Scorpio fallen for another Scorpio...HELP!!

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Atlclr on Monday, May 23, 2016 and has 4 replies.
Ok...so Scorpio here. I know how we are. I know what we do. Now, I have fallen for another Scorpio and not sure what is going on. We met 6 months ago online when I was home visiting friends. We live in different states. So, for 6 months, we texted, called, etc. Always flirtatious...always talking of finally meeting and both being excited. Well, I was back up home and we had planned to hang out Sunday. Well we found ourselves unable to wait and met Friday. But we both understood that if either did not want to pursue, we would be honest and call it a night and not see each other again. It was an amazing night of holding hands, cuddling, kissing. Spent Saturday night with him watching a movie then a passionate night in the bedroom. Sunday we spent all day together. I left from my trip and now things are different. He said we would do it again soon and he had a great weekend. But here's the thing, since I left, I've had to initiate all contact. No flirting via text or on phone. He does follow and like my FB post. He seems distant. When I asked where his head was after our weekend he did the Scorpio thing and turned the question on me. And I fell for it. How should I proceed? I've never fallen for another Scorpio but I am head over heels and feel the need to protect myself, but also want to grow what has started. Any advice or thoughts are appreciated.
Is it possible that he maybe thinking ahead and went into protection mode too? I have only dated 1 Scorpio and he didn't start to push me away until he developed feelings. It was a roller coaster for almost 2 years till he finally pushed me away for good.
Posted by DollyLuxe
He got what he wanted. He's off looking for his next target.




^5 (high five!) You hit the nail on the head!

Hug cyber hug!

Love,

Eva
One thing to add is that when we have spoken, he is planning our next visit. And he wanted me to come on vacation with him...since it's the half way point between our locations. And he says he wants to take vacation before his trip in August so that he can come see me one weekend. Just not sure what to make of it all. To me....he seems interested, but at arms length and maybe protecting himself. Question really is what to do. Do I confront him, give him space? If so, how much? Do I directly ask him? I don't want to smother him, but also want to protect myself...Scorpio/Scorpio relationship...never been in one.

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