Scorpio females have bigger balls than the males?

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I have a few close (male) Scorp acquaintances, we get along very well, they match my passionate nature but it's ridiculous how competetive they are about everything, it's like they're struggling with inferiority issues on a day-to-day basis and constantly having to prove themselves. It's like they are Leos and I'm the Scorp!

Female Scorps don't come off as insecure as their male counterpart. But I guess men are generally more insecure in their skin these days regardless of sign.

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I have a few close (male) Scorp acquaintances, we get along very well, they match my passionate nature but it's ridiculous how competitive they are about everything, it's like they're struggling with inferiority issues on a day-to-day basis and constantly having to prove themselves. It's like they are Leos and I'm the Scorp!

Female Scorps don't come off as insecure as their male counterpart. But I guess men are generally more insecure in their skin these days regardless of sign.



Why do you believe Scorpio men are insecure? I never got that at all.


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Posted by Whatu
I do struggle with inferiority issues, but they are not influenced by other people, I have standards and aspirations that are always a little out of reach thus I feel as though I have fallen short every time.

"It's like they are Leos and I'm the Scorp" Nope, Its like your a Leo seeing things from a Leo's perspective of what a Leo thinks about Scorpio's. And as a Leo the Leo feels the Scorpios actions must be directly related to the Leo because Leo has a pwurty mane, Leo.



The first paragraph is just not true. In my experience, Scorp guys tend to get themselves into competetive arguments without anyone even challanging you, and seemingly without any meaning but to prove yourselves, compared to others. Sort of like pulling a Leo, in a stereotpyical sense.

And the second paragraph proves my point because both you and VivaciousScorp were immediately jumping to the conclusion that I was referring to the inferiority issues in relation to me, when in fact I was talking about how they come off when interacting with others, with me by their side.

The problem is not that they are competetive or insecure, it's that they show it so bluntly that it's painfully awkward to watch-- or to be around. I feel like doing them a favor and taking them aside so they don't do more damage to themselves than what they've already done. The Achille's heel is always exposed with these guys. I could tell you stories, but I'm at work atm.
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Why do you believe Scorpio men are insecure? I never got that at all.


It's because you're a girl and you're not interacting with them man to man. You only see one side of their, shall we say, "sensitive nature". Is your husband a Scorp??
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yes. but he does have strong leo placements. a stellium.

a scorpio man with different placements might change, plus upbringing.

but ultimately, he's still kind of "exalted" in the sun. Because Mars is their traditional ruler. (similar to Aries, but expressed differently as you already know)
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Posted by Whatu
I do struggle with inferiority issues, but they are not influenced by other people, I have standards and aspirations that are always a little out of reach thus I feel as though I have fallen short every time.
"It's like they are Leos and I'm the Scorp" Nope, Its like your a Leo seeing things from a Leo's perspective of what a Leo thinks about Scorpio's. And as a Leo the Leo feels the Scorpios actions must be directly related to the Leo because Leo has a pwurty mane, Leo.


The first paragraph is just not true. In my experience, Scorp guys tend to get themselves into competetive arguments without anyone even challanging you, and seemingly without any meaning but to prove yourselves, compared to others. Sort of like pulling a Leo, in a stereotpyical sense.
And the second paragraph proves my point because both you and VivaciousScorp were immediately jumping to the conclusion that I was referring to the inferiority issues in relation to me, when in fact I was talking about how they come off when interacting with others, with me by their side.
The problem is not that they are competetive or insecure, it's that they show it so bluntly that it's painfully awkward to watch-- or to be around. I feel like doing them a favor and taking them aside so they don't do more damage to themselves than what they've already done. The Achille's heel is always exposed with these guys. I could tell you stories, but I'm at work atm.
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that is most likely a "passionate" response. Or they quietly sit and listen and absorb your responses. There's always an inner turbulent energy going on inside.
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Posted by lisabethur8
i'd have to agree with whatu...

they aren't influenced by what other people say about them.


Well, they can't be by the way they awkwardly flaunt their personal baggage for everyone to see. Those I've closely interacted with have been like an open book-- there are even drawings where to kick to hurt them the most! lol

And I don't mean competetive proffessionally, but competetive as in constantly having to prove themselves about some personal shit no one else in the room even cares about. One can't help but put two and two together when these peeps start going off on a tangent.


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i'd have to agree with whatu...

they aren't influenced by what other people say about them.


Well, they can't be by the way they awkwardly flaunt their personal baggage for everyone to see. Those I've closely interacted with have been like an open book-- there are even drawings where to kick to hurt them the most! lol

And I don't mean competetive proffessionally, but competetive as in constantly having to prove themselves about some personal shit no one else in the room even cares about. One can't help but put two and two together when these peeps start going off on a tangent.


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well my husband always says i'm oblivous....but i'll tell you this, i dont know what and who you meet. flaunting around their baggage?? okkkayyy. yeah. ๐Ÿ˜•
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Posted by VivaciousScorpio
I compete for various reasons: for fun, for bettering myself, for annoying others, for flirting, for bonding, for becoming the person people turn to, for pushing my friends to success etc.

I really can't understand why people think Scorps as a sign are insecure.



This is all your fire moon talking. Won't cast an opinion on insecurity but the thing you said about competing..that's fire moon all the way.
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Posted by Rabbit
I've always been curious as to why fire signs always seem to have a problem with me.

I could be an unobtrusive wallflower and still be singled out.



It's because they're sensitive and see everything as a threat. If a baby doesn't yell, it doesn;t get food so if they don't throw a tantrum...they feel the world will let them die.

Which is cute.

The more unobtrusive you are, the more you think you're up to something.
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Posted by Whatu

Did you read anything I wrote? you are still referring to Scorpios relating to you because as an immature Leo it is impossible for you to see anything from a different perspective, also I have to make the point that while everyone ells was just talking about how awesome scorpio girls are. You felt compelled to launch a direct attack on Scorpio men and the things that make them who they are. Why, do we make you feel a little insecure?



Well, first you should get your facts straight about what I was saying, BEFORE getting all defensive about it, which is simply that Scorps come off as more insecure than the women, based on 3 of 4 males I'm relatively close to IRL & compared a whole lot of Scorp chicks I know. Read my first comment again. It had nothing to do with me, it was just an observation. If you wanna call it a Leo's perspective that's fine, but what I'm already seeing in here is a whole lot of Scorp males getting their defensive cocks tangled up over nothing. What's that about?

Didn't someone say you guys supposedly "don't care what anyone thinks of you" (especially not an insecure Leo, I assume) so why are you taking my little input so personally?

Like a clockwork.. ๐Ÿ˜†




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Posted by Rabbit
I certainly wouldn't count myself as offended. You've certainly made brought up some relevant observations you've had. I don't disagree with those observations entirely, but some of the behavior you've described can be applied to males AND females from my observations. I'm positive not all Scorpio women act like the two Debbie Downers I work with.



Obviousely, but women don't have that male ego to feed. Men do. Naturally there's gonna be a significant difference between what men and women make their priority to get into arguments about. Scorp males seem to often get into arguments to prove something to themselves or to others, while with the women of this sign, there seems to be a lot less insecurities and egos invested in the arguments they choose to be passionately opinionated about.
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melly it might just be you. i love gemcandle but think about how super aggressive she is. and dominating. and she's mars in leo. ๐Ÿ™‚



True. It might be all the water in my chart subduing my Mars..

Or maybe I'm only aggressive in certain areas, like relationships..? I wonder what my exes would have to say..


Melly, you're not alone! haha
Mars in leo too
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Omg, I thought I was the only one! ๐Ÿ˜ฑ
I'm thinking pajama party! My place, ice-cream, gossip... pillow fights!! ๐Ÿ˜„