Scorpio extreme insecurity or fear?

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I recently met a Scorpio in class (a month ago). He changed seats to be next to me and he has been sitting next to me ever since. He tries a lot to make small talk. I asked him out once, he said he had lots to do. Another day we had some *intense* eye contact and I asked him out again but he didn't see the message in time. Another *INTENSE* eye contact session later, we walk home together and we talk, the conversation is nice and flowing. He touches me on the shoulder when he leaves.

He talks about a club he takes part in, I want to see what it's all about, he says I can drop by, I message him to come but he doesn't see it again. I text him today and he replies instantly.

I can FEEL he likes me and it's quite deep. His stare makes me feel safe and loved. I don't know what to do.

Me: Aqua Sun (cusp with Pisces), Taurus Moon, Aqua Venus, Aqua Mercury, Libra Mars, Aries Saturn, Scorpio Chiron, Capricorn Ascendant.

Him: Scorpio Sun, Pisces Moon, Capricorn Venus, Capricorn Mars, Aries Saturn, Scorpio Chiron. I think his ascendant is Aquarius šŸ˜‡.

Any other details about aspects and planets you need, ask me.
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I recently met a Scorpio in class (a month ago). He changed seats to be next to me and he has been sitting next to me ever since. He tries a lot to make small talk. I asked him out once, he said he had lots to do. Another day we had some *intense* eye contact and I asked him out again but he didn't see the message in time. Another *INTENSE* eye contact session later, we walk home together and we talk, the conversation is nice and flowing. He touches me on the shoulder when he leaves.

He talks about a club he takes part in, I want to see what it's all about, he says I can drop by, I message him to come but he doesn't see it again. I text him today and he replies instantly.

I can FEEL he likes me and it's quite deep. His stare makes me feel safe and loved. I don't know what to do.

Me: Aqua Sun (cusp with Pisces), Taurus Moon, Aqua Venus, Aqua Mercury, Libra Mars, Aries Saturn, Scorpio Chiron, Capricorn Ascendant.

Him: Scorpio Sun, Pisces Moon, Capricorn Venus, Capricorn Mars, Aries Saturn, Scorpio Chiron. I think his ascendant is Aquarius šŸ˜‡.

Any other details about aspects and planets you need, ask me.


Me and him have few similar placements😃

Be patient,he has cap Venus,goes slow but steady,when u notice hes being flaky just be calm and patient,cap Venus u must force into a relationship,we tend to escape😃even if we like you
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Am I right to send him messages or ask to meet him sometimes? It's not systematically or often, I just feel like it sometimes. Will he always be flaky? Or just until he gets to know me better?
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The fear and insecurity was after he stared at me, he seemed as if in real physical pain or fear or something, couldn't stop moving, hand twitching and stuff. He is like that other times too but much less. It's certainly not that he doesn't like me. Maybe I'm intimidating to him?


Are you sure that he is single and not already involved?
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No I'm not... Wouldn't he have said something? If I ask it will be too obvious that I'm interested
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The fear and insecurity was after he stared at me, he seemed as if in real physical pain or fear or something, couldn't stop moving, hand twitching and stuff. He is like that other times too but much less. It's certainly not that he doesn't like me. Maybe I'm intimidating to him?


Are you sure that he is single and not already involved?


No I'm not... Wouldn't he have said something? If I ask it will be too obvious that I'm interested


That’s what it sounds like to me. The only way a Scorpio is going to turn down a date with someone he/she likes is if they are already involved.

Even if he was intimidated or insecure, you’ve already asked him out which would have helped alleviate some of that insecurity. It’s not adding up.. I feel like either he’s only interested in being your friend or he’s involved.
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I'm sad to hear that...

I thought he was just reserved. It isn't shown anywhere in social media that he is close to any girl in particular, but then again he's a Scorpio.
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OR he could be hiding something else that he’s embarrassed by, like not having a car to pick you up in or something, I don’t know.. but Scorpios usually go for what they want so something seems off.


This just made me happier šŸ˜…

I don't care about such material stuff, and his Pisces moon is making him so endearing, I would never make him feel bad about something like that!

I hope it's that.

Thank you for the thought you're putting into the topic!!
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The fear and insecurity was after he stared at me, he seemed as if in real physical pain or fear or something, couldn't stop moving, hand twitching and stuff. He is like that other times too but much less. It's certainly not that he doesn't like me. Maybe I'm intimidating to him?


Are you sure that he is single and not already involved?


No I'm not... Wouldn't he have said something? If I ask it will be too obvious that I'm interested


That’s what it sounds like to me. The only way a Scorpio is going to turn down a date with someone he/she likes is if they are already involved.

Even if he was intimidated or insecure, you’ve already asked him out which would have helped alleviate some of that insecurity. It’s not adding up.. I feel like either he’s only interested in being your friend or he’s involved.


I'm sad to hear that...

I thought he was just reserved. It isn't shown anywhere in social media that he is close to any girl in particular, but then again he's a Scorpio.


You made a good point though, if he had a girlfriend he probably would have told you that when you asked him out. I don’t know.. I have just never known a Scorpio to turn down spending time with someone that they like. Just he direct and ask him. It won’t turn him off.
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You mean ask him if he has a girlfriend?

Hmm. Just remembered something. A few months ago I posted a picture of me with my then boyfriend. It's cute but doesn't imply we're necessarily a couple.

Could that be something that's keeping him away?
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The fear and insecurity was after he stared at me, he seemed as if in real physical pain or fear or something, couldn't stop moving, hand twitching and stuff. He is like that other times too but much less. It's certainly not that he doesn't like me. Maybe I'm intimidating to him?


Are you sure that he is single and not already involved?


No I'm not... Wouldn't he have said something? If I ask it will be too obvious that I'm interested


That’s what it sounds like to me. The only way a Scorpio is going to turn down a date with someone he/she likes is if they are already involved.

Even if he was intimidated or insecure, you’ve already asked him out which would have helped alleviate some of that insecurity. It’s not adding up.. I feel like either he’s only interested in being your friend or he’s involved.


I'm sad to hear that...

I thought he was just reserved. It isn't shown anywhere in social media that he is close to any girl in particular, but then again he's a Scorpio.


You made a good point though, if he had a girlfriend he probably would have told you that when you asked him out. I don’t know.. I have just never known a Scorpio to turn down spending time with someone that they like. Just he direct and ask him. It won’t turn him off.


You mean ask him if he has a girlfriend?

Hmm. Just remembered something. A few months ago I posted a picture of me with my then boyfriend. It's cute but doesn't imply we're necessarily a couple.

Could that be something that's keeping him away?




Possibly. Just be direct and ask him why he always has an excuse for not being able to hang out. Don’t be afraid to be direct with a Scorpio. If anyone can handle directness, it would be a Scorpio lol he won’t shy away from it. You will get an honest answer from him either way and you won’t have to keep guessing.
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I'll try to find a way to do that!
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Posted by helenaqua

He changed seats to be next to me and he has been sitting next to me ever since. He tries a lot to make small talk.

I asked him out once, he said he had lots to do.

Another day we had some *intense* eye contact and I asked him out again but he didn't see the message in time.

I can FEEL he likes me and it's quite deep. His stare makes me feel safe and loved. I don't know what to do.


Wow how cringe.

He changed seats to get a better look at the front maybe. He’s there to learn after all.

You’ve asked him out 2xs and both times he’s said no. Said no nicely, but it’s still a no. He’s not interested. If he was, you’d know.

Everyone makes awkward small talk. Doesn’t mean anything deeper.

You FEELING that he likes you is nothing more than wishful thinking on your part. Spend less time fantasizing about emotions he doesn’t have towards you and more time spent focusing on class. You know, the whole reason your there in the first place.

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The fear and insecurity was after he stared at me, he seemed as if in real physical pain or fear or something, couldn't stop moving, hand twitching and stuff. He is like that other times too but much less. It's certainly not that he doesn't like me. Maybe I'm intimidating to him?


Are you sure that he is single and not already involved?


No I'm not... Wouldn't he have said something? If I ask it will be too obvious that I'm interested
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So asking if he is single is too obvious. But asking him out 2xs is not?! Tf.

Lol I can’t with you šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚
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He changed seats to be next to me and he has been sitting next to me ever since. He tries a lot to make small talk.

I asked him out once, he said he had lots to do.

Another day we had some *intense* eye contact and I asked him out again but he didn't see the message in time.

I can FEEL he likes me and it's quite deep. His stare makes me feel safe and loved. I don't know what to do.


Wow how cringe.

He changed seats to get a better look at the front maybe. He’s there to learn after all.

You’ve asked him out 2xs and both times he’s said no. Said no nicely, but it’s still a no. He’s not interested. If he was, you’d know.

Everyone makes awkward small talk. Doesn’t mean anything deeper.

You FEELING that he likes you is nothing more than wishful thinking on your part. Spend less time fantasizing about emotions he doesn’t have towards you and more time spent focusing on class. You know, the whole reason your there in the first place.

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He follows me anywhere I sit in class, it's not just to see better šŸ˜› I've tested it.

He said no once, the other times he wasn't online and I expected him to be, ok, I'm weird. And the first time it wasn't exactly a no, he said "it's not a bad idea, but I have stuff to do this weekend".

It wasn't awkward small talk, he doesn't talk to anyone else in class. And he doesn't have to talk to me. He initiates conversation way more often than I do. He bends over my part of the desk to see what I'm writing. Sometimes he doesn't pay attention in class continuously and then asks me what was said.

Look I don't know, you sound right. You could be. I don't know. Hence the topic.
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I swear sometimes I wonder if my stares are too intense for my colleagues. I’m just thinking about what I’ll be making for dinner dude. šŸ¤¦šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø


Also if people are staring at me I can’t help but stare at them back to see if they’re still staring at me šŸ‘€ lol
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He changed seats to be next to me and he has been sitting next to me ever since. He tries a lot to make small talk.

I asked him out once, he said he had lots to do.

Another day we had some *intense* eye contact and I asked him out again but he didn't see the message in time.

I can FEEL he likes me and it's quite deep. His stare makes me feel safe and loved. I don't know what to do.


Wow how cringe.

He changed seats to get a better look at the front maybe. He’s there to learn after all.

You’ve asked him out 2xs and both times he’s said no. Said no nicely, but it’s still a no. He’s not interested. If he was, you’d know.

Everyone makes awkward small talk. Doesn’t mean anything deeper.

You FEELING that he likes you is nothing more than wishful thinking on your part. Spend less time fantasizing about emotions he doesn’t have towards you and more time spent focusing on class. You know, the whole reason your there in the first place.

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He follows me anywhere I sit in class, it's not just to see better šŸ˜› I've tested it.

He said no once, the other times he wasn't online and I expected him to be, ok, I'm weird. And the first time it wasn't exactly a no, he said "it's not a bad idea, but I have stuff to do this weekend".

It wasn't awkward small talk, he doesn't talk to anyone else in class. And he doesn't have to talk to me. He initiates conversation way more often than I do. He bends over my part of the desk to see what I'm writing. Sometimes he doesn't pay attention in class continuously and then asks me what was said.

Look I don't know, you sound right. You could be. I don't know. Hence the topic.
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Ok let’s break this down...

He makes sure to sit next to you. Asks you for the cliff notes since he doesn’t pay attention. Looks and copies your writing.

Doesn’t want to hang out outside of class.

Sounds like he’s using you as a study buddy to make sure he does well in the class. Nothing you’ve said here indicates he had secret feelings for you. That’s all in your head.

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The fear and insecurity was after he stared at me, he seemed as if in real physical pain or fear or something, couldn't stop moving, hand twitching and stuff. He is like that other times too but much less. It's certainly not that he doesn't like me. Maybe I'm intimidating to him?


Are you sure that he is single and not already involved?


No I'm not... Wouldn't he have said something? If I ask it will be too obvious that I'm interested


That’s what it sounds like to me. The only way a Scorpio is going to turn down a date with someone he/she likes is if they are already involved.

Even if he was intimidated or insecure, you’ve already asked him out which would have helped alleviate some of that insecurity. It’s not adding up.. I feel like either he’s only interested in being your friend or he’s involved.


I'm sad to hear that...

I thought he was just reserved. It isn't shown anywhere in social media that he is close to any girl in particular, but then again he's a Scorpio.


You made a good point though, if he had a girlfriend he probably would have told you that when you asked him out. I don’t know.. I have just never known a Scorpio to turn down spending time with someone that they like. Just he direct and ask him. It won’t turn him off.


You mean ask him if he has a girlfriend?

Hmm. Just remembered something. A few months ago I posted a picture of me with my then boyfriend. It's cute but doesn't imply we're necessarily a couple.

Could that be something that's keeping him away?




Possibly. Just be direct and ask him why he always has an excuse for not being able to hang out. Don’t be afraid to be direct with a Scorpio. If anyone can handle directness, it would be a Scorpio lol he won’t shy away from it. You will get an honest answer from him either way and you won’t have to keep guessing.
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The answer could be also...’I don’t know’...and then you can beat your head against the wall! Lol
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He changed seats to be next to me and he has been sitting next to me ever since. He tries a lot to make small talk.

I asked him out once, he said he had lots to do.

Another day we had some *intense* eye contact and I asked him out again but he didn't see the message in time.

I can FEEL he likes me and it's quite deep. His stare makes me feel safe and loved. I don't know what to do.


Wow how cringe.

He changed seats to get a better look at the front maybe. He’s there to learn after all.

You’ve asked him out 2xs and both times he’s said no. Said no nicely, but it’s still a no. He’s not interested. If he was, you’d know.

Everyone makes awkward small talk. Doesn’t mean anything deeper.

You FEELING that he likes you is nothing more than wishful thinking on your part. Spend less time fantasizing about emotions he doesn’t have towards you and more time spent focusing on class. You know, the whole reason your there in the first place.

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He follows me anywhere I sit in class, it's not just to see better šŸ˜› I've tested it.

He said no once, the other times he wasn't online and I expected him to be, ok, I'm weird. And the first time it wasn't exactly a no, he said "it's not a bad idea, but I have stuff to do this weekend".

It wasn't awkward small talk, he doesn't talk to anyone else in class. And he doesn't have to talk to me. He initiates conversation way more often than I do. He bends over my part of the desk to see what I'm writing. Sometimes he doesn't pay attention in class continuously and then asks me what was said.

Look I don't know, you sound right. You could be. I don't know. Hence the topic.


Ok let’s break this down...

He makes sure to sit next to you. Asks you for the cliff notes since he doesn’t pay attention. Looks and copies your writing.

Doesn’t want to hang out outside of class.

Sounds like he’s using you as a study buddy to make sure he does well in the class. Nothing you’ve said here indicates he had secret feelings for you. That’s all in your head.

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Thing is, he's better than me in this class. He doesn't have to get the notes from me, he can pay attention himself just fine. He did it to a ridiculous degree. If he paid so much attention to class as he did to me, he wouldn't need the notes.

Yesterday there was an outing of the entire class to a restaurant. I said I would go when I was asked in class by the professor. Before I left at the end of the class, he turned around from a conversation he had and asked me if I was going. He didn't do that for anybody else.

(I couldn't go to the restaurant after all so no news from there)
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I don’t think he is interested since you asked him out and he said no. He could have rescheduled if he was in to it


Isn’t it also strange that he doesn’t see messages...like what? šŸ‘€


He just wasn't online, I was feeling impulsive when I asked him out. It wasn't prearranged.
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Find some way so he can’t miss!

Like a text or gawd forbid phone call.

Scorpios men have enormous patience...so it’s wether you look in his face and tell him you both going for a drink or wait until his balls will be popping out of his pants...even then he might be still ā€˜figuring shit out’...

Good luck girl.

Here is tutorial for you/

Http://ashlleylove.tumblr.com/post/333536846/silly-Scorpio-bastardi
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I don’t think he is interested since you asked him out and he said no. He could have rescheduled if he was in to it


Isn’t it also strange that he doesn’t see messages...like what? šŸ‘€


He just wasn't online, I was feeling impulsive when I asked him out. It wasn't prearranged.


Find some way so he can’t miss!

Like a text or gawd forbid phone call.

Scorpios men have enormous patience...so it’s wether you look in his face and tell him you both going for a drink or wait until his balls will be popping out of his pants...even then he might be still ā€˜figuring shit out’...

Good luck girl.

Here is tutorial for you/

Http://ashlleylove.tumblr.com/post/333536846/silly-Scorpio-bastardi
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Aargh I am already becoming like that!!!

Awesome article by the way 😁

I am thinking about just being light and bringing it all forth through messages. Feelings, teasing, whatever. Like I'm drunk or something. It's gonna blow it up I guess but who knows.
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I don’t think he is interested since you asked him out and he said no. He could have rescheduled if he was in to it


Isn’t it also strange that he doesn’t see messages...like what? šŸ‘€


He just wasn't online, I was feeling impulsive when I asked him out. It wasn't prearranged.


Find some way so he can’t miss!

Like a text or gawd forbid phone call.

Scorpios men have enormous patience...so it’s wether you look in his face and tell him you both going for a drink or wait until his balls will be popping out of his pants...even then he might be still ā€˜figuring shit out’...

Good luck girl.

Here is tutorial for you/

Http://ashlleylove.tumblr.com/post/333536846/silly-Scorpio-bastardi


Aargh I am already becoming like that!!!

Awesome article by the way 😁

I am thinking about just being light and bringing it all forth through messages. Feelings, teasing, whatever. Like I'm drunk or something. It's gonna blow it up I guess but who knows.
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It’s not going to blow up if he likes you. If he does you can fart in his face and he’ll be fine with that!

But he must really like you!

Shit I’ve done...lol

Just have fun. ā¤ļø
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He changed seats to be next to me and he has been sitting next to me ever since. He tries a lot to make small talk.

I asked him out once, he said he had lots to do.

Another day we had some *intense* eye contact and I asked him out again but he didn't see the message in time.

I can FEEL he likes me and it's quite deep. His stare makes me feel safe and loved. I don't know what to do.


Wow how cringe.

He changed seats to get a better look at the front maybe. He’s there to learn after all.

You’ve asked him out 2xs and both times he’s said no. Said no nicely, but it’s still a no. He’s not interested. If he was, you’d know.

Everyone makes awkward small talk. Doesn’t mean anything deeper.

You FEELING that he likes you is nothing more than wishful thinking on your part. Spend less time fantasizing about emotions he doesn’t have towards you and more time spent focusing on class. You know, the whole reason your there in the first place.

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He follows me anywhere I sit in class, it's not just to see better šŸ˜› I've tested it.

He said no once, the other times he wasn't online and I expected him to be, ok, I'm weird. And the first time it wasn't exactly a no, he said "it's not a bad idea, but I have stuff to do this weekend".

It wasn't awkward small talk, he doesn't talk to anyone else in class. And he doesn't have to talk to me. He initiates conversation way more often than I do. He bends over my part of the desk to see what I'm writing. Sometimes he doesn't pay attention in class continuously and then asks me what was said.

Look I don't know, you sound right. You could be. I don't know. Hence the topic.


Ok let’s break this down...

He makes sure to sit next to you. Asks you for the cliff notes since he doesn’t pay attention. Looks and copies your writing.

Doesn’t want to hang out outside of class.

Sounds like he’s using you as a study buddy to make sure he does well in the class. Nothing you’ve said here indicates he had secret feelings for you. That’s all in your head.




Thing is, he's better than me in this class. He doesn't have to get the notes from me, he can pay attention himself just fine. He did it to a ridiculous degree. If he paid so much attention to class as he did to me, he wouldn't need the notes.

Yesterday there was an outing of the entire class to a restaurant. I said I would go when I was asked in class by the professor. Before I left at the end of the class, he turned around from a conversation he had and asked me if I was going. He didn't do that for anybody else.

(I couldn't go to the restaurant after all so no news from there)
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He’s a better test taker you mean.

He can zone out and get your notes at the end of class.

He seeks you out for this reason.

He asked if you were going to the restaurant cause your the familiar face to him.

But none of that indicates he has ā€˜deep feelings’ for you. He’s not fearful or insecure. He just isn’t that into you. Sorry šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø