Scorpio ex back again.... HELPP!!:/

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Baby340 on Thursday, November 2, 2017 and has 44 replies.
So after breaking up with me and sleeping with someone else we blocked eachother. He's now back saying he wants me and thinks we can work is he playing games or what I don't really wanna take him back I think he's playing games helpppp!
Posted by shakedown
It depends on your self-worth.
Explain?? Please?
A Scorpio coming back after the relationship has ended badly, is about as innocent as a loved one returning from their burial in the Pet Sematary.


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Posted by tiziani
Maybe he wants to feel like he can have you.

Very different to wanting to make it work.
Yehh that's what I think... I wouldn't get in a relationship I'm over that
Posted by Metatron
A Scorpio coming back after the relationship has ended badly, is about as innocent as a loved one returning from their burial in the Pet Sematary.


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I don't understand lol??
He said he does love me deep down lol
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Posted by tiziani
Maybe he wants to feel like he can have you.

Very different to wanting to make it work.
Yehh that's what I think... I wouldn't get in a relationship I'm over that
Fair play, so you want to have him for one night?
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Exactly that
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A Scorpio coming back after the relationship has ended badly, is about as innocent as a loved one returning from their burial in the Pet Sematary.


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I don't understand lol??
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you gone learn...

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Our sex is amazing we both have Mars In Scorpio
Just keep STDs in mind. He slept with one other girl u know of.. you don't know if she was the only one and more important you don't know if he got STDs from her!

Never rely on a man saying he kept it safe with a condom! Same goes for men, never rely on a girl saying she's on birth control - ALWAYS keep yourself safe by demanding a condom wether u a girl or a guy.
So if you just want to go for another night only - use a condom.

If you want him back for a relationship make him get a check up for STDs before you two go raw again
You got this girl. Watch your step on the way down.

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Posted by Metatron
A Scorpio coming back after the relationship has ended badly, is about as innocent as a loved one returning from their burial in the Pet Sematary.


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Deaddddd 🤣 & true lol
Sleep with another guy first.
Find another Mars in Scorpio
Posted by Baby340
So after breaking up with me and sleeping with someone else we blocked eachother. He's now back saying he wants me and thinks we can work is he playing games or what I don't really wanna take him back I think he's playing games helpppp!
Why are you allowing him to communicate with you? Don't entertain this cheater.
Posted by pinkbird03
Sleep with another guy first.
With his best friend or dad if your feeling petty. 😂
Posted by AquaNextDoor
So if you just want to go for another night only - use a condom.

If you want him back for a relationship make him get a check up for STDs before you two go raw again
Did you not see the part where he cheated? If the relationship didn't keep him honest the first time around, I don't see how it would now...
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Posted by MyStarsShine
Find another Mars in Scorpio
two scorpio mars is a baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad idea. when shit goes south it really goes south. never again. lol
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That is very true but the sex tho is/ was in real it's worth going back an Iv told him I just wanna fuck he hasent replied since I said that it was late tho haha
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by AquaNextDoor
So if you just want to go for another night only - use a condom.

If you want him back for a relationship make him get a check up for STDs before you two go raw again
Did you not see the part where he cheated? If the relationship didn't keep him honest the first time around, I don't see how it would now...
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We were split up when he slept with someone else there's a lot of history you guys only know the tip of the ice burge if you really knew hahahaha
Posted by nightowl
Hes playing too many games and intentionally did that to hurt you. Think to yourself why you would want to be involved with a guy like this
Intentionally done what?
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by AquaNextDoor
So if you just want to go for another night only - use a condom.

If you want him back for a relationship make him get a check up for STDs before you two go raw again
Did you not see the part where he cheated? If the relationship didn't keep him honest the first time around, I don't see how it would now...
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Oh didnt see that! Thought he just slept around after break up

OP screw him!
It May be that he actually has legitimate feelings. Or it may be that he is enjoying tormenting you and trying to get an ego boost that you're entertaining his efforts. I'd ignore him. If he shows up with a ring- then you know he's serious and he realizes he loves you. But I would be careful- because a man who leaves a woman once can leave again.
Posted by DarknessDoll
It May be that he actually has legitimate feelings. Or it may be that he is enjoying tormenting you and trying to get an ego boost that you're entertaining his efforts. I'd ignore him. If he shows up with a ring- then you know he's serious and he realizes he loves you. But I would be careful- because a man who leaves a woman once can leave again.
You are 100% right but I know he likes me still and he wants us but deep down he knows there is to many problems for us to work I never trusted him then so I will never trust him now I'm intentions are a last fuck he knows that
Posted by peachy06
OMG but what is it with all of you pisces being so fucking stupid ? Let go, okay ? This scorpio would never see you as a potential wife or something. You're just his slave and fuck buddy. Now, MOVE ON !
DONT YOU THINK I HAVE LET GO??? Are you so stupid? Countless times Iv said I'm over him haha. I get confused ad want to know why he comes back I can ask what I want. Peachy06 you should block me I won't have you commenting on my stuff so rudely hahahahahah
When he knows you are truly over him and he doesn't stand a hope in hell, he will leave you alone

It happened to me with a few men
Posted by MyStarsShine
When he knows you are truly over him and he doesn't stand a hope in hell, he will leave you alone

It happened to me with a few men
But why does he do all this messaging? He was messaging me yesterday as if everything was normal I had to block him he then messaged me on favebook and said ohh see your always block me..... My feelings for him are not the same as they were and there not very strong either romantically were done 200% I'm just in it for the sex would he be up for that
Posted by Baby340
Posted by MyStarsShine
When he knows you are truly over him and he doesn't stand a hope in hell, he will leave you alone

It happened to me with a few men
But why does he do all this messaging? He was messaging me yesterday as if everything was normal I had to block him he then messaged me on favebook and said ohh see your always block me..... My feelings for him are not the same as they were and there not very strong either romantically were done 200% I'm just in it for the sex would he be up for that
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Until you are not up for *anything* he will contact you

You still want him for sex......then you still want him in your life....so he keeps messaging

See?

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So if you want no messages from him, you say

*please do not contact me again....I have moved on and don't wish to continue with this friendship*

The guy is probably still hopeful of something with you and also confused

Be clear

You seem not to be at the moment

Good luck
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Posted by Baby340
Posted by MyStarsShine
When he knows you are truly over him and he doesn't stand a hope in hell, he will leave you alone

It happened to me with a few men
But why does he do all this messaging? He was messaging me yesterday as if everything was normal I had to block him he then messaged me on favebook and said ohh see your always block me..... My feelings for him are not the same as they were and there not very strong either romantically were done 200% I'm just in it for the sex would he be up for that
Until you are not up for *anything* he will contact you

You still want him for sex......then you still want him in your life....so he keeps messaging

See?

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Yehh I see now.... I don't want him there day to day literally just a fuck it's hard can't have it all my way haha

I told him I only wanted sex he did say I was confusing he does make little effort to talk he wants to how me his videos but I just shut him down most of the time
Just block him in every way possible and stay away. I love Scorpio’s as friends. But I’d absolutely block my ex if we didn’t have kids together. I have to deal with him. I love the texts “I just told our son to shower” “I just made Salmon and we’re all having a great time” ok. Good for you. Shut up and let me enjoy my break I rarely get. Lol. Sorry I made this about me. I just can’t take the pics and texts constantly. He’s had them over maybe 4 times in the past year? Validation is not coming from me.

If you don’t have to deal with an ex, then just. Don’t.
Now we have argued he's going to the fireworks with someone and her kids (he has 2 kids he can't see) (my 5 month old could be his) I said I was gonna messag someone back and they have a house and he's saying he's going to brick my windows like is that just anger?
I just make things worse because I think I know what I'm doing but I really don't I suppose Iv been messing with him abit it's not nice but he deserves it
I feel like I have let go definitely over the whole situation I for get about him and he will just pop back like now so i dunno what's going on it ain't nice to here everyone saying your stupid move on blah blah like yeh easier said then done as you say your scorpios I'm sure you have rung someone 300 times in a day and then the next it's hard to ignore
He's contacting you because he knows you'll respond. He enjoys the games sad to say an unevolved Scorpio likes the drama. He definitely knows what he's doing, I'd stop all contact.
Posted by tiziani
Maybe he wants to feel like he can have you.

Very different to wanting to make it work.
Finally! I got whatvyou said...

Isnit a new beginning for me??? 🙌
Do not take that piece of shit back. He has a plan to destroy you don't be dumb
Posted by Baby340
Posted by Metatron
A Scorpio coming back after the relationship has ended badly, is about as innocent as a loved one returning from their burial in the Pet Sematary.


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I don't understand lol??
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You won't! Don't try. Do what you want!

The outcome is unpredictable.

He is a Scorpio!
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Just block him in every way possible and stay away. I love Scorpio’s as friends. But I’d absolutely block my ex if we didn’t have kids together. I have to deal with him. I love the texts “I just told our son to shower” “I just made Salmon and we’re all having a great time” ok. Good for you. Shut up and let me enjoy my break I rarely get. Lol. Sorry I made this about me. I just can’t take the pics and texts constantly. He’s had them over maybe 4 times in the past year? Validation is not coming from me.

If you don’t have to deal with an ex, then just. Don’t.


“Ok. Good for you. Shut up”

Lmao.

And the last sentence.... you’re a smart lady 👌🏻

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Haha, thanks nano. He is such a pain.
Posted by Stensco21
Do not take that piece of shit back. He has a plan to destroy you don't be dumb
How can he even destroy me tho? He has said he's gonna mess my head up but it's just like how I don't get it
I won't lie I know he's playing some games and everything and if I'm honest I enjoy it haha I does it back but I can see that before today he did want me back but I say things and it causes arguments I know I shouldn't play along but I get insulted because he thinks I'm so stupid and thinks I don't know but he is confusing
Posted by Baby340
Posted by Stensco21
Do not take that piece of shit back. He has a plan to destroy you don't be dumb
How can he even destroy me tho? He has said he's gonna mess my head up but it's just like how I don't get it
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He's going to try to emotionally hurt you and pay you back
Posted by peachy06
Posted by Baby340
I feel like I have let go definitely over the whole situation I for get about him and he will just pop back like now so i dunno what's going on it ain't nice to here everyone saying your stupid move on blah blah like yeh easier said then done as you say your scorpios I'm sure you have rung someone 300 times in a day and then the next it's hard to ignore
Yes it's easy to say and to do. When a scorpio leaves you then come back, then leaves again etc, it's the RED FLAG. He's up to no good. We all did it at one point (scorpios don't say you didn't). Sorry if my words hurt you but it's like your 3rd post about this scorpio and we all warned you, yet you keep asking the same question. You said you would stop contacting him and move, and here you are again. Like make a choice once for all. Your obsession over sex is not healty at all. He knows it and uses it against you.
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It just took me abit of time or I needed a distraction I'm done he's blocked Iv deleted everything I did enjoy the mind games tho ... Onwards and upwards... On to my next victim hahaha


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