint then?Posted by 13thAnytime someone in the astro-community uses a term like "[sign]-energy person", it's a way to more easily summarize that they are talking about sometime with that sun, moon, or maybe a stellium that they feel illuminates that sign in their life. Or it could be a sun, moon, or stellium in that sign's representative house. So if you don't feel like Scorpio energy is strong in your chart or personality manifestation, then this isn't directed at you.
im confused ...what is this thread about actually? lol anyone with any scorpio placement is considered to have scorpio energy? And how on earth does that relate to calling someone out?click to expand
Posted by 13thPosted by WinifredSandersonPosted by 13thI'll tell you what i told someone else: not all scorpios are the same. We can disagree even about our own signs
you two just confused me more....isnt getmisted a scorpio? he has scorpio energy...He called u out on something...U seem to not like it..holy sheete..im on to something..haha one sec,,ima go back and read some more
Kind of like not all aries ate the same. Or cancers, so on and so forth
Of course we're not all the same...You part of the fraternity (scorp) winifred? I dont think ive ever seen u post.click to expand
Posted by LadyPootsAlotYou're missing the point astronomicallyPosted by 13thAh, sorry. Gotcha. I'm a wee bit defensive lately. There is nothing fundamentally wrong with Scorpios. I just hate the notion that this OP has that one of them has the duty or right to tell someone else what their truth is.Posted by LadyPootsAlotPosted by 13th*Sigh* I'm not lumping. Seraphlight said Scorpios never turn the boat over, they only rock it, because they are wise. I'm saying one tipped the boat on me two days ago. ONE. So, not they are not all wise.Posted by LadyPootsAlotPosted by SeraphlightUm, no. Not all of them. I had one push me out the boat, turn it over, watch me drowning and then yell "say it's your fault!!!"
Scorpio knows when to and when not to. And they can rock the boat without tipping it over so no one drowns.
Never turn a boat upside down. And if someone is doing that ..you have to ask them to leave the boat.
Scorpio knows how far to rock the boat and when to stop. And they know to spot people with weak stomachs straight off and not to make them seasick.
Basically they are wise.
.
lol....fawkin love it when we're lumped together...smh
I understood completely..I was actually agreeing with...Theres tons of similarities in scorpios, tons, but not all of us are loyal, not all of us are introverts, faithful etc.....click to expand
Posted by GetMistedUm, i think you need to re-read my op. My thread is about when calling someone out for being rude or lying and then the bystanders call the "call-out-er" the bad guyPosted by WinifredSanderson1. How am I stalking your thread? I simply posted in it.Posted by GetMistedPosted by WinifredSandersonHow do you explain my viewpoint then?Posted by 13thAnytime someone in the astro-community uses a term like "[sign]-energy person", it's a way to more easily summarize that they are talking about sometime with that sun, moon, or maybe a stellium that they feel illuminates that sign in their life. Or it could be a sun, moon, or stellium in that sign's representative house. So if you don't feel like Scorpio energy is strong in your chart or personality manifestation, then this isn't directed at you.
im confused ...what is this thread about actually? lol anyone with any scorpio placement is considered to have scorpio energy? And how on earth does that relate to calling someone out?
Third time I'm saying this in this thread (interesting you stalk my thread but yet conveniently miss something that would have already answered your question)
Not all scorpios are the same therfore, not all scorpios will agree. Same for people of other signs
One of my ex-friends is a Scorpio. She actually really loved to attack people who called someone out. Even more if she was being called out
2. Your behavior in this thread is exactly the type of behavior you're ranting about. Not sure how you don't notice that. *shrugs*click to expand
Posted by GetMistedPosted by WinifredSanderson1. How am I stalking your thread? I simply posted in it.Posted by GetMistedPosted by WinifredSandersonHow do you explain my viewpoint then?Posted by 13thAnytime someone in the astro-community uses a term like "[sign]-energy person", it's a way to more easily summarize that they are talking about sometime with that sun, moon, or maybe a stellium that they feel illuminates that sign in their life. Or it could be a sun, moon, or stellium in that sign's representative house. So if you don't feel like Scorpio energy is strong in your chart or personality manifestation, then this isn't directed at you.
im confused ...what is this thread about actually? lol anyone with any scorpio placement is considered to have scorpio energy? And how on earth does that relate to calling someone out?
Third time I'm saying this in this thread (interesting you stalk my thread but yet conveniently miss something that would have already answered your question)
Not all scorpios are the same therfore, not all scorpios will agree. Same for people of other signs
One of my ex-friends is a Scorpio. She actually really loved to attack people who called someone out. Even more if she was being called out
2. Your behavior in this thread is exactly the type of behavior you're ranting about. Not sure how you don't notice that. *shrugs*click to expand
Posted by HareOr...take it easy!!!
Because in general Scorpio has a (double) standard where small transgressions are magnified into egregious acts of fuckery.
When Scorpios get all huffy and puffy over what they THINK is big shit, everyone else is like "Bruh, chill".
Posted by GemitatiPosted by HareOr...take it easy!!!
Because in general Scorpio has a (double) standard where small transgressions are magnified into egregious acts of fuckery.
When Scorpios get all huffy and puffy over what they THINK is big shit, everyone else is like "Bruh, chill".click to expand
Posted by 13thPosted by GemitatiPosted by HareOr...take it easy!!!
Because in general Scorpio has a (double) standard where small transgressions are magnified into egregious acts of fuckery.
When Scorpios get all huffy and puffy over what they THINK is big shit, everyone else is like "Bruh, chill".
Take it easy!!!
phew, that makes me even angrier...the "bruh chill", fawk chill.click to expand
Posted by GemitatiPosted by 13thPosted by GemitatiPosted by HareOr...take it easy!!!
Because in general Scorpio has a (double) standard where small transgressions are magnified into egregious acts of fuckery.
When Scorpios get all huffy and puffy over what they THINK is big shit, everyone else is like "Bruh, chill".
Take it easy!!!
phew, that makes me even angrier...the "bruh chill", fawk chill.click to expand
Posted by 13thAs it is with all of the signs. We're all human. First and foremost.Posted by LadyPootsAlotPosted by 13th*Sigh* I'm not lumping. Seraphlight said Scorpios never turn the boat over, they only rock it, because they are wise. I'm saying one tipped the boat on me two days ago. ONE. So, not they are not all wise.Posted by LadyPootsAlotPosted by SeraphlightUm, no. Not all of them. I had one push me out the boat, turn it over, watch me drowning and then yell "say it's your fault!!!"
Scorpio knows when to and when not to. And they can rock the boat without tipping it over so no one drowns.
Never turn a boat upside down. And if someone is doing that ..you have to ask them to leave the boat.
Scorpio knows how far to rock the boat and when to stop. And they know to spot people with weak stomachs straight off and not to make them seasick.
Basically they are wise.
.
lol....fawkin love it when we're lumped together...smh
I understood completely..I was actually agreeing with...Theres tons of similarities in scorpios, tons, but not all of us are loyal, not all of us are introverts, faithful etc.....click to expand
Posted by LadyPootsAlotPosted by WinifredSandersonI was interacting with someone I thought was a trusted friend, privately, telling her about how I'd been dumped in a very cold way, and she insinuated that I got dumped like that because I am too dramatic, paranoid, needy, and probably not attractive enough.Posted by LadyPootsAlotWere you being rude or lying about something in those moments?
Guess it depends on what truth you're trying to point out and when. I've had people trying to point truths out to me when I was in crisis, falling off the edge suicidal, and all they cared about was making a point.
With friends like those, who needs enemies?click to expand