iCloud9
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Posted by elllesqueMy friends say that they date guys to see if want to be in a relationship with them and I get into relationships with guys I like but I maybe should'nt be so fast. I have said to my guy friend he's a leo that I think it's disgusting that he sleep around and I go in relationships after not long. That's not better! I have to say I'm sorry to him. And my friends told me that I did that and I didn't understand it really. I like the guys it's just that I don't like them so much so I should be in a relationship. You're right. This is bad! I've never dated guys more than a month before relationship. Okay Elllesque. You're right. And now when I like someone a looot he's not interested. Great!
If you can so easily develop feeling for another person while you are in a relationship.....what makes you think he can ever take you seriously?
Posted by 13thPosted by BornCapricornPosted by 13thOkay. When you say we say one thing, but mean another... Okay. Just to really understand this, you don't mean that he is interested, right?Posted by BornCapricorncontradiction!! we say one thing, but mean another....I honestly believe we dont know (scorp men) what we truly want so therefore we life the "player" life til we figure out what it is we really want.....but untl we do figure it out the panties must come off lol 🙂Posted by 13thIt would be great if you could comment to this situation! If you did something like this, why and what is the reason? Do you think also that he just want to be friends?Posted by iCloud9
don't generalize. there are good and bad ones in every sign. I did know a scoripo guy who was living a life like your scorpio friend but also know other scorpios who are the most loyal and romantic. My hubby is scorpio (i'm a cap. the clingy kind I think lol) and we are attached at the hip. great emotional compatibility and understanding. I cannot imagine my life without him.
you can start with the following sites to learn more about astrology I guess -
http://www.cafeastrology.com/
http://www.astro.com/
theres tons of scorpio men like the guy in the op....and myselfclick to expand
What do you think he want from me?
Posted by iCloud9wow, again!
just to throw it out there.
when we first started getting to know each other, i told my scorp i was not ready for a relationship to take it slow. after several months I thought we were progressing I just didn't go out of my way to declare a change of status, one day after some movie-like romantic time together, scorp suddenly told me it has been always his dream to be a play toy for someone like me. wha??!! i burst out laughing and told he is not a play toy lmaf and he better committed o me and me only and just like i do to him. i.do.not.play. get that straight lol. he never said anything stupid like that again.
Posted by elllesqueThat's really not what I want to do. This is bad, I know! I like my boyfriend but I don't think I do it enough. Okay I know how it sounds like a bad song but I havent had this feeling before.
It's irritating when people go from one to another like human beings are made to be expendable. Take what you need and then toss them like a half eaten hamburger.
This damages people and creates the player you are so concerned of running into.
I wish your ex libra the best of luck with his new girlfriend.
Posted by iCloud9It's just that this mistake is really bad! Everyone always ask me what to do and now it's like I'm just sitting here and understand nothing. How could I be so stupid?
i understand where elle is coming from but we all made mistakes when we were young no? or it was just me lol?
another thing is some ppl are a bit slower when it comes to emotion. it may takes a while longer to register. it also has a lot to do with emotional maturity.
Posted by flowingwaterYes it's stupid. I'm stupid. I get it now. Okay?
This whole post is so stupid.
OP went from "I don't like him like that" to "now in going to leave my bf to pursue a Scorpio man that doesn't want me."
I'm going to sit back and watch.
Posted by elllesqueI'm playing stupid? Okay THAT'S insulting.
no, you are not stupid. you are *playing* stupid and it's insulting.
Posted by flowingwaterWere you meaning that for me?Posted by elllesqueYou know what your doing. I'm not going to feel pity for you.
no, you are not stupid. you are *playing* stupid and it's insulting.click to expand
Posted by BornCapricorni went into relationship due to expectation, pressure and not wanting to hurt another's feeling but it ended up tearing his heart apart into pieces which i still feel bad today after years. the longer you drag the worst it would be. if you want another man while in a relationship, you need to get out of that relationship. the scrop may very well be just a catalyst. it may not work out with him but you need to do the right thing and let the libra go.Posted by iCloud9It's just that this mistake is really bad! Everyone always ask me what to do and now it's like I'm just sitting here and understand nothing. How could I be so stupid?
i understand where elle is coming from but we all made mistakes when we were young no? or it was just me lol?
another thing is some ppl are a bit slower when it comes to emotion. it may takes a while longer to register. it also has a lot to do with emotional maturity.click to expand
Posted by flowingwaterThink what you want.Posted by BornCapricornyou are playing stupid.Posted by elllesqueI'm playing stupid? Okay THAT'S insulting.
no, you are not stupid. you are *playing* stupid and it's insulting.click to expand
Posted by iCloud9Yes I know. I'm going to see him tomorrow and I will do it then. Thank you for the great advice!Posted by BornCapricorni went into relationship due to expectation, pressure and not wanting to hurt another's feeling but it ended up tearing his heart apart into pieces which i still feel bad today after years. the longer you drag the worst it would be. if you want another man while in a relationship, you need to get out of that relationship. the scrop may very well be just a catalyst. it may not work out with him but you need to do the right thing and let the libra go.Posted by iCloud9It's just that this mistake is really bad! Everyone always ask me what to do and now it's like I'm just sitting here and understand nothing. How could I be so stupid?
i understand where elle is coming from but we all made mistakes when we were young no? or it was just me lol?
another thing is some ppl are a bit slower when it comes to emotion. it may takes a while longer to register. it also has a lot to do with emotional maturity.
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Posted by iCloud9You're right again. I will! 🙂
welcome & good luck! take care the libra's heart first. he should be your focus for now. one thing at a time please lol
Posted by BornCapricornThe thing about the psychologist was just a joke. So you know.
Okay. This is not what I thought would happen when I comment on an astrology forum.
Next time I'll have a psychologist on speed dial.
I think I learned too much today. It wasn't funny now, but I think it's good for the future.
Thank you everybody! Maybe you want it that I have hard feelings but I don't.

Posted by Pandora101I think I'll have to tell him because it's what explains why I did that. I know I don't have a big chance to get him, but if I don't get him I can't hang out on non dates with him now. I don't know. Why do you think it's not a good idea to tell him?
OP, and what are you planning to say to the scorpio when you meet him?
Maybe it would be enough just to say you broke up with your boyfriend? I am not sure if its a good idea to tell him that you like him......
but I am not sure.....

Posted by happyface1Nooooo. Noone told me to break up with my boyfriend. I did. Read the comments again.
You're easily manipulated...sooooo people here tell you to break up with your current boyfriend and you say OK I'm gonna do it right away...only to chase an illusion...a man who literally told you he does not want a relationship with you.
You need to figure out within yourself why you want someone who clearly has no interest in you relationship wise....and why you would leave someone who actually wants to be in a relationship with you.
You stated your boyfriend is a great guy....so you are willing to lose him to chase a fantasy illusion you've created in your mind about this scorp.
Maybe he is better off now that I think about it...you're kind of delusional.
It's OK we all have our issues...I know I do but some things just make no sense.
Posted by iCloud9Yes!
"why you would leave someone who actually wants to be in a relationship with you."
just because someone wants to be in a relationship with you does not mean you should be in a relationship him. there are a lot of people want to get into a relationship for the wrong reasons. just look around dxp lol.
if you cannot stay faithful to your bf/partner, have the decency to get out and let him be with someone else who is love with him with eyes only on him.


Posted by iCloud9My statement wasn't to make her stay with her boyfriend....it was for her to reflect on why she feels the need to chase someone who has no interest in being with her and forsake the one that does.
"why you would leave someone who actually wants to be in a relationship with you."
just because someone wants to be in a relationship with you does not mean you should be in a relationship him. there are a lot of people want to get into a relationship for the wrong reasons. just look around dxp lol.
if you cannot stay faithful to your bf/partner, have the decency to get out and let him be with someone else who is love with him with eyes only on him.
Posted by thinktoomuchI'm sorry, but I don't understand what you mean. The last bit I said I'm going to break up with my boyfriend tomorrow. But the first bit I don't understand.
OP - you are aware, that that november13 scorpio guy posting in here, told you straight up: I´m a player, it´s so much more fun and easyer to deal with than the reality and getting real emotions, right?! You ask him, if he thinks the scorpio you´re posting about is interested in you. Then he said: it takes me a long time to figure out if someone is the right person for me, and until then the panties must come off. You ask him again. Then this november13 poster says "oh yeah, sure". And just like that you were manipulated. Scorpio guys are EXPERTS at telling people, what they want to hear. I´ve watched a guy do it all the time, to keep everyone happy but also to have total control of the situation.
But leave your boyfriend, or maybe take a little time to figure out, what you want. If you´re not into him, then staying with him isn´t right either. But if you´re gonna deal with that scorpio guy, you REALLY need to step up your game.

Posted by thinktoomuch
OP - you are aware, that that november13 scorpio guy posting in here, told you straight up: I´m a player, it´s so much more fun and easyer to deal with than the reality and getting real emotions, right?! You ask him, if he thinks the scorpio you´re posting about is interested in you. Then he said: it takes me a long time to figure out if someone is the right person for me, and until then the panties must come off. You ask him again. Then this november13 poster says "oh yeah, sure". And just like that you were manipulated. Scorpio guys are EXPERTS at telling people, what they want to hear. I´ve watched a guy do it all the time, to keep everyone happy but also to have total control of the situation.
But leave your boyfriend, or maybe take a little time to figure out, what you want. If you´re not into him, then staying with him isn´t right either. But if you´re gonna deal with that scorpio guy, you REALLY need to step up your game.

Posted by happyface1I need to self reflect, yes! True!
You need to self reflect and as I stated before figure out...why you feel the need to chase someone who clearly will not offer you the relationship you seek.
And reject the one who's giving you themselves no questions asked....
are you bored in life at the moment and need a thrill. Kind of sounds drama seeking. Not saying you are full of it. But just ask yourself why...why do I want someone who does not want me in the way that I desire them.
Why do I feel the need to chase a man who's not fighting for or checking for me.
That's all I'm saying.
You've got all these thoughts focused on him and he's probably off to the next "friend"
While you're trying to figure that scorp out...you need to take that energy and figure yourself out. Focus on you and ask your self how did it get to this point of slight obsession.

Posted by thinktoomuch
😄 It was a little far fetched maybe, but I was just trying to prove a point.
Don´t act like you don´t know, that what you said, will egg OP on to chase that guy 😄 "he cares for me!?!!!! Let´s goooooo!"
But hey man, I´m not here to tell anyone how to live their life. Based on my own experience though, she´s in for a complete headfuck for a long long time, but sometimes that´s what´s needed to really get to know yourself and what´s important to you and all sorts of grown up stuff.
Good luck OP🙂 I could just as easily be completely wrong about everything, and he´s just waiting for you to tell him, that you´re single, so he can announce his love to you. ... But then again, maybe I could be right 😉 Have at it!
Posted by 13thlol. Yes, I think that he cares too if he's not so angry that he'll never talk to me again. Same as you I don't know if it's just friends. I just have to think about how to talk to him to make him listen to me and not ignore me.Posted by thinktoomuch
OP - you are aware, that that november13 scorpio guy posting in here, told you straight up: I´m a player, it´s so much more fun and easyer to deal with than the reality and getting real emotions, right?! You ask him, if he thinks the scorpio you´re posting about is interested in you. Then he said: it takes me a long time to figure out if someone is the right person for me, and until then the panties must come off. You ask him again. Then this november13 poster says "oh yeah, sure". And just like that you were manipulated. Scorpio guys are EXPERTS at telling people, what they want to hear. I´ve watched a guy do it all the time, to keep everyone happy but also to have total control of the situation.
But leave your boyfriend, or maybe take a little time to figure out, what you want. If you´re not into him, then staying with him isn´t right either. But if you´re gonna deal with that scorpio guy, you REALLY need to step up your game.
whoa whoa ..u are twisting my words in a way...she asked if I think the guy likes her...I honestly think he does..I just dont know if its more of a friendship thing or if he wants from her...that taking care of her while she's sick was beyond odd to me....that is something I would do if I cared for the person...I wish a girl I dont really care for ask me take care of her, let alone throw-up on parts of my hand...hahaha I would fawkin lose it...I think he cares.....click to expand
Posted by thinktoomuchThat he cares for me isn't same as that he want to be in a relationship with me so 13 hasn't egged me on. I don't think he will fall down and announce his love, no. I just have to talk to him and see what comes next.
😄 It was a little far fetched maybe, but I was just trying to prove a point.
Don´t act like you don´t know, that what you said, will egg OP on to chase that guy 😄 "he cares for me!?!!!! Let´s goooooo!"
But hey man, I´m not here to tell anyone how to live their life. Based on my own experience though, she´s in for a complete headfuck for a long long time, but sometimes that´s what´s needed to really get to know yourself and what´s important to you and all sorts of grown up stuff.
Good luck OP🙂 I could just as easily be completely wrong about everything, and he´s just waiting for you to tell him, that you´re single, so he can announce his love to you. ... But then again, maybe I could be right 😉 Have at it!
Posted by 13thGreat! More scorpio drama. Just what I wanted. 😉Posted by thinktoomuch
😄 It was a little far fetched maybe, but I was just trying to prove a point.
Don´t act like you don´t know, that what you said, will egg OP on to chase that guy 😄 "he cares for me!?!!!! Let´s goooooo!"
But hey man, I´m not here to tell anyone how to live their life. Based on my own experience though, she´s in for a complete headfuck for a long long time, but sometimes that´s what´s needed to really get to know yourself and what´s important to you and all sorts of grown up stuff.
Good luck OP🙂 I could just as easily be completely wrong about everything, and he´s just waiting for you to tell him, that you´re single, so he can announce his love to you. ... But then again, maybe I could be right 😉 Have at it!
wait, what— Egg the OP on? You think I sit around and worry about other scorpio males "penis action"? dafuq...She asked me a question...I answered it, fawk I care if she chases him or not..**shrugs**...If I have so much influence over the OP maybe I should inbox her now and get the other scorp out the way lol ....."Thinktoomuch" you think too muchclick to expand
Posted by thinktoomuchIt was funny.
I just thought it was the funniest shit coming in here being all like "yeah, I´m a player" and "panties got to go" and then go to "but I really think he cares for you" 😄
But there´s no drama here from me. I bid you all a good day and enjoy paying and being played and not-played and falling in love and all that good stuff.

Posted by thinktoomuch
I just thought it was the funniest shit coming in here being all like "yeah, I´m a player" and "panties got to go" and then go to "but I really think he cares for you" 😄
But there´s no drama here from me. I bid you all a good day and enjoy paying and being played and not-played and falling in love and all that good stuff.

Posted by thinktoomuch
Scorpio didn´t get the best of me 😄 He was textbook. No surprises there. But I was surprised - as a fellow scorpio - at how fake he could be and then take joy in having people in his life, that were there because he lied to them, as I have always been the exact opposite. I guess astrology really is bogus😄
But it´s just a part of the past and why not share the experience... Maybe OP will share hers here in a couple of years... If not in a month or two, when she has gotten a hold of him and is again full of questions.



Posted by Arielle83jeeeez. what's wrong with these women? lol
Scorpios lust makes women dump their boyfriends. Haha
Posted by Arielle83lol reminds me a little of the Eagles, i think 3 members of the band are Scorpio suns.Posted by lisabethur8It's the obsessive focus they give. It makes people think they are special. Then after the smoke fades they realise there are 4 other women in the same boat.Posted by Arielle83jeeeez. what's wrong with these women? lol
Scorpios lust makes women dump their boyfriends. Haha
Funny. Winner takes all or gets nothing.click to expand

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Posted by thinktoomuchAnd lost me here:
He´s outta reach. If possible just try to be happy and content with yourself and your boyfriend without ever dealing with this scorpio guy again.
Reason he got mad for you not wanting to go out with him, when you now have a boyfriend, is - in his eyes: you were never ever dating, you were just hanging out at friends, so why should it matter f you got a boyfriend or not. ...
Posted by thinktoomuchHe wants to come off as not having any emotions towards anybody really...but still he needs relationships to other people and the way you two did it fitt him perfectly it sounds. Never taking ir further, letting their always be mystery surrounding him (scorpios like that), knowing you´re probably a little enfatuated by him. You made it all too real with this comment about now hanging out because you have a boyfriend, there is no mystery and tension anymore, so he bounced.Especially the highlighted section. In not sure what reality you believe he isn't interested in. Perhaps you can explain.
He´s not interested in reality and dealing with real emotions, it´s all just the mystery and the fantasy that he´s into.click to expand
It's pretty clear the man had emotions. He just chooses not to verbalized them beyond taking care of her for 4 days and "go piss off". Not sure why that isn't obvious.
The OP wanted more and is in denial. Too many conflicting statements to believe otherwise.

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another thing is some ppl are a bit slower when it comes to emotion. it may takes a while longer to register. it also has a lot to do with emotional maturity.