helenaqua
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Posted by Neno2Posted by helenaqua
I recently met a Scorpio in class (a month ago). He changed seats to be next to me and he has been sitting next to me ever since. He tries a lot to make small talk. I asked him out once, he said he had lots to do. Another day we had some *intense* eye contact and I asked him out again but he didn't see the message in time. Another *INTENSE* eye contact session later, we walk home together and we talk, the conversation is nice and flowing. He touches me on the shoulder when he leaves.
He talks about a club he takes part in, I want to see what it's all about, he says I can drop by, I message him to come but he doesn't see it again. I text him today and he replies instantly.
I can FEEL he likes me and it's quite deep. His stare makes me feel safe and loved. I don't know what to do.
Me: Aqua Sun (cusp with Pisces), Taurus Moon, Aqua Venus, Aqua Mercury, Libra Mars, Aries Saturn, Scorpio Chiron, Capricorn Ascendant.
Him: Scorpio Sun, Pisces Moon, Capricorn Venus, Capricorn Mars, Aries Saturn, Scorpio Chiron. I think his ascendant is Aquarius š.
Any other details about aspects and planets you need, ask me.
Me and him have few similar placementsš
Be patient,he has cap Venus,goes slow but steady,when u notice hes being flaky just be calm and patient,cap Venus u must force into a relationship,we tend to escapeševen if we like youclick to expand

Posted by ScorpioTruthPosted by helenaqua
The fear and insecurity was after he stared at me, he seemed as if in real physical pain or fear or something, couldn't stop moving, hand twitching and stuff. He is like that other times too but much less. It's certainly not that he doesn't like me. Maybe I'm intimidating to him?
Are you sure that he is single and not already involved?click to expand
Posted by ScorpioTruthPosted by helenaquaPosted by ScorpioTruthPosted by helenaqua
The fear and insecurity was after he stared at me, he seemed as if in real physical pain or fear or something, couldn't stop moving, hand twitching and stuff. He is like that other times too but much less. It's certainly not that he doesn't like me. Maybe I'm intimidating to him?
Are you sure that he is single and not already involved?
No I'm not... Wouldn't he have said something? If I ask it will be too obvious that I'm interested
Thatās what it sounds like to me. The only way a Scorpio is going to turn down a date with someone he/she likes is if they are already involved.
Even if he was intimidated or insecure, youāve already asked him out which would have helped alleviate some of that insecurity. Itās not adding up.. I feel like either heās only interested in being your friend or heās involved.click to expand
Posted by ScorpioTruth
OR he could be hiding something else that heās embarrassed by, like not having a car to pick you up in or something, I donāt know.. but Scorpios usually go for what they want so something seems off.
Posted by ScorpioTruthPosted by helenaquaPosted by ScorpioTruthPosted by helenaquaPosted by ScorpioTruthPosted by helenaqua
The fear and insecurity was after he stared at me, he seemed as if in real physical pain or fear or something, couldn't stop moving, hand twitching and stuff. He is like that other times too but much less. It's certainly not that he doesn't like me. Maybe I'm intimidating to him?
Are you sure that he is single and not already involved?
No I'm not... Wouldn't he have said something? If I ask it will be too obvious that I'm interested
Thatās what it sounds like to me. The only way a Scorpio is going to turn down a date with someone he/she likes is if they are already involved.
Even if he was intimidated or insecure, youāve already asked him out which would have helped alleviate some of that insecurity. Itās not adding up.. I feel like either heās only interested in being your friend or heās involved.
I'm sad to hear that...
I thought he was just reserved. It isn't shown anywhere in social media that he is close to any girl in particular, but then again he's a Scorpio.
You made a good point though, if he had a girlfriend he probably would have told you that when you asked him out. I donāt know.. I have just never known a Scorpio to turn down spending time with someone that they like. Just he direct and ask him. It wonāt turn him off.click to expand

Posted by ScorpioTruthPosted by helenaquaPosted by ScorpioTruthPosted by helenaquaPosted by ScorpioTruthPosted by helenaquaPosted by ScorpioTruthPosted by helenaqua
The fear and insecurity was after he stared at me, he seemed as if in real physical pain or fear or something, couldn't stop moving, hand twitching and stuff. He is like that other times too but much less. It's certainly not that he doesn't like me. Maybe I'm intimidating to him?
Are you sure that he is single and not already involved?
No I'm not... Wouldn't he have said something? If I ask it will be too obvious that I'm interested
Thatās what it sounds like to me. The only way a Scorpio is going to turn down a date with someone he/she likes is if they are already involved.
Even if he was intimidated or insecure, youāve already asked him out which would have helped alleviate some of that insecurity. Itās not adding up.. I feel like either heās only interested in being your friend or heās involved.
I'm sad to hear that...
I thought he was just reserved. It isn't shown anywhere in social media that he is close to any girl in particular, but then again he's a Scorpio.
You made a good point though, if he had a girlfriend he probably would have told you that when you asked him out. I donāt know.. I have just never known a Scorpio to turn down spending time with someone that they like. Just he direct and ask him. It wonāt turn him off.
You mean ask him if he has a girlfriend?
Hmm. Just remembered something. A few months ago I posted a picture of me with my then boyfriend. It's cute but doesn't imply we're necessarily a couple.
Could that be something that's keeping him away?
Possibly. Just be direct and ask him why he always has an excuse for not being able to hang out. Donāt be afraid to be direct with a Scorpio. If anyone can handle directness, it would be a Scorpio lol he wonāt shy away from it. You will get an honest answer from him either way and you wonāt have to keep guessing.click to expand

Posted by helenaqua
He changed seats to be next to me and he has been sitting next to me ever since. He tries a lot to make small talk.
I asked him out once, he said he had lots to do.
Another day we had some *intense* eye contact and I asked him out again but he didn't see the message in time.
I can FEEL he likes me and it's quite deep. His stare makes me feel safe and loved. I don't know what to do.

Posted by helenaquaPosted by ScorpioTruthPosted by helenaqua
The fear and insecurity was after he stared at me, he seemed as if in real physical pain or fear or something, couldn't stop moving, hand twitching and stuff. He is like that other times too but much less. It's certainly not that he doesn't like me. Maybe I'm intimidating to him?
Are you sure that he is single and not already involved?
No I'm not... Wouldn't he have said something? If I ask it will be too obvious that I'm interestedclick to expand

Posted by Uglygirlnextdoor
I swear sometimes I wonder if my stares are too intense for my colleagues. Iām just thinking about what Iāll be making for dinner dude. š¤¦š»āāļø


Posted by Koni
I donāt think he is interested since you asked him out and he said no. He could have rescheduled if he was in to it
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by helenaqua
He changed seats to be next to me and he has been sitting next to me ever since. He tries a lot to make small talk.
I asked him out once, he said he had lots to do.
Another day we had some *intense* eye contact and I asked him out again but he didn't see the message in time.
I can FEEL he likes me and it's quite deep. His stare makes me feel safe and loved. I don't know what to do.
Wow how cringe.
He changed seats to get a better look at the front maybe. Heās there to learn after all.
Youāve asked him out 2xs and both times heās said no. Said no nicely, but itās still a no. Heās not interested. If he was, youād know.
Everyone makes awkward small talk. Doesnāt mean anything deeper.
You FEELING that he likes you is nothing more than wishful thinking on your part. Spend less time fantasizing about emotions he doesnāt have towards you and more time spent focusing on class. You know, the whole reason your there in the first place.
Degree before dicks āļøclick to expand

Posted by ScorpioTruthPosted by Uglygirlnextdoor
I swear sometimes I wonder if my stares are too intense for my colleagues. Iām just thinking about what Iāll be making for dinner dude. š¤¦š»āāļø
Also if people are staring at me I canāt help but stare at them back to see if theyāre still staring at me š lolclick to expand

Posted by helenaquaPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by helenaqua
He changed seats to be next to me and he has been sitting next to me ever since. He tries a lot to make small talk.
I asked him out once, he said he had lots to do.
Another day we had some *intense* eye contact and I asked him out again but he didn't see the message in time.
I can FEEL he likes me and it's quite deep. His stare makes me feel safe and loved. I don't know what to do.
Wow how cringe.
He changed seats to get a better look at the front maybe. Heās there to learn after all.
Youāve asked him out 2xs and both times heās said no. Said no nicely, but itās still a no. Heās not interested. If he was, youād know.
Everyone makes awkward small talk. Doesnāt mean anything deeper.
You FEELING that he likes you is nothing more than wishful thinking on your part. Spend less time fantasizing about emotions he doesnāt have towards you and more time spent focusing on class. You know, the whole reason your there in the first place.
Degree before dicks āļø
He follows me anywhere I sit in class, it's not just to see better š I've tested it.
He said no once, the other times he wasn't online and I expected him to be, ok, I'm weird. And the first time it wasn't exactly a no, he said "it's not a bad idea, but I have stuff to do this weekend".
It wasn't awkward small talk, he doesn't talk to anyone else in class. And he doesn't have to talk to me. He initiates conversation way more often than I do. He bends over my part of the desk to see what I'm writing. Sometimes he doesn't pay attention in class continuously and then asks me what was said.
Look I don't know, you sound right. You could be. I don't know. Hence the topic.click to expand

Posted by ScorpioTruthPosted by helenaquaPosted by ScorpioTruthPosted by helenaquaPosted by ScorpioTruthPosted by helenaquaPosted by ScorpioTruthPosted by helenaqua
The fear and insecurity was after he stared at me, he seemed as if in real physical pain or fear or something, couldn't stop moving, hand twitching and stuff. He is like that other times too but much less. It's certainly not that he doesn't like me. Maybe I'm intimidating to him?
Are you sure that he is single and not already involved?
No I'm not... Wouldn't he have said something? If I ask it will be too obvious that I'm interested
Thatās what it sounds like to me. The only way a Scorpio is going to turn down a date with someone he/she likes is if they are already involved.
Even if he was intimidated or insecure, youāve already asked him out which would have helped alleviate some of that insecurity. Itās not adding up.. I feel like either heās only interested in being your friend or heās involved.
I'm sad to hear that...
I thought he was just reserved. It isn't shown anywhere in social media that he is close to any girl in particular, but then again he's a Scorpio.
You made a good point though, if he had a girlfriend he probably would have told you that when you asked him out. I donāt know.. I have just never known a Scorpio to turn down spending time with someone that they like. Just he direct and ask him. It wonāt turn him off.
You mean ask him if he has a girlfriend?
Hmm. Just remembered something. A few months ago I posted a picture of me with my then boyfriend. It's cute but doesn't imply we're necessarily a couple.
Could that be something that's keeping him away?
Possibly. Just be direct and ask him why he always has an excuse for not being able to hang out. Donāt be afraid to be direct with a Scorpio. If anyone can handle directness, it would be a Scorpio lol he wonāt shy away from it. You will get an honest answer from him either way and you wonāt have to keep guessing.click to expand

Posted by Koni
I donāt think he is interested since you asked him out and he said no. He could have rescheduled if he was in to it

Posted by HeartofTopazzPosted by Uglygirlnextdoor
I swear sometimes I wonder if my stares are too intense for my colleagues. Iām just thinking about what Iāll be making for dinner dude. š¤¦š»āāļø
Skedaddleclick to expand
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by helenaquaPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by helenaqua
He changed seats to be next to me and he has been sitting next to me ever since. He tries a lot to make small talk.
I asked him out once, he said he had lots to do.
Another day we had some *intense* eye contact and I asked him out again but he didn't see the message in time.
I can FEEL he likes me and it's quite deep. His stare makes me feel safe and loved. I don't know what to do.
Wow how cringe.
He changed seats to get a better look at the front maybe. Heās there to learn after all.
Youāve asked him out 2xs and both times heās said no. Said no nicely, but itās still a no. Heās not interested. If he was, youād know.
Everyone makes awkward small talk. Doesnāt mean anything deeper.
You FEELING that he likes you is nothing more than wishful thinking on your part. Spend less time fantasizing about emotions he doesnāt have towards you and more time spent focusing on class. You know, the whole reason your there in the first place.
Degree before dicks āļø
He follows me anywhere I sit in class, it's not just to see better š I've tested it.
He said no once, the other times he wasn't online and I expected him to be, ok, I'm weird. And the first time it wasn't exactly a no, he said "it's not a bad idea, but I have stuff to do this weekend".
It wasn't awkward small talk, he doesn't talk to anyone else in class. And he doesn't have to talk to me. He initiates conversation way more often than I do. He bends over my part of the desk to see what I'm writing. Sometimes he doesn't pay attention in class continuously and then asks me what was said.
Look I don't know, you sound right. You could be. I don't know. Hence the topic.
Ok letās break this down...
He makes sure to sit next to you. Asks you for the cliff notes since he doesnāt pay attention. Looks and copies your writing.
Doesnāt want to hang out outside of class.
Sounds like heās using you as a study buddy to make sure he does well in the class. Nothing youāve said here indicates he had secret feelings for you. Thatās all in your head.
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Posted by GemitatiPosted by Koni
I donāt think he is interested since you asked him out and he said no. He could have rescheduled if he was in to it
Isnāt it also strange that he doesnāt see messages...like what? šclick to expand

Posted by helenaquaPosted by GemitatiPosted by Koni
I donāt think he is interested since you asked him out and he said no. He could have rescheduled if he was in to it
Isnāt it also strange that he doesnāt see messages...like what? š
He just wasn't online, I was feeling impulsive when I asked him out. It wasn't prearranged.click to expand
Posted by GemitatiPosted by helenaquaPosted by GemitatiPosted by Koni
I donāt think he is interested since you asked him out and he said no. He could have rescheduled if he was in to it
Isnāt it also strange that he doesnāt see messages...like what? š
He just wasn't online, I was feeling impulsive when I asked him out. It wasn't prearranged.
Find some way so he canāt miss!
Like a text or gawd forbid phone call.
Scorpios men have enormous patience...so itās wether you look in his face and tell him you both going for a drink or wait until his balls will be popping out of his pants...even then he might be still āfiguring shit outā...
Good luck girl.
Here is tutorial for you/
Http://ashlleylove.tumblr.com/post/333536846/silly-Scorpio-bastardiclick to expand

Posted by helenaquaPosted by GemitatiPosted by helenaquaPosted by GemitatiPosted by Koni
I donāt think he is interested since you asked him out and he said no. He could have rescheduled if he was in to it
Isnāt it also strange that he doesnāt see messages...like what? š
He just wasn't online, I was feeling impulsive when I asked him out. It wasn't prearranged.
Find some way so he canāt miss!
Like a text or gawd forbid phone call.
Scorpios men have enormous patience...so itās wether you look in his face and tell him you both going for a drink or wait until his balls will be popping out of his pants...even then he might be still āfiguring shit outā...
Good luck girl.
Here is tutorial for you/
Http://ashlleylove.tumblr.com/post/333536846/silly-Scorpio-bastardi
Aargh I am already becoming like that!!!
Awesome article by the way š
I am thinking about just being light and bringing it all forth through messages. Feelings, teasing, whatever. Like I'm drunk or something. It's gonna blow it up I guess but who knows.click to expand

Posted by helenaquaPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by helenaquaPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by helenaqua
He changed seats to be next to me and he has been sitting next to me ever since. He tries a lot to make small talk.
I asked him out once, he said he had lots to do.
Another day we had some *intense* eye contact and I asked him out again but he didn't see the message in time.
I can FEEL he likes me and it's quite deep. His stare makes me feel safe and loved. I don't know what to do.
Wow how cringe.
He changed seats to get a better look at the front maybe. Heās there to learn after all.
Youāve asked him out 2xs and both times heās said no. Said no nicely, but itās still a no. Heās not interested. If he was, youād know.
Everyone makes awkward small talk. Doesnāt mean anything deeper.
You FEELING that he likes you is nothing more than wishful thinking on your part. Spend less time fantasizing about emotions he doesnāt have towards you and more time spent focusing on class. You know, the whole reason your there in the first place.
Degree before dicks āļø
He follows me anywhere I sit in class, it's not just to see better š I've tested it.
He said no once, the other times he wasn't online and I expected him to be, ok, I'm weird. And the first time it wasn't exactly a no, he said "it's not a bad idea, but I have stuff to do this weekend".
It wasn't awkward small talk, he doesn't talk to anyone else in class. And he doesn't have to talk to me. He initiates conversation way more often than I do. He bends over my part of the desk to see what I'm writing. Sometimes he doesn't pay attention in class continuously and then asks me what was said.
Look I don't know, you sound right. You could be. I don't know. Hence the topic.
Ok letās break this down...
He makes sure to sit next to you. Asks you for the cliff notes since he doesnāt pay attention. Looks and copies your writing.
Doesnāt want to hang out outside of class.
Sounds like heās using you as a study buddy to make sure he does well in the class. Nothing youāve said here indicates he had secret feelings for you. Thatās all in your head.
Thing is, he's better than me in this class. He doesn't have to get the notes from me, he can pay attention himself just fine. He did it to a ridiculous degree. If he paid so much attention to class as he did to me, he wouldn't need the notes.
Yesterday there was an outing of the entire class to a restaurant. I said I would go when I was asked in class by the professor. Before I left at the end of the class, he turned around from a conversation he had and asked me if I was going. He didn't do that for anybody else.
(I couldn't go to the restaurant after all so no news from there)click to expand

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He talks about a club he takes part in, I want to see what it's all about, he says I can drop by, I message him to come but he doesn't see it again. I text him today and he replies instantly.
I can FEEL he likes me and it's quite deep. His stare makes me feel safe and loved. I don't know what to do.
Me: Aqua Sun (cusp with Pisces), Taurus Moon, Aqua Venus, Aqua Mercury, Libra Mars, Aries Saturn, Scorpio Chiron, Capricorn Ascendant.
Him: Scorpio Sun, Pisces Moon, Capricorn Venus, Capricorn Mars, Aries Saturn, Scorpio Chiron. I think his ascendant is Aquarius š.
Any other details about aspects and planets you need, ask me.