pomegranate
@pomegranate
17 Years
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So I am a Scorpio female who has recently met a Leo male in a professional environment. When I first met him, through a mutual friend, he was extremely aggressive and forward in the conversation, to the point that our mutual friend was shocked at his behaviour. I was very attracted to him initially, but also caught off guard extremely.
I saw him on and off after that and every time I saw him our conversations would be extremely intense and fast-paced, though he was never as aggressive as the first time, would be quiet a lot or say slightly awkward things - I assume it is just nervousness. When I see him in a group of people he takes on the same aggressive stands (which I like!) and is very forward with me, extremely flirtatious, maintains complete eye contact, and has an uncanny ability to remember everything I say. Usually in these settings I am more quiet and subdued and just take him in. However when I run into him alone he is almost a completely different person, very inhibited and held back and nervous - and I just don't know what to do about this.
It seems like no matter what I try I can't get this guy to open up or have a serious conversation, I'm not sure if he's ever been in a serious relationship before as he seems to have huge inhibitions or walls up and a facade of being hard as nails - which he is blatantly not. I tend to call him on this a lot and it seems like any time I try to talk about anything substantial like his family, past relationships, his inhibitions, etc. he completely closes up, but as soon as the conversation moves to something stupid like TV or gossip or sports - he completely opens up and is able to regain control and composure.
WHAT DO I DO——??