
LilliLou
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Posted by enfant_terrible
I have a few close (male) Scorp acquaintances, we get along very well, they match my passionate nature but it's ridiculous how competitive they are about everything, it's like they're struggling with inferiority issues on a day-to-day basis and constantly having to prove themselves. It's like they are Leos and I'm the Scorp!
Female Scorps don't come off as insecure as their male counterpart. But I guess men are generally more insecure in their skin these days regardless of sign.

Posted by VivaciousScorpio
Lol, only a leo would confuse competitiveness with insecurity ๐
Go back to lying under your tree. Jeez.

Posted by lisabethur8
Why do you believe Scorpio men are insecure? I never got that at all.

Posted by Whatu
I do struggle with inferiority issues, but they are not influenced by other people, I have standards and aspirations that are always a little out of reach thus I feel as though I have fallen short every time.
"It's like they are Leos and I'm the Scorp" Nope, Its like your a Leo seeing things from a Leo's perspective of what a Leo thinks about Scorpio's. And as a Leo the Leo feels the Scorpios actions must be directly related to the Leo because Leo has a pwurty mane, Leo.
Posted by enfant_terriblePosted by lisabethur8
Why do you believe Scorpio men are insecure? I never got that at all.
It's because you're a girl and you're not interacting with them man to man. You only see one side of their, shall we say, "sensitive nature". Is your husband a Scorp??click to expand
Posted by enfant_terriblePosted by Whatu
I do struggle with inferiority issues, but they are not influenced by other people, I have standards and aspirations that are always a little out of reach thus I feel as though I have fallen short every time.
"It's like they are Leos and I'm the Scorp" Nope, Its like your a Leo seeing things from a Leo's perspective of what a Leo thinks about Scorpio's. And as a Leo the Leo feels the Scorpios actions must be directly related to the Leo because Leo has a pwurty mane, Leo.
The first paragraph is just not true. In my experience, Scorp guys tend to get themselves into competetive arguments without anyone even challanging you, and seemingly without any meaning but to prove yourselves, compared to others. Sort of like pulling a Leo, in a stereotpyical sense.
And the second paragraph proves my point because both you and VivaciousScorp were immediately jumping to the conclusion that I was referring to the inferiority issues in relation to me, when in fact I was talking about how they come off when interacting with others, with me by their side.
The problem is not that they are competetive or insecure, it's that they show it so bluntly that it's painfully awkward to watch-- or to be around. I feel like doing them a favor and taking them aside so they don't do more damage to themselves than what they've already done. The Achille's heel is always exposed with these guys. I could tell you stories, but I'm at work atm.click to expand

Posted by lisabethur8
i'd have to agree with whatu...
they aren't influenced by what other people say about them.
Posted by enfant_terriblePosted by lisabethur8
i'd have to agree with whatu...
they aren't influenced by what other people say about them.
Well, they can't be by the way they awkwardly flaunt their personal baggage for everyone to see. Those I've closely interacted with have been like an open book-- there are even drawings where to kick to hurt them the most! lol
And I don't mean competetive proffessionally, but competetive as in constantly having to prove themselves about some personal shit no one else in the room even cares about. One can't help but put two and two together when these peeps start going off on a tangent.
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Posted by Rabbit
Nope.
I know plenty that awkward and insecure doormats.


Posted by VivaciousScorpio
I compete for various reasons: for fun, for bettering myself, for annoying others, for flirting, for bonding, for becoming the person people turn to, for pushing my friends to success etc.
I really can't understand why people think Scorps as a sign are insecure.

Posted by Reincarnation
Leo is the most sensitive sign in the zodiac.

Posted by Rabbit
I've always been curious as to why fire signs always seem to have a problem with me.
I could be an unobtrusive wallflower and still be singled out.



Posted by Whatu
Did you read anything I wrote? you are still referring to Scorpios relating to you because as an immature Leo it is impossible for you to see anything from a different perspective, also I have to make the point that while everyone ells was just talking about how awesome scorpio girls are. You felt compelled to launch a direct attack on Scorpio men and the things that make them who they are. Why, do we make you feel a little insecure?



Posted by Rabbit
I certainly wouldn't count myself as offended. You've certainly made brought up some relevant observations you've had. I don't disagree with those observations entirely, but some of the behavior you've described can be applied to males AND females from my observations. I'm positive not all Scorpio women act like the two Debbie Downers I work with.

Posted by scorchedearth
i will agree women with fire mars are super aggressive. smh.

Posted by scorchedearth
we have bigger balls than anyone else in this thread. ๐


Posted by scorchedearth
i will agree women with fire mars are super aggressive. smh.


Posted by Reincarnation
But I think this thread has been interesting. Leo and Scorpio men never really get along from my experience.

Posted by scorchedearth
melly it might just be you. i love gemcandle but think about how super aggressive she is. and dominating. and she's mars in leo. ๐

Posted by scorchedearth
i will agree women with fire mars are super aggressive. smh.


Posted by FoxPosted by AndalusiaPosted by scorchedearth
melly it might just be you. i love gemcandle but think about how super aggressive she is. and dominating. and she's mars in leo. ๐
True. It might be all the water in my chart subduing my Mars..
Or maybe I'm only aggressive in certain areas, like relationships..? I wonder what my exes would have to say..
Melly, you're not alone! haha
Mars in leo too
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Posted by scorchedearth
i try to troll the virgo and all these fire mars women come out of the woodworks. ๐
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