Well to try and keep it brief...my scorpio ex boyfriend has told me that he is with someone and he wants to put his energy there. This sounds just what I told him about a year ago. Here's a bit of the story. We were together for about three yrs, verry rocky. I did love him but could not handle his, not committing, disappearing, actually seeing someone else for a while, etc . I felt very 'stuck' and not happy. We had not seen each other for about six months and in that time, I decided to move, start over. I called him before I left and he tried to see me, but I didn't, I couldn't afford for him to change my mind, and still no commitment. So I went. He contacted me almost a year ago and said that he was changing his number...he was very emotional about it. He said that he was seeing someone and wanted to try and make it work. I didn't understand why he would call to tell me that he was changing his number and be so emotional....and tell me that he couldn't be the man I wanted him to be, that I was the one, i was always the one and other things equally as confusing. Fast forward...I contacted him recently and just wanted to see him and talk...things feel not finished for me for some reason. We did get together very briefly, he said that he is seeing the same person...and that it is too 'sudden' for us to talk. Anyway it seems he's sending mixed signals again, or I'm just confused again....as I always was when we were together. My question is.....is he trying to get back at me?
Scorpio ex

I think he loves you and that yes he is trying to get back at you.
Thank you for comments...

Posted by conflictedfish
Who cares if he is or isn't. Keep your head up and do you if he wants you he will chase if he doesn't, you are doing you anyways! Only way to handle these situations I tell you! I'm sorry you are experiencing it though. 😢
+100 this made my day! Thanks 🙂 I needed to read this logic from a male instead of only thinking it

First answer 'Do you want him in your life now?If yes,in what capacity?'
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